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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by dannykares: 10:17pm On Apr 07, 2023
frozen70:


She lost her home even before the arrival of the house maid

So if she is sure that she is in charge of her home and she has been contributing actively to support her home and family

Let her take that girl to the pack with all her belongings let me see if her husband will pack and follow her

Nonsense
Ma dear not even taking her to de park but de issue is this wife always busy looking for maid or feels too big to take care of her home??


If any of those was her problem then de poster being her sister supposed to be in good term helping her sis at home

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by dxpen6ivofficial(m): 10:18pm On Apr 07, 2023
na she carry hand buy wahala for her self, how did it get a point whereby house girl now cooks for oga? its obvious she doesnt know her role as a wife so let the house girl assist her

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Pat081: 10:18pm On Apr 07, 2023
How many children did she have? Did she works in a bank or hospital Or maybe she is the type that will sit down in one place and be ordering people around the house so op let your sister talk for herself

