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Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by udoka1987: 1:17pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
I believe you bro... Spiritual wife and husband exist. God helped me to conquer mine. Keep on the good work |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
JoeEeL: Yes, I am alive today because God gave me a second chance. |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Eviana(f): 1:39pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
ebubeson: Sir, With all due respect, this is not scriptural. This is what I keep trying to say about Nigerian christianity and the mixing of culture/superstition. This things saddens me so deeply. |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by faithfull18(f): 1:40pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
lol, atheists are irreligious but they are mostly found in the religious section, the irony. |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by achimendy(m): 1:45pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
ebubeson: Your statement is not totally correct. This is because you can not attribute everything to spiritual husband and wife. Some are also suffering from financial issues too, you can't get married when you're not financially stable. |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by JoeEeL(m): 1:59pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
AbdulMagaji: That's not my question. My question is that have you had any experience with spiritual husband or wife? |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
JoeEeL: I was very stubborn like you until the reality humbled me. Not all men/women you see on the street today in Nigeria are fully human, some self are unaware of who they are. The most scariest of it is that half humans have flooded the Nigerian churches Both as members and as leaders. I guess you are still very young, pray for God to always direct you on everything you do in life and stay out of evil. Avoid Oloshos, prostitutes. Avoid loosed girls Infact run from premarital sex 1 Like |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by JoeEeL(m): 2:12pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
AbdulMagaji: This man, u know what? Okay I don hear u. Have a great week ahead of u. |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Kay25(m): 3:02pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
ebubeson:I am a Christian I am not denying spiritual delay or spiritual involvement but why many of us are still single is because of moneyi |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by MikeofAfrica: 3:03pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
ebubeson: So assuming you met Apostle Paul who was single through out his lifetime, you will ask him to fast from dawn to night to break marital delay! Marriage is not the most important issue in life. The most important issue is fulfilling your destiny. If marriage will hinder you from fulfilling your destiny, then it is better to delay marriage until you fufill your destiny or not to marry at all like Apostle Paul . Unfortunately, people like you have turn marriage to the fulcrum of life which is against the teachings of the Bible. 1 Like |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Nobody: 3:04pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
First you have to know if the problem is spiritual, cause not all are, then if yes it takes more than this instructions for a solution. Mind you, you can be your own problem too. |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Optmus(m): 3:21pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
Total rubbish. What makes most women not get married in their early 20s is because they hop from one dịck to another trying to make the best of their hypergamy. Reality dawns on them when they hit the wall and no one is interested in them anymore. 1 Like |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Psoul(m): 3:28pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
ebubeson: So as u dey so, u are already counting urself among those in the spiritual realm? You ppl will just keep creating more problems for people with your religious ignorant. Let me tell you. Getting married or not does not depend on whether you are a born again Christian or not. Just as u want to make us believe here. Even those that are not born again are getting married more than the so called born again Christians. Most often, what you ppl termed spiritual bondage from marriage are just mere physical bondage. Finance is the most outstanding factor. Lifestyle is another Irrelevant choices is among them. May be, just may be, about 1% bondage can be attributed to spiritual effect. So stop teaching what u don't know. If we bring out the spiritual side now, you will see that u knows nothing about that side. |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by felixzo1(m): 3:42pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:you can make your points with out sounding insulting or making it personal, why is about me you are soo interested in. be a little mature, you don't know who is on the other side. i have made my points clearly without personalizing it and giving you instances. your reasoning a girl is a woman only if she is 18, girls marry in Nigeria everyday before 18 more over that is not what the topic was about , |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by whytediamond(m): 3:44pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
