HumbleTrader:
How about you speak to your partner instead of random strangers online.

u dey mind him? Rushing to Nairaland Supreme court like we were there when he rendered the alleged help to the girl

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Free rider go try own luck separately. She cant bring u as a dependent if you’re not married. Only you can bring yourself as a single person.
Go and buy TOEFL…. Study and take the exam. Helping your gf with the hope on riding on her success is pure delusion. Try and challenge your luck.

RUN AND FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE MORE..

It might be cheaper for you to marry her than apply for study visa.
So, the ball is in your court technically.
My 2cent

Jennyclay:
If you support her with application fee nko? Mtcheeww.

Men should learn to help and not expect anything in return. Nawa oo!

If the lady decides not to marry you after spending on her, it's her choice and not a sin against God.

Biko, don't spoil her show oo!

BT U WILL SUDDENLY START CRYING WHEN THE CASE IS REVERSED.

WOMEN ARE THE DEVIL THEMSELVES.

VERY WICKED

Jennyclay:
If you support her with application fee nko? Mtcheeww.

Men should learn to help and not expect anything in return. Nawa oo!

If the lady decides not to marry you after spending on her, it's her choice and not a sin against God.

Biko, don't spoil her show oo!

Lol, here you are as usual

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Thief

Breakfast for u already...sorry bro

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

bro she sees you now as a liability. To her you going with her would jeopardize her chances of get a richer guy over there. Cut your losses and move on.

O.t.i.l.o.

rickpat:
she hasn't even gotten the visa,she is acting this way..maybe she neva even get visa appointment...bro,let her be and focus on your life...If she gets the visa..good...if she doesn't.. DON'T ACCEPT HER BACK...I hate it when people. are dating and one party feels they're smarter or wiser than the other...

FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE

US VISA ABI?.. OKAY O..I JUST DEY LAUGH THAT GIRL ..PINK PAPER GO RESET HER BRAIN

I agree completely with you bro,d girl is naive,she no know say visa approval is the koko and not even the admission

Omoapena:


Call fire fighters

Am I buhari

Lifeinbits

She's no longer your girlfriend. You're not "ambitious" enough for her if not you would have used all that time, money and effort to process your own travelling plans knowing fully well she could have sorted herself out through relatives. Right now, she's looking for a way to dump your âss and blame it on you so she'll have a clean conscience. Don't argue with her or bring up marriage topic again, apply for studies yourself and write that TOEFL without telling her. If she brings up the topic (she won't), tell her everything I told you here and that you're only protecting your heart and interests since it's obvious she's tactically weaning herself from you then listen to her blab

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Ode

Golddigger.

She used her intellect to get there. You want to leech off her. Use your brain and get there.

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Oga you go dey trust eve 😂

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Getting admission abroad is easier than getting it in Nigeria. It is getting visa that is the issue. She never get visa and she is already acting up. Boy it is time you know your priorities

You should be happy that God has exposed who she is, my guy double ur hustle. There something about women when they are btw 18 and 25 their brains no dey allow them see the future. Guy go make the money na you go select women as you want

Only a Nigerian fool applies for US student visa.

Don't waste your money

You be mumu

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Just relax and watch her trying to gather what's left of the relationship after visa denial.. For God's sake, Admission is not visa. US visa nor be beans o.. She never loved you.
Move on bro.

My guy let her go

Mine did this thing to some years ago

Today am married with children and blessed with a profitable business


Any woman who des not want you let her go

Weak men everywhere.. so that's why you are crying like tata..? Oga leave that bitch Alone..

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Borrow yourself sense. Admission to school is not a guarantee for visa, she will still need you like someone commented before.
I remembered a girlfriend I wanted to help like 15 years ago, she was working as a contract staff in a bank and she used to complain every time, I took her CV to another bank where my friend works and within 2 days, they called her for interview, and she passed the first stage. After some weeks, she told me that those people did not employ her and I told her that she only wrote a test and has not gone beyond that stage only for her to tell me that she has passed 2 stages more, she has seen the M.D and he rejected her despite the fact that they came from the same place. From that moment my feelings for died. I even went back to my friend to narrate her ordeal but she rebuked me that what happen to my own cv that I should prefer a girlfriend to myself.

Once again, zero you mind and try to push yourself first

Our eyes go clear very soon! Speak with your girlfriend abeg. Talk one on one with her..

HumbleTrader:
How about you speak to your partner instead of random strangers online.

sometimes in life you just need a third party opinion/advice! that's what he needed, Which you have already contributed to without knowing it(probably) by telling him to talk to his partner.

This life is very simple sir! Na humans just dey make am difficult.

CrownOfClay724:
You sound entitled, and dependent.
I find that a little 'unmanly'.

You should be making plans for your life as well instead of planning on another person's plan.
She go sweep your leg.
E sure me die.

You couldn't have said it better. Dude had zero plan for himself all along. He laid his entire being on another person's plan, which I find very stupid for an adult.

How can your girlfriend's plan be your plan? OP needs a hot healing slap.

Fast break or abi break fast.

Get her pregnant and thank me later.

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Hmmn, I think she loves you and is giving you an opportunity to make an active decision in your future. I say this because when you migrate, you would be starting from ground zero except you guys are wealthy. In the process of growing from ground zero, the core of your relationship will most likely be challenged. Your perspective on life will change and you will have to deal with the situation as best as you can but remember, you are coming on dependent visa, you no get mouth because you are rely on her visa status.

Personally, When my partner and I were in Nigeria na she dey cook, I just dey lounge and that was my expectation but now na me dey enter kitchen cook myself and my
Perspective had to change to accept the fact that the most important thing is for food to enter my stomach not how it was made or who made it.

I’d say focus on your life as well, shelf the marriage plans and as she advised, try the student visa thing for yourself as well. One thing though, as a prospective Nigerian man in the diaspora, you can chance of meeting babes way pass your girl high and you may even get the option to choose which suits you better.

Life is to short for bula ba, focus of what makes u happy now and in the future.

obembet:
Abeg allow her jare... Just keep praying for her make the country favor her.

so make he turn prayer warrior on top another person head.una they try

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Post this on travel section,you will get the advice you need.if you both apply together,you guys could be rejected.
https://www.nairaland.com/7194807/general-usa-student-visa-enquiries-part/220