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The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Dizzyyish: 5:42pm On Nov 12, 2022
"God made Lilith from the same dirt as adam, not from Adam. She wasn't going to submit to an equally made Adam. So God decided to make Eve from Adam, this time made her dumb so she could submit to Adam. Adam neglected his eaych over her as God instructed since Eve was childlike, having not been around as long as him or Lilith. Lilith never ate from the tree of knowledge but was cursed for not obeying God."

A somewhat derogatory term - "Fish brains" refers to a woman's logic and deductive reasoning being childlike, or rather, fish-like.
Few women will have a 'limiter' --- stunted growth of the mind --- at a young age, but the remaining--- most ---women, will have not one but two limiters that will be perpetually kept in place by their actions (dictated by their childlike minds) and by society's disinclination to hold them accountable for their actions.

The first mind stunt occurs early in their lives, from how they're raised (by their mothers) which is different from how a boy is typically raised. This stunt also necessitates her ability to be a chameleon (to forsake ideologies & integrity and side with any option that benefits her [the most] at any given moment):

"Women's silliness is but the natural result of their attitude to life. By the age of five, any girl will have been persuaded that she wants to get married and have a home and children and when girls are ten, fifteen, or twenty, they still want the same things. So if a woman decides, even as a child, to live at man's expense, what good will intelligence and reasoning be to her? She must keep her mind free for her future man, otherwise she could not respond to all his inclinations and interests and praise him for them.
As a child, how can she determine what type of man she will marry? What use would it be if she opted to become a socialist --- demonstrating female students are usually associated with demonstrating male students --- when later on she might decide to marry a well-to-do manufacturer? Suppose she became a vegetarian (sensitive being that she is) --- what happens if she later marries an Australian cattle farmer? What is the use of a woman becoming an atheist when she may spend her life within the rose-covered walls of a vicarage?
Would it have helped Jacqueline Bouvier to have developed ideological concepts as an adolescent? A leaning toward democracy helped her first marriage with J.F.K, a leaning toward fascism helps the second. But since she is one of the most 'feminine' of women, she is probably not interested in men's beliefs anyway. Basically she is interested only in pleasing and influencing women."
- Esther Vilar

The second mind stunt occurs towards and around puberty. Here they notice the exploitative naivety of males, the power of sex, and how all this can ensure their lives of comfort and leisure (marriage):

"By the age of twelve at the latest, most women have decided to become prostitutes. Or, to put it another way, they have planned a future for themselves which consists of choosing a man and letting him do all the work. In return for his support, they are prepared to let him make use of their vagina at certain given moments. The minute a woman has made this decision she ceases to develop her mind. She may, of course, go on to obtain various degrees and diplomas. These increase her market value in the eyes of men, for men believe that a woman who can recite things by heart must also 'know and understand them'. But any real possibility of communication between the sexes ceases at this point. Their paths are divided forever."
- Esther Vilar, The Manipulated Man (1971)

Woman is a coin with two sides: Eve and Lilith. Woman is fish brained by conditioning (and with reason). Her logic needs to be deficit, in a sense, so she can be malleable, hence; submissive - she becomes "Eve" and this comes with the downside of being 'fishbrained'. If she isn't conditioned, for whatever reason, she will be defiant and more destructive - she becomes "Lilith" and and this comes with the downside of being 'truculent'.

Because a ship can't have two captains and man cannot lead a defiant woman, going with the "lesser evil" of stunting woman's mind which in turn makes her submissive (and dumb) is the preferred option for man and, ultimately, society.

So chaotic is female nature that one has to choose the between two "evils" with them.

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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Dizzyyish: 6:30pm On Nov 12, 2022
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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Dizzyyish: 7:03pm On Nov 12, 2022
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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Carcholce: 7:11pm On Nov 12, 2022
Lemme book space first. I just finished eating peppered noodles because of the cold. My head is on fire. I’ll be back.

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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by 3nity7: 7:14pm On Nov 12, 2022
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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by blinking001(m): 8:24pm On Nov 12, 2022
They are all thesame. Thoughtless and wicked creatures.

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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by PerfectStranger(m): 9:00pm On Nov 12, 2022
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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Dizzyyish: 9:01am On Nov 13, 2022
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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Dizzyyish: 9:18am On Nov 13, 2022
“In everything, do to others what you would have them do to you. . . .” - Matthew 7:12

What goes around comes around.

No one gets away with anything.


Due to their solipsism, egocentrism and innate desire to have their cakes and eat it, these quotes and sayings have little (if any) meaning to a female's actions.

Females wish for a gullible, manipulable man so they can utilise him as a tool, and have their way as much as possible with little to no consequences whilst doing so --- and with the abundance of simps available --- they will likely get him. They might even convince (delude) themselves into thinking such men are "real men", "kind men" or "romantics".
Now they have conceived a son. He has come of age and is anticipating having a female in his life as a girlfriend and later wife, or maybe it's their brother who wishes for a female in his life.. Suddenly, they are uncomfortable with the very notion of their blood being a romantic or real man. This is often the basis for many Mother-in-law vs. Daughter-in-law disagreements.

