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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by cococandy(f): 8:56am On Aug 08, 2022
FiremanX:
Lolx,,,, it's a jobless and useless guy operating the account,,, he's the same as Vickho,,, Satanistminion,,,,just ignore the Jobless troll
the whole thing is just weird

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Nobody: 9:01am On Aug 08, 2022
Vickho:
even if i beg people of money, i wouldn't beg a married woman like you of money because it's obvious you cheat on your poor husband that's why your nairaland signature says you're bored thus inviting perverted asssholes on this forum to DM you.
I don't do sugar mummies so give it a rest, go message Firemanx, he is in need of a sugar mummy.
Bye

You should know that you no reach Firemanx! You think you can insult people and get away with it abi? Na your type be perverts I dey talk about who are obsessive of married women. Tata wey steal phone to insult his mother online.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Nobody: 9:01am On Aug 08, 2022
Vickho:
good morning ma'am.
That you quoted is a married woman.
It's obvious the likes of, Klass99 Magnoliaa and the rest are living miserable lives and have deviated from the true concept of feminism.
Feminism simply entails women having equal rights and opportunities, the ideology of feminism empowers women to realise their full rights and the concept truly stands against women oppression.
But more recently, your followers have veered off and diverted into insulting men, generalising all men to be evil and wicked and jumping from different threads cruising and insulting my gender.
This is what i am against and I have made up my mind to deal with them. That's why i clone their accounts and troll the hell out of them.
They should take a clue and emulate from you and if they are still unwilling to change their perspectives NA ME AND THEM FOR THIS FORUM.
WARN YOUR CHILDREN.

We have many teenagers and young girls on this forum (my 16 year old sister inclusive), they use this forum for educational purposes, it wouldn't be proper if they come across toxic comments by your disciples which could affect their mentality.
So warn these frustrated ladies to take their bitterness elsewhere or refrain from attacking men on this forum and I'll let them be.
And as for that foolish idiotic fellow who calls himself Gloriousgbola on this forum going about licking you ladies asses, by the time I'm done with him on this forum, he'll be used as a case study and serve as a deterrent to other aspiring simps on this forum.
cc Shaggyswang

Are you sure about Klass99. Get your facts right before you slander and troll her. I follow her posts and they make sense a lot, she is a nairaland member I like reading from because I learn something new from her every now and then. I have seen her fight and insult people who trolled her. What you said is not what I know or have seen, you should read her posts well in light of thread discussions. If anything it is men who generalise the worse on this site and insult the females the worse on this site, when this women react more insults are heaped on them but what do you expect they were only fighting their trolls.

People created new accounts to troll Mama Ahnie that she is single mother of two and prostitute, another lady deactivated when the trolling was too much and they threatened to post her picture. Gloriousgbola is insulted for getting along with the ladies or speaking up for them. So many others are trolled for their posts because somoene did not like what was said. I don't talk too much on this site because of the things I see almost every day but I have to talk today because my spirit is moved to do so. What happens here is not right and it is our gender who starts or causes a lot of it, you also generalised in your post instead of taking one post where any of this ladies talked anyhow to address the matter there and move on.

I learned good things from some of the people you called here. E.g. data Klass99 posted in jobs section helped my cousin find a job because it changed how he was job hunting. I learned about purchasing good laptops from Gloriousgbola in the house clearance sales thread. Instead of hating and trolling up and down, cloning accounts just rest. Read and ignore or read and learn one or two things but give peace a chance on this site. You can call me a simp and asslicker for this but let me speak my truth too.

Peace out bro. I am going back into my silence shell

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Saintmary(f): 9:05am On Aug 08, 2022
angelfallz:
Majority of what you have said hinges on the premise, that the man's wife is giving him sex on demand. If that is the case, then, i can understand your argument about how many times a can realistically have sex with multiple women.

However, a man can get all the sex he wants from his wife and still desire and lust after other women and girls.

He might have sex with his wife today, tomorrow he sees another beautiful woman and desires to have sex with her, until he is tired of having sex with her them looks for another woman, all the while still having steady sex from his wife.

In the end it is about contentment and discipline, because whether you like it or not, men naturally are not suited to monogamy.



Let me help you rephrase your last paragraph.


