Poster the fact is she felt deceived.. If she had ever asked you your age and you lied .then know you gonna have trust issues.. if I were in her shoes I would equally feel bad. Just make her see reasons behind your actions and iron out things with her .what matters is mutual respect and feelings that's all .

You're such a SIMPle man.

Aaaaarghmed:
OP enjoy yourself jare,no big deal.younger guys dey handle older women on a steady.Marry her if she ticks what you want.life goes on.Forget those pained ladies and their comments.

I am marvelled at their attack ,made start thinking if I have had issue with any of them before now , nawaoo

malaria:
Poster the fact is she felt deceived.. If she had ever asked you your age and you lied .then know you gonna have trust issues.. if I were in her shoes I would equally feel bad. Just make her see reasons behind your actions and iron out things with her .what matters is mutual respect and feelings that's all .

We knew our respective ages before we got started, I have talked with her, settled that already

cc: Aaaaarghmed

Still kindly waiting for your "honourable" response.

Gosh234:
I am marvelled at their attack ,made start thinking if I have had issue with any of them before now , nawaoo

You did nothing wrong. They are always angry around here, even with men they never had an encounter with. I bet you they'll still be here hounding another young man in five years time.
It's their curse and burden, don't take it personal.

Magnoliaa:
cc: Aaaaarghmed

Still kindly waiting for your "honourable" response.

pls dont wait for me o..because am here making money,paper stacking,its what matters to me right now.Am done replying you.

Aaaaarghmed:
pls dont wait for me o..because am here making money,paper stacking,its what matters to me right now.Am done replying you.

Lol... so you admit you were making unfounded allegations and talking shit? Now you are running away? But you tried insulting someone with rape and called me pained...but when push comes to shove, you're scuttling away? You should know when you are online, whatever you are doesn't matter, darling. I did not ask you for your financial status and telling me that frankly reeks of a low self-esteem on your part; but that doesn't matter. You think because you are a man, you can come here to insult women anyhow. You can attempt to point out the speck in their eyes, while ignoring the log in your own eyes... now you are done? Na you start am sha.

Lemme see you say nonsense about me directly or indirectly again and we'll start this all over...

Have a great life until then.

KevinDein:
You did nothing wrong. They are always angry around here, even with men they never had an encounter with. I bet you they'll still be here hounding another young man in five years time.
It's their curse and burden, don't take it personal.

See kettle calling pot black. How many alternate accounts you don get for this NL? How many women have you trolled in your e-life?

Should I go and bring your own posts too and we critically analyse who is the bitter, cursed person with a burden always lashing out at people? Should I?

Have YOU ever had any encounter with me? Have we ever crossed paths on this NL? Oho, you're here talking rubbish about women you don't know as well, accusing them of the same thing.

How beautiful!

Magnoliaa:


Lol... so you admit you were making unfounded allegations and talking shit? Now you are running away? But you tried insulting someone with rape and called me pained...but when push comes to shove, you're scuttling away? You should know when you are online, whatever you are doesn't matter, darling. I did not ask you for your financial status and telling me that frankly reeks of a low self-esteem on your part; but that doesn't matter. You think because you are a man, you can come here to insult women anyhow. You can attempt to point out the speck in their eyes, while ignoring the log in your own eyes... now you are done? Na you start am sha.

Lemme see you say nonsense about me directly or indirectly again and we'll start this all over...

Have a great life until then.

see this ode.who said anything about financial status,you mumu o.so you already had an orgasm because I said am paper stacking.Chai,fish brain.look for your age mates to Quote. So you feel you can open your mouth and talk thrash.i don't give a Bleep about you or your pained crew,I have your time but not for long.useless females,any post that involves men,you gather yourselves and start feeling pained,spilling thrash.My dear na me dey run from females from work so I can concentrate on my plans.Dont need any bad luck right now,even you..stay far..no badluck no bad vibes.Only on nairaland you see some pained crew having orgasm when bashing men is involved.

