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Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by GABRIEL6036: 1:40pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008:You are right |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Toks2008(m): 1:40pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Righteousness2: Guy carry your ignorance to another thread. This is a thread for enlightened people with sound intellect. If you can't back it up with Scriptures then stop disgracing yourself. Ignorant sheeple like you come and let me school you about the Scriptures. Were you even born when I gave my life to christ in 1987? Biko carry your ignorance commot. 3 Likes |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Newyorkitis(m): 1:40pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
I wonder why the OP did not expantiate on the ground that DIVORCE is permissible in the Bible. God in the Bible abhors DIVORCE. |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by yemi1504: 1:41pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Nonexisting: Lol, best advice! |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Righteousness2(m): 1:41pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
sellers4buyers: Matthew 19: 4-9 Mark 10: 1-12 |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Toks2008(m): 1:45pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Righteousness2: See your life. I told you that I will school you. Now run off to read this thread I created years back and come back to tell me what you have learnt. https://www.nairaland.com/4303658/dont-deceived-polygamy-not-sin 4 Likes
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Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by yemi1504: 1:45pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
ozuone: Exactly, me too am ambivalent about single mothers but it is best to do your due diligence as most of them could be like the disasters parading themselves around. E get why o. 1 Like |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Lightorder: 1:46pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Shokoloko:No mind am. Like say, marriage na must |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Aadeniyi092: 1:48pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008: |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Righteousness2(m): 1:49pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008: Keep Decieving yourself! It is not me you are doing! You are doing yourself! You will give account to GOD of all these Nonsense you put out. When you see and stand before GOD, you will understand what u did to yourself. If you Like Hear! If you Like continue in your evils. Your Sin will find u out! Hell is real! Heaven is Real! 1 Like |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Toks2008(m): 1:51pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Righteousness2: You are a babe in christ. Grow up. Te sad twist is that people like you remain toddlers cos I just sent you a link. Rathwr than click it to expand your knowledge, you choose to be closed minded. Whatever you do biko don't carry your ignorance near my side. |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by sellers4buyers(m): 1:52pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Righteousness2: I choose not to argue with you. If you believe the above verses condemned polygamy and also makes it a SIN. Peace... 1 Like |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Aadeniyi092: 1:53pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008: |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Toks2008(m): 1:54pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
sellers4buyers: That guy is just ignorant and he has refused to widen his knowledge so it is better to just ignore him. 1 Like |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Ernerstdavid55(m): 2:01pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Hintona:i sent u a mail |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Toks2008(m): 2:02pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
sellers4buyers: Even the verse you quoted is not against polygamy.. It only advised deacons and General overseers to be a husband of one wife.... it was an advice not that it will be counted as a sin if they choose to marry more wives. Infact there is a translation of the original manuscript that believes that part actually mean THEY SHOULD BE FAITHFUL TO THEIR WIFE NOT THAT THEY SHOULD BE HUSBAND OF ONE WIFE. The mistake many people make is that they take the singularity of marriage to mean a man can't marry another lady. Marriage is expressed in singular form but you can be joined with as many ladies as you want. Please rea this thread of mine for more understanding... https://www.nairaland.com/4303658/dont-deceived-polygamy-not-sin |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Righteousness2(m): 2:03pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
sellers4buyers: I have done my Part for you. U can't say you didn't know! Happy weekend! |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Kayyy: 2:10pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008: This is the reality out there that no one is willing to agree is happening, a lot of well known celebrities are walking this path , a lot of women are also working this path , except most people on here are in their 20s and early 30s, if you are in your 40s (early or late ), look around you for women of the same age bracket that are not married and see how they have turn to intimacy gadgets to married men, widowers and single guys as well, I know about 5 of such women I have come across , 2 were widows who got into flings with other men and now have children from such relationship while having ended the relationship with the baby father , 3 are in relationship of years with different men, i mean how do you explain to your children that are now teenagers why different men come to sleep over atimes, so while not ideal I won't bash such women in these situation who resolve to marry into a polygamous house as long as the man is wealthy enough to take care of all , at least they can stick to one and not be intimacy gadgets to many men out there and this is good for the mental health of their children from their previous marriage too 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by yemi1504: 2:15pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
donestk: They should look in the mirror, that is where the problem is. |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by relaxandsmile: 2:17pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
pocohantas:I only replied to the way the op excluded young ladies. As if any man going into polygamy must choose from his list. No woman is a leftover in the true sense of it. |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by sellers4buyers(m): 2:21pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008: I have read the thread, and you did justice to the issue of Polygamy, kudos brother. I always say, nature that made X chromosome stay longer than Y chromosomes in the uterus or wherever has already encouraged and program polygamy into the scheme of things. We just have to figure out how to make it work. Just as you have clearly highlited in your thread, polygamy becomes a SIN when you marry under the marriage Act (in a licensed place of worship or at the Registery) and go ahead to marry another woman. Biblically it becomes a Sin, under Nigerian law (Marriage Act) it becomes an offence. Then we can call you a sinner and you have to be punished. If you have ever dated two to three women or more at ones without issues, you have the talent already. Work hard and have the money, nature needs you. More women are subscribing to polygamy more than ever. Cheers 2 Likes |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by dabeto: 2:22pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008:Apt |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by miqos02(m): 2:26pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008:verse 11 is continuation of what started in verse 7, which says if a man sells his daughter... That was a guide/instruction on how to treat servants who became wives. It was talking about their freedom. |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by heffem(m): 2:27pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
This write-up reminds me of Tosyne2much....anyone knows about his whereabout? Thanks |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by miqos02(m): 2:27pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
heffem:true oh. |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by OBALOLA55(m): 2:30pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Ernerstdavid55:HINTONA YOUR ANSWER PLEASE |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by descarado: 2:33pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
How I wish polygamy is among the problems crippling Nigeria. This guy is always carrying woman matter for head. Did you mum leave your dad? |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Satazaa: 2:43pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Op this is about one of the most brilliant piece I have read in a long time on nairaland and it's so so on point, what a whole lot of ladies do not understand is the there is a wide gulf in the sex demographics and there has to be an entire paradigm shift in the way Ladies still see this issues, it's not about Islam advocating for polygamy alone it's about the fact that men are exposed to more life risk than women and the pool of eligible marriageable men continue to thin out precariously, ladies wake up smell the coffee, in the estate I live in Abuja the estate manager once told that there are twenty three women living all by themselves, and guess what that was a mind blowing revelation 2 Likes |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Ernerstdavid55(m): 2:49pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
OBALOLA55:u quote the wrong guy am not hitona |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Jman06(m): 2:50pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
I cringe at those of you that are always quick to encourage polygamy! And to think that some of you consider yourselves "mature" makes the matter worse. Our forefathers did polygamy out of ignorance and many of them lived to regret that choice. Polygamy breeds poverty! Most polygamous homes I saw while growing up were mini war fronts! Step siblings against step siblings, wives against wives, Husband being seen as loving one wife and her children over the other. Even In-laws against In-laws in some cases. Check children from polygamous homes, they're always toxic and battle ready even while dealing with outsiders. Are we talking about the economic implications Imagine catering for a polygamous family as a man under this government! No be die be that Polygamy also does not curb sexual immorality and promiscuity, rather it even encourages it. It is even better for a lady to use her vibrator if she cannot find a guy to marry or date her than getting involved in polygamy! Many people in an attempt to appear "mature" actually expose their ignorance and lack of sound reasoning. It is too bad! 1 Like |
Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Odidigboigbo(m): 2:50pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008:Are you talking with experience? |
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