We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.

True.. i have a friend who said she cant date a guy, who cant correct her whenever she does, something wrong with Correct Beating....

She actually loves guy's who Do that to Her...

Still in shock RN

She has been hypnotized, that's all.

Majority of them are confused beings...if this story is true dont worry she will learn the hard way and will come back begging...Never you look back for your own good

depato88:
Majority of them are confused beings...if this story is true dont worry she will learn the hard way and will come back begging...Never you look back for your own good

True story

Wetin de vex me now na the rate wey my friends dey always ask me wey corper

They think say na me chop clean mouth

Well I don leave her

Eyahhhhh.....The thing wey dey pain the op na be say after all the pamper wey he pamper the girl finish,all na to no avail

Op,no worry,your gratuity dey for heaven . For at least helping a brother man take care of his property while he went AWOL

Las las,dem no dey tell person . Personally I dey refuse to take any word wey dey come out from any girl wey just break up serious . You know why? Why is because at that moment,na her mouth dey talk,but her heart fit still dey with the former dude

I have learnt to stay away from ladies that are having relationship issues because they will only use u to hold body till they reconcile.

A girl that have been beating by a guy twice enjoys the beating, if not, the first time is enough to quit and move on.

When you date such girls, u will be killing urself trying to let her see the true side of love not knowing she enjoys being abused. And after a while they will go back to their abuse for reasons best known to them.

See ehh.. Women are complex and no man can understand them.

Nothing unusual here. Most of them prefer to learn the hard way . Dont take it seriously, NO BE TODAY!

Many girls love being abused.It's not a case of hypnosis.

Any girl wey you dey lash and she dey tell you "choke me baby,choke me baby",na only guys wey fit beat her she go like.

Imagine a girl telling me she has rape fantasies.I just weak for Nigerian girls.

Master the keys to relationship and never dwell in regrets

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

It’s unfortunate you wasted your affection, time and money on her. Many of these girls are damaged by their incredible greed, their friends and the community of women that raised/mentored them.

This is why as a man, you must raise your daughter to treasure her personal dignity.

A good thing you saw the truth on time. You felt you saw someone who deserved better but you were wrong. She actually desired and deserved that abuser and that’s why she left you after experiencing the peace of mind and dignity you offered. A normal person would see the contrast and choose peace but a greedy damaged person will despise your peace and treat you bad. She will stop taking your calls. She will make sure you understand that she is irritated by your presence/attention. You should not pity her. She doesn’t want your pity.

Move on and be grateful it was short lived.

You should not cast your pearls before swine. They will trample on them and attack you.

Ideally, abusive people should not be allowed to have partners. They should remain alone for their entire lives so they won’t procreate and perpetuate the cruelty in their blood. However, anyone foolish enough to embrace their cruelty deserves whatever they get.

Treat a girl like an egg, she will see you like u are weak, silly and not man enough.

Rough her up, she will stick to you like fun

Women are wired in a very weird way, their cruise madddd gaan

But op, hope say u collect your three points before she went back to her nemesis

Lolzzzzz

That's how girls are, they can change suddenly

Such has happened to me too

But bro it's a learning thing, you learnt another antics of ladies

Move on and enjoy your life

You should know women like them bad boys. It's not as if they don't like the gentle guys; but the latter will always be a fall back choice.

You better leave that girl broda… cox even if she comes back to you she will continue banging that guy. Most women in abusive relationship tends to not know how to walk away especially when she’s used to such life.

The future has fish brain.

I remember a girl telling me that when you fight with you boo and he comes back begging, that the gifts and s€x is always the bomb

Better leave both of them alone

Before the guy removes your tooth too

The power of prick..
You are not hitting the right Gsport

Lol.. She'll loose another tooth and still love him.
That's why you don't put mouth into others relationship even when one is being killed, else you'd be the one that will be killed.

there is something he is doing to her in the other room that you are not

Take heart bro.. e dey happen

Maybe she wan make the guy comot another tooth...

Ni

She wan go comot another teeth as you no sabi comot teeth...

Yes, women are turned on by violence. It’s the same reason they enjoy their necks being pressed during sex because it simulates aggression without being aggressive. One might even say it simulates rape but in a less aggressive form

You’re probably a nice guy. Sorry for your loss

IF SHE IS A NIGERIAN GIRL, SHE IS USELESS

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