"Most Nigerian men shun polygamy because it requires contentment and discipline, which they cannot practice"

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Vickho: 9:11am On Aug 08, 2022
Bryee:


Are you sure about Klass99. Get your facts right before you slander and troll her. I follow her posts and they make sense a lot, she is a nairaland member I like reading from because I learn something new from her every now and then. I have seen her fight and insult people who trolled her. What you said is not what I know or have seen, you should read her posts well in light of thread discussions. If anything it is men who generalise the worse on this site and insult the females the worse on this site, when this women react more insults are heaped on them but what do you expect they were only fighting their trolls.

People created new accounts to troll Mama Ahnie that she is single mother of two and prostitute, another lady deactivated when the trolling was too much and they threatened to post her picture. Gloriousgbola is insulted for getting along with the ladies or speaking up for them. So many others are trolled for their posts because somoene did not like what was said. I don't talk too much on this site because of the things I see almost every day but I have to talk today because my spirit is moved to do so. What happens here is not right and it is our gender who starts or causes a lot of it, you also generalised in your post instead of taking one post where any of this ladies talked anyhow to address the matter there and move on.

I learned good things from some of the people you called here. E.g. data Klass99 posted in jobs section helped my cousin find a job because it changed how he was job hunting. I learned about purchasing good laptops from Gloriousgbola in the house clearance sales thread. Instead of hating and trolling up and down, cloning accounts just rest. Read and ignore or read and learn one or two things but give peace a chance on this site. You can call me a simp and asslicker for this but let me speak my truth too.

Peace out bro. I am going back into my silence shell

thank you bro.
I've heard and I'll just do the bolded though it's hard ignoring some comments, reading through some toxic posts gets me so boiled up
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Saintmary(f): 9:21am On Aug 08, 2022
Timmi:



Married and never cheated for 36-years. The fear of the Lord kept me from cheating in spite of temptations. Not by power, nor might but by the Spirit of God.


See, there are many men like you, but you don't speak up for yourself when your cheating friends ridicule you for being faithful.


That is why cheating has become the 'norm'

Rather than tell them that they are exposing their wives to STDs and their immediate families to spiritual attacks, you are allowing them to tell you that you are not enjoying life.




Living with an adulterous spouse is like sleeping without locking the front door, in fact it's exactly like that spiritually, medically, financially, in all aspects of life.



I hope you understand.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Magnoliaa(f): 9:24am On Aug 08, 2022
Vickho:
thank you bro.
I've heard and I'll just do the bolded though it's hard ignoring some comments, reading through some toxic posts gets me so boiled up

Ka a da fun o to ba fun peace ni chance ninu foromu yii. grin grin Werey. You will do which bolded? We should be running from you and begging you or what?

If you don't troll us out of this forum, no be your mama born you. Boil and explode.

Boring lowlife and miserable programmer with zero game and social skills.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Shegzdave: 9:28am On Aug 08, 2022
Magnoliaa:


Ka a da fun o to ba fun peace ni chance ninu foromu yii. grin grin Werey. You will do which bolded? We should be running from you and begging you or what?

If you don't troll us out of this forum, no be your mama born you. Boil and explode.

Boring lowlife and miserable programmer with zero game and social skills.
Yoruba yin ki gaan oo grin
Ejoor, E ma fi Yoruba bu-un lepe cheesy

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Magnoliaa(f): 9:33am On Aug 08, 2022
Shegzdave:

Yoruba yin ki gaan oo grin
Ejoor, E ma fi Yoruba bu-un lepe cheesy

E don dey "shack" me to use am since, and that ediot just provided himself as the sacrificial goat. grin grin

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by NoToPile: 9:38am On Aug 08, 2022
Richy4:
Social media made it look like all men cheats... there are 100 men out there who are faithful... but immediately one of them cheats, all camera will go off on the 99 faithful men and focused on that one unfaithful man that cheated...Because of that, it will now affect the 99 men who were innocent in all ramification..

That's just how the world roll... How many men/women have been celebrated for marrying for 30, 45 or even 5yrs...
But immediately they speak of divorce, it will be picked and the concentration will be there...

The media has made the world concentrate more on the negative than the positive...If a man opens a thread on Nairaland and say...
***I just want to announce that since I got married in 2018, I have never cheated on my wife***
<<U can imagine eyes that will be rolling in front of the laptop/phones...
<<Some will ask why he was announcing what he ought to be doing...
<<some will say.. oh!! do you need a medal and
<<others will say so many negative and unprintable stuffs just to downplay it...

