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Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by CAPSLOCKED: 9:11am On Mar 25, 2022 |
IT'S CALLED HAVING STANDARDS AND NOT SETTLING FOR LESS. ANY PUBLIC OPINION YOU TAKE AGAINST YOUR OWN FAVOR WILL ALWAYS RUIN YOU LONG TERM BECAUSE IT'S CLEAR FROM ALL THAT YOU CAN SEE THAT THE PUBLIC'S OPINION WILL ALWAYS BE INCLINED TOWARDS PITYING WOMEN. OUT THERE IT DOESN'T MATTER IF SHE HITS YOU EVERYDAY OR HAVE STABBED YOU IN THE EYES. YOU'RE CONSIDERED THE DEMON IF YOU EVER DREAM OF LEAVING A NAGGING WORTHLESS LAZY WOMAN. BUT SHE'S FREE TO LEAVE YOU ANYWAYS EVEN IF YOU'VE GIVEN HER THE UNIVERSE. DOESN'T MATTER. ONLY HER HAPPINESS DOES. THIS IS THE REASON WHY YOU MUST DO THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT THE PUBLIC WANTS YOU TO DO ESPECIALLY IF YOUR SANITY AND GOALS AREN'T BEING CONSIDERED. IT'S NOT A CRIME TO HAVE STANDARDS. UNFORTUNATELY, MOST MEN HAVEN'T REALIZED THIS AND STILL FALL FOR THE PITY BLAME GAME. TkhGuy, PUT YOURSELF FIRST. ALWAYS. EVERYTIME. 500 TIMES EVERYDAY. IT'S ONE OF THE FEW SECRETS OF LIVING A HEALTHY AND HAPPY AND LONGER LIFE. 12 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by franchasng: 9:13am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Wittyduchess:The evil men do now lives with them no longer after them. Some people believe all is well with evil politicians that did all sorts of evil to be in power, these politicians give them encouragement to also become evil. But most don't know what they pass through even in their family life. In life, always show empathy |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by Toktee(m): 9:14am On Mar 25, 2022 |
melayemi:You see nigeria girls ehn....sense erude them....a guy is dating you and you talk to him like your agemate...you pick a fight at every given chance, you call him names etc..yet you expect him to marry you......Dear guys any girl that is not afraid of you now that you have mot said "i do" dump her asap....she is not afraid of you as a girl friend what will happened if you finally marry her? 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by ShawtCake(f): 9:15am On Mar 25, 2022 |
TkhGuy:You are a robustful idiott!! |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by CAPSLOCKED: 9:15am On Mar 25, 2022 |
MARTINEZ39S I'M SURPRISED THAT I'M MEETING MY ALTERNATE MONIKER FOR THE FIRST TIME. ABI TkhGuy HAVE YOU BEEN SPYING ON MY REAL LIFE? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by Nobody: 9:16am On Mar 25, 2022 |
franchasng:I still dey pray for the op. A person who sees a lady insisting on condom as lack of trust has issues . Make I nor talk . Goodluck to the op. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by mabea: 9:16am On Mar 25, 2022 |
wisdomkid:I wonder how you take pass exam for school. Even if you read this article a thousand time you would still not comprehend. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by franchasng: 9:17am On Mar 25, 2022 |
CAPSLOCKED:While putting your interest first, always have empathy if you truly want to live a fulfilling life free of later predicaments. Life is mysterious more than most of you believe. Nobody said the op should marry a girl that didn't meet his standards, but while doing your standards, apply wisdom and empathy. He ought not to have allowed the relationship to have lasted for 3 years, he should have cut tiies completely with her months ahead to minimize the pains 3 Likes |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by woleabayo(f): 9:17am On Mar 25, 2022 |
u can bleeb ............................... |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by Olam09(m): 9:18am On Mar 25, 2022 |
TkhGuy: You don mad.. after wasting her 3 years.. you come post here defending your dumbass action. Fùck you! 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by AntiAPC2023(f): 9:18am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Wittyduchess:Mynd44 Seun Dominique Justwise OAM4J Dragnet Lalasticlala rule 2 |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by VirileNelly2420: 9:18am On Mar 25, 2022 |
harqinhola:Marriage isnt all about bleeping! And not every relationship leads to marriage. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by mabea: 9:20am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Wittyduchess:And that's the only thing you could pick from the whole article. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by Nobody: 9:20am On Mar 25, 2022 |
AntiAPC2023:So you didn't see where I was insulted first? For all we know it could be my nephew's age mate behind that moniker. You mods allow kids with no home triaining come of his forum and make a mess . Many old timers have stopped commenting some have stopped coming here all together. Smh.I am sure that thing will not be quick to throw insults if he perceived it was a guy behind the moniker. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by PericomaNwankwo: 9:20am On Mar 25, 2022 |
People that are hating on the writer, did you guys not read where he stated that he pointed out these dislikes earlier on to the girl and yet she couldn't adjust?? 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by AntiAPC2023(f): 9:21am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Wittyduchess:explain that to the mods. Enjoy your ban and when your ban elapses you'll learn how to control your mouth on a public forum. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by Nobody: 9:23am On Mar 25, 2022 |
AntiAPC2023:You are barking at the wrong tree and I know it's a guy behind this moniker. . Probably the alternate of the mannerless kid. Your mentor called his widowed mother worse names and it was pushed to front page,I am sure you were part of the people that high five him as well,most likely with your other monikers 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by SenatePresdo(m): 9:23am On Mar 25, 2022 |
