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Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by pocohantas(f): 7:06am On Jul 19, 2022 |
Aaaaarghmed: By your father? Maybe 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Acidosis(m): 7:15am On Jul 19, 2022 |
The 5-year gap was a trophy to you, reason you couldn't stop talking and bragging about it like a damaged radio. According to you, you had that discussion with just two people? Really? Trophy wey more than 5,000 people have read online in your previous threads? Wait, after discussing your personal matter with colleagues, you went ahead to discuss the outcome of your gossip with your woman? What were you expecting? You're not ready for marriage so don't bother talking to another older woman. Settle for a 20 year old lady and wait 5-10 years before delving into marriage. 13 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by pocohantas(f): 7:21am On Jul 19, 2022 |
Acidosis: Thank heavens this is coming from a man. Na who no know them dey fit whine. Men don’t see women as trophies but as sex objects indeed. What won’t these alpha males say to make themselves feel better. Something wey we dey see everyday? You won’t hear the last of it from them. 10 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Magnoliaa(f): 8:30am On Jul 19, 2022 |
JASONjnr: Why are you, BabbanBura and all the other guys for that matter, judging (her) from a single story? I thought a single story is a very dangerous thing? I thought you all liked to hear from BOTH sides so as to give a BALANCED opinion? He mentioned how the lady said she felt... do you consider the manner in which the man told his friends how old she is? Do you consider how he might have portrayed her? So what's the issues or mistake older ladies make that you're on about? He's a simp for admitting his faults? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Magnoliaa(f): 8:33am On Jul 19, 2022 |
Gosh234: Yawns. If you feel nothing is wrong and you are in the right, what's the point of this thread? Carry the same pride go tell her say make she comot for your life na. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Aaaaarghmed(m): 8:36am On Jul 19, 2022 |
pocohantas:so,you were molested by a ghost.No wonder you type like a sicko. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by pocohantas(f): 8:40am On Jul 19, 2022 |
Aaaaarghmed: Exactly. Being a ghost didn’t take away his tendencies. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Calibrator: 9:13am On Jul 19, 2022 |
A man should know when to speak, what to speak and where to speak. One rule of dating older ladies: No matter the circumstances, never bring up the age difference and if she brings it up, shrug it off..... An older lady will only be bothered by the age difference if she notice that it bothers you. Use your sense waka no be leg! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Aaaaarghmed(m): 9:22am On Jul 19, 2022 |
pocohantas:now I know you are really a psycho.enjoy the Rape.Such a bitter person 4 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by pocohantas(f): 10:47am On Jul 19, 2022 |
Aaaaarghmed: Lol. You done vex? Na you start am na. Oya sorry. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Ishilove: 11:28am On Jul 19, 2022 |
pocohantas:LMAAAAAAAAOOOOOO!!! POCOHANTAS!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by pocohantas(f): 11:43am On Jul 19, 2022 |
Ishilove: They always try to take swipes at women with rape/molestation. Inadvertently admitting it indeed scars the victims. But when they see real life situations like Baba Ijesha’s case, they claim women overreact. When a lady says she was raped as a child, they say she is lying. He doesn’t care if I was raped as a child and would offer no closure. He just hoped that was the case, so he can reopen an old wound and hit below the belt. He had it coming… 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Ishilove: 11:49am On Jul 19, 2022 |
pocohantas:Well spoken, and I totally agree. Rape is not what should be used to score cheap points. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Magnoliaa(f): 12:03pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
pocohantas: The heights of... heights of what I don't even know! When they want to attack women, they believe rape does happen and destabilises a woman into adulthood... But a rape victim would come forward and they would downplay it, call her a liar and whatnot. 7 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by pocohantas(f): 12:25pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
Magnoliaa: Men know the truth, They only hate to hear it from women. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Acidbath: 12:35pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
Gosh234: In your older thread, you stated she proposed for marriage. You are not the one who proposed to her. You both know the pedophilic society you are in. And now you are telling people she is older than you. This ought not to be a big deal as it isn't abroad but to her,it is. If you had a job and were financially secure, I would believe every single thing you say about your love for her. I personally feel you wouldn't feel same if the reverse was the case. I don't know how wired you are psychologically so I won't say you are too young for marriage at 25. If you really love her, excuse her insecurities. When you wed and get her pregnant, her mind will come down. Edit: even the topic of the other thread you posted is enough to show you have doubts. That's why you have been discussing her age with your friends. You have your own insecurities as well. Let her go and huzzle for your money till the next 10 years. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Gosh234: 8:01am On Jul 20, 2022 |
