Avoid her and Avoid the devil now.

Asking for advice on nairaland were frustration Don kill so many people, instead of giving mature advice they come for you with insults. Lots of people are shitty in this country. If you have nothing reasonable to say to the man why not just move on, must you abuse someone. so many people need therapy in this country.

Sixfiguresmart:
So, she felt bored since she moved in from her previous base. She got not friends around and was always home. Friends has a tasking job.
So, he asked me to call her sometimes when I am free. I call and we have healthy conversations for hours. I am very cautious of any emotional strings. I spell it out to her in clever ways during the conversations.

However, it is becoming addictive. She obliges to certain things only when I ask her to even after declining her husband's suggestions. My friend is so soft and can't seem to handle a tough and educated lady like her.
So, she compares me to him few times and wants him to be like me in terms of being conversational and humurous. Her man isn't willing to change.

So, I am distancing myself away from her because it is becoming an addiction for her to express herself freely with me and spend more time with me rather than my friend. I step in each time they quarrel.

Should I continue the healthy conversation spree or continue with my busy shedule excuses?

Try and fathom what is going to happen if eventually you betray the trust your friend has in you.The lady will eventually sleep around but don't allow that to happen with you.

please continue and if she mumu her kpekus for you, knack am. i trust myself

Reduce the conversation


I know you don't have bad intentions but you don't know about her

Sixfiguresmart:
So, she felt bored since she moved in from her previous base. She got not friends around and was always home. Friends has a tasking job.
So, he asked me to call her sometimes when I am free. I call and we have healthy conversations for hours. I am very cautious of any emotional strings. I spell it out to her in clever ways during the conversations.

However, it is becoming addictive. She obliges to certain things only when I ask her to even after declining her husband's suggestions. My friend is so soft and can't seem to handle a tough and educated lady like her.
So, she compares me to him few times and wants him to be like me in terms of being conversational and humurous. Her man isn't willing to change.

So, I am distancing myself away from her because it is becoming an addiction for her to express herself freely with me and spend more time with me rather than my friend. I step in each time they quarrel.

Should I continue the healthy conversation spree or continue with my busy shedule excuses?

You're a bad friend for even been uncomfortable with your friends wife

“ I call and we have healthy conversations for hours” - Get yourself a job and get busy.

Everybody no say the country got nothing to offer, na person wife abi na your friends wife to be you wan dey shai her konja! Ask those who tried it and how it ended for them! If you like become become John the Baptist everytime they quarrel that one na your business. The day kasala go burst na your body go tell you.

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Your life is about to be ruined

Sixfiguresmart:
So, she felt bored since she moved in from her previous base. She got not friends around and was always home. Friends has a tasking job.
So, he asked me to call her sometimes when I am free. I call and we have healthy conversations for hours. I am very cautious of any emotional strings. I spell it out to her in clever ways during the conversations.

However, it is becoming addictive. She obliges to certain things only when I ask her to even after declining her husband's suggestions. My friend is so soft and can't seem to handle a tough and educated lady like her.
So, she compares me to him few times and wants him to be like me in terms of being conversational and humurous. Her man isn't willing to change.

So, I am distancing myself away from her because it is becoming an addiction for her to express herself freely with me and spend more time with me rather than my friend. I step in each time they quarrel.

Should I continue the healthy conversation spree or continue with my busy shedule excuses?

Flaunt your wife around her...

Talk more about Jesus whenever you're with her. Form busy for her, but on a coded way. Kill communication stealthily

You know what to do deep down but since you want to hear from other people, here you go...
*throws packet of advice*...
RUN AWAY FROM HER!
LEAVE HER ALONE!!!
STOP PICKING HER CALLS & LAUGHING WITH HER.
TELL HER TO DROP YOU MESSAGES, THAT YOU ARE USUALLY BUSY.

