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Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Philip94: 7:51pm On Jan 30, 2022
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and says wrong things to me which I most times overlook.

On many occasions, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless times to always address issues she has with me immediately before it turns to a big quarrel.

She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have.

Please, how can I find a lasting solution to my wife's unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Mood11: 7:53pm On Jan 30, 2022
You are already getting tired of your newly wedded wife? Didn't you notice this attitude before marriage?

I find it rather childish and a waste of precious time that some people are comfortable keeping malice with the partner they claim to love instead of making peace as soon as they can, not only does it give the devil the opportunity to come into your relationship but you miss out on precious moments you are supposed to be enjoying together.

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Bola146(f): 7:54pm On Jan 30, 2022
Your marriage is still new for this now Didn't you go through any relationship at all? You ought to be in your honeymoon sad you saw the signs unless you want to deceive yourself. Sir, know what is causing her sadness and work towards making her happy. You know her better, be praying for her also.

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by habsydiamond(m): 7:54pm On Jan 30, 2022
Hope she has something doing Cos Na pesin wey no get work dey get time to dey fight everyday.. Even those boxers wey dey collect money before fight no dey do am everyday. Sit ur wife down if u want to live long.

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Baawaa(m): 7:55pm On Jan 30, 2022
That is your cross carry it, God will see you through, Amen

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by gasparpisciotta: 8:01pm On Jan 30, 2022
Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on my what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and say wrong tinz to me which I most times overlook. On many occasion, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless time to always address issues she has with me immediately b4 it turns to a big quarrel. She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have. Please, how can I find a lasting solution to wife unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.

Bro present day woman no like man wey dey do sme sme!!!

Shout for her head make you threaten to boycott her and her food for the time being unless she change.

And if she no change become more aggressive towards anything that concerns her!!

What she sow she must reap!!!

Once you see say she don calm down, bring her close and take her out but don’t let that be your only joker.

Change tactics from time to time

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Qatar2022: 8:11pm On Jan 30, 2022
Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on my what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and say wrong tinz to me which I most times overlook. On many occasion, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless time to always address issues she has with me immediately b4 it turns to a big quarrel. She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have. Please, how can I find a lasting solution to wife unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.
There are some people it's in their nature to keep malice, there are some people when they found new love anything their old lover did or say is a problem so find out which one is her problem and tackle it now it's still early

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Jeon(f): 9:03pm On Jan 30, 2022
Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on my what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and say wrong tinz to me which I most times overlook. On many occasion, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless time to always address issues she has with me immediately b4 it turns to a big quarrel. She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have. Please, how can I find a lasting solution to wife unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.

you say Wetin! angry you are already tired just now @early stage

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Boogyman557: 9:11pm On Jan 30, 2022
Holly Gram cool real matters on top real MATTERZ


DIS 1 Na family MATTERZ



LITE UP my WEED in peace..


WTF MAN

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Nobody: 9:11pm On Jan 30, 2022
Nonsense....go and deal with your stupidity

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by cutecommend: 9:13pm On Jan 30, 2022
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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Danjikanbauchi: 10:36pm On Jan 30, 2022
Tell her to fuckoff if she is not ready for the marriage and let her know you are ready for divorce if she continue to be toxic. She is giving devil access to your home.

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by arthurwillia(m): 11:11pm On Jan 30, 2022
Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on my what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and say wrong tinz to me which I most times overlook. On many occasion, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless time to always address issues she has with me immediately b4 it turns to a big quarrel. She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have. Please, how can I find a lasting solution to wife unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.

Marriage wey una just start
Lie that she didn’t do all these when you were dating her? You chose not to see it then

It’s your cross

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Philip94: 11:27pm On Jan 30, 2022
habsydiamond:
Hope she has something doing Cos Na pesin wey no get work dey get time to dey fight everyday.. Even those boxers wey dey collect money before fight no dey do am everyday. Sit ur wife down if u want to live long.



She's jobless for now.

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Foodqueen(f): 11:31pm On Jan 30, 2022
Learn to keep malice too, she will adjust.

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by dijas(m): 11:32pm On Jan 30, 2022
Swear you no notice this character when you are dating?


Meanwhile... I get a natural product that can help clear your pimples, acne, darkspots. Check my signature

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Moeman: 11:34pm On Jan 30, 2022
see a therapist

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by bestdefender: 11:54pm On Jan 30, 2022
My man I always advice ppl dating to test their partner, had it been u did you would have discovered this her attitude, I will advise u to write your will cos she will kill u oneday and marry the guy she truly loves her ex bf lol ................Fck all all

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by samuelson06(m): 11:55pm On Jan 30, 2022
Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on my what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and say wrong tinz to me which I most times overlook. On many occasion, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless time to always address issues she has with me immediately b4 it turns to a big quarrel. She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have. Please, how can I find a lasting solution to wife unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.

How can you be talking so many stupid things at the same time? Your newly wedded wife is throwing up attitudes you don't like? Didn't you see any of those bad attitudes before dragging her to the alter? So, what exactly do you want now? A divorce? No way! Just manage her like that. Maybe you can cure her madness with a higher one. Show her you can also go haywire.

