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Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by ObamaMessi: 9:53pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
Some men don't take responsibility after impregnating a lady and even after birth, they abandon the mother and the child. This has been happening. I know of a lady who committed sucide after her boyfriend expressly denied responsibility of her pregnancy. What exactly make some men to deny responsibility after impregnating a lady? 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by Jashub: 10:06pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
Nobody is ready for marriage...especially in this generation where the law tends to favor women rather than men 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by PerfectStranger(m): 10:13pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
You can’t trap a man with pregnancy. If you bring something phenomenal to the table,you’ll be valued. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by Michelle70(m): 10:15pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
Jashub:
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Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by Michelle70(m): 10:16pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
PerfectStranger:trapping a man is different from a man not taking responsibilities 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by iamyungkhalifa(m): 10:37pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
Michelle70: Michelle70:lmao why will the girl get pregant when she knows the condition is yet okay. She will drink ogi and akara taya 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by Michelle70(m): 10:40pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
iamyungkhalifa:financial muscle is not the reason why some men refuse to take responsibility 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by iamyungkhalifa(m): 10:47pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
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Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by emaopel: 10:53pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
I was disappointed by level of many irresponsible men now adays... When you know that you are not responsible enough, why can't you use condoms... Some men are naturally wicked and they will surely suffer for it. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by tensazangetsu20(m): 11:23pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
Have you priced cerelac and aptamil recently 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by emkad: 11:32pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
The rule is marry before you carry. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:35pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
ObamaMessi: i believe that, as much as a woman can decide to KEEP a pregnancy, even though the sperm donor may NOT want this unwanted pregnancy, then this lady should accept that she will be a future single mother and understand that baby daddy wont be in the picture. this is a choice a woman has to take and live by it. many women foolishly decide to have such unwanted pregnancy thinking that they can A) blackmail that sperm dono to marry them and/or B) step up to this accident, while forgetting that many dont recognize that child as their nor this pregnancy, and probably will never do. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by CaveAdullam: 11:49pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
1. This is the 21st century and women have the right and ability to not make pregnancy happen. A. There is the monthly birth control pill. B. There is a female condom. C. There is a female instant birth control pill. D. She has the full right to say no. And if he persists, she tender the case to the relevant security unit. E. Lastly, there is abortion. 2. Life is a game, if you act dumb you will be treated like a doormat. If she's not ready to be a mother she must refuse the man or know how to control pregnancy. 3. Counterintuitive, why doesn't the man stay away from sex when he can't provide for a mother and child? That's why I said it is a game, a h0rny man doesn't impregnate women from his imagination, if there is a willing and h0rny woman, he will fvck her. It is then left for the woman to judge the man before sexual Intercourse. In the animal kingdom, females are the choosy sex, that is, they choose males they will mate with and females are the gatekeepers of sex. If women say no sex, so be it. Nothing happens. No reproduction. The cost of pregnancy is risky and high, any woman that is reckless with her womb will not go unpunished. She must be wise. 4. This is not to exonerate the expectant father, he must be forced to provide for his child and the mother because as far as he knows that he is not ready to be a father he should have abstained from sex or used a contraceptive even though he expected the woman not to be negligent. Both should carry their cross. 5. Unwanted pregnancy, sorry to say, is her fault, the same way a guy spends all his money on her without him having sex with her or receiving the relevant returns. There are always red flags that tell if a partner is a real or fake deal, but romance and luxury blind the eyes of men and women respectively thereby making them choose the wrong deal. Sigh. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by ObamaMessi: 2:11am On Sep 14, 2022 |
Michelle70:Very true. One of my cousin brother works with the federal government of Nigeria, has a house and two cars, but this guy denied responsibility of impregnating a lady. The lady delivered of the baby, the boy was the photocopy of my cousin. He had no option than to accept, but he paid more than N500, 000 because when he came to claim the baby the woman sued him to court, he had to pay damages before taking his child. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by Cocoyamu: 5:10am On Sep 14, 2022 |
CaveAdullam:You write intelligently. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by Carndidlaydee: 7:37am On Sep 14, 2022 |
CaveAdullam: Woah just woah Can't believe you are faulting the woman for the irresponsible act of "a" man You men are so ...... •••don't know the word to use now••• Keep it up |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by Akinbahm(m): 7:53pm On Sep 14, 2022 |
Carndidlaydee: Learn to read and understand before replying next time. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It That Some Men Don't Take Responsibility? by CaveAdullam: 9:02am On Sep 15, 2022 |
Cocoyamu: Thanks for your kind words. I do appreciate it. And I promise to improve and do better. 3 Likes |
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