ADVICE YOURSELF!!!
Shalom

Chidi2022:
So in this world of Facebook videos, instagram, TikTok and the likes,,,,, it is your phone calls that will cure a married woman boredom? You must be a jobless comedian, for you to dedicate hours to cure a married woman boredom.....
Let me tell you what will happen.....
You and that loose married woman will end up cheating on your partners, then when her husband finds out, she will shift the whole blame on your brainless head, either by saying you raped her, or you jazzed and manipulated her, then you will fallout with your friend because he will not believe you no matter how much you explain.....
You clearly know this your (married woman boredom killer) job will land you in trouble, yet you continued it BECAUSE that head that is bound to recieve a knock will receive it, no matter how many face cap that head is putting on.... Goodluck, if you come out of this self inflicted mess with your head intact.... Good night...

GBAM!
You don't hear now,run for your life, na married woman,your friend's wife ni o!
Ohun ti ko da ko da,ko da'
Remember Chief Commander- Ebenezer Obey Song'

Communicate less with your friend's wife.

Even though this story could be made up by anybody, it doesn't mean such can't happen. All I'd advise you do is continue your healthy conversations with her. Don't bother climbing her. It's very dangerous. It brings downfall on men and renders them poor, no matter how rich or influential they could be in the society. God also frowns at sleeping with someone else's wife. So, discipline yourself and if you feel you're becoming tempted, cut her off run for your life.

KEEP OFF THEIR FAMILY!

Chidi2022:
So in this world of Facebook videos, instagram, TikTok and the likes,,,,, it is your phone calls that will cure a married woman boredom? You must be a jobless comedian, for you to dedicate hours to cure a married woman boredom.....
Let me tell you what will happen.....
You and that loose married woman will end up cheating on your partners, then when her husband finds out, she will shift the whole blame on your brainless head, either by saying you raped her, or you jazzed and manipulated her, then you will fallout with your friend because he will not believe you no matter how much you explain.....
You clearly know this your (married woman boredom killer) job will land you in trouble, yet you continued it BECAUSE that head that is bound to recieve a knock will receive it, no matter how many face cap that head is putting on.... Goodluck, if you come out of this self inflicted mess with your head intact.... Good night...

GBAM!
You don't hear now,run for your life!

Chidi2022:
Yippee.... And you never told me.... you for give me hint for Whatsapp naaa.... Happy birthday to you.....
You will live and prosper in every aspect of life...The blessings of the Almighty God will never depart from you.....Wetin you want?? You go manage card?

hol am there abeg. make una no kindle love for this love forum, con put fuel for fire wey dey burn so.

Sixfiguresmart:
So, she felt bored since she moved in from her previous base. She got not friends around and was always home. Friends has a tasking job.
So, he asked me to call her sometimes when I am free. I call and we have healthy conversations for hours. I am very cautious of any emotional strings. I spell it out to her in clever ways during the conversations.

However, it is becoming addictive. She obliges to certain things only when I ask her to even after declining her husband's suggestions. My friend is so soft and can't seem to handle a tough and educated lady like her.
So, she compares me to him few times and wants him to be like me in terms of being conversational and humurous. Her man isn't willing to change.

So, I am distancing myself away from her because it is becoming an addiction for her to express herself freely with me and spend more time with me rather than my friend. I step in each time they quarrel.

Should I continue the healthy conversation spree or continue with my busy shedule excuses?

Home breaker spotted.

[/b]Just the same way a man dates the friend of the gal he can't have just so he can be near the one he really wants is pretty much the way women sometimes reason these things. [b]

Do people really do this Is that not a waste of time?

You are enjoying the attention, otherwise you know what to do

That is why husbands should always call their wives as often as possible especially when she is not at home.

Women are not that rigid.

Na man wey give Dem attention Dem go follow.

Some women, it's their male co-workers that call them day and night to know how they are and if they have gotten home safely from work, while the husband does not give a whit where his wife is.

And you think that woman will not cheat?

If she does not cheat, na small go remain.

