Yes sir. But he went away from residence. We not still in searchers of understand where he's hideout.

Please do not consider abortion at all. This is because, the trouble ahead will be greater than the present.

MuchAdo:
So you know better than the prosecution lawyer and the state judges

If you want chose to sit back and accept whatever other humans throw at you, you are welcomed to doing just that. Goodluck!

munstaqq:


Hmmm... Won't it affect her? Our fear is death.

With police consent,take her to a hospital and they will do it well since it's rape. Please do it for her future.

May God punish all red pillars. Especially those that are past the age of 35. Pedophilia runs in their blood.

Nigerians accord respect to people based on age, until we decided to have sense in this country, these old men will continue to use our destinies to play poker.

Report the fool to police my friend.

Romanoff:


You should take her for a scan immediately so you can safely terminate it.

If it's not more than 12 weeks, drugs can me administered in the hospital to terminate it. I don't know if you'll need a police report about the rape so they can attend to her.

Hospitals don't usually do abortions for underaged or unmarried women as it's unethical but with a Police report, you shouldn't have any issues.

So you are advising another person to commit murder?

Nawa o

Kobojunkie:
Where do you have it that age of consent is 13?

You're asking one of those people who think they should have sex with teenagers because they feel the age of consent means it is moral. Don't be surprised it's an old man making that comment. Adults who fight to have sex with children by all means, yet will not consider the law when there's a case of rape.

munstaqq:


Yes sir. But he ran away from home. We are still in search of knowing where he's hiding.

The current govt of Akwa ibom State will search for him and nailed him wherever he is, rape cases attracts strong personalities.

luminouz:

So you are advising another person to commit murder?

Nawa o

What would you suggest she does with a child that is the product of rape from a relative?

OP needs to find a human rights body to fight this for him.

Says alot about your sister

luminouz:

So you are advising another person to commit murder?

Nawa o

If it's your sister, what would you advise?

If you meet the same girl now with a child from a rapist, would you marry her?

Honestly answer these questions before you accuse me o.

Kobojunkie:
If you want chose to sit back and accept whatever other humans throw at you, you are welcomed to doing just that. Goodluck!

The long and short of this is that the child rights act is just a cosmetic law that holds no water in Nigeria

MuchAdo:

The long and short of this is that the child rights act is just a cosmetic law that holds no water in Nigeria

That na lie!

munstaqq:
Dear Nairalanders,

With a sad and heavy heart, I'm writing to seek your advice and/or recommendations.

My mum is late. She died 2 years ago and since her demise, everything has turned left for us - her children. We were deserted and left to fend for ourselves by our uncles, aunties, and other relatives that we thought were with us when my mum was alive. My dad is still alive but he only pretends to care about us. I can't even remember the last time he has done something good for any of us. Our school fees, food, everything, were taken care of by my mum.

There is a 50-year-old man who we were later told is our distant relative. His house is a stone's throw away from our house. When I was at home, I used to run errands for him, like going to the market to buy things for him. So it was normal. He used this same method on my sister. He took advantage of my sister's naivety and impregnated her. She's barely 16 and I swear to God, she has not known any man until this bastard did this to her. He even ran away from home and plan to come back when tensions are low.

Note: we left her in the village with my dad and my brother. We, the elderly ones left the village to hustle in the city. We have not settled and we couldn't afford to take them with us.

Please I need your advice. What should be our next line of action? He's 50 and won't marry my sister. There is also a high tendency that he won't even take care of her and the baby.

Please what should we do? We are all we've got and nobody to turn to to help us fight this battle. What should we do?

Thank you.

Did you give your sister sex education?

please, don't terminate the pregnancy give it up for adoption the unborn child has the right to live contact me for legal adoption

BRATISLAVA:


What would you suggest she does with a child that is the product of rape from a relative?

OP needs to find a human rights body to fight this for him.

I support your second statement. That man must be made to pay for his crime.

The first is dicey... What if the pregnancy is over 3 months and could harm her health if terminated? Then, there are some people who are destined never to abort, even if it's just one day or they will die. My ex was one of those.
My advice is, if the stuff is still less than 3 months and they confirm (spiritually) that it's safe to remove and the girl agrees to it, then they can go ahead. But if not, hmmmmm...

I hope you get my points.

Romanoff:


If it's your sister, what would you advise?

If you meet the same girl now with a child from a rapist, would you marry her?

Honestly answer these questions before you accuse me o.