So to answer your question... YES THERE ARE MEN OUT THERE WHO TAKES THEIR SACRED VOWS SERIOUSLY...But chose to stay calm because it's 'not worth celebrating'

You are right oo

@topic there are men who do not cheat. Thank you.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Vickho: 9:40am On Aug 08, 2022
Magnoliaa:


Ka a da fun o to ba fun peace ni chance ninu foromu yii. grin grin Werey. You will do which bolded? We should be running from you and begging you or what?

If you don't troll us out of this forum, no be your mama born you. Boil and explode.

Boring lowlife and miserable programmer with zero game and social skills.
it's obvious this one is still pained after i later ignored and silenced her while i was still interacting with her begoniaa moniker.
I can still vividly recall how I later stopped communicating with you while we were still discussing on your writing skills.
So you're still pained lol grin
And you were getting along already and developed feelings, unknown to you that i wasn't interested in you cos you're not my type
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by NoToPile: 9:41am On Aug 08, 2022
truthsayer009:


This Godly men that Nigerian women seek of is what I don't understand, majority of Nigerian women will completely dislike the idea of marrying a man that is actually Godly, because they are conventional and old-fashioned, similar to a Fuddy-duddy. Most of those relationships doesn't even get to the serious stage because she is already complaining of the whole thing being boring. I don't feel the spark bla bla bla.

You want a Godly man but your crush is Burna Boy & Kizz Daniel? It seems everyone wants a bad-boy that would be faithful. Why is Kirk Franklin or Tyler Perry not your crush instead.

At bolded hahaha

But there are Godly men who are not old fashioned, but then there are somethings you wouldn't catch the God-fearing man doing.

@ 2nd bolded I seriously wonder too. You want a Godly man stick to that and take the whole package.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by NoToPile: 9:44am On Aug 08, 2022
Timmi:



Married and never cheated for 36-years. The fear of the Lord kept me from cheating in spite of temptations. Not by power, nor might but by the Spirit of God.


Hallelujah, the fear of God

God bless you sir.

I hope the men are polygamous in nature Geng can see that it's very possible to stick to one woman, it was possible then and it's still valid for this generation.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by cococandy(f): 9:47am On Aug 08, 2022
Thanks for your honesty

None of those ladies he mentioned have ever been vile like the trolls who come after them or even respond out of turn. It’s always as a result of provocation. And even then you can’t compare their responses to the amount of unwarranted vitriol that gets heaped on them. I’m just surprised how people often turn a blind eye to the attacks and only remember to preach when they respond.

Bryee:


Are you sure about Klass99. Get your facts right before you slander and troll her. I follow her posts and they make sense a lot, she is a nairaland member I like reading from because I learn something new from her every now and then. I have seen her fight and insult people who trolled her. What you said is not what I know or have seen, you should read her posts well in light of thread discussions. If anything it is men who generalise the worse on this site and insult the females the worse on this site, when this women react more insults are heaped on them but what do you expect they were only fighting their trolls.

People created new accounts to troll Mama Ahnie that she is single mother of two and prostitute, another lady deactivated when the trolling was too much and they threatened to post her picture. Gloriousgbola is insulted for getting along with the ladies or speaking up for them. So many others are trolled for their posts because somoene did not like what was said. I don't talk too much on this site because of the things I see almost every day but I have to talk today because my spirit is moved to do so. What happens here is not right and it is our gender who starts or causes a lot of it, you also generalised in your post instead of taking one post where any of this ladies talked anyhow to address the matter there and move on.

I learned good things from some of the people you called here. E.g. data Klass99 posted in jobs section helped my cousin find a job because it changed how he was job hunting. I learned about purchasing good laptops from Gloriousgbola in the house clearance sales thread. Instead of hating and trolling up and down, cloning accounts just rest. Read and ignore or read and learn one or two things but give peace a chance on this site. You can call me a simp and asslicker for this but let me speak my truth too.

Peace out bro. I am going back into my silence shell

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Shegzdave: 9:48am On Aug 08, 2022
Magnoliaa:


E don dey "shack" me to use am since, and that ediot just provided himself as the sacrificial goat. grin grin
Pity him please grin grin
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Magnoliaa(f): 10:00am On Aug 08, 2022
cococandy:
Thanks for your honesty.

