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Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by humility101: 2:49am On Nov 13, 2022 |
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her. I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa. But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes. Advice me please. 80 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Tonypen247(m): 2:52am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Men are prisoners of their mindset. Be extra careful, not all that glitters is gold. You can contact my signature below for your Academic research assistance of a top notch quality. 322 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by pussyeater(m): 3:11am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:Bro! Note the bolded. Follow your instinct... Wait until she enter UK, and hopefully she doesn't serve you correct breakfast... Some women no get joy 197 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by LaserWr: 4:30am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Bro don't rush it, you prolly gonna enter lifetime agreement so don't do what you'll regret. Coupled with, in those saner climes women are accorded more power so she fit Bleep u up. 144 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by shege45: 4:49am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:let me advise u. When coming back, surprise her, dnt let her know you are coming back. Once you see her, check her phone then you will know if she is only for you. If she says her phone is private and doesn’t give you, just knack am den free am, Cus shez for us 535 Likes 36 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by eastgates1: 5:10am On Nov 13, 2022 |
If i were you i would find one nigerian in the uk to wife. All this long distance thing no make sense because one skelewu go dey mekwe her since you no dey around. And make e no be say you big mouth for her say you dey jand. 143 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Rainbow10: 5:32am On Nov 13, 2022 |
A lot of simps, Definitely they gonna learn in a hard way. 114 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by MarketDispatch: 5:49am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101: Since you are in the UK, you will only see or be shown what she wants you to see from facetime etc . A true representative is to carry out discreet checks to know what she does when she is out and about, If you are ready to pay, some Nairalanders will be willing to carry it out for you. 209 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Zonefree(m): 5:51am On Nov 13, 2022 |
shege45:@bolded shows you're the true son of your father. You're one of the few sensible men alive. International SIMP wants to personalize our community project. It must end in pains 232 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Nobody: 5:53am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Nobody: 5:53am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101: is she lightskin? 42 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by dawnomike(m): 5:54am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:I understand how you feel right now. But please, be patient 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Zonefree(m): 5:55am On Nov 13, 2022 |
MarketDispatch:One who pays to checkmate the activities of a Nigerian girl is being foolish and wasteful. These demons are already damaged, why wasting funds to ascertain the level of her damaged lifestyle 98 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by falcon01: 6:04am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:As a Man, you are always gonna be used. That been said, test her that your stay in UK is abruptly coming to an end tell her some of your things are gone you are broke and only have things for minimal sustainance tell her you are coming back to Nigeria and you don't think you are going back to UK but back in Nigeria you can have a house, marry and sustain yourself. And notice if her attitudes towards you changes, watch how she comforts and consoles you, notice if she's genuinely concerned about your situation, go like 5 days without calling her and see if she's calling e.t.c Note tell her all those things on different occasions, gradually gradually and see if she draws back. 294 Likes 26 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Nazgul: 6:15am On Nov 13, 2022 |
The mistake you made was telling her that you're in the UK. If you had told her you're in northern Nigeria and she still showed seriousness, you could have concluded that she's into you. Cos no girl who you tell that you're in UK, US or Canada would turn you down. You're like an answered prayer to them. 325 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Nonywendy(m): 6:17am On Nov 13, 2022 |
pussyeater:how will she enter UK of they don't marry first? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Kobicove(m): 6:32am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Slow things down a bit, don't be in too much of a hurry 15 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by GorillaApp(m): 7:41am On Nov 13, 2022 |
MarketDispatch:Good suggestion. Op drop location 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Nobody: 7:50am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101: Before you get married to anyone, even if you met the person online or face to face you must have been shown something about this person especially in dreams. The only way you can verify if she would be all what you have envisaged is to always check your dream carefully especially ones that have to do with her. Secondly you can ask your mum (specifically) to pray about it for you. So the key here is PRAYER 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by nicerod(m): 7:52am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Her love for u might be genuine But this days I'm scared of our ladies 31 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Nobody: 7:58am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Rainbow10: The only and best way is by praying. Is not even safe to pick a woman in Buckingham palace talk more of the environs. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by SPAMBOX7: 8:14am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Your instincts are already kicking against it. Now what's stopping you from permitting your brain to do small kicking too? Cos you already know how pretentious women can be just to achieve an aim. And here you are even dealing with a 45 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by excanny: 8:19am On Nov 13, 2022 |
You will soon be served breakfast. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by SPAMBOX7: 8:21am On Nov 13, 2022 |
falcon01:Lol even American girl go dump you for half of those tests, talk more of the hunger infested hoes here 39 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Savedday: 8:26am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Baba, when u marry her reach UK, na she go throw u out of your own home and make you homeless. 9ja girls and pretending are 5&6. Very useless and wicked...... All of them. And they don't love. 57 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by BigDawsNet: 8:33am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101: Take this and try it... I'm the States and I will never ever thing of getting a wife from Nigeria when we have over 120m single ladies here.. You can't really no the true nature of who you dealing with... when you guys hav not met physically... You can test her by telling her... you hav just been transferred from the UK to resume in Ivory Coast for a job... and that will be your home of residence until futhers notice... Focus on the test... and try to study her response and reaction towards the news... The result of the test will give you everything you need to make a decision Good luck 68 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by muyico(m): 8:50am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:Prays abt it?? Consult wise men! Dont try to fall prey, bcus it wil b very hard to come out. But consult GOD first? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by falcon01: 8:56am On Nov 13, 2022 |
SPAMBOX7:toh it's either be used or Bleep em hoes! 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Dizzyyish: 8:59am On Nov 13, 2022 |
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Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by general111(m): 9:13am On Nov 13, 2022 |
See ba!!.. No one can truly predict the nature of humans. Eventhough nigerian women will change when they get there, but people are different and must be given a chance. She may just be what you need in a woman. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by techWriter1: 9:20am On Nov 13, 2022 |
women not prisoners of their mindset |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Oche211(m): 9:35am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Abort that mission. You will regret it. Kai, this girl want to carry you handicap 28 Likes 3 Shares |
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