JoeEeL: If countries of the world dey represented by body parts, which part of the body naija for be? |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Exedyne: 4:14pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
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Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by TheGift: 4:51pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
Rayban25: Two problem are that 1. Many of us , Men, have not learnt to separate our Woman (Wife) from all other Women and we have not learnt to separate all other Women from our own (Lawfully wedded Wife) 2. Many of us Men don't know that if a Woman really cares about you, She will follow your lead. Thus maybe some of the issues you have with Her, are but a result of your misleading And inability to handle Her. As a Man, you don't need to handle all Womenc you just need to handle your Woman. But have you learnt to handle yourself? Before you start blaming the daughter of someone else for ALL your marital problems |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by TheGift: 4:57pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
AbdulMagaji: You cannot sincerely respect someone if you don't love them , or at least something significant about them. The same way you can't claim to Love someone and disrespect them. That is why in Ephesians 5: before it says Wives submit to your husbands in Verse 22 and Husbands love your wives, it says in Vs 21. Submit yourselves one to another in reverence of christ. As a Man, You cannot love your wife without submitting yourself and ego, just as your wife cannot really submit to you except as an act of love, in response to your love. |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Nobody: 5:16pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
TheGift: I don't understand what you are trying to defend here! The instruction was not for the woman to love her man o! The love should come from the man , the woman should respect/submit to her man simple. What we have today are ladies who rub shoulders with their husbands, call them all sorts of names. Two male lion can't live together. You must not love your husband as a woman but you must submit/respect him. Any woman that lacks this cannot stay more than 10 yrs in marriage. |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Tommydare(m): 5:56pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
Continue deceivingyourself. You think thatthe world revolves around your palm, smartphone or TV? The rest of the world is totally different from Africa. There so many things you can't comprehend no matter the level of your education or exposure. Einstein confirmed that There is no smoke without fire. People that claimed all these things dey are not fools. You are not wiser, smarter than them. As Yoruba will say "enikan lomo". (He who feels it, knows it better). If you don't believe just say you don't believe. And you not believing doesn't mean things are not happening. Life is a Gordian knot....it's too complicated. JoeEeL: |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Tommydare(m): 5:59pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
But if this was brought by your white master, you won't claim they are superstitions. You will gladly accept those fake theories without questioning. quote author=felixzo1 post=120276958] we Africans are unnecessarily superstitious, everything is attributed to something spiritual. the fact is young girls are not getting married because of social factors and economic factors. social factors in the sense that some ladies have lock them self up, and don't interact much to meet their future husbands. some are limited by location the other reason is economic reason. most youths are under employed or unemployed there fore lack the financial capacity to marry and raise a family, some ladies are looking for rich men until the pass their prime, some their prime years were spent studying or in school. a lot of them are not ready to start small with any man, some are unlucky, some are unattractive and I'll mannered[/quote] |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by JoeEeL(m): 3:33am On Jan 23, 2023 |
Tommydare: Hmmn. So you too believe in spiritual wife? Do you have one? Do you have any evidence? Have you ever seen one? I don't have a problem with this... don't get me wrong. But in this day and age of sophisticated phones, cameras, computers etc... how come we cannot get one tangible evidence of these things? Just one... Im sure you remember all those stories where they will be saying half-man, half-horse... a woman's legs turn to goat legs etc... in this day and age, not one proof. People claiming miracles. Yet we have not seen an amputated hand stretch out and heal miraculously like these fairytales make believe? And you are now here tackling me? O ga o. 1 Like |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by JoeEeL(m): 3:35am On Jan 23, 2023 |
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Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by AmeLonRo(m): 4:48am On Jan 23, 2023 |
