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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by derecho(m): 4:12pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
I already alluded to the bolded.Some men love intelligent ladies and would love to hear their wife's input. However, when he senses constant impolite disagreement, he's likely to stop anything that encourages it. You keep mentioning insecurity, but do you know most ladies standing up to their husbands have complex and are the insecure ones? There are easy ways to make your husband respect you. Attitude is everything. Except for transformed individuals, Women seem to love the "bad" guys more. Those that act like, "if you like you can go", "I'm only obligated to do these because you're now with me"... I have seen men who won't praise their wives in their presence but praise them to the high heavens when with friends.You can't blame them,I personal believe most women allow praises get to their head unlike men. Blunttruth: |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Mariangeles(f): 4:19pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
[s] Senomi:[/s] From this moment on, you’ve been banned from food section! If I catch you there ehn… Na when you see food, you dey form better person. By then, Nigerian girls go turn wife material. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Mariangeles(f): 4:22pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Senomi: How you take measure her IQ? With your own? |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 4:23pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
inumidun2010: 1. In Genesis 3 vs 16, God Himself placed a submission curse on marriage. Then God sent Jesus Christ to redeem men and their marriage from the very same curses recorder in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 - His offers for salvation is from this curse. The same Jesus Christ then goes on to tell His followers that in the Kingdom of God, He alone is the Head/Master, Teacher, Shepherd etc., to which His followers are to submit to - stipulation that they are all equal under Him. 2. Open that book intelligently so you can understand how you can't bow to God and the opinions of men at the same time. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 4:26pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Shevchenkko:The reason for that is IQ and submission are mutually exclusive. 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by ginggerxy: 4:27pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Streetbabah:it takes a woman with high IQ to know her role in the family , that's what submissiveness is all about. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Mariangeles(f): 4:30pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Senomi: Guy! No such thing as a sure game. You suppose know. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Daboomb: 4:32pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Zonefree: Dont mind the @Poster that is asking a really dumb question! Women who are intelligent, who have high I.Q, who are successful and have self dignity, have No Prolemo respecting their Husbands or any man for that matter and they also get respect in return. It is the Woorwor-Face, empty head, No future ambition types who have nothing to show, that are always trying to instigate a gender-fight against men, to make-up for their lack of intellect and internal ugliness. 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 4:33pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Our guys will always chose submissive ladies with no brains maybe because most of them can't match up with a high IQ lady. They believe a lady with high IQ will challenge them and they will appear dumb most of the time. But real men with high IQ will go for women of high IQ because they know the value of such women. They know that a woman with high IQ can still be submissive around a responsible man who knows that women should be treated right. But a submissive woman may never grow and IQ let along having a high IQ. Won't respond to men with low IQ who may decide to call me demeaning names cos they feel attacked. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 4:34pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
ginggerxy:Wrong! A woman or man with high IQ would never want to submit in anyway or form to another human being - man or woman. 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by inumidun2010(m): 4:36pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Well, to start with, GOD placed CURSE on MAN, and not MARRIAGE...It was MAN who SINNED not the INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE.... MARRIAGE was not DEVISED by MAN , GOD was the CHIEF- PLANNING OFFICER.... JESUS redeemed MAN from the CURSE of the LAW.. THERES NOTHING LIKE CURSE OF MARRIAGE.... MOSES BROUGHT THE LAW, MARRIAGE existed before MOSES... |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by 2buffagain(m): 4:36pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
When it comes to these things, its a spectrum. My preferred spectrum: 60% IQ 40% submissive. I don't need a door mat. She can disagree with me so long as it is done respectfully. She must not be careless with her mouth. I have been with a veeeery dumb and submissive woman before and I don't want that for my self or my children. Everything falls on you. You cannot even delegate important things to her to manage, because you cannot trust that she has the good sense to perform it without your direct oversight. That's no way to run a family. It is good to know that certain things are being handled without your direct management of said thing. I want to be able to travel for business while knowing that all is well at home because the commanding officer while I am away is not dumb. 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by angelfallz(m): 4:37pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
