Biglittlelois:



Smh you are irredeemable, you think all divorcees are interested in marrying again after all the stress? You think they are not fine with being on their own? Na wa for you.

Toks2008:


Just shut up as in shush. Nobody can delete a quoted thread.

I have never been in a failed marriage so stop acting foolish. Can you even mock me?

Face the topic here.

Mariangeles:



No offense, but I just like being true to myself, and asking you to unfollow me felt like the right thing to do.
It didn’t have anything to do with your comment I quoted.
Thank you.


That comment was to whom it may concern.
They know themselves.

Amazingbaby:
It is kind of surreal

My husband took his bag and left the house after an argument and have been gone for over a week now, trouble started when he came back and told me he wanted to hire a particular girl to work with him,this girl was working with his friend before he closed up.he told me his friend beg him to hire the girl.
Earlier in the week my husband told me he was going for a convention,I checked his phone and saw when this particular girl was asking him when he will be leaving the house at 7:44 in the morning,I didn't talk or made a fuss about it,so when he told me he wanted to employ this girl my suspicion grew,I asked him how does he want to pay her he told me the lady said she would work for free.
I started laughing,which girl on this island would want to work for free if you don't have anything to do with her.i started bombarding him with questions;
If the girl is your friend's employee how did she know about your business?My husband said he has not talked to the lady since last year but he never knew I saw the messages.

I told him to give me his phone only to see that he has been exchanging Whatsapp calls and phone calls with her.i got angry and was asking him questions he took his bag and left that night.

That was when I confronted him about the messages I saw the week before only for him to say he doesn't owe me any explanation.

I am deeply hurt that he would want to employ a person he has a secret relationship with and has the mind to tell me about it.he deletes any conversation he has with this lady,he hides his phone and would never pick a call in my presents.

Pls how do you think I should handle this,I told him the only way I would ever listen to him is if he tell me where he went with that lady on that Saturday. Calling her sounds desperate and I don't like fighting my fellow lady because of a man.your opinion pls

Toks2008:


As long as they are ok on their own no wahala.

My point is that any lady who leaves her husband cos he has eyes for another lady and hoping to find a faithful man out there is suffering from Mumuism

Nobody should bother quoting me.

Toks2008:


The day you ladies wake up from your deluded slumber is the day you lot will be liberated.

MEN DON'T CHEAT and only married ladles commit Adultery and ofcourse the man they sleep with but if a married man decides to be with a single lady, there is no single crime in that as long as he wants her as another wife and not just fvking her.

I wrote a thread concerning this recurring issue. Perhaps you should take a look at it.

https://www.nairaland.com/5492915/opinion-present-day-woman-misplaced-priority#83457096

Cc: Lalasticlala

pocohantas:


I don’t think it is a clique thing though. I no know wetin do you and Klass. One person has to ignore the other. Me sef get one babe wey dey tackle me on the side, but until she mentions me directly, I would pretend like I don’t know it is for me. Life no hard pass like that nnem.

I mean, you know see how una take attack me? On top unfollow ooo. Hehehehehehehe
On a normal, say na another person, you for enter me?
Those agbayas still dey dey gossip me shamelessly for my back. Chai! I too big!
If no be reply wey I reply your post, I for know o.
Thank God for the kind mind wey I get sha.
If to say hateful likes dey kill, I for don die taaaaytaaaay!

Klass99:


You're unbelievable.

You, that came with guns blazing? And even told someone, they no just get sense at all..... lmao

The gbas gbos has been interesting to watch/read.

Mariangeles:


It is clique thing o!

I mean, you know see how una take attack me? On top unfollow ooo. Hehehehehehehe
On a normal, say na another person, you for enter me?
Those agbayas still dey dey gossip me shamelessly for my back. Chai! I too big!
If no be reply wey I reply your post, I for know o.
Thank God for the kind mind wey I get sha.
If to say hateful likes dey kill, I for don die taaaaytaaaay!

Mariangeles:


It is clique thing o!

I mean, you know see how una take attack me? On top unfollow ooo. Hehehehehehehe
On a normal, say na another person, you for enter me?
Those agbayas still dey dey gossip me shamelessly for my back. Chai! I too big!
If no be reply wey I reply your post, I for know o.
Thank God for the kind mind wey I get sha.
If to say hateful likes dey kill, I for don die taaaaytaaaay!

Ninisun:




Worry less and cheat back... you will be fine abi you wan die early for nothing.

pocohantas:


If you ask me, you are being unnecessarily paranoid and confrontational. I have Nlders I get along with and that is about it. The Nlders I actually do know off this forum, we ignore ourselves online.