Aaaaarghmed:
see this ode.who said anything about financial status,you mumu o.so you already had an orgasm because I said am paper stacking.Chai,fish brain.look for your age mates to Quote. So you feel you can open your mouth and talk thrash.i don't give a Bleep about you or your pained crew,I have your time but not for long.useless females,any post that involves men,you gather yourselves and start feeling pained,spilling thrash.My dear na me dey run from females from work so I can concentrate on my plans.Dont need any bad luck right now,even you..stay far..no badluck no bad vibes.Only on nairaland you see some pained crew having orgasm when bashing men is involved.

I know rolling in the mud is your forte, but I will not give you that satisfaction. When I was asking you sensible, logical questions, you were running away... now you say you have my time? Dude, you have told me "bye" like five times or so already, yet you still keep slithering back.

Let's go back in time; I have the patience:

Here's what I said-

cc: Aaaaarghmed

Still kindly waiting for your "honourable" response.

Here's what you replied-

pls dont wait for me o..because am here making money,paper stacking,its what matters to me right now.Am done replying you.

This is not you talking about your financial status?

So why do you feel as if you can ENTER me with the money part? YOU were the one talking about making money WITHOUT context, did I ask you? Every personal thing you have been telling me about yourself, did I ask for them? Except for the conjectures and baseless assumptions you are making about me, do you know anything about me? Have you seen me bragging about anything I have or do not have on this thread? As I said, we are in a faceless forum, and you do not know me, I do not matter, so what exactly are you trying to prove to me? Do you see now that reeks of a low self-esteem on your part?

Again, do you know my age? Why are you feeling seniority on top faceless forum?

Oh, now you're telling me about your love life. "Na me dey run from females from work...." Nigga, nobody cares. Do you want my validation? So stop grovelling at my feet, telling me things about you.

So let's go back to the original bone of contention ON THIS THREAD amidst your slush of insults- you're just throwing words around because it feels good, but for you to point something I did out is hard?

- Who and who are in my crew?
- What is the crew about?
- What makes you think we are pained?
- No matter what poco has said, does it warrant you asking her if she has been molested? If that does not speak on a vileness and an uncalled for meanness on your part, I don't know what else does...
- What thrash have I spilled on this thread?
- How have I displayed painment on this thread? You see you are the one that has been using insulting words on me all this while... it's not as if I cannot use my own back, but you don't worth it, and cannot make me do what I do not want to do. I choose to be civil and calm with you...
- Oh, you also talk about me having orgasm? Why do you want to be going sexual? Can you prove I had any orgasm or I am having one right now?
- WHERE did I say that a younger guy cannot or should not get married to an older lady? Is it not men rather that are always calling older women evening newspapers and old cargoes and say that an older woman cannot submit? If anything, my opinion has always been that people of any age can get married and love can be found anywhere, so long as the man and woman are of legal age (that a hint, and if you want to go through my posts for that, feel free. In fact, here's one - https://www.nairaland.com/5458083/akinwunmi-adesina-stop-marrying-small/10#114411873 - as far back as 2019).

So answer o. I want to understand why you are making up accusations and scenarios in your head and patching it on me.

Reply with insults again... Or ignore. These questions will still be here and if we jam on another thread and you indirectly talk to me, I will keep asking you the questions.

Magnoliaa:


I know rolling in the mud is your forte, but I will not give you that satisfaction. When I was asking you sensible, logical questions, you were running away... now you say you have my time? Dude, you have told me "bye" like five times or so already, yet you still keep slithering back.

Let's go back in time; I have the patience:

Here's what I said-


Here's what you replied-


This is not you talking about your financial status?

So why do you feel as if you can ENTER me with the money part? YOU were the one talking about making money WITHOUT context, did I ask you? Every personal thing you have been telling me about yourself, did I ask for them? Except for the conjectures and baseless assumptions you are making about me, do you know anything about me? Have you seen me bragging about anything I have or do not have on this thread? As I said, we are in a faceless forum, and you do not know me, I do not matter, so what exactly are you trying to prove to me? Do you see now that reeks of a low self-esteem on your part?

Again, do you know my age? Why are you feeling seniority on top faceless forum?

Oh, now you're telling me about your love life. "Na me dey run from females from work...." Nigga, nobody cares. Do you want my validation? So stop grovelling at my feet, telling me things about you.

So let's go back to the original bone of contention ON THIS THREAD amidst your slush of insults- you're just throwing words around because it feels good, but for you to point something I did out is hard?

