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Married Ex by Nobody: 7:35pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories? My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other. I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed. This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them. 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Married Ex by Mindlog: 7:40pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
You unconsciously still want the interaction, reason you don't want to block him and the talk of not wanting to "offend" him , when you are ready to severe all forms of communication.....you will know what to do. 691 Likes 35 Shares |
Re: Married Ex by yomi007k(m): 7:49pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
IGNORE his SOUL....up to the 7th heavens. Or you self wan practice Okafor's Law? 42 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Ex by TheeDetective: 7:53pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
You seem to enjoy the interaction you are having with your Ex ; hence, the reason why you don’t want to let go. Otherwise, why will you be having such conversations with him on your uploaded pictures when you are no longer an item? As Mindlog has said, when you are ready to severe all forms of communication with your Ex, you will do it. Bear in mind, he is married with a child so don’t go and scatter that home. ENOUGH SAID Ficklemind: 52 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Married Ex by Gift96: 8:17pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
you are still attracted to him that is why you don't want to offend him and you don't want to block him 91 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Married Ex by Nobody: 8:25pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
yomi007k:If she can't decide on what to do, the hoe's definitely getting scotty PIPPen'd. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Married Ex by Berrityga: 8:34pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
Two of you will soon knack.. Cause your not in control of your emotions and you fall cheapishly. 74 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Married Ex by Nobody: 8:42pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
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Re: Married Ex by Beremx(f): 8:56pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
As long as you both talk once in a while, he will keep getting in touch. The problem now is that he's jealous and can't help it. Warn him to stop being stupid. If he continues, you block him. But I know you will still unblock him later 🤣🤣 37 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Married Ex by Mindlog: 9:08pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
Beremx: Block wetin?😆😆 She gets her thrills from knowing that despite him being married, he still feels jealous around her and gives her a feel of "control" over his emotions.😜😜😜😜 90 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Married Ex by frozen70(f): 9:14pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
Ficklemind: He still have feelings for you and wish it will reignite No matter what your tells him, he will never stop bringing back memories Just ignore his comments especially on your postures, when he is tired he will delete everything Dont reply all his post, ignore them and let him understand that it's actually over between you guys 12 Likes |
Re: Married Ex by Beremx(f): 9:20pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
Mindlog:hmmm as if she doesn't like how the guy is being jealous. Abegi!! That's why I said she will still unblock him. 😂😂😂 11 Likes |
Re: Married Ex by Richy4(m): 9:29pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
You are not over him yet as well.. I wish something like AS was not in the picture....But reality have spoken and you guys obeyed.. I have to commend you for that.. However , u have to try and discourage any kind of flirtatious tendencies from him...You don't have emotional sacrament with him anymore... Consider blocking him on social media to avoid temptation... It was an old wonderful domestic flame that was prematurely extinguished.... A little fan can rekindle the flame ... It will now blow over, become a wild fire and affect lots of people... Just be careful.. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Ex by KanwuliaExtra: 9:33pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
I think you are loving the attention and are quite immature if you cannot set boundaries in any level of your relationship. Why should you be posting pictures of 'random guys' on your profile if you are not trying to portray an unrealistic picture of your social life? I can't offer any piece of advice because you should know better. . . . especially with an ID like 'Ficklemind'. Carry on! You will soon get tired and will grow old fast. 20 Likes |
Re: Married Ex by Nobody: 9:40pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
Ficklemind: You are really dancing at the edge of a cliff. It's exhilarating and you're basking in the knowledge that he still thinks of you and wants you. It's unfortunate with the genotype business. You have my sympathy. But there's no polite way to do this and you'll be sleeping with him in no time if you're not careful. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Married Ex by Nazgul: 9:45pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
