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Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Owologbo(m): 3:53pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Foodqueen: I dislike people that go from church to church looking for what is I don't know. And most times, they end up adding more problems to their lives. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by odudueffiom(m): 3:53pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Bro better start ya divorce proceedings, before someone kills you, claiming they have kill the Jonah sinking their boat!!! This is why I don't like a too religious woman |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Owologbo(m): 3:59pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
mannasseh:Op, please you don't need this. Why go through all these stress just got to debunk what's not? What if this your suggestion later backfire? |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by zealadjay(m): 4:10pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Shey òrí é òpè bàyí Na we won help u tell ur wife say u no be occultic? Hw we tak knw u?? U no get mouth Nii�� |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by frozen70(f): 4:16pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
worriedhubby: I think she has been mingling with people that are telling her all she wants to hear Then couple with the fact that she is yet to ha e another baby, she is now behaving weired I don't want her to dump the baby with you, so take it calmly with her and you have exhausted all points of telling her that you are not whom she said that you are So, ignore that part until she says she is not staying again, then give her the freedom to walk away Maybe by then she will still come back to her senses |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by musicwriter(m): 4:32pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
worriedhubby: Even if you're occultic, there's nothing wrong with that, as long as you don't hurt people with it. As a matter of fact, initiates are warned to only use it for good. It seems pastors have messed up your wife.
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Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Oluchia(f): 4:58pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
iamL: The fact that someone avoids prayer does not automatically make them occultic. Everybody must not be a Christian, some people are not just religious. They might go to church as a custom, but that does not mean they are spiritual. There are people who are atheists and you don't expect them to like prayers of any kind. Besides. only God knows the kind of prayers his wife offers with this her attitude of jumping from one prophet to another. I'm a Christian but you see, it's not every kind of prayer that you will see me involve myself with eg all this die by fire prayer; they are not for me. |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by flokii: 5:23pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Just like Pastor Adeboye rightly said.. your hell begins on earth when you get married to the wrong person. @OP Those that like spreading unfounded claims and lies against others are WITCHES, not only those flying at night cos they all have the same goal which is to destroy another person. I really feel sorry for you cos it can be traumatizing putting up with such level of wickedness from one's spouse. |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Kobojunkie: 5:50pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Saao:Rubbish! Did Jesus Christ say or teach anyone anything about the occultic? Did He ask His followers to go around calling even their very enemies such? So many of you who claim to be Christians don't even know how far away you are from Jesus Christ yourselves. Na una dey open mouth worse dey accuse others pass. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Kobojunkie: 5:51pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Mom007:God never said a man is the head of the family. Instead he cursed man so and that curse is the same one God sent Jesus Christ to redeem/Save men from. Abeg, make una dey stop to drag God's name around in ignorance.. |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Emmanuel30a: 5:58pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Wetin I Go Give To You? My Praise E E |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Kobojunkie: 6:14pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
ashantitope:Must you reduce everything to am "us vs them" argument? We have read several times on here on husbands who have, following the advice of men they call pastors, allowed a wedge to be driven between themselves and their wives. Do you ignore such because of your deep-seated bias against the other gender? Try to learn not to make everything about yourself and your personal bias...abeg 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Kobojunkie: 6:15pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Remman:1. Your point 2-5 are so he should use the things of God to to con a deluded individual, his wife, into shifting her delusions onto someone else? Isn't that a wicked thing to do? 2. What then happens to the one who gets the delusion shifted onto? E no concern you, abi?. |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Kobojunkie: 6:20pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
JackWolfskin:What in the world are these useless prayerpoints you indulge yourselves in? |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Kobojunkie: 6:21pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
vickydevoka:How many have you ever married and divorced yourself from? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Kobojunkie: 6:22pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
killmods:What evidence do you have of this apart from what OP revealed? |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Kobojunkie: 6:24pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
iamL:Did God tell you anywhere in scripture that if you are close to Him this will not happen in your marriage?, Have you ever read the story of Hosea or Ezekiel or even Moses before? All 3 of them Prophets of God and see how marriage turned out for them. Abeg, make una dey visit reality small small.. |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by alphaNomega: 6:32pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Graxie: Occultic man is a true nigga |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by JackWolfskin: 7:03pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Hi. Is everything ok? I don't understand your point. Btw, you aren't the OP |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Kobojunkie: 7:04pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
