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Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by webincomeplus(m): 11:19am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:What I'll advise is this: Don't be in a rush to take her over to the UK. More importantly, tell her she'll need to give you more time after your marriage before you'd take her over. Then watch her reactions to that. Her reactions might reveal her real motives. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Oche211(m): 11:22am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Lucrativress: Lol... I know you will support her. Bunch of gold diggers. Imagine the guy is not in UK. Will the relationship take this dimensions? 5 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Idamond: 11:23am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101 considering her age she's not for the japa or money... if you love her you marry her. not everyone was meant to be in a forever relationship before getting married, have seen someone that met a lady one month later they got married.. destinies are different.... leave your emotions and logics, if she's your speck strike ASAP and thank me later. secondly don't rush taken her to the UK, allow her to fill relief and also to mingle with your family before taken her.. u can process her visa from 3 quarter of next year.. congratulations in advance... 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by nnamdiosu(m): 11:24am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101: How many years did you school in the university? How many years did you school in your secondary school? If these things that are temporary took at least 20 years to study, hoe much more an individual you'll leave with for the rest of your life? If you've seen a marriage gone bad, you'll bear the brief loneliness to understand the person. It was those days, you could meet s person this week and get married the next week and things can move smoothly. But these days..... Bros calm down. Good things take time to build. Pm me for more counselling if you have more to share. God bless you 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by baby124: 11:24am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Don’t take advise from anyone that abbreviates their words. There are teenagers on this platform who believe they are old enough for marriage and try to advise their fathers and mothers. The only way you can decide if someone is for you is to spend time with them. Go to Nigeria, fly her over for a visit, go to vacation together. Go with an open mind and give it 6 months to a year. Don’t waste too much time, most girls have multiple suitors. She should also be expected to keep her options open because you have not expressed your intentions to marry her yet! What if you decide she’s not for you 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Raalsalghul: 11:24am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Given how opportunistic and materialistic Nigerian ladies can be, I wouldn't advise this move. So, just like some posters before me, pretend your fortunes are about to change for the worst and watch her reaction. Also, why can't you get women in the U.K even if it's just for sex only? 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Princeokwuego1(m): 11:25am On Nov 13, 2022 |
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Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by darthv: 11:25am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:You found a lady online lolz. Omo, first thing first does she have a job, Don't ever wife a woman that doesn't have a verified source of income. If she is young, is she staying with her parents? Girls who are in their 20-30 and still have strong affiliation with their immediate families are the best. Hook up girls full every where o. And leeches 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by babzlim(m): 11:27am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101: if you have an elder brother or younger brother let him go to the area she lives and make some findings about her. but he has to be smart � and intelligent. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Lucrativress(f): 11:29am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Oche211:lolll If I don't dig gold, I wander what you expect me to dig Panda? |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Killermamba: 11:30am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101: Brother you will never know, just follow your heart and prays for God guardians |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Lucrativress(f): 11:31am On Nov 13, 2022 |
darthv:I have just heard another new one 1st paragraph share brain 2nd one E no add up So ladies not living under their parents roof are... Better stop generalising 1 Like |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by loffyloffy: 11:32am On Nov 13, 2022 |
If your mind is in agreement, go ahead and marry her.. I am not guaranteeing you that everything will be perfect, No..but if you like wait for 10 years to marry her...it is still not a guarantee. Ideally a lady at 30, will appreciate the opportunity to be married, and is more likely to be in the mind frame for marriage, japa or not japa..that is ideally.. Every relationship is a risk, but most comes with there pleasurable and worthwhile period..You can't go about living your life in fear, as no relationship is guaranteed. So if you.are ready, take the plunge, this may just be the one 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by GEEBITE: 11:33am On Nov 13, 2022 |
My friend is in a deep dark place now. One of the most heart rending stories of this manner. He left for UK same day we finished high school with us feeling like we have been left behind. When we got reunited in 2009 after I moved to UK,he was in a mess and has wasted about 15years of his life as a result of mixing up with wrong folks. Through a well heeled classmate of ours we were able to get him to fix his life again and he started doing well running an auto garage. He took the advice of his mum bringing a girl in from Nigeria. Now his world has crumbled again. DNA has revealed the child he thought was his is for another man. He lost it totally and that has led to him losing his house to that lady and mounting debts in mortgage and compulsory family upkeep has led to mental breakdown. How can a life crumbled twice before 50. It is really a sad one. pocohantas: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Lucrativress(f): 11:35am On Nov 13, 2022 |