I understand you Romanoff. I gave a reply to Bratislava. I answered your points.

That girl has suffered.... To reduce the suffering is what I am after, with the least repercussions too

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Kobojunkie:
About the Baby, please do not make her abort it at her age. She is too young to have blood on her hands or mind please. She still has a bright future to plan.

She can instead give it up for adoption if she is unwilling to keep it though. Hopefully there are orphanages that are willing to take the baby off her hands you can can and talk to.

Should she decide to keep it, try to explain to her how difficult the road ahead is bound to become and let her make her choice. It is important to let her make her choice please.

At your age and exposure, you sound too dumb

1Sharon:
Says alot about your sister

you

Shatap.

Stop judging the little girl. At 16 without parental guidance, most of us would have done the same. What she needs now is our love. No shaming.

He slept with underage girl pls take legal action against him.

luminouz:


I support your second statement. That man must be made to pay for his crime.

The first is dicey... What if the pregnancy is over 3 months and could harm her health if terminated? Then, there are some people who are destined never to abort, even if it's just one day or they will die. My ex was one of those.
My advice is, if the stuff is still less than 3 months and they confirm (spiritually) that it's safe to remove and the girl agrees to it, then they can go ahead. But if not, hmmmmm...

I hope you get my points.

On whose spiritual advice will they confirm the murder? Hopefully not the pastors. Or the juju priests. Blood should be sacred.

It's a sad situation she's in, but ultimately it's her decision that will be taken.

Another man has destroyed a little girls life. He's even related to her. Sad situation. That girl needs counseling. And Justice.

Amotolongbo:
That is bad.

Getting the traditional rulers and the police informed on this will be the appropriate step to take.

I am talking my own mind now. If you quote me to say nonsense, thunder will strike you.
“I will take the girl to the hospital and sign to terminate the pregnancy”..

Who is going to take care of the baby, the young innocent girl or the old irresponsible foolish man?
Having the baby is an eternal stain on the girl.

I go with this comment. Terminate it now that d thing is fresh. Look for a good hospital .

Joshvent82:
you

Shatap.

Stop judging the little girl. At 16 without parental guidance, most of us would have done the same. What she needs now is our love. No shaming.

Lol, so ppl with parents don't have unwanted pregnancies?

If she had received sex education by whoever she looks up to, she wouldn't have had sex with and even gotten pregnant for an old man.

anastasius:

Did you give your sister sex education?

Somehow it's her fault.

Did the dirty old man not have morality? She's a relative.

Most men need deep reorientation. Especially the ones who are attracted to teenage girls and the ones who take pleasure in forcing sex out of females.

luminouz:

I understand you Romanoff. I gave a reply to Bratislava. I answered your points.

That girl has suffered.... To reduce the suffering is what I am after, with the least repercussions too

Issokay.

BRATISLAVA:


On whose spiritual advice will they confirm the murder? Hopefully not the pastors. Or the juju priests. Blood should be sacred.

It's a sad situation she's in, but ultimately it's her decision that will be taken.

Another man has destroyed a little girls life. He's even related to her. Sad situation. That girl needs counseling. And Justice.

On the spiritual aspect, babe...I Honestly don't know but I just don't want her to die. I know what I am saying o. But if it's safe, well...

That relative should be punished. I feel for the little girl because I once stayed with relatives and what I experienced there would stay with me till my dying days. That's why I don't wanna give birth to kids I can't cater for. Their dad just left them alone after their mum's death. That is not fair.

My gender are heartless.

Kobojunkie:
That na lie!

Na true!

luminouz:


On the spiritual aspect, babe...I Honestly don't know but I just don't want her to die. I know what I am saying o. But if it's safe, well...

That relative should be punished. I feel for the little girl because I once stayed with relatives and what I experienced there would stay with me till my dying days. That's why I don't wanna give birth to kids I can't cater for. Their dad just left them alone after their mum's death. That is not fair.

That father is wicked. There's no rationalizing what he has done. If he were a more prominent person in their lives, they would have nothing to do with the old man who was preying on them.

Just hope the OP can fight for justice for the girl. One can only imagine the desperation that would make them run errands, and the trick the man used on her knowing she's young and impressionable.

BRATISLAVA:


Somehow it's her fault.

Did the dirty old man not have morality? She's a relative.

Most men need deep reorientation. Especially the ones who are attracted to teenage girls and the ones who take pleasure in forcing sex out of females.

A 16 year old isn't a kid not knowing right from wrong