JackWolfskin:What are these prayerpoints you speak of and what have they to do with OP'S concerns? |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by JackWolfskin: 7:24pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: In 2020, I got a call from a church in Port Harcourt, that someone brought my picture to the pastor. That I am the evil man causing my wife's and daughter's illness. The person that took my picture is my wife's brother. I was mad! But family and friends helped me to keep calm. A month later, my wife wouldn't UnCloth in my presence. If I entered the room while she is dressing or the bathroom while she is bathing, she will quickly cover up. When I confronted her, she told me it is because she believes my "hands are not clean ". That she was told that I am occultic before she even joined me. That because I am "hot tempere", "don't pray certain prayer points " , she believes that I have some dark powers. I did my best to refute her claim in a calm way. But was deeply hurting. I reported her to a Pastor at Mountain of Fire where she now worships. She changed and told the man that she believes I am a child of God. Look before you leap. |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Mom007(f): 7:31pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:1st cor 11 vs 3- 10. Can a person be this ignorant? Yet you open your mouth to call another ignorant! And I am sure you are a 'Christian'... |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Kobojunkie: 7:38pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
JackWolfskin:My mistake! I thought your comment was meant as validation of his wife's psychotic delusions. |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Kobojunkie: 7:40pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Mom007:Genesis 3 vs 16 is where God placed a curse on marriage, proclaiming that by the curse man would rule over her wife in marriage. That is one of the curse sJesus Christ came to give men Salvation from - the condemnation of Sin which leads to Death - Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22. What is written of men being head of family is antiChrist and not of God. Be sure your "Christianity" lines up with God's very Word to you, Jesus Christ, the Christ in the word Christian. . |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Remman(m): 8:08pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:it would proof her assumptions are baseless and untrue. This means that she will on her own realize her errors. But then, the man will have peace in his home. The op is very Okay with the wife only on one issue which is shared above. So, yeah, it's the right thing to do. I believe there's something the op is doing which is making the wife to feel suspicious. Unless he's having chics, otherwise, he should allow her to access his phones and personal computers. With his type of wife, if he truly needs peace with her, he needs to be wise. Paul said when in Rome, act like the Romans to get into their hearts. It's that simple. |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Remman(m): 8:16pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
LordIsaac:only an unwise judge would pass judgement on a fellow from a mare statement without clear evidence. Jesus said to them, in deed she committed fornication, but let the first man without sin first cast his stone on her. Guess what, they left. If they had come with the man who did it with her, maybe he would have handled it differently. Solomon wisely responded to two women who narrated their own side of the story that brought them before him but being a wise judge, he passed the right judgement. No hard feelings...! |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Kobojunkie: 8:17pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Remman:And this here comment paints a clear picture of why Nigeria remains the cesspool that it is. So, it is RIGHT to have some other innocent person thrown in the way of the bus that is his wife's psychotic delusions- not in an attempt at in fact resolving the problem - for the sake of peace in the marriage? You even go as far as to suggest that this selfish resolve of yours is according to the doctrines of Paul, even though Jesus Christ clearly instructed that we only do to others as we would like for them to do to us? |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by JackWolfskin: 8:21pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: No problems. |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by LordIsaac(m): 8:24pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Remman:You shouldn't preempt Christ. If someone came to you and complained of his goods being carted away by a thief, so you would wait to hear from the thief before condemning the act of stealing? Someone brought his case here that his wife is usurping his authority and calling him and occultic man and we should not respond to the act? Any woman that treats her husband like that is not a good woman....period. |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Remman(m): 8:26pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:well fine, he can go to war in trying to prove facts which he's already doing now or has done before writing this thing up here but is it getting him any good result? Guy, the op has done the right thing by seeking advise. The road to paradise or success is rough. Apart from inheritance, any other way to success is rough including Rituals or occultism. If he truly wants peace, it's not easy to get it with his approach above. Let him Try another way. |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Kobojunkie: 8:31pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
Remman:So, you are saying the only way for Op to find peace is for him to use his wife's delusion against her in finding for her another scape goat? And you are somehow convinced this is the RIGHT thing for one who pretends to be a Christian to tell another to do? Let's assume the Op takes your advice, and then manipulates his wife in shifting her target off of him or a random woman in his church who maybe happens to be your mother, sister or wife/galfriend, would you also think then this plan of yours is RIGHT?, |
Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Remman(m): 8:34pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
LordIsaac:Hehehe! Well, that's your opinion. You're not supposed to judge the wife. He didn't ask you to judge the wife. He asked for solution. As for your example, you'll investigate the matter and give justice to the thieves. It's like your father treating you badly and you came here looking for advise then someone insult your father by judging him based on what you said, without giving you the needed advice, you'll be ashamed of yourself. The man did not marry a bad woman. It's just a psychological matter that needs wisdom and not judgements. |
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