nnamdiosu:Calm what down biko? He needs mental wisdom to decipher the kind of person she is. Wipe he should coman waste time, she is 30 fa He should start taking note of things, if he is smart he'll know her, he has to be able to read her mind as much as he can. Either leave her now or marry her if she is good. She is not getting younger.... 1 Like |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Lucrativress(f): 11:37am On Nov 13, 2022 |
GEEBITE: The earlier we start understanding that an ample amount of Nigerian men are not soo wise, the better. I'm sorry if this seems like an insult But when it comes to spousal selections, they're less intelligent.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by kologba: 11:39am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:get are weded here in NIGERIA... Make sure she got kids for you here in NIGERIA.. after the two babies take her to u.k permanently....which means u will marry her and take her to ur family house if u have father or mother.... Don't try that nonsense of taking a lady that has not got baby for you to abroad....u will end up counting ur losses....japa na 90% youth mindset for nigeria o |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Lastborn0074: 11:41am On Nov 13, 2022 |
falcon01:GOOD METHOD OF TESTING HER SINCERITY. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by PisciMan: 11:41am On Nov 13, 2022 |
GEEBITE: Damn. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by ObosiUkwalla: 11:43am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Ireportlive: U go fear baby urchin giving advice na 1 Like
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Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by abbasajao(m): 11:43am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Bro? Nairaland comments will deny you your happiness if care is not taking. Not everyone is unlucky and lucky when it's comes to marriage. I pray you will be lucky. Do the needful and continue to be happy. Congratulations in advance. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Spain007(m): 11:45am On Nov 13, 2022 |
shege45: Definitely this advice will ruin the relationship cos no matured/active single unmarried lady is without any form of courtship/besties. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by REALretep(m): 11:46am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:You are obviously above 30 and want to get married as soon as possible because of the loneliness you feel. The points bolded above are very valid and you must get answers to them before getting married. Bro... don't marry until you have cleared all your doubts. Getting married while still having doubts about the lady is not good for marriage as you can easily misinterprete little harmless things she does and thus cause harm to your marriage. In summary, don't rush. Don't allow anyone or even your feelings to rush you. Marriage is a lifetime commitment that can make or mar you. Take your time in getting to know her until your gut feeling/instincts give you a thumbs up to go ahead to wife her. God can help you too...ask Him to help you |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Lucrativress(f): 11:46am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Raalsalghul: Which kin advise is this? If any man tells me his fortune is about to change for the worst. 1st that's so so pessimistic, that's a whole lot of negative energy which is a psychological irritant to me. I won't even hide it, like so who do you want to drag into trenches? Boya you should get better first ooo... But if he comes out with it this way. Babe, I've got a bit of an issue, there's been a downsize, I got layed off, had to pinch into my savings quite a little bit much but I'm working on it. I'd be coming back to the Country, I've still got just a little of my savings, I have few options I'm presently checking, could we talk about this, I need you, I know it's not what you want to hear but we could work it out together I'm sure. A lady who is wise and willing to stay would do her mental calculations well by analysing his financial intelligence. Not looking at his current finances but on a long run. One who is after his money will drop him immediately, one who is after growth will get her thesis right and see he is a moving Train, who could slow down at some bends but keep moving. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Savvy19: 11:47am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Don't allow Nigeria happen to you 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Nobody: 11:49am On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:,, She's got all the qualities you need in a wife, then I ask myself is it really possible to know someone's quality through active chatting, phoning and lots of face time without spending real time with the person? can you really judge a person from the Internet? because it is very easy for me become anyone on the internet. Don't surprise her with your visit, tell her that you are coming? As for looking into her phone, you can do that later. my own is, spend real time with her to find out if she is for real. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Opirlo: 11:53am On Nov 13, 2022 |
U can test her sincerity by playing a prank on her that u've been deported back to Nigeria on ground of new UK foreign policy against immigrants. U will finally settle in Nigeria nd get a job then Wait nd see wonder. Pls thank me later |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by gigdip999(m): 11:53am On Nov 13, 2022 |
First of all most 9ja both male and female want to japa. She one tell me say from 18 to 30 years she is now she didnt any man in 9ja to marry her, then there is something wrong with her. She went to meet ur family so do u expect to show her self or pretend she is good? Well if u ask me, its a No No! cos to marry na for life. just find a good 9ja over there 1 Like |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Nobody: 11:53am On Nov 13, 2022 |
pocohantas: Chai. Make the guy go broke abi? |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Nobody: 11:54am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Ndubuisipaul1: Even the ladies here will marvel at this your comment. Dey there make trouser dey wear you. 1 Like 1 Share |
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