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Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Gaggii: 10:59pm On Dec 09, 2021
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by HarunaWest(m): 11:03pm On Dec 09, 2021
Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping
Sapa

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by jaeyking(m): 11:05pm On Dec 09, 2021
Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping


Lol, you can't have a side chick because of financial constraints
Ra
Make I drop prayer for u
You will have all your needs ,you will not struggle but you will not achieve that financial ability wey go make u reason to get side chick���

Oya onto the advice, try to talk to your wife let her know what you have become because of the lack of sex. Marriage is all about understanding.
If her job is stressful, you have to bear with her

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Gaggii: 11:05pm On Dec 09, 2021
HarunaWest:
Side chick and masturbation..Unfortunately me I get small change...So i chop my life mehn...Time go reach, na she go dey beg you for straff.

Y are like that, shey na cruise abi dey actually dont like sex again

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Gaggii: 11:07pm On Dec 09, 2021
jaeyking:



Lol, you can't have a side chick because of financial constraints
Ra
Make I drop prayer for u
You will have all your needs ,you will not struggle but you will not achieve that financial ability wey go make u reason to get side chick���

Oya onto the advice, try to talk to your wife let her know what you have become because of the lack of sex. Marriage is all about understanding.
If her job is stressful, you have to bear with her

We don talk tire, she go change then later go to status quo after some time

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by culf: 11:08pm On Dec 09, 2021
una no do marriage class?

Let her know the consequences of her actions, seat her down and talk sense into her.

some women no dey try at all, only if she knows what her actions could lead to.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 11:14pm On Dec 09, 2021
Another marriage palava...I'm scared

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 11:17pm On Dec 09, 2021
Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband grin

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Tinububalls: 11:19pm On Dec 09, 2021
Are you not a fire brand?
OP isn't skillfull.
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 11:45pm On Dec 09, 2021
Perhaps your wife overworks herself or she is nursing.. you see the later is number one libido killer for women.

Talk to a sex therapist together, that would help.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 11:52pm On Dec 09, 2021
How my wife go starve me with sex, that cant possible.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 12:24am On Dec 10, 2021
Are you sure you are really turning her on? Do you do pre-intimacy? Or na to just dive dey enter the pussy like that,go dey jam am like porn star. grin To the best of my knowledge women crave sex often, most especially if the man is skillful. Na she go dey disturb you for am.

So, go back to the drawing board. There are books on giving good sex and making a woman squirt or orgasm. angry

How married man go dey masturbate? Na 4uck up.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Havesomesense(m): 12:41am On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

It isn't easy but once once I dey lash random girls.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Havesomesense(m): 12:42am On Dec 10, 2021
Yinkakolawole:
How my wife go starve me with sex, that cant possible.

Till you marry first.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Kuriosmynd: 12:59am On Dec 10, 2021
jaeyking:



Lol, you can't have a side chick because of financial constraints
Ra
Make I drop prayer for u
You will have all your needs ,you will not struggle but you will not achieve that financial ability wey go make u reason to get side chick���

Oya onto the advice, try to talk to your wife let her know what you have become because of the lack of sex. Marriage is all about understanding.
If her job is stressful, you have to bear with her
Stupid! Stupid!! Stupidity!!!

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by odinson1(m): 1:16am On Dec 10, 2021
When we warn you Ignorant and stubborn men not to get married,you won't listen.

You have chosen your cross,now it's time to carry it!

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Jestin: 1:52am On Dec 10, 2021
How can you be staving from a very common commodity?

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by HarunaWest(m): 2:21am On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:


Y are like that, shey na cruise abi dey actually dont like sex again
Cant really say. I have not gotten an appropriate answer to that question.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Judybash93(m): 3:58am On Dec 10, 2021
Smart men don't marry

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by babablogger: 4:25am On Dec 10, 2021
Two wives is the best, That's all i'll say grin

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by okoroemeka(m): 4:42am On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping
in a case like this that the man choose not to have a side chick due to one or two factors then the only option is masturbation,I cannot encourage going to ashawo for sex ,but on the other hand the only constraint on having a side chick is finance,there are different grades and categories of beautiful, reasonable and neat women that needs just a man like you,there are many that are available and will not create a hole in your pocket,you just have to look in places not looked before,a treasure is found in unexpected areas,my side chick is from a very poor family,a beautiful girl no doubt and appreciate every 10 Kobo given to her.Rule no 1 of having a side chick is never be jealous,let her have her freedom of choice and association,don't ever try to limit her to be your possession only,if there are other men then your financial commitment will be pocket friendly, so long she services you every well

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by MufasaLion: 5:40am On Dec 10, 2021
Marriage and it's different problems. It seems your wife doesn't have sexual drive tgat matches yours. I believe you should have known that before marriage, but you seem to be blinded by love to neglect thst part.

You can only hope she changes which is not likely, or you go get a side piece which means you getting into adultery and that's wrong in a marriage.

I wish you well.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Gaggii: 6:13am On Dec 10, 2021
Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband grin

Oya na

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Gaggii: 6:16am On Dec 10, 2021
MufasaLion:
Marriage and it's different problem. It seems your wife doesn't have sexual drive tgat matches yours. I believe you should have known that before marriage, but you seem to be blinded by love to neglect thst part.

You can only hope she changes which is not likely, or you go get a side piece which means you getting into adultery and that's wrong in a marriage.

I wish you well.

She was not like that before marriage

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by MufasaLion: 6:18am On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:


She was not like that before marriage

Then you need to re-awaken the "beast" in her.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by mosdii(m): 6:22am On Dec 10, 2021
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by delzbaba(m): 6:24am On Dec 10, 2021
Its because u are always trying to do it at night, try her early in the morning around 4 am

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by AdeyLolah(m): 6:48am On Dec 10, 2021
Please are u married?
LIVINGICON:
Are you sure you are really turning her on? Do you do pre-intimacy? Or na to just dive dey enter the pussy like that,go dey jam am like porn star. grin To the best of my knowledge women crave sex often, most especially if the man is skillful. Na she go dey disturb you for am.

So, go back to the drawing board. There are books on giving good sex and making a woman squirt or orgasm. angry

How married man go dey masturbate? Na 4uck up.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by AdeyLolah(m): 6:49am On Dec 10, 2021
Are you married?
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by AdeyLolah(m): 6:50am On Dec 10, 2021
Please are u married?[quote author=LIVINGICON post=108364178]Are you sure you are really turning her on? Do you do pre-intimacy? Or na to just dive dey enter the pussy like that,go dey jam am like porn star. grin To the best of my knowledge women crave sex often, most especially if the man is skillful. Na she go dey disturb you for am.

So, go back to the drawing board. There are books on giving good sex and making a woman squirt or orgasm. angry

How married man go dey masturbate? Na 4uck up. Are you married?

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