Abi now. People that will get it will do, and that's what matters. cheesy The truth is out there, and will remain so.

@Bryee, I commend your honesty as well, and for standing up for Klass. But you see that one you quoted? He's not looking to be convinced or anything? You think he doesn't know all you've said? It's just being troublesome and for the fact that he wants to be discussed, to delude himself in thinking he matters that much. Another one still writing post UTME and struggling with admission, too, was quoting me the other day. When you get that they are coming from a place of lack and hurt and it has nothing to do with the women they attack, you see them for what they are.

That seemingly sensible response he gave you na wash. He will quote you will another moniker on another thread to attack you for what you have said here grin. Just wait and see.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Nobody: 10:06am On Aug 08, 2022
cococandy:
Thanks for your honesty

None of those ladies he mentioned have ever been vile like the trolls who come after them or even respond out of turn. It’s always as a result of provocation. And even then you can’t compare their responses to the amount of unwarranted vitriol that gets heaped on them. I’m just surprised how people often turn a blind eye to the attacks and only remember to preach when they respond.


Madam Cococandy you succeeded in bringing me out of the shell again I was not going to post after that one post. I agree with you because as a silent reader I see a lot of what goes on here and I feel sorry for most of this women. As a man when you talk or try to stop the unwarranted attacks on any female or stand up for one of them, they clone your account and start trolling you too calling you simp and asslicker.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by angelfallz(m): 10:11am On Aug 08, 2022
Lol, why are you specific about Nigerian men?
Saintmary:



Let me help you rephrase your last paragraph.


"Most Nigerian men shun polygamy because it requires contentment and discipline, which they cannot practice"
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by crackhaus: 10:13am On Aug 08, 2022
NLanders never fail to amuse... cheesy

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by crackhaus: 10:17am On Aug 08, 2022
truthsayer009:

This Godly men that Nigerian women seek of is what I don't understand, majority of Nigerian women will completely dislike the idea of marrying a man that is actually Godly, because they are conventional and old-fashioned, similar to a Fuddy-duddy. Most of those relationships doesn't even get to the serious stage because she is already complaining of the whole thing being boring. I don't feel the spark bla bla bla.

You want a Godly man but your crush is Burna Boy & Kizz Daniel? It seems everyone wants a bad-boy that would be faithful. Why is Kirk Franklin or Tyler Perry not your crush instead.
Not just bad, but bad and rich... And on top of that, be faithful. grin

It's a dream.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Nobody: 10:21am On Aug 08, 2022
Magnoliaa:


Abi now. People that will get it will do, and that's what matters. cheesy The truth is out there, and will remain so.

@Bryee, I commend your honesty as well, and for standing up for Klass. But you see that one you quoted? He's not looking to be convinced or anything? You think he doesn't know all you've said? It's just being troublesome and for the fact that he wants to be discussed, to delude himself in thinking he matters that much.

That seemingly sensible response na wash. He will quote you will another moniker on another thread to attack you for what you have said here grin.

Miss Magnoliaa I don't know if I should laugh or not but the caution is well received.I would have stood up for all of you but I am more familiar with Klass's posts than the rest of you mentioned so pardon me for not doing so if you were wrongly judged too. Today is the most I have posted in one day, after today nobody will see me again to quote and attack, even if they do I don't have time for such, the responsibilities on my head is too much. I come here to gain information to help me with my responsibilities that is how a post by Klass helped my cousin and he will soon move out of my accommodation to his own because of the job. I cannot thank her enough I hope she sees this. Take care Magnoliaa and be good.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by cococandy(f): 10:28am On Aug 08, 2022
Bryee:


Madam Cococandy you succeeded in bringing me out of the shell again I was not going to post after that one post. I agree with you because as a silent reader I see a lot of what goes on here and I feel sorry for most of this women. As a man when you talk or try to stop the unwarranted attacks on any female or stand up for one of them, they clone your account and start trolling you too calling you simp and asslicker.

