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Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by YourHighTension: 10:42am On Jul 07, 2022 |
Truth. Interestingly, it's also difficult for ladies in this category to find husbands too. 9 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by JBriel: 11:13am On Jul 07, 2022 |
topsquino: K.O 4 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by Markshevy(m): 11:25am On Jul 07, 2022 |
JBriel: I understand your point,some of the rejections are some time out of the lady's confusion or the lady feeling you are too high class for her to blend in. 1 Like |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by JBriel: 11:38am On Jul 07, 2022 |
Markshevy: Hahaha. A lady felt this way with me, about me being too high class for her inspite of her high pay Mobil job and .. I felt for her. Some of them kinda feel that way sha. But we also worked on our selves for years to extremely highly refined standard too na. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by peacemara54(m): 12:33pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
You better give your life to Jesus only him can give you a peaceful and blessed wife. Beauty, character, gift and all other qualities specified , will fail you. Only Jesus cannot fail 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by RemiAbdulSamad(m): 12:57pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Goodnigga:on point man |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by sunnedee2: 2:30pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
This is one of the best threads here with no name calling etc. That being said, someone already gave you the answer. OP, Go to any University for a course. This will open many doors at once: 1) You are forced to be in the University environment. 2). Your presence on Campus brings you in close proximity with lots of girls of all ages and background. 3) You can now make your choice after your due diligence. The keyword here is "due diligence". Girls on Campus are not smiling. Goodluck in your quest. 12 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by franchasofficia: 3:41pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
JoyousFurnitire:The op is right. I have a very close friend who is still single and having same issue. This guy is educated, an Accountant. He heads his company's account department at his young age. Aside being an accountant, he has a flourishing small fintech business with 5 staffs. He lives in what I may call a family mansion alone. He has met hundreds of ladies and none is up to what he desires or what we his close friends consider okay. He is either meeting hungry, broke opportunists or ladies above 37 with good job though but he want something around 27 to 29. This guy has tried almost all social media platforms, Facebook, etc still same class of babes. Right now I de pity him cos it seems his spec of girls aren't in Nigeria again lol Our Nigerian ladies need to work on themselves and try to upgrade at early age. The younger ones seems to be immature, unserious and act too foolish. The older ones are more mature, cool headed, financially independent but like the op said, the girlie vibes and beauty is almost gone. The remaining beauty in them is now money induced beauty using beauty products and all those artificial enhancements. I pity single people of this age, e no easy to find your taste as a well to do young man. This is where studying abroad at undergraduate stage gives advantage cos it seems the type of chicks op want are all schooling abroad or they schooled abroad and have been taken by their Nigerian course mates and school mates abroad 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by franchasofficia: 3:45pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
sunnedee2:The breed of ladies the op want are rarely found in Nigerian universities, unless the few high-end private universities, even those ones like CU, Madonna, Igbinedion, etc have been infiltrated by the same class of chicks the op is complaining about. Most Nigerian female students now belong to Yahoo plus fellow male students and the politicians. Go to Baze University, your politicians like Dino and co have collabi all the finest chicks you think are refined ajebo girls, sadly. Unless op will find his way to APTI Yola, i think he will find some of the refined breed of chicks there, but you see CU, Baze University, Igbinedion, Madonna, etc, I doubt 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by Jijuo: 3:56pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Quality girls in Nigeria? Hahahaha. 2 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by Tickles001(m): 4:06pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
bigpicture001:This is very true, but most ladies will choose to disagree with you on this. Every fine girl will choose flamboyancy over character any time. They only look for less classy guys, when the classy ones have finished their youthfulness and does want them anymore. That's when you see them looking for a god-fearing man (what ever that means). The game was already started before we were born. I'll recommend you don't rush things no matter what. Keep meeting a lot of girls in your spec and don't show them much seriousness or give signs of commitment. Out of many, there must be a few that would ask you to marry them. Throwing marriage vibes can be a turn off most times 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by Hayee(f): 4:34pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
I swear this thread sweet me die Look at the way they are cracking their brains trying to look for the exact place or spots to find good women Dear Op there is nothing wrong in raising your standards high oo But if you eventually find these ideal women, are you also up to their standards Because obviously those high class women will also have their own standards, how are you sure you are even their standard No when you meet them you now start preaching "you know nobody is perfect" 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by bigpicture001: 4:53pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Tickles001: Ok.. tanks |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by Raalsalghul: 5:02pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Tickles001: Lol @ God fearing. You no add "responsible", "family-oriented" and "mature". |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by SeaTrade(m): 5:04pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Raalsalghul: 1 Like |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by Raalsalghul: 5:07pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