MoneyGoDrop:
LordIsaac
Many men do it, because they are innocent themselves. One entrusted his wife into my care. She uses the opportunity to tell me "all she's going through" in his hand and I offer words of comfort, knowing I was dealing with a big baby in an adult's body. One day, I was with her till 7pm and it began to rain seriously, she entreated me to sleep over. I declined the offer and left in the rain (even without an umbrella) because I remembered how Scripture captured it: "whoever goes into his neighbour's wife shall not be innocent." That day was the last of me she saw because she was somewhat growing fond of me. In this life, one needs wisdom. If you take fire "into your bosom" you will be burned.

There are alot of loveless marriages these days. I went to my cousin house that got married 2 years old and immediately you step into their flat,you will feel the huge tension in the air. The husband and wife were practically flatmates and nothing else. Within my first one week there,his wife was already all over me, telling that her husband doesn't love her anymore and that he hasn't made love to her in a year. Whenever she found me alone,she will rush to me and start a conversation and i quickly arranged for another accommodation and left their flat. I was suppose to stay a month there but i left under 2 weeks because i didn't want to have anything to do with her. Also she was about my age and really beautiful

It is really a trap one must be deliberate about escaping. Nothing must be left to chance.

Sixfiguresmart:
So, she felt bored since she moved in from her previous base. She got not friends around and was always home. Friends has a tasking job.
So, he asked me to call her sometimes when I am free. I call and we have healthy conversations for hours. I am very cautious of any emotional strings. I spell it out to her in clever ways during the conversations.

However, it is becoming addictive. She obliges to certain things only when I ask her to even after declining her husband's suggestions. My friend is so soft and can't seem to handle a tough and educated lady like her.
So, she compares me to him few times and wants him to be like me in terms of being conversational and humurous. Her man isn't willing to change.

So, I am distancing myself away from her because it is becoming an addiction for her to express herself freely with me and spend more time with me rather than my friend. I step in each time they quarrel.

Should I continue the healthy conversation spree or continue with my busy shedule excuses?

so ur own wife is not complaining?

it wont be long before she will be bouncing on your dic*k, women i know them very well and also what they are capable of

This is dangerous, run for your dear life if you truly love your friend ,women have so many ways to lure whosoever they have feelings for .RUN

Dickson178:
Na God go punish you if you spoiled their peaceful home

Just like that??

There is no such thing as being too soft in a relationship ( expecially marriage). Couples are supposed to be soft with each other except where one has an emotional problem. The lady in question is a slot and isn't the loyal type so be careful about the fake attention you are getting from her, when she gets what she wants ( a disloyal friend of her husband), she will move to another of her husband's friend. It's her own way of feeling in control.

Sixfiguresmart:
So, she felt bored since she moved in from her previous base. She got not friends around and was always home. Friends has a tasking job.
So, he asked me to call her sometimes when I am free. I call and we have healthy conversations for hours. I am very cautious of any emotional strings. I spell it out to her in clever ways during the conversations.

However, it is becoming addictive. She obliges to certain things only when I ask her to even after declining her husband's suggestions. My friend is so soft and can't seem to handle a tough and educated lady like her.
So, she compares me to him few times and wants him to be like me in terms of being conversational and humurous. Her man isn't willing to change.

So, I am distancing myself away from her because it is becoming an addiction for her to express herself freely with me and spend more time with me rather than my friend. I step in each time they quarrel.

Should I continue the healthy conversation spree or continue with my busy shedule excuses?

That's after the 20yrs of marriage the man will just find out that his best friend is the father of his kids.
Assistant husband weldone o

This said lady will have blended with her husband by now, but because of your intrusion, she is completely confused, between her absent husband and her present husband's friend. Danger looms at the corner and is going to be bloody. Stay off and stay clear because three is a crowd in a marriage arrangement.

The Devil using you.
You smell it but can't see it

Your decision
I no dey here o