It’s a shaming tactic that they use to try and discourage people who oppose them from banding together. If you’re a lady they will call you a minion or followers. like he was trying to belittle those fabulous ladies by calling them my children (can you imagine the nonsense!) when some people see all that, they prefer to ignore rather than engage and be insulted as followers or minions. Na who no know dem. If you know them, you can see through the tactics all the time. The trolls are all reading from the same script.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Magnoliaa(f): 10:30am On Aug 08, 2022
Bryee:
Miss Magnoliaa I don't know if I should laugh or not but the caution is well received.I would have stood up for all of you but I am more familiar with Klass's posts than the rest of you mentioned so pardon me for not doing so if you were wrongly judged too. Today is the most I have posted in one day, after today nobody will see me again to quote and attack, even if they do I don't have time for such, the responsibilities on my head is too much. I come here to gain info to help me with my responsibilities that is how a post by Klass helped my cousin and he will soon move out of my accommodation to his own because of the job. I cannot thank her enough I hope she sees this. Take care Magnolia and be good.

I understand. smiley smiley

Take care, too. That's exactly how it should be- people finding help and connections on NL from good people.

She'll see it. Let me call her sef just to make sure. Klass99, well done! See the work of God ehn? Your post has helped someone with job and accommodation here cheesy. And to you, you were probably just writing ooo... and some will be there like "social media is not real life bla bla bla."

I am happy for your cousin, sir. I wish him all the luck he needs.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by cococandy(f): 10:31am On Aug 08, 2022
The fact that they are on Klass’ side and he compares them, already tells you the kinds of comments they usually post wink .

Bryee:


Miss Magnoliaa I don't know if I should laugh or not but the caution is well received. I would have stood up for all of you but I am more familiar with Klass's posts than the rest of you mentioned so pardon me for not doing so if you were wrongly judged too. Today is the most I have posted in one day, after today nobody will see me again to quote and attack, even if they do I don't have time for such, the responsibilities on my head is too much. I come here to gain information to help me with my responsibilities that is how a post by Klass helped my cousin and he will soon move out of my accommodation to his own because of the job. I cannot thank her enough I hope she sees this. Take care Magnoliaa and be good.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by crackhaus: 10:35am On Aug 08, 2022
Alternates Alternates... This is too funny to watch cheesy

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Magnoliaa(f): 10:40am On Aug 08, 2022
cococandy:
It’s a shaming tactic that they use to try and discourage people who oppose them from banding together. If you’re a lady they will call you a minion or followers. like he was trying to belittle those fabulous ladies by calling them my children (can you imagine the nonsense!) when some people see all that, they prefer to ignore rather than engage and be insulted as followers or minions. Na who no know dem. If you know them, you can see through the tactics all the time. The trolls are all reading from the same script.

Exactlyyyy! A very cheap psychological trick. Kai. grin grin They will call us all minions of each other or say you're more sensible than me and shit, thinking your head will either puff or I will respond in anger and belittle you.

Like, I don't get. You no see other women to use that on, it is us you want to be dividing and conquering?? Like, bro, what are you smoking? Do we look like kids to you?! So you insult another woman and praise me, I should now coman give you medals? Mtcheewww.

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by cococandy(f): 10:45am On Aug 08, 2022
Magnoliaa:


Exactlyyyy! A very cheap psychological trick. Kai. grin grin They will call us all minions of each other or say you're more sensible than me and shit, thinking your head will either puff or I will respond in anger and belittle you.

Like, I don't get. You no see other women to use that on, it is us you want to be dividing and conquering?? Like, bro, what are you smoking? Do we look like kids to you?! So you insult another woman and praise me, I should now coman give you medals? Mtcheewww.
just one moment of observation should have been enough to tell him not to even bother grin. We are not new in these streets of NL.
You’ll see another troll will emerge to try the same old tired tactics. Just watch

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Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Ishilove: 10:49am On Aug 08, 2022
Twoclans:


Abeg leave me . angry

Give your own contribution let the OP take the one she wants.


Buhahahahahahaha!! Its like you don't know who are quoting cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Are There Still Men Who Don’t Cheat On Their Spouse by Magnoliaa(f): 10:52am On Aug 08, 2022
cococandy:
just one moment of observation should have been enough to tell him not to even bother grin. We are not new in these streets of NL.
You’ll see another troll will emerge to try the same old tired tactics. Just watch

This is always what is most annoying to me! I'm not kidding. They are never inventive or imaginative! Since the inception of NL and across all social media platforms. Same old, same old... sighs. Fadalawd, epp us.

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