crackhaus:Yea, I am keeping it for her then, if you lie , she will be like you are not proud of her, if you tell the truth, wahala ....... |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Gosh234: 8:11am On Jul 20, 2022 |
pocohantas:Awwwsh, sister easy, if you have problem with men I am not the cause of it Read well you see how mine happened Am not bragging or using mega phone to tell everyone She has a good physique that you can never know My act was out of love and never a mockery I love her despite whatever If I should lie now, you may start saying I am not proud of her or whatever , even here will say same thing Alright, I am at fault I have apologised And it's only these two that have known this That is settled 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Gosh234: 8:14am On Jul 20, 2022 |
kayperry:Lol....we settled already, I thought she was ending it |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Gosh234: 8:17am On Jul 20, 2022 |
Aaaaarghmed:Thanks for your comment, I learnt from there too, She too it so far, I wonder if I had issues with her before now |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Gosh234: 8:21am On Jul 20, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:I didn't portray her bad in any way |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Gosh234: 8:22am On Jul 20, 2022 |
Acidosis:Thanks � |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Gosh234: 8:24am On Jul 20, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:I am not into slavery or begging for love, I have apologised to her and we are good now , any other thing left ? 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Gosh234: 8:28am On Jul 20, 2022 |
Acidbath:In the previous thread, I had no job yet and we needed everything to happen so fast, hence creating the thread, am ok now , my only insecurity is not having enough of my own cos I don't know what tomorrow maybe 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by pocohantas(f): 8:38am On Jul 20, 2022 |
Gosh234: You settled? Trust me, that is your business. If I cared, I would have quoted you. I didn’t because I don’t care about you or your relationship. Do have a nice day, Younger Boyfriend. 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Aaaaarghmed(m): 8:48am On Jul 20, 2022 |
OP enjoy yourself jare,no big deal.younger guys dey handle older women on a steady.Marry her if she ticks what you want.life goes on.Forget those pained ladies and their comments. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Magnoliaa(f): 4:03pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
Gosh234: No, except to note the fact of you going back on your initial words , which prompted my comment earlier. Na you carry your mata come here...don't be fighting anybody in your head for their comments. Good day. 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by cococandy(f): 4:05pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
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Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by cococandy(f): 4:07pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
Couldn’t have said it better pocohantas: 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Magnoliaa(f): 4:14pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
Aaaaarghmed: Pained ladies? Who? Hiw/why are they pained? When men make generalizations about women, they are being realistic, but when women do the same, it's 'painment?' Please, make it make sense. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Aaaaarghmed(m): 6:20pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:stop Quoting me pls.go an be with your pained crew.Former first lady of taraba just married a younger guy,its on nairaland.Enjoy your opinion. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It A Crime To Admit That Your Spouse Is Older Than You? (my Story) by Magnoliaa(f): 6:56pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
Aaaaarghmed: You are posting your opinion on a public forum, and so anyone can quote you. Stop making such an unrealistic request... especially as you are also referring to me. You called me "pained" and then say I should leave you alone? No. I want to get exactly what the issue is. Which crew? Have I at any point mentioned on this site that I am a member of some organisation or group? And what exactly makes us "pained?" You haven't answered that; I want to know. I don't care if 95% of your response to me is insults, so long as there's a reasonable and logical 5% answer, and until then, I will do this back and forth with you—civilly. I should enjoy my opinion? Please, highlight anywhere I said that it is wrong for an older woman to marry a younger man... did I say it cannot be done? Did you read my comments at all before directing a generic 'accusation' at me? Or it's just sweet and convenient for you to lash out at me, for no reason? 3 Likes |
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