slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Bros op ....stop confusing yourself and settle down with that baby girl...

I understand you...but let me tell you a secret...marry a woman that can vibe, discuss, chat and play with you.....you see that sexual attraction aspects....it is going to come gradually
Forget about the yansh..as far as she is a woman that sexual attraction will come
and the funny and stupid thing is that most men even when their wife is sexually attractive with yansh they will still be banging other women outside

ayindejimmy:
Let me let you in on a secret.

95% of men cheat on their wives.

Especially in Nigeria. Just make sure you respect her by being covertly discrete

Sonnobax15:

Op,I pity you in advance...If you like, allow your quest and love for big nyanch to make you loosegaurd who go give you peace of mind..

Abi na banny wey get big nyanch wey go make you get competition with other men you want?


Las las,one day one day small nyanch go vex shake

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Moorish:

Did you conduct a poll ?

ayindejimmy:


I've never met a married man that doesn't cheat in Nigeria.
Ok, except my elder brother. Even he admires ladies and usually wants to marry them.


Join the discussion

https://www.quora.com/Is-it-true-that-about-90-percent-of-men-cheat-in-marriage

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

oluplus:


Thanks for sharing the link. I've gone through it and noticed that people have different opinion about this. No concrete resear h was done to back the claim.
As for you not meeting a married man that does not cheat, please change your cycle of friends.
There are 1,001 nigerian men who are faithful to their wives. I am proudly one of them. Thank God your brother is also a Nigerian.

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

MufasaLion:


There's nothing bad in what he wants. He was just being impatient and unlucky enough to have met a woman that have all he wants.

There's no point in marrying a lady you're not sexually compatible with irrespective of her good character. Would you rather prefer he cheat on her after marriage?

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

frozen70:


You don't need to be confused
You know what you want from a woman can not be gotten 100%

Secondly, you talk about possibilities of cheating on her

Look cheating is an attitude a man form, so you will cheat if you want to cheat and if you don't want to cheat, is your choice

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Mercychen:


I know but do you know you can't always have it all good in one package?
So, saying he should have waited some more to get a woman with all these qualities is not ideal as that wil be like going on a wild goose chase.

The thing is, if you can get 50% of what you want in somebody, go ahead because no human has it �% character and quality wise.

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

BigBashiru:


i agree with u...then use a side chick to get the rest.. .. why is polygamy not practiced?!

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

phranco:

Honestly, it has got me thinking for more than two months now. But I just realized that is my dick making the thinking for me. My last relationship that ended about three years ago, the girl have height, beautiful shape, nyash and moderate bress. But she is very toxic, she always tells me to my face that two captain can not sail a ship. She wants me to be loyal to her which led me to end the relationship. She always cheat and will still lie to my face, even though I have caught her thrice. In fact that relationship was hell and I thank God I got out alive. Now same thinking of external features have beclouded my brain again, but I have overcome it tonight and have taking my decision .

Mercychen:


I know but do you know you can't always have it all good in one package?
So, saying he should have waited some more to get a woman with all these qualities is not ideal as that wil be like going on a wild goose chase.

The thing is, if you can get 50% of what you want in somebody, go ahead because no human has it �% character and quality wise.

ayindejimmy:


How old is your marriage?

Is it up to 10 years?

Africans are polygamous and you can't say how a journey will end at the beginning.

People I know that cheat aren't people with 5 or 8 years marriage. I'm talking 10- 20.
I don't mean to discourage anyone.
I know people that I have never heard promiscuous tales about them but later their driver have stories to tell.

1,001 means a large number of people with no specific number. 90% or 95% is affirmative number. 90% means out of say, 50 million married men in Nigeria, 45 million people are cheat and that is where I have issues with, when there is no claim to back this up.

Also note that a cheat will always cheat, weather in the early years or later in as much he is a cheat. My point is those who value sanctity of marriage will always respect the institution and know extra marital is not an option.





The few that don't cheat either have God's grace or fewer money to throw around.

I used the 95% literally just like that your 1001 figure which obviously should be more than that

MufasaLion:


Well, if your suggestion works for you, good. I can't be with someone that doesn't have it all or almost all. Not many of us can settle for average or less.

Mercychen:


Story!

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.