You should probably stop thinking everyone is out to get you for a start. The Klass you call my friend, we have had our own fallouts. I am sure I have posts that Coco doesn’t agree to and she has some I don’t buy too. Last week Mango and Folake wanted to bury me alive together . Maybe if I was as paranoid as you are, I’ll be on their matter by now. It is really not that deep. I replied you because both of you are people I relate with, not because of clique. My sugar daddy is the one I do my NL gossip with.

folake4u:


Lmao that last week sha.

pocohantas:


I just kuku go offline for una.
We meet another day.

Amazingbaby:
Update

Thankyou all for your contribution

He is back to see the kids, he has been providing a d talking to his kids daily,I guess I am the only one he has a problem with

I will take a lot of advice into consideration,we have alot of intelligent people here.

I was just surprise that he would want to employ someone he have been having secret calls and meeting with and would be arrogant about it.

Klass99:


Babe, I came, commented where necessary, vibed with the people whose vibes I like and continue to do me.

folake4u:



I swear down, I don dey laugh over am now oh.
I don't have energy at all.

eyinjuege:


This is the only advice I endorse.
This year, I choose violence.
I don't like peace

Mariangeles:


Thank God for the kind mind wey I get sha.

pocohantas:


Nne old age is coming. This NL is a social experiment. If you can deal with Nlders, you fit manage animals wey dey inside bush.

Framed:


The number of posts liked against you tells me you are the problematic person and many people here don't like you.You are childish, crass repulsive and a wretched soul and to think someone said you are nice.

Animegirl:
If this story is true, I feel sorry for you. But don't stress yourself over a man. My advice you report this issue to his family and yours.

Pray he return but if your husband is coming back with STD or problems back to your life, rebuke it.

Reason why ladies should have their own money before marriage. If your husband decides to misbehave, you don't have to stress or overthink yourself over him. Just go on a vacation and enjoy yourself.

mixmastering:


It took you so long.

A wonderful mind you have there too.
A very wonderful gift from GOD.

Inspite of it all, those wings of yours have not been clipped neither does it seem like it can be (I wish I could hear how you have made it this far).

You are a great tool in the hands of JESUS, The Destiny Giver. Men come to the light of the knowledge of GOD under your tenacious unwavering leadership and love.

pocohantas:


If you ask me, you are being unnecessarily paranoid and confrontational. I have Nlders I get along with and that is about it. The Nlders I actually do know off this forum, we ignore ourselves online.

You should probably stop thinking everyone is out to get you for a start. The Klass you call my friend, we have had our own fallouts. I am sure I have posts that Coco doesn’t agree to and she has some I don’t buy too. Last week Mango and Folake wanted to bury me alive together . Maybe if I was as paranoid as you are, I’ll be on their matter by now. It is really not that deep. I replied you because both of you are people I relate with, not because of clique. My sugar daddy is the one I do my NL gossip with.

Mariangeles:


Your words mean a lot to me. I appreciate.
Amen. Thank you.

Amazingbaby:
It is kind of surreal

My husband took his bag and left the house after an argument and have been gone for over a week now, trouble started when he came back and told me he wanted to hire a particular girl to work with him,this girl was working with his friend before he closed up.he told me his friend beg him to hire the girl.
Earlier in the week my husband told me he was going for a convention,I checked his phone and saw when this particular girl was asking him when he will be leaving the house at 7:44 in the morning,I didn't talk or made a fuss about it,so when he told me he wanted to employ this girl my suspicion grew,I asked him how does he want to pay her he told me the lady said she would work for free.
I started laughing,which girl on this island would want to work for free if you don't have anything to do with her.i started bombarding him with questions;
If the girl is your friend's employee how did she know about your business?My husband said he has not talked to the lady since last year but he never knew I saw the messages.

I told him to give me his phone only to see that he has been exchanging Whatsapp calls and phone calls with her.i got angry and was asking him questions he took his bag and left that night.

That was when I confronted him about the messages I saw the week before only for him to say he doesn't owe me any explanation.

I am deeply hurt that he would want to employ a person he has a secret relationship with and has the mind to tell me about it.he deletes any conversation he has with this lady,he hides his phone and would never pick a call in my presents.

Pls how do you think I should handle this,I told him the only way I would ever listen to him is if he tell me where he went with that lady on that Saturday. Calling her sounds desperate and I don't like fighting my fellow lady because of a man.your opinion pls