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Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Mariangeles(f): 2:42pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: Well, it's all about choice, as long as nobody feels cheated. I am of the opinion that if you as a man are ever interested in polygamy, make it known from the start so that the first woman who agrees to marry you knows what she's signing up for in future. Give her the chance to choose. Don't force her into a situation she didn't bargain for. To me, it's about the first wife first, because she will be the most affected. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Magnoliaa(f): 2:45pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Okay, and if the wife is open to that, too? Like genuinely, really open and the unbothered type? No. I ain't talking about the sneaky, snaky, hypocritical, poisoning type. But imagine if the two women are all vibes and good feelings. LMAO. Or maybe I'm just being idealistic with picturing two wives like this. And with a man. Yunno. I want to think there are some that have that much autonomy and self-awareness. I explained further in another comment sha. Why polygamy generally is distasteful and would be seen as such. And that doesn't mean monogamy is automatically better, just because it is monogamy oh, in my view. Yup. Being Muslims too is one reason. Candidlady: Nothing. Absolutely nothing. Nothing wrong with that, too. Or should be wrong with it. If women can be second wives, men can be second husbands. It's only hypocritical men that'll support the former and not the latter. And I suspect they'll soon arrive here. If this topic was created for them now, all of their objectivity will fly out the window and you'll start hearing, 'men cannot be XYZ and igbadakodo.' SmellySperm: Ehen. This is an example. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by lesbiconverter: 2:55pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Because there are more women in the world than men 1 Like |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Fiscus105(m): 2:56pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Cerebellum: Check ur family u will see ladies that ripe not yet married, perhaps they too are retired oloshos. Foolish guys too many on Faceless forum 3 Likes |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Bigpapi: 2:57pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Candidlady: Woman too plenty ,even you OP na second wife you go be 2 Likes |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Olam09(m): 2:57pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
It's a mystery |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by wisdom042(m): 2:57pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
A lady will accept because husband scarce Regina Daniel accept to be 7th wife u think say she be mumu 3 Likes |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by CrazyGranddad(m): 2:58pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
What's the value in a man being exclusively yours? Is he a kitchen utensil? Mariangeles: 9 Likes |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Yungspitta(m): 2:59pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Commot here before I keep my dagger for your neck |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Topsin4great(m): 2:59pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
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Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Ladycewhy(f): 2:59pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Mariangeles:so Muslim women get a pass? . What happens to traditionalists that their religion permit it too? . And I wonder why the woman is the one being blamed here to begin with, your husband used his money to marry another wife but God forbid you call him out. So the husband is not selfish for hurting his first wife? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Olayetan(m): 2:59pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Candidlady: The reason concern you? 1 Like |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by fullnetwork: 2:59pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Candidlady:From an African perspective, what's wrong with it? 6 Likes |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by 1Sharon(f): 2:59pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
MJBOLT: Competition? The wives will never love each other as sisters. And it's just going to cause tension. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by OwaliZiz(m): 3:00pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
The worst thing that can happen to a man, you can die from heart attack related ailment, create eternal enmity between children of both wives, hmmm I pity young men who still practice this 1 Like |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Elidrisy20: 3:01pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Scarcity of cassava |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by sundaygray(m): 3:01pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Candidlady: Gladly we go gree... but na you go collect all the ploughing so na 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Torosk1(m): 3:01pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Their life Their problem
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Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by AlabiKILLER2021(m): 3:02pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Women as we all know were created to please men Putting it right, they're a man's plaything A mere intimacy gadget They have no choice most especially when the man is overflowing with money 5 Likes |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Nobody: 3:02pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Mariangeles: It is rather ironic that the very same women who say stuff like "ladies who don't value themselves agree to be second wives" are actually side chicks to married men. Which is more devaluing to a woman? if you waste your youth, you may find no viable option for marriage but to be a 3rd wife! Women dont become second wives because they want to, they do because many have wasted their opportunities and youth and no one will marry them as the only wife and many of the women looking down on second wives now will jump at the chance to be a 4th wife one day. a woman has a window 20-30 to get married, after that for 90% of women, your options start to diminish VERY rapidly and being a 2nd. 3rd, 4th wife is probably your only viable option if you want to be married. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Gofwane(m): 3:02pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Candidlady:What do you have to say about the lady that agreed to marry the married man. |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by Blackdisciple(m): 3:03pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Hmmm another stabbing things coming oo May God help the husband |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:03pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
I don't mind being a 10th wife to Dangote o. Wetin concern me? All the ones wey we be first wife and main chick to them, their head still no dey house. NB; His money must be long like Dangote's own or something close for me to consider polygamy. Look at Regina nah. Baby girl is balling. Abegii. Let me even shock you. I just found love in a 70-year-old man. I can't wait to meet him when he comes to Nigeria on Christmas day. 1 Like |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by prophetfire: 3:03pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Mariangeles:. Did God create men for women to own? 1 Like |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by PeachtreeReside(f): 3:04pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
To each his or her own. I don't think we have a right to condemn anyone for their choices. Desperation? I don't think so. |
Re: Why Would A Lady Agree To Be A Second Wife? by ogawisdom(m): 3:05pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Candidlady: Bc the man is rich (or at least comfortable n the lady is poor) Ask Regina Daniels She can even be 10th to a man of 70 All most women need is money |
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