- Who and who are in my crew?
- What is the crew about?
- What makes you think we are pained?
- No matter what poco has said, does it warrant you asking her if she has been molested? If that does not speak on a vileness and an uncalled for meanness on your part, I don't know what else does...
- What thrash have I spilled on this thread?
- How have I displayed painment on this thread? You see you are the one that has been using insulting words on me all this while... it's not as if I cannot use my own back, but you don't worth it, and cannot make me do what I do not want to do. I choose to be civil and calm with you...
- Oh, you also talk about me having orgasm? Why do you want to be going sexual? Can you prove I had any orgasm or I am having one right now?
- WHERE did I say that a younger guy cannot or should not get married to an older lady? Is it not men rather that are always calling older women evening newspapers and old cargoes and say that an older woman cannot submit? If anything, my opinion has always been that people of any age can get married and love can be found anywhere, so long as the man and woman are of legal age (that a hint, and if you want to go through my posts for that, feel free. In fact, here's one - https://www.nairaland.com/5458083/akinwunmi-adesina-stop-marrying-small/10#114411873 - as far back as 2019).

So answer o. I want to understand why you are making up accusations and scenarios in your head and patching it on me.

Reply with insults again... Or ignore. These questions will still be here and if we jam on another thread and you indirectly talk to me, I will keep asking you the questions.

I have to ask if she was molested because it's only someone who was molested that jumps around thread bashing men at any given opportunity.resist the urge to write me because am here trying to paper stack and all these your your writing doesn't affect it.infact send me your number so we can banter more.

Aaaaarghmed:
I have to ask if she was molested because it's only someone who was molested that jumps around thread bashing men at any given opportunity.resist the urge to write me because am here trying to paper stack and all these your your writing doesn't affect it.infact send me your number so we can banter more.

- How convenient for you... Why did you jump onto my question about her alone? All the ones I asked you nko? You no get answers for them? You're now talmabout 'don't write to me again.'

- So according to you, anybody that 'bashes' the opposite gender has certainly been molested. Awesome. I just hope to God you have never bashed women in all your time on NL, if not... That would also mean all the guys that bash women without reason, that hop from thread to thread insulting women have all been molested. Even on this thread alone, that is if you are not blind and biased, you can certainly see that some other guys bashed women too on the first pages, way before polo's comment, so if you did not have a vendetta against abd choose to be a bully, why did you single out her comment? Why did you not ask other guys if they've been molested as well? You're scared of them? KevinDein has bashed women plenty times, TheGidRedpiller too... should I go through your own posts too see if you've never bashed Women? Because if you want to call someone out for being molested for a reason or the other, you should be clean as well. Should I call all the OG women bashers on NL to this thread, so you can tag them victims of sexual abuse?

- And do you know what 'bashing' mean? What does someone have to write or post for it to qualify as bashing? What exactly did she say that is a bashing of men? Where are the posts she make from thread to thread bashing men?

- I have told you I do not give a fuk about what you do offline. What I am writing does not affect you, but you believe spreading misinformation about me and insulting on here is not painting me bad. How nice... you think this is bant? Look, don't make me lose the little civility I have been showing you. You have been insulting me and making unfounded claims about me and now you want to spin it around into a joking matter. Do some of you think at all? Trash-talking women is sports to you? Please, I beg you with the name of anything you serve, maintain your hostile energy.

Magnoliaa:


- How convenient for you... Why did you jump onto my question about her alone? All the ones I asked you nko? You no get answers for them? You're now talmabout 'don't write to me again.'

- So according to you, anybody that 'bashes' the opposite gender has certainly been molested. Awesome. I just hope to God you have never bashed women in all your time on NL, if not... That would also mean all the guys that bash women without reason, that hop from thread to thread insulting women have all been molested. Even on this thread alone, that is if you are not blind and biased, you can certainly see that some other guys bashed women too on the first pages, way before polo's comment, so if you did not have a vendetta against abd choose to be a bully, why did you single out her comment? Why did you not ask other guys if they've been molested as well? You're scared of them? KevinDein has bashed women plenty times, TheGidRedpiller too... should I go through your own posts too see if you've never bashed Women? Because if you want to call someone out for being molested for a reason or the other, you should be clean as well. Should I call all the OG women bashers on NL to this thread, so you can tag them victims of sexual abuse?

