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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Datboredberry:I cringe when people say with audacity that they are atheist 4 Likes |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Datboredberry:Well sorry to burst your bubble I'm not a victim of any of those...Glory to Jesus Jesus can help you too k |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Kobojunkie: 10:21pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
SaveMeLord:So Christians who struggle with depression are all atheists? 2 Likes |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Nobody: 10:28pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Mr ( ) A Christian's period of depression can not be compared with an atheist. It is short term and they don't go around looking for crystal methamphetamine,sex or alcohol to feel alive again or to numb the depression. Just some few words of prayer or Bible reading and we are ok ( Mr junkie) 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by tunjilee003: 10:29pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Opening up to people who are not your family members make you a topic for discussion, I've got trust issues.... 6 Likes |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Kobojunkie: 10:31pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
SaveMeLord:Can you provide backing for any of the claims you have made so far. Or are you one of those who believe in their small mind that if they think it, it must be true? https://baptistnews.com/article/i-was-a-pastor-struggling-with-depression-the-evangelical-community-offered-virtually-no-helpful-resources/ 1 Like |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Automolite: 10:31pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Ofadaman:Omo..same thing happened to me at one of the places I worked back then. My own sef na because of babe oh. I took 3 wks break and the Judas of a colleague told HR that I told him I wasnt planning on returning. Just because I hinted him that if I got a better prospect, I "may" not return. What saved me was dt my direct boss stood for me, and replacing me that time would have been difficult. Didn't blame him though. I blamed myself for loseguarding. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
SaveMeLord:Jesus didn't save your ancestors from being slaves... I don't believe some Arab ancestors holds any sort of love for you nor I... Just it's okay to believe so? 1 Like |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by cayorday89(m): 10:34pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Only he who wears the shoe knows where it pinches... Opening up to people is like telling them to scratch their back to relief you of your own itchy back, it won't solve anything. 2 Likes |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by 1Sharon(f): 10:34pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
SaveMeLord: FSM loves you. His noodly appendage wants to touch you |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by OgunkeelAllMod: 10:37pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Too many snakes!(green! in a green grass)pretending to be doves, especially those so-called omoluabi but are actually omoluajatijati no principle, no scruples, loyal to NOTHING except that god forsaken green spyrogyral algea the cowards bastards love guzzling . If them mistakenly know secret or anything, forget am.. |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Ocholu: 10:40pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Datboredberry: Let me be real with you this lady; I command that obanje spirit to leave you now!! In Jesus name. Amen. |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Kirkman: 10:41pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Ofadaman:You calm aswear if na me when he comes one of these days with his pretentious consolations I will give him a brain resetting slap and tell him to geddifock out of my line of sight. 3 Likes |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Gravity56: 10:45pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Datboredberry: Being an Atheist and Being Senseless are two different thing .... 3 Likes |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Lovelyn451(f): 10:45pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Especially Telling your husband things about your family ....hmmm, one day he'll use it against you 5 Likes |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Kobojunkie: 10:51pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Gravity56:Now that I can agree with. |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Holluwhakemmy(f): 10:51pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
They dont have anything to offer jare they just want to know your secret and problem so that they will know where to mock you latter. 3 Likes |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by SeriouslySense(m): 10:52pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
As it said before swines, we have to use discernment to know who has true understanding. Datboredberry: |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by SeriouslySense(m): 10:53pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Holluwhakemmy: |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by SeriouslySense(m): 10:54pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Gravity56: |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Kobojunkie: 10:55pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
SeriouslySense:True understanding of what? Your selfish stories/secrets? You really reduce Jesus Christ to your levels there? |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Worksunlimited: 10:55pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Xenry: They made my pains worse.. 1 Like |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by SeriouslySense(m): 10:55pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Abyounghammed(m): 10:57pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
[quote author=helinues post=107618598]When you tell people about your problem with expectations of them helping out, they would rather post you, mock you at the back instead of suggesting a way for you to handle the issue I have been keeping my mouth shut for years now regarding personal issues. All die na die[/quote To make matter worst they will say GOD WILL HELP OMO SINCE THEN I ONLY TELL GOD O, SINCE IS ONLY HIM THEY SAY CAN HELP |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by SeriouslySense(m): 10:57pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
At least we also need to let things out, or a safe space to speak, it does not mean, your secret is the discussion, but your understanding, sharing understanding could help. cayorday89: |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by isaiah4life(m): 11:00pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
When I asked for help, they mocked me behind my supposed back. At first, I felt bad and purposed in my heart to keep things to myself. But as times evolved and my present condition deteriorated, I was forced to make a descend, so that I won't die in silence. Now, I tell people my problem regardless of the relics of the past. You never can't tell who your destiny helper might be. Let me not allow my ego to deprive me from benefiting from my destiny helper. Nugget: You can't shame the shameless! 6 Likes |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by SeriouslySense(m): 11:02pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
It differs, i feel safe, when i hear someone is an atheist, does not mean i cringe, when i hear someone is religious, i am impressed, but not due to good character, but due to the control system of organized religion. You are that type of rigid religious fanatic to some extent. SaveMeLord: |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by SeriouslySense(m): 11:04pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
At least, i think if you do not allow the past to determine your prejudgement to the present, or if you can learn from the past, and let go, and you are open to positivity, you can come across someone who is an angel in the universe, just remember to define now and define what is coming. isaiah4life: |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
1Sharon: But on a serious note you used to love the Lord Jesus Christ. What happened? You feel peace identifying as an atheist? You want freedom? Huhn you don't want to feel guilty for doing certain things? just tell me I know what to do |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by isaiah4life(m): 11:10pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Well highlighted, sir. Your pep talk is highly acknowledged. SeriouslySense: |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by abobote: 11:17pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
When two girls were pregnant for me and I was confused, the people I met for advise, only spread the news 3 Likes |
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by blacknoir: 11:18pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
When I realised that most people don't really care. Even when I go through a very tough time,I don't share it with anyone 3 Likes 1 Share |
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