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A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by LadyD22(f): 5:41pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Many people don't know how important they are and how valuable your time , attention and responses can be in certain social situations. On places like nairaland there will always be people who say some of the most triggering , irritating and absurd things , it's absolutely normal , while some of them really mean what they say , others might just be catching fun ,pulling people's legs deliberately just to get a response out of them and intentionally lead to an argument , a disagreement and of course the continuous circulation of toxic , irrelevant information Then we have very interesting educative people on the other hand , willing to teach and learn from others and maybe sometimes disagreements and debates may happen but they're open to LISTENING to other people's views , opinions and responses and definitely not doing harmful things for the fun of it The more we respond to the negative energy people and give them the ATTENTION they are always seeking , the more confidence they have to continue acting like themselves and this will limit your access to information that is actually good for you . Think about it for a sec If everyone decides to delete their nairaland account or majority do and there's little to no interaction going on , eventually nairaland may close down no traffic ,no profit , no nairaland So if one foolish person types , you ignore and keep ignoring till they start to interact in human language, we'll have less toxicity to deal with, And if one intelligent person comes out , with genuine knowledge or questions that sound reasonable and interesting to you , you participate and leave , if you're quoted by someone who just wants to get you to react , just ignore , you'll get used to it eventually , and nairaland can go back to how it used to be decades ago ( peaceful and educative) I want to believe that just like myself , there are busy people here , who may or may nt come here once in awhile to get updates about things happening ( chronic introverts ) , and there are some people who come out with foolish threads just to kill boredom and we catch ourselves , stooping to their levels , for no gain at all E.g my girlfriend's coochie stinks should I still marry her or should I dump her and marry my sister ?( Okay I exaggerated it but just a tiny bit ) Now this does not only apply to NL , it applies to all social media platforms and even real life social interactions with colleagues , peers and families , We often ship the wrong information , wrong people and wrong message , not even realizing it , and most often it's not in a way that creates awareness Twitter and IG is one of them , all of these social media thrive because of the attention we give them , this is why big companies partner with big celebrities and influencers even if people hate them, the hate will generate traffic and traffic leads to more profit , so you might think someone like bobrisky is trash and then you go right under his post to comment " go to hell" , you just patronised him and he'll profit from that you Gerrit? The chrisland incident , I wonder how many children got their hands on it because of people showing their distaste and making it more popular and those who don't know will go and search for it , how many more will want to experiment with camera's? Mummy GO many people claim not to like her and think she's crazy but I see her videos everywhere because it's funny ? Okay I can go on and on Especially for my ladies , who come here to fight off the redpillers and misogynists , instead of wasting your time and your energy bickering with people who don't pay your bills or GAF , why not channel it to something you absolutely want to see more of . This should be common sense but alot of us don't know it and I'm one of those who forget it sometimes , it's hard biting your tongue when someone is just asking for it . Add that to one of the habits you'll start monitoring Anyways Happy Tuesday 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 6:01pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
It's too long, Happy Tuesday sha 2 Likes |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by advanceDNA: 6:21pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Lol... |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 8:47pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Thonia69:U in lag? |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 8:51pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
killmods:Nah, Ib |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Hacks4dummies: 8:56pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Another load of hogwash. She wants us to clap for her.. okay I'll clap.. |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 8:59pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Thonia69:Oh okay... I dunno why sha. I'm just drawn towards ur personality here.. I like ur vibe |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Slynation(m): 9:03pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Interesting... |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 9:06pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
killmods:Awwwn, thanks |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 9:13pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Thonia69:Lol.. u welcome |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 9:35pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
killmods: |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 10:06pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Thonia69:Lol... would love to meet u in person to know who's behind this interesting moniker but then... |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 10:09pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
killmods:Lol, you can't meet me in person tbh. I'm a caged girl. I have over protective parents. We can chat anywhere you want and know each other better. That's if you want though. |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 10:12pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Thonia69:Lol @caged girl, for real? It's cool tho. will send u PM now |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 10:28pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
killmods:Lmaoooo yeah. Alright! 1 Like |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 10:29pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Thonia69:Why... I'm waiting on u tho |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 10:35pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
killmods:Already replied |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Orgasmgiver123(m): 9:13am On Aug 10, 2022 |
Thonia69: Hmmm You stay in IB You have over protective parents And you are always indoors Ay is that you? 1 Like |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 11:15am On Aug 10, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123:I'm not Ay, lol. |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Orgasmgiver123(m): 11:27am On Aug 10, 2022 |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 11:36am On Aug 10, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123:I don't know any guy with abs like yours, so you're having a wrong feeling. I don't lie |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Orgasmgiver123(m): 11:38am On Aug 10, 2022 |
Thonia69:Owkay What if you know me but you don’t know i have abs I always wear big shirts |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 12:11pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123:I don't know you o. |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Orgasmgiver123(m): 12:56pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Hintona(f): 1:04pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Nice, I read everything!! 1 Like |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 2:00pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123:You sure you want to know me? |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Orgasmgiver123(m): 2:02pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Thonia69:Yep Very very sure |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by toujurs: 2:28pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Don't u have friends, must you seek educative information online, make friends. It seem you don't have friends |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 3:02pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123:Alright |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Orgasmgiver123(m): 3:03pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Thonia69:Can I send you a pm |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Nobody: 3:04pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123:Yeah sure |
Re: A Thread For Important Nairalanders :) by Orgasmgiver123(m): 3:05pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Thonia69:Owk |
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