- And do you know what 'bashing' mean? What does someone have to write or post for it to qualify as bashing? What exactly did she say that is a bashing of men? Where are the posts she make from thread to thread bashing men?

- I have told you I do not give a fuk about what you do offline. What I am writing does not affect you, but you believe spreading misinformation about me and insulting on here is not painting me bad. How nice... you think this is bant? Look, don't make me lose the little civility I have been showing you. You have been insulting me and making unfounded claims about me and now you want to spin it around into a joking matter. Do some of you think at all? Trash-talking women is sports to you? Please, I beg you with the name of anything you serve, maintain your hostile energy.

but you write too much o..do you think I have time to reply all these.You started it by Quoting me.pls get busy ok.Am already busy now.if you want us to continue drop your whatsapp.i dont have much time to come on nairaland.you needed attention by quoting me and now I have given it to you.what do you really think you can do to me,more than insults.yeye

Aaaaarghmed:
but you write too much o..do you think I have time to reply all these.You started it by Quoting me.pls get busy ok.Am already busy now.if you want us to continue drop your whatsapp.i dont have much time to come on nairaland.

No, you called me pained and said I am in a crew with other women and called me a man basher and even said, "go enjoy your opinion." YOU started it. For your mind, you think you can say sht about me and I will ignore or overlook you? For what? Next time, do not start what you cannot finish. If no be say you insult me, I for quote you?

Now that you do not have anything worthwhile to say, you're looking for a way to wiggle your way out? Just note this is mind, if I see any other guy bashing women on this NL, I will quote them and mention you, and ask on your behalf if they have been molested. You can count on it.

Don't think it's anybody you can just speak anyhow to. I am glad you have gotten my points adequately.

Now, truly have a great e-life for real.

Aaaaarghmed:
but you write too much o..do you think I have time to reply all these.You started it by Quoting me.pls get busy ok.Am already busy now.if you want us to continue drop your whatsapp.i dont have much time to come on nairaland.you needed attention by quoting me and now I have given it to you.what do you really think you can do to me,more than insults.yeye

Be like say you no wan rest ba. Me, I needed attention? Should we go back to the questions I have been asking you? Calling me pained? Saying I am in a crew and sht? You did not start it then? Did I say I was going to do anything to you? I simply said I was going to drag this with you until you explain what your issue with me is. Where did I bash men on this thread that you insulted me for? Just bring out the post. Where did I say an older woman cannot get married to a younger guy? Is everything all right? You were talking nonsense about me and say I am the one looking for attention? Why you call me and other ladies pained in the first place? That they decided to ignore you doesn't mean I will drop it.

Again, have you not been the ONLY one insulting me? Now you want to spin that around and lie on my head, LMAO? So even if I was insulting you, you believe I cannot do anything "more than" insult you, that means your insults to me has been pointless then? Then why do you still go on insulting me??

Look, I can do this with you for a week. So, keep twisting...

I should drop my number for what? I told you I don't give a fk for who you are offline. You insulted me on this NL; this is where the damage has been done, so come and clear your mess here.

Hei God, na wah oo...

Magnoliaa:


Be like say you no wan rest ba. Me, I needed attention? Should we go back to the questions I have been asking you? Calling me pained? Saying I am in a crew and sht? You did not start it then? Did I say I was going to do anything to you? I simply said I was going to drag this with you until you explain what your issue with me is. Where did I bash men on this thread that you insulted me for? Just bring out the post. Where did I say an older woman cannot get married to a younger guy? Is everything all right? You were talking nonsense about me and say I am the one looking for attention? Why you call me and other ladies pained in the first place? That they decided to ignore you doesn't mean I will drop it.

Again, have you not been the ONLY one insulting me? Now you want to spin that around and lie on my head, LMAO? So even if I was insulting you, you believe I cannot do anything "more than" insult you, that means your insults to me has been pointless then? Then why do you still go on insulting me??

Look, I can do this with you for a week. So, keep twisting...