The OP framed the question in a very bad way. He makes it look like a submissive woman is dull, which is not the case. Your comment further pushes that way of thinking, that a woman who is submissive is dull. Anyway to each his own. MISSCONGENIALITY: |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Ayinke93(f): 4:37pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Who go marry us wey no Dey submissive bayi (pulling my hair and shedding hot tears on the road ) |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by ValeeLove(m): 4:39pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Why look for one when you can have both. A high IQ woman will be submissive to a high IQ man. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by SenecaTheYonger: 4:40pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
wallrichy: Exactly. Plus your kids are going to be smart because kids usually inherit their mother’s intelligence |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by ginggerxy: 4:42pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:being intelligent does not equate to going to school. Being arrogant does not equate to being intelligent. To me knowing your role in any relationship and playing it right is what submissiveness means and not really being dumb and willing to take anything thrown at you. 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 4:42pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
angelfallz:That's why i added that a woman with high IQ can still be submissive with the right man by her. 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by rayval(m): 4:44pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
macrodata: you now added strive.... |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by angelfallz(m): 4:44pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Oh sorry, I must have missed that part. MISSCONGENIALITY: |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by BalogunIdowu(m): 4:46pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
A wife with IQ can still be submissive! Tm |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by BRATISLAVA: 4:46pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Why don't women ask these same questions, seeing as men aren't intelligent as much as they think women aren't? The way men ask these dumb questions you would think intelligence is criteria for only women when there are many dumb, low IQed men with such debates. When will women begin to marry men with high IQs? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by ninocia18(m): 4:50pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Streetbabah: Bad character spoils every intelligence or ability or gift a spouse has to bring to the table. Give me a submissive wife and I'll create a woman with will marvel the world. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Ayinke93(f): 4:50pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
What kills me about this submission thing is the only men I’ve seen demanding it like their lives depend on it are insecure, broke and have nothing going on for them and only seek a sense of relevance from the women they are romantically involved with. Most can’t even guide themselves to make reasonable live changing decisions, but you want me to submit myself to you. Real case of a blind man leading. See them willing to substitute IQ for “submission”. It’s hilarious. Unna go Dey alright. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 4:50pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
inumidun2010:Again, stop reading that book upside down. . 1. In Genesis 3 vs 16(a) you are told by God that the curse only applies to men and women in marriage meaning that curse is on marriage and does not affect those who are not in marriage. 2. There is no such thing as the curse of the Law so i suggest you review these silly ideas and beliefs you hold to since they have no meaning. The curse Jesus Christ came to save(Salvation) from is the condemnation of sin aka Death and this is as defined by God in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 this as explained in the Gospels starting in John 3 vs 16 - 21. |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 4:57pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
ginggerxy:As I already tried several times to explain at this point, a high IQ is not a measure of your intelligence but instead a measure of your ability to apply critical reasoning skills in situations. Where intelligence and submission can coexist, great IQ and submission cannot coexist this since these are mutually exclusive ideas. The idea of roles on relationships, for instance, may make sense to the intelligent, but such things become easily meaningless as you go up the IQ quotient rule, this since individuals with high IQ value such things as equality and individual responsibility higher than an individual's gender claims. 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by razible5384(m): 4:59pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Cutehector:ur very right bruv....except say she no love you |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by alphaNomega: 5:01pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
macrodata: I can show you a unicorn if you want. This one is blue |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by razible5384(m): 5:01pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
lolu2019: |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by uncleFola(m): 5:02pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
I have both in my wife |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by alphaNomega: 5:02pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Blunttruth: Leave us with our insecurities, send us submissive women please |
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by razible5384(m): 5:06pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
illumined999333:ur right bruv.....my own be say,as long as she can construct simple English an express herself well, am good to go....to hell with IQ 3 Likes |
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