9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

Get a side chic and you will be fine.

A masturbating married man is weird, work on yourself

Baba any man who is married and his wife is starving him of sex, bone the woman and don't near her. Sex is over rated. Nor be only because of your girlfriend or wife dem circumcise your prick na. Go and fire outside

Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband

Cruise!

Many single ladies are always confused.


@Seniorwriter

luminouz:

Ewwwwwww....

You will earn a "give your life to Christ" look from her

This is where dating is very important. You can't date someone for six months without knowing her true colours. Unfortunately, most of you overlook the red flags and forge ahead into marriage.

Forget all these your motivational laden assumption, I'm sure you're are not married or still fresh in the game.

AbujaCitiBlog:

If your wife was truly enjoying sex, she won't be complaining about being tired. Either you married a coded lesbian who doesn't have any emotional attachment to you or you need to up your skills in the bedroom. So which one is it? Observe carefully and learn.

She wants to use sex to manipulate you. That’s wicked.

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

you have to discuss with her

2. Prepare her for the night during the day. Don't just jump on her for sex

3. Assist her in doing some house chores, little things like that impress them and make them less tired

4. Be sexual appealing, have your bath and smell nice before going to bed.

All things being equal, without any external forces, you guys sexual life will improve

Is it realistic though? To expect one woman to satisfy the appetite you nurtured as a single man with numerous girlfriends?
We have to tell ourselves the truth. If you had numerous girlfriends to cater for your sexual appetite, you have no business marryimg a regular girl. Go for one who is in the business of satisfying several dicks a day...same goes for the other gender too.

Op, we are in the same shoe but mine is a bit different cos I have always have alternatives to things.. I got like 4 side chick out there.. infact I'm going out to have two today... Just let your wife be, if she wan chop her toto na she sabi... go out there, it must not be all about money.. I don't always tell my side chick I got a wife, I ball like single guys out there...

Is this problem just for Nigerians women only, Cus I no understand again same problem all the time.

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

Sex starvation isn’t good for any marriage bt why did u marry Sm1 ur not compatible with sexually??

These are issues u trash out of discover while dating. I’m not saying u must find Sm1 to fulfill all ur sexual fantasies bt u shudnt be starved. It’s unacceptable and a bad sign for any marriage.

Personally for me I will discuss is carefully with her so there can be a change or a correction on my part Incase the cause of lack of interest or tiredness is from me or her activities. After that with no changes I will let her know I’m going to get a gf and cheat of her bt it’s not cheating cos I will make sure she’s aware of the open marriage status she has created.

Note if she now uses that as her excuse to equally cheat after pushing me into the act of cheating I will end that sham of a marriage in a sec and move on with a decent humanbeing that knows what they want. This is however an extreme case.

Lastly sex shouldn’t be the main focus of a relationship or else it gets boring quickly and mechanical. Learn to know how to induce sex without even asking for it. U have to know her love language to achieve this.

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

As a married man, i won't advice you to have a side chick because of the wahala it carries. Side chick will see you a ATM to cash out regularly and possible interference in your marriage.

What you need is a short-time or one-night stand man things are hard these days, if you go out in the evening you'll see very clean and matured ladies you can pick for 3k or better still locate a coded and neat guest house you go see clean babes to knack with small money.

Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband

Married women won’t like this comment

Zao19:
More than 70% of married men face this type of problem including my self, if u are yet to married pls stop talking rubbish, u are yet to experience such.

Isn't your statistics supposed to tell you that it's not an intentional thing from the part of the wives? And that it's just the changes a woman's body goes through when she has given birth birth or when breastfeeding coupled with the workload that comes with raising kids and taking care of the home?

Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband

You need deliverance walahi!

Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband

You are the one I am looking for, let connect sharply before someone toast you before I do.

Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband

Where be your location

Since when my wife gave birth 7 months ago I haven't had sex she said I don't have money that I should go get sex somewhere else I masturbate sometimes to get relief but I just decided to stop now am working in bet9ja in Delta State warri I don't know what sex taste like anymore, man life hard oh na only God go help us.

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

two things are involved is either you are not satisfying her or the bitter truth someone elsewhere is giving it to her well enough. Better still find out the issue with her and if you find her explaination not good enough do your findings after that meet aboki for that thing follow instructive instructions b4 taking it to avoid stories that touch. Then get back to me

But wait ooo, let me get something clear about this marriage matters.. I get enough sex as a bachelor then marry to get sexually frustrated by a woman who is supposed to make me not not regret leaving bachelorhood I understand its not also easy for women as they carry alot of burden but then what's the whole essence of getting married if my life will most likely become more miserable tru sexual frustrations like i hear many men complain about and the many other marital palava we hear everyday?? With the things bachelors like us seee everyday, i am beginning to see to reason and conclude that the baby mama option is the best well suited for a man in this era.

MufasaLion:


Then you need to re-awaken the "beast" in her.

Yea damn right awaken the hoe in her

Men are really trying

okoroemeka:
in a case like this that the man choose not to have a side chick due to one or two factors then the only option is masturbation,I cannot encourage going to ashawo for sex ,but on the other hand the only constraint on having a side chick is finance,there are different grades and categories of beautiful, reasonable and neat women that needs just a man like you,there are many that are available and will not create a hole in your pocket,you just have to look in places not looked before,a treasure is found in unexpected areas,my side chick is from a very poor family,a beautiful girl no doubt and appreciate every 10 Kobo given to her.Rule no 1 of having a side chick is never be jealous,let her have her freedom of choice and association,don't ever try to limit her to be your possession only,if there are other men then your financial commitment will be pocket friendly, so long she services you every well

The ABC of Keeping a Side Chick As A Married Man



When are we launching this book sir? We go invite Buhari, Tinubu, Orji Uzo Kalu, Oshiomhole, Rochas, Ganduje and Gumi as guest speakers

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

Facing the same issue, na maturbation oo, I get small change but I've come to know over time that side chick na stress so I no try am again.

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

You need to also adjust your Psyche. Being married doesn't mean sex-at-anytime you need it. At least, It's not like that in 95% of marriages.
Having a side chic too will put you through a lot of inconveniences, and it's not as if you hadn't done all that in the past.
Sir, you have to adjust your self a little to the current circumstances, most especially if your wife is also working and contributing to the home as well. You will be fine.

Help2020:

I jealous una wen dey masturbate without side effect. Me I non fit try masturbate for a day again, except I wan suffer for days.

What kind of effects

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

this is want you get by marrying a baboon as a wife

Those useless piece of shiit called naija women are the very least thing I would ever think of marrying!

Those apes don't deserve my diicck

Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband

Osalobuo