I should drop my number for what? I told you I don't give a fk for who you are offline. You insulted me on this NL; this is where the damage has been done, so come and clear your mess here.

keep ranting.keep being pained ok.But the way you chat you go really get problem o?your husband go suffer o.Na your type go talk take talk and talk...till husband slap you.

Gosh234:
I will go straight to the point and make this brief. Recall this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6990203/should-marry
On March this year I got a job as ICT officer in a firm which made me move to Lagos ,we are super excited about this development and everything working out fine (No relationship is perfect, understanding kept us going)

I served in a university, towards completion of my service year, I accomodated a guy who got to know about us
One day we were in a arguement of dating or marrying someone older than you.
I stood my ground that I can marry irrespective of age, provided it is what I want
The guy came to conclusion that it seems my spouse is older than me, we laughed over it (That ends it)

Secondly my friend Davidson that live in the same compound who is done with his studies, working while waiting on NYSC.
I told him about my woman , how I love her and ready to settle down as soon as things go as planned for me (he have seen her visited once but they never met)
He asked me if she work, I told him
He asked of her age, I JUST TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS A BIT OLDER THA ME.

While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence
To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me
In her words
a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell

b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends

c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already

d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again

NOTE
a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older

b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap

My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly

I don't see this working out again
I feel so belittled
Gosh

@bold:

If you have any iota of self respect, you will address the bold before moving forward or backward.

She also need to get a grip on herself. If she doesn't want people to know she is dating a younger man, then she shouldn't.

Since she doesn't like you telling people about the age difference, don't tell them.

If you feel the urge to, drink water or eat sand.

Aaaaarghmed:
keep ranting.keep being pained ok.But the way you chat you go really get problem o?your husband go suffer o.Na your type go talk take talk and talk...till husband slap you.

Go and rest joor. Chochochocho... shey that is how you will be badmouthing your own wife too to people all around you? You have also shown exactly the kind of husband you will be. You will belittle her, downgrade her, gaslight her, you will even rub the chicken change you have on her face... every single thing you've said on here shows exactly the kind of husband you will be. I won't be surprise if you'll be accusing the innocent woman of cheating and prostitution tomorrow, bathing her with insults.

Whatever problem I have, you 20x of it, trust me.

It is evident... the only pained ranter here is you... in 2 minutes, you have told me all about your life's history, even asking for my number. Yet to point out what pained comment I made is wahala for you. Do not tell lies about me and then come to claim I am ranting if I come for you... Where is that done? LMAO. You should get a mirror and look into it... see your vile self staring back at you.

Keep twisting and clutching at straws; I will keep pressing your neck.

Magnoliaa:


Go and rest joor. Chochochocho... shey that is how you will be badmouthing your own wife too to people all around you? You have also shown exactly the kind of husband you will be. You will belittle her, downgrade her, gaslight her, you will even rub the chicken change you have on her face... every single thing you've said on here shows exactly the kind of husband you will be. I won't be surprise if you'll be accusing the innocent woman of cheating and prostitution tomorrow, bathing her with insults.

Whatever problem I have, you 20x of it, trust me.

It is evident... the only pained ranter here is you... in 2 minutes, you have told me all about your life's history, even asking for my number. Yet to point out what pained comment I made is wahala for you. Do not tell lies about me and then come to claim I am ranting if I come for you... Where is that done? LMAO. You should get a mirror and look into it... see your vile self staring back at you.

Keep twisting and clutching at straws; I will keep pressing your neck.

my life history?you mumu sha.i doubt if you can read and understand.mehn,your writeup always show how pained you are .very obvious.This will be my last message to you because I cannot give the the attention you are seriously craving for anymore.Goodbye Mrs pained.I have aired my opinion and will not cease to air it anywhere and when I like,you are too small to stop me.

Aaaaarghmed:
my life history?you mumu sha.i doubt if you can read and understand.mehn,your writeup always show how pained you are .very obvious.This will be my last message to you because I cannot give the the attention you are seriously craving for anymore.Goodbye Mrs pained.I have aired my opinion and will not cease to air it anywhere and when I like,you are too small to stop me.

Keep repeating "pained" here and there like a broken record. You obviously have nothing to say anymore...