Females have no qualms whatsoever with manipulating and exploiting someone's son or brother---but the moment the tables are inevitably turned it doesn't make sense anymore.

As someone once said "Females are Professional Resource Extractors". The thought of their sons/brothers being "extracted"---being a mugu---for their money, gifts, favors and/or attention is quite grating to them. But they'll gladly do the same to other people's sons or brothers.
When these men have exhausted their 'usefulness', or for some reason the extractions has come to a halt, females will then hit them with their signature "What have you ever done for me?" or "Did I force you/him to give me anything?"

How "clever" one must be to have they cake and eat it... except, no one really gets away with anything. The moment one makes the decision to have and eat their cake they've set up their investments of consequences, and in time they'll get the returns in some shape or form.
And like that, their unhappiness from these decisions, mindsets and consequences will surely seep into the lives of the men deeply involved with them.

To think that one can actually act and have no reaction, that one's actions can cause but have no effect are often the signs of narcissistic, deceptive and shallow minds, and perhaps the reason why this is a common phenomenon amongst women and an ingrained feature in their nature.

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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Dizzyyish: 11:54am On Nov 13, 2022
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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Dizzyyish: 12:24pm On Nov 13, 2022
Women are cunning, but when one hears of women's manipulativeness they probably see women as some kind of mastermind manipulator. In reality, this could not be further from the truth..

A woman's cunning is not too dissimilar to those of a child---simplistic and backed only by self-centered motives. A man who is relatively aware of women's manipulative nature and tactics can easily spot and thwart them from the get-go.
The 'effectiveness' of any manipulation is directly proportional to the manipulatee's 'naivety'. In order to strengthen the machiavellian nature of women and increase their chances of survival, men are generally raised to naive and oblivious to female nature.

"Females are takers; sadly, the average male believes that everything that he produces should be to gratify the material wants (not needs) of the females in his life (i.e. birthdays, holidays, anniversaries). Even though females do not know what they want, males are still trained, especially by their mothers, to be workhorses for females. Females become spoiled children when they cannot use a male; females are masters of self- indulgence…and self-delusion. In the mind of a female, it is never her fault; males are always to blame!"
- Rosemund P. Cherubin

Men are raised to be trusting and caring towards females; females are raised to be cautious of males while simply exploiting the male's conscientiousness towards them.
Men are logical... until it comes to a relationship then they become emotional; Women are emotional... until it comes to a relationship then they become logical.

Because "women can never be in a relationship that doesn't benefit them" and their nature to exploit man's naivety, women don't compromise on what they need. For example, I read a post from twitter a while ago pertaining to this subject matter. It was along the lines of:
"Marriage was originally intended for virgin women, but throughout the centuries men's standards kept dropping until any woman could get married. Women's standards for marriage is a man's ability to provide, and throughout the centuries women's standards have remained the same."

Women (and weak men) may give platitudes on this but, when dealing with a woman one party *has* to take the role of 'follower' (or with women, the role of 'mugu' ). Now, should you wish to relate with woman it's up to you --- the man --- to choose which role you're comfortable with.

"Men are 'romantics pretending to be realists' and women, vice versa."
- Rollo Tomassi

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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by SPAMBOX7: 12:57pm On Nov 13, 2022
What's the use of the info if the layman doesn't understand it. Make una dey calm down with English na even oyinbo wey get am no do reach like this
Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Karlifate: 7:52pm On Nov 13, 2022
Interesting read shocked

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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by DirtyGold: 9:48am On Nov 14, 2022
Oga Dizzyyish, I love this interesting vawulence you're creating... grin grin

If I no follow am to the end, call me baskard cool cool

On the real though, men need to start educating their sons on the imperatives of these gender issues.
Enlightened men must create time to nurture their sons rather than relegating the task to women. Too many feminized males abound nowadays!

What's tha business?

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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Dizzyyish: 8:36pm On Dec 11, 2022
DirtyGold:
Oga Dizzyyish, I love this interesting vawulence you're creating... grin grin

If I no follow am to the end, call me baskard cool cool

On the real though, men need to start educating their sons on the imperatives of these gender issues.
Enlightened men must create time to nurture their sons rather than relegating the task to women. Too many feminized males abound nowadays!

What's tha business?
Truth.
Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Dizzyyish: 8:26pm On Mar 11, 2023
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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Autobot05: 11:56pm On Mar 11, 2023
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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Dizzyyish: 11:58am On Mar 12, 2023
Autobot05:
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Comrade, vawulence is prohibited in this place oh grin
Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Autobot05: 12:15pm On Mar 12, 2023
Dizzyyish:

Comrade, vawulence is prohibited in this place oh grin

Comrade the content of your topic says otherwise cheesy
Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Dizzyyish: 8:17pm On Mar 12, 2023
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Comrade the content of your topic says otherwise cheesy
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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Dizzyyish: 12:28am On Apr 01, 2023
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Re: The Peaceful and Wise Ways of Women by Jb95(m): 10:54am On Apr 01, 2023
Quite an interesting read... I think it's safe to assume the OP is not female, cuz I see lots of the best kept secrets in the feminine arsenal being exposed here grin

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