TkhGuy: You should have left her earlier so she could look for her match, 3 years is quite long. Nevertheless, you made the right choice. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by CAPSLOCKED: 9:23am On Mar 25, 2022 |
SIRTee15: EMOTIONAL CLOWNS. FROM THIS STORY, SHE'S BEEN THE ONE WASTING THE GUY'S TIME. FROM DAY 1 HE KEPT PUSHING HER AWAY BUT SHE KEPT COMING BACK, AND EVENTUALLY STRETCHED IT FOR 3 YEARS. DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY LADIES THE GUY WOULD HAVE MET IN 3 YEARS? DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY OPPORTUNITIES AND BLESSINGS SHE HAS BEEN BLOCKING FROM HIS WAY ALL THIS TIME? HE NEVER DECEIVED HER WITH MARRIAGE PROMISES. FROM ONSET HE KEPT TELLING HER THAT IT CANNOT WORK BUT SHE CONTINUED TO COME AND CRY AND BEG, BUT NEVER DID ANYTHING REASONABLE. 3 WHOLE YEARS OF THE GUY PUSHING HER AWAY BECAUSE OF HER BAD CHARACTER AND SHE KEPT GOING BACK WITH EVEN WORSE CHARACTER. NOT A SINGLE CHANGE DID SHE IMPLEMENT. WHAT'S THERE TO LOVE OR CHERISH ABOUT THIS KIND OF PERSON? KEEP PLAYING THE CLOWN'S GAME. MARRIED MEN REGRET SOME OF THEIR EARLIER DECISIONS BECAUSE THEY LISTENED TO SOME OF THE NONSENSE THINGS YOU PEOPLE ALWAYS HAD TO SAY TO JUSTIFY WOMEN'S BAD BEHAVIORS. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by Nobody: 9:24am On Mar 25, 2022 |
mabea:And you should pick what you want to pick. The forum is big enough ,isn't it? 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by LastProphet: 9:24am On Mar 25, 2022 |
You found a slave, you were looking for a slave and thank God you found one. I hope you will allow the ladies to rest now having found the 'perfect' woman who cannot question or debate your decisions even if they wrong, not well thought out or even childish. I don't know where all these myopic requirements for what a 'good wife' should be is coming from? I'm just sad for Africa. I have 2 sisters that have elevated their husbands by taking most of the decisions for them, so I don't get it why boys/men think that every boy is smarter than every girl, I'm just tired of this society. Let's hope your slave will serve you well young man |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by CAPSLOCKED: 9:26am On Mar 25, 2022 |
franchasng: YEAH LETS TALK ABOUT EMPATHY. BUT NOT FOR THE HUNGRY STREET CHILDREN OR FOR A UNITED NATION WHERE TRIBALISM SHOULDN'T PERSIST. ONLY WHEN IT COMES TO A MAN MAKING A PROPER DECISION THAT COULD CHANGE HIS LIFE FOREVER SHOULD WE REMEMBER HOW MYSTERIOUS LIFE IS. 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by Martinez39s(m): 9:26am On Mar 25, 2022 |
talk2hb1:Don't mind them. Just like women, the op has the right to change his mind. Just like women, the op has the right to upgrade to he perceives to be a better option when he wants. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by Powersurge: 9:26am On Mar 25, 2022 |
TkhGuy: To slap u dey hungry me. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by kevotek1000(m): 9:27am On Mar 25, 2022 |
TkhGuy: Bro you are funny... The said new catch go kill you, it's better you manage your 3years relationship. Women na manage no better one. God has bless with one that you can change over time to suit your likings but devil dey try deceive you. If can't manage a woman's character, then you can marry a woman. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by Mikesol: 9:27am On Mar 25, 2022 |
harqinhola: |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by hobat4cash(m): 9:28am On Mar 25, 2022 |
medriano:go back and read carefully with understanding what the op wrote and look again at that thing u just typed up there and see if u made sense. so for your mind he should wife her just because they were on and off together for 3 years? |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by 0taPiaPia(m): 9:28am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Blunttruth: Baba what are you even saying. So if you date, it must automatically translate to marriage. No make me vex dis early morning 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by rayval(m): 9:28am On Mar 25, 2022 |
No sentiments.. Good you told her the truth. Marriage no be your mate especially if you want to be happy in Life |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by Acidosis(m): 9:29am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Imagine saying that you can date a rude girl but can't have one for a wife. It's unfortunate but this is largely the case for many guys out there (I made a lengthy post about this yesterday or so). I don't have issues with dating for the sake of exploring, fun, etc. But when marriage becomes your expectation from your man, be sure your man really wants a marriage with you. 99% of Nigerian men will "toast" and date Chidinma, the Nigerian Prisons pageant. It's only when marriage becomes the goal they begin to remember their mothers' favourite hair colour and how their grandma prefers Anambra and not Ebonyi Igbo women. 3 Likes |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by Martinez39s(m): 9:29am On Mar 25, 2022 |
harqinhola:Sex material isn't necessarily wife material. Let them sink in. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Am Getting Married & She Burst Into Tears by Ogunleti01: 9:30am On Mar 25, 2022 |
PericomaNwankwo:And why didn't he drop her then. Nah by force to instill your own value in people? This is a case of pure greed. If anything is not bring satisfaction or joy to you do you wait till eternity to correct it yourself when you know you are not constraint to do so? |
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