SeaTrade: Honestly. After understanding the life cycle of women, I then do not blame guys that are fixated on marrying Virgins. Had a female friend telling me to introduce any friend I know who's ready to settle down. She has forgotten she told me she used to sleep with married men when she was younger. Of course, men plenty wey go marry am but no be from my recommendation. 27 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by SeaTrade(m): 5:11pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Raalsalghul:Some men sef go know all these things yet still marry them like that and erase their history. Mostly men weh life be don tough for them sha. Especially when the woman get money,ahh they throw preference out the window. So all a woman needs to do to ear her cake and have it is just to be comfortable, Husbands full ground,na responsible ones scarce. And I wouldn't advise anybody weh don toil to achieve the capacity to be responsible to marry an old or a whoring woman. Trust me there's no gain to it. All that their so called maturity they get in their 30s is born out of too much experience and pretense. Besides the greatest gift a man can ever enjoy from a woman is her youthfulness,every other thing is secondary. So why should I marry you when you can't give me a woman's greatest gift? Go and check,most adulterous men have old ,tired looking women as wives at home. No single joy 25 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by Tickles001(m): 5:16pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Raalsalghul: ...and ice it with "must have something doing" and "ready to settle down" 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by Guderian(m): 5:47pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Honestly ive seen people with like minds on this thread. But op i hope the physical shape is not the major thing you after. I think if you can travel to other countries like SA rwanda and others you can meet your specs their. Best place to see them in naija ought to be the campuses but it's filled with alot of gold diggers Some churches are also good spot. High class restaurants are good also. shoprite and cinemas is a hot spot for the age you looking for but you must be able to differentiate between gold diggers and what you want 2 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by zed7: 6:06pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Interesting but unfortunately you guys are getting it wrong. If you want a happy marriage, focus on a good girl. Status should not be the focus, if it comes with her good personality, then fine. There are so many good girls who don't come from affluent homes. Just make sure her family has self pride and are not leeches. Just realize that women marry up. A certain category of women don't want you even though you think you are well to do, they want better. Look for the good ones who want you. They make better wives. Free advice from someone who's been there. 24 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by Bakare19: 6:29pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
zed7:Correct submission 3 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by Ulunne777(f): 6:36pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
;DYou have been patronizing Ashawos since the first day you made your money no you want a homely girl. Nwanneni,Get the wild one that will match your demons biko 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by luminouz(m): 6:50pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
bigpicture001: You still sound a bit bitter about your experiences. You need to fix that. Then, are you a redpiller? If not, alaye, join quick. A woman's words are not what you check, her actions are. 6 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by luminouz(m): 7:02pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Been long I came across a thread filled with constructive, logical and healthy discussions. That there are men not willing to settle for less, gladens my heart too. One love 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by begoniaa: 8:20pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Lemme perch inside this thread and see if there is any damage I can wreck. 12 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by begoniaa: 8:21pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
luminouz: LMAOOOOO. See this one. Like this whole thread is not antithetical to the redpill movement? 7 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by begoniaa: 8:23pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
I KNOW if it was a group of feminist women wey gather for online forum dey discuss how to get or snag man like this, una for don invade am like a swarm of locusts and tsetse flies... But on behalf of other women, I will do the honours. 12 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by begoniaa: 8:31pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
But this has been a huge comic relief of a thread sha. See two-weeks-old newspapers and advanced bachelors gather dem dey talk about how to foist the so-called 'troublesome and useless' gender on their heads. Una dey find... good and worthy women for marriage? Hahahahahahaha! Wait fess. Is it kaikai or a kasapreko-induced delusion? Abi it is japata-inspired hallucinations making you think the kinda women you hope to get will be interested in men like y'all? Men will your characters and beliefs? So you stuff your mind with negativities and generalities about women, after conditioning your minds to always expecting some form of women and a kind of behaviour from them, and now that you are ready to settle down, you are expecting a miracle from heaven? You think you can suddenly spot a good woman? Pray tell, by what standards? Aren't all women master game players? So why you gon' find a "genuine" good woman anywhere? 20 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by begoniaa: 8:37pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Guys that are fond of calling women gold-diggers are now realising money isn't everything? How shocking! Another person is recommending a student. Na shift cropping and rotational cultivation thing I see. I thank God say at least na my turn to hear positive thing about my group. Tomorrow I will be back to the trenches where I am supposed to be broke and to have fked all guys and lecturers in my department. Even nonexisting of all people is recommending "classy, highly class and cerebral feminism-leaning women" who aren't man-focused. Another is recommending virgins. Another mentioned new generation pentecostal churches... The race for a wife, mehn... Is this you people online version of "Jehovah, carry me dey go...?" 20 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by begoniaa: 8:40pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
YourHighTension: Abeg, rest. Na lie. No be una dey discuss strategies on how to approach women for this thread? You think y'all are that hard to attract? 7 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by Shortcut2life: 8:46pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
begoniaa: Lol your assumption of men conditioning their women is an absurd lies … We all have our characters and most times it tends to contradict our actions or words towards the partners .. whatever you bring into a relationship that he doesn’t like doesn’t mean he has conditioned you on how to behave … Men just want their peace of mind life is too short to settle for a woman that will stress you the f** k out .. Making deliberations on how to achieve that is worthy on this forum … So keep your Peace and go rant your biased thought and anger somewhere else ..tor 4 Likes |
Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
JoyousFurnitire:bro it has nothing to do with profession |
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