If you know what's best for you, better severe all ties with that guy, cos if you foolishly leave your communication lines with him open as you're currently doing, he'll keep flattering you until you fall one day and boom! Okafor's law would be activated. Once okafor's law is activated, you wouldn't know what you're doing to yourself, because you're enjoying the moment. You feel you love him, and just can't let him go. He'll profess geninue love to you, because he badly missed your coochie and wants to keep drilling it. And you'll foolishly believe him. Then you'll start having issues with serious guys who want a future with you because of him. You wouldn't be able to be completely honest with them, time after time, they'll keep seeing undeniable proof that you still keep contact with your ex, and one by one they'll walk out of your life because of a guy who's happily married. At the end of the day, when your body must have depleted and every shred of beauty gone, your so call ex lover leave you to your fate and hopp back to his beautiful wife and kids. He'll post their pics on social media and thank God for the wonderful family he has. You would have aged quite a bit and unfortunately discover that as the years went by, your admirers kept diminishing until you literally have almost no serious guy asking you out anymore. You would want to go back to him, but at that point he'll be the one who would block you. He'll tell you he has given his life to Jesus Christ and wants to focus on his home, by becoming a good father and husband. You'll be depressed, suicidal, hateful and bitter because your illicit affair with him costed you a handful of potential suitors and a possible happy home. A word they say is enough for the wise. 51 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Married Ex by Kobojunkie: 9:46pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
Ficklemind:Ignore him and focus on others in your circle? The problem isn't your ex but that you still love having his attention in your life. So, you need to work on you and your focus. Ask yourself why you care so much about what he has to say or not say? Answer these and other questions for yourself and hopefully in time, you wouldn't even mind whether he notices your pictures or not. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Ex by Saintmary(f): 10:58pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
Ficklemind: Someone that is trying to keep you available for sex, you're playing with fire. You won't be able to have any meaningful relationship for a very long time. How much is the price for your future? Respect yourself and move on. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Ex by eniolorunfe: 11:19pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
You better block him for your own good and stop playing with 🔥 2 Likes |
Re: Married Ex by oldienavie: 11:39pm On Feb 09, 2023 |
Op, your ex is behaving like that because you are not married yet. Having said that, the fact you are struggling to put him in his place , means that you lack the right level of discipline, the fact you still maintain communication with a married man says so much about you. My summary is that, look for your own husband and stop trying to ruin another persons home. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Ex by Nobody: 1:12am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Mindlog:I don’t want the interaction that is the reason I want to stop it. Was actually thinking there would be a way of setting the boundaries because my intentions are pure towards him and I don’t pray that his marriage fails. Most times, I just ignore his chats. Now that I know how our conversation can cause damages to his marriage, I will severe all ties with him. 11 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Married Ex by Nobody: 1:16am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Berrityga: My emotions are under control 💯, we’ve not seen ever since we separated and I don’t have the intention of meeting him. With all been said, I know what to do 4 Likes |
Re: Married Ex by Nobody: 1:21am On Feb 10, 2023 |
TheGoodAmerican: Feelings! After how many years? I don’t have feelings for him and have never met with him since or have the intention too. This guy never showed all these since we separated, hence why I never had a reason to block him ( he got married two years ago thou). Our chat is always once in two to three months but lately he just changed and bringing up unnecessary conversation. |
Re: Married Ex by Nobody: 1:25am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Mindlog: This is so out of line. Have not even seen this guy in years, we don’t talk on phone neither do we VC or anything close. Now I know have been out of line. |
Re: Married Ex by Nobody: 1:30am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra: You mean I don’t have the right to take pictures with male friends? If there is anything attached between my male friends and I it should be my concern not anyone. Moreover, I wasn’t trying to pass across any message to anyone by posting pictures with my course mates. |
Re: Married Ex by Nobody: 1:33am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Nazgul: That can never happen. No way we will meet and just to be on a safer side I will just block him. 4 Likes |
Re: Married Ex by KanwuliaExtra: 1:38am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ficklemind: You have the right to post what ever or who ever you wish. It is just not appropriate as a SINGLE OR MARRIED LADY. Same goes for males. Next, malicious gossip will be flying around you and all you can say is 'we are just friends'. How many male friends' pictures will you post all over social media? From 'male friends' to 'course mates'. . . Oya KONTINU. . . . . You will soon post 'god fathers'! 7 Likes |
Re: Married Ex by Nobody: 1:48am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra: Are my course mates my enemies? Does the picture mean I’m into them or they are into me? Don’t I take pictures with female friends too? Because he doesn’t feel comfortable with it doesn’t mean others will too. Maybe you should check my previous post and see that I don’t flirt with random guys. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Ex by Nobody: 4:18am On Feb 10, 2023 |
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Re: Married Ex by JaneYave(f): 5:13am On Feb 10, 2023 |
You are the one feeding his schemes Stop giving him attention, become consciously absent and watch it die naturally. 4 Likes |
Re: Married Ex by Mindlog: 5:17am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ficklemind: Have you blocked him? 2 Likes |
Re: Married Ex by mrblessed(m): 5:47am On Feb 10, 2023 |
And you don't want to block him? Continue. |
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