Say whatever you like, as you want, whenever... DO NOT involve me and we won't have any problem.

I hope you stick to what you've resolved to and won't quote me anymore...

Aaaaarghmed:
my life history?you mumu sha.i doubt if you can read and understand.mehn,your writeup always show how pained you are .very obvious.This will be my last message to you because I cannot give the the attention you are seriously craving for anymore.Goodbye Mrs pained.I have aired my opinion and will not cease to air it anywhere and when I like,you are too small to stop me.

I cannot just stop laughing at this reading it again...he's forming premium now, but two hours ago, he was really ready to have my number and take the "bant" offline. Like, from where to where? Hahahahahahahahaha.

pocohantas:


Don’t you men remind women of who is older and the captain everyday? So what is wrong with reminding una once in a while?

As for young guys, especially the ones U-33, THEY DON’T HAVE SENSE 99% of the time. It is even worse in this generation.

Ordinary 22yrs old girl would comfortably and easily get a Ned to comport himself and do her bidding.

Women on the average mature emotionally faster than men (redpillers can argue this- their business). So why do you think a younger guy can make sense to an older woman? She is years ahead emotionally and very few guys can meet up. I am sure most women that have been with them would be getting the feeling because many act like they need complan abi pacifier.

On top of that they talk too much! It is like a trophy that an older woman is submitting to them. Everything is an ego trip for men. That's the only reason this one is talking chochocho. The whole Nigeria must know an older woman is coming to cook efo riro for him.

As for his babe, she should get a grip of herself. It is not going to be a secret forever.

Peace!

You're just a hilarious truth sayer

I don laugh taya. Your points though...spot on.

bukatyne:


@bold:

If you have any iota of self respect, you will address the bold before moving forward or backward.

She also need to get a grip on herself. If she doesn't want people to know she is dating a younger man, then she shouldn't.

Since she doesn't like you telling people about the age difference, don't tell them.

If you feel the urge to, drink water or eat sand.

Chuckles, i hear you right dear,you said it all,

Hello. I am newbie on this site. I was interested in this topic because I have a similar situation in my life when my girlfriend and I have a considerable age difference. Last night I accidentally found this site on the net: http://signalscv.com/2019/10/younger-boyfriend-does-the-relationship-have-a-future/ It helped me to look at our relationships in a new way. Sorry for the link, but thanks to this site, I finally realized that I was at the mercy of stereotypes.

It was not easy for me after breaking up with a girl, it's not always easy, but the main thing is to learn how to move on and find new ones, it's easy to meet girls, the main thing is to understand how. I started thinking about how to solve this problem, I found this article on the Internet sofia date simply tells you about review on dating site, how to communicate and what to do.

If you love her, then you will know this is a sensitive issue for a lady. Do not tell people her age, because it will make her feel more insecure. If you bring up anything about age, she will lose her confidence.

Re

Dbtcking:
How far ecomm. I get lots of fresh debit cards but the 2d gateway I don try no dey work so far. Just once it has cashed out.

Abeg drop your contact make we deal big or Whatsapp on +1 two 13 589 5 five 1 5

make it low key oga.

Gosh234:
I will go straight to the point and make this brief. Recall this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6990203/should-marry
On March this year I got a job as ICT officer in a firm which made me move to Lagos ,we are super excited about this development and everything working out fine (No relationship is perfect, understanding kept us going)

I served in a university, towards completion of my service year, I accomodated a guy who got to know about us
One day we were in a arguement of dating or marrying someone older than you.
I stood my ground that I can marry irrespective of age, provided it is what I want
The guy came to conclusion that it seems my spouse is older than me, we laughed over it (That ends it)

Secondly my friend Davidson that live in the same compound who is done with his studies, working while waiting on NYSC.
I told him about my woman , how I love her and ready to settle down as soon as things go as planned for me (he have seen her visited once but they never met)
He asked me if she work, I told him
He asked of her age, I JUST TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS A BIT OLDER THA ME.

While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence
To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me
In her words
a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell

b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends

c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already

d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again

NOTE
a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older

b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap

My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly

I don't see this working out again
I feel so belittled
Gosh

Can't you see you are a child.
Carry Megaphone, go round about and announce it, Ozuor