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Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by felixzo1(m): 6:11am On Jan 23, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:i will never insult anybody both online or offline read below if you want to learn https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-33636920 Spain raises marrying age from 14 to 16 The average age of marriage has increased in Spain in recent years Spain has raised the minimum age for marriage from 14 to 16, having had the lowest marrying age in Europe. Before the age was raised, boys and girls could marry at the age of 14 with the permission of a judge. It is now level with most European countries. The change comes only months after the government raised the age of consent from 13 to 16. The government announced its intention to alter the law in April 2013, but it came into force only on Thursday. The move was welcomed by officials from Unicef and children's rights groups in Spain. According to El Pais (in Spanish), only 365 marriages involving under-16s took place in Spain between 2000 and 2014 - with only five in 2014. In the 1990s, however, there were 2,678 marriages involving at least one under-16 - and 12,867 in the 1980s. Legal age of marriage in Europe 15 : Estonia (with court's consent) 16 : Germany, UK, Italy and others 18 : France, Belgium, Sweden and others The average age of marriage in Spain has increased in recent years. |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by felixzo1(m): 6:44am On Jan 23, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:Minimum age In 1929, in response to a campaign by the National Union of Societies for Equal Citizenship, Parliament raised the age limit to 16 for both sexes in the Ages of Marriage Act. This is still the minimum age. Civil partnerships The Civil Partnership Act 2004, for e |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by TheGift: 7:24am On Jan 23, 2023 |
AbdulMagaji:Don't try to understand me, just go and read Ephesians 5 from verse 21, by yourself. It says "submit yourselves one to another". It also says Husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the Church, by giving Himself for Her- how by submitting unto death. Read your Bible first before you try to argue this matter . |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Eviana(f): 10:37am On Jan 23, 2023 |
MikeofAfrica: Well stated.....was looking for an answer like this. This was stated in a way as to not hurt the OP, but bring honest truth to a culturally indoctrinated standard. Nigeria (like the majority of developing nations) has made "marriage"-- which can be a beautiful thing if God-ordained-- an idol. |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Tommydare(m): 11:19am On Jan 23, 2023 |
Bro, sophisticated equipment has theircapability and limit. They can't do more than what they are designed to do. Talking about life, it transcend beyond our imagination, cameras or phones. There is spirituality and scientific technologies can't get hold of it. Those Babalawos that use juju,they have been using it since time immemorial and it worked for them that's why they believed in it. If it wasn't working they wouldn't believed it. Can modern technology explain how it works? Can they use modern technology to as their equipment Or possibly improvised? No. Bro, things dey happen ooo. Pikin wey no know him mama boyfriend na him dey call am uncle. And as for your question, I don't have. quote author=JoeEeL post=120300893] Hmmn. So you too believe in spiritual wife? Do you have one? Do you have any evidence? Have you ever seen one? I don't have a problem with this... don't get me wrong. But in this day and age of sophisticated phones, cameras, computers etc... how come we cannot get one tangible evidence of these things? Just one... Im sure you remember all those stories where they will be saying half-man, half-horse... a woman's legs turn to goat legs etc... in this day and age, not one proof. People claiming miracles. Yet we have not seen an amputated hand stretch out and heal miraculously like these fairytales make believe? And you are now here tackling me? O ga o.[/quote] |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by JoeEeL(m): 11:49am On Jan 23, 2023 |
Tommydare: What you call juju is simply "african science". In a way, there must be some scientific explanation to it. Have you seen vanishing cloth before? People like ur type would be quick to label it "juju". Now its convenient for you to tell me all these things transcend beyond phones and cameras. But if we open ur fairy tale books, hardly would we flip 2 pages without we seeing your miracles. Either leper's hand becomes wholly new or someone rises from the dead, or a virgin becomes pregnant without sex or even graves bursting and people ascending into the air etc. But now in this century, these things can be easily verified, youre singing a different song. So all of a sudden, all those sensational extraordinary things just disappear and it doesn't worry you in the slightest? You see why I bash black people but they take it as insult. There is something genetically wrong in the way most of us reason. 1 Like |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by Tommydare(m): 2:08pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
There is a way juju can be scientifically explained? Pls go and make your research and give me feedback and not just assumptions. I will glad to see your scientific explanation "my modern day Isaac Newton" . I will be waiting. JoeEeL: |
Re: Spiritual Reasons And Solutions For Delay in Marriage Among Christian Singles by JoeEeL(m): 11:21pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
Tommydare: Typical religious boy. Not so fast. The onus is on u not me. The burden of proof is on u who claims ur miracles and juju exists. I refute so, yet you want me to prove it. Come, many of you so-called black nigerians need to update ur thinking. |
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