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by jaxxy(m): 1:32am On Jan 31, 2022
Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on my what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and say wrong tinz to me which I most times overlook. On many occasion, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless time to always address issues she has with me immediately b4 it turns to a big quarrel. She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have. Please, how can I find a lasting solution to wife unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.

I can bet u knew she was like that b4 marrying her and u still went ahead to put a ring on it now after marriage it hasn’t changed and probably getting worse u now want a solution. Haha. Ok

Such attitudinal behavior run deep and are hard to change overnight. It’s her way of punishing u or Showing her displeasure and almost nothing will change her mind until she sorts her emotions out.

At that point in time the last thing she wants to do is talk to u. The only way to break the silence is buy her a gift or send her nice romantic msgs like ure not aware of the fight or do anything unusual she likes just to get her attention.

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by 24brains(m): 2:14am On Jan 31, 2022
But today it hurts me so much to go back to mama and Say "mama i'm getting divorce"

its not easy, to understand it son, but i hope you made it, you will be happy and blessed.

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Kobojunkie: 2:47am On Jan 31, 2022
Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on my what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and say wrong tinz to me which I most times overlook. On many occasion, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless time to always address issues she has with me immediately b4 it turns to a big quarrel. She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have. Please, how can I find a lasting solution to wife unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.
Does she have a job and a life of her own? undecided

If not, you should start suggesting she go get a job so she can apply that extra energy she has nagging on something else, while at the same time contributing her quota of the family finances. Woman, like men, need to have something to do and housework isn't really the best use of her mental energy at all. She too needs to have her mind exercised regularly to keep it in shape and focused on matters that are worthy rather than worthless bickering and arguing. undecided

If she already has a job, then suggest she take up exercise, volunteer work or some other hobby to help her rid herself of that additional energy she spends nitpicking and keeping malice. undecided

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by NotBeenPaid: 4:15am On Jan 31, 2022
The signs has always been there during courtship but you chose to ignore it believing that she'll change someday. Manage her like that.

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by OKEMKPI: 4:56am On Jan 31, 2022
That is the nature of women from default.Only those that have the intellectual capacity,breaks off from that.(Just but a few)

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Dreytonisback(m): 6:09am On Jan 31, 2022
Give her a stern warning of her malicious acts
It's a big red flag when your wife keeps malice with you more than 1 day
If it exceeds 2days then you must've hit her, else it mustn't exceed 1 day .

If she still doesn't change, the next time it happens just take few of your clothes and leave the house for her and never respond to her calls for a month , just go to ur friend's place to chill , avoid her food
If she cooks the best soup in the world , avoid it and cook yours period
That one go pain her die, and don't let her use kpekus to scatter your brain, avoid konji .

Lights up my kpoli in peace

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by helinues: 6:22am On Jan 31, 2022
Hope you are not currently having financial issue?

Na one of the effects of women disrespecting their husbands

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by habsydiamond(m): 6:39am On Jan 31, 2022
Philip94:




She's jobless for now.
that's the reason behind all her acts. Get her something doing. Pesin wey don work tire no fit get time for malice oo

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Snapchat: 6:55am On Jan 31, 2022
gasparpisciotta:


Bro present day woman no like man wey dey do sme sme!!!

Shout for her head make you threaten to boycott her and her food for the time being unless she change.

And if she no change become more aggressive towards anything that concerns her!!

What she sow she must reap!!!

Once you see say she don calm down, bring her close and take her out but don’t let that be your only joker.

Change tactics from time to time

Bro. I’m not saying you are wrong or if this wouldn’t walk o; but personally, I won’t try this.

I’d rather work away from the union than become a beast. Won’t let anyone get to me that much to change my nature. Walahi.

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by Snapchat: 6:58am On Jan 31, 2022
jaxxy:


I can bet u knew she was like that b4 marrying her and u still went ahead to put a ring on it now after marriage it hasn’t changed and probably getting worse u now want a solution. Haha. Ok

Such attitudinal behavior run deep and are hard to change overnight. It’s her way of punishing u or Showing her displeasure and almost nothing will change her mind until she sorts her emotions out.

At that point in time the last thing she wants to do is talk to u. The only way to break the silence is buy her a gift or send her nice romantic msgs like ure not aware of the fight or do anything unusual she likes just to get her attention.

To be honest, if they didn’t live together for a very long time time it would be hard to notice if she has such character. It only became glaring because they are married and it’s compulsory they live in the same house.

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Re: Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. by gasparpisciotta: 6:59am On Jan 31, 2022
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Bro. I’m not saying you are wrong or if this wouldn’t work o; but personally, I won’t try this.

I’d rather work away from the union than become a beast. Won’t let anyone get to me that much to change my nature. Walahi.

I no say make you beat her bros!!!

You need to show some form of aggression to re align her, otherwise na you go tire for nagging wife and mind you she dey enjoy wetin she dey do you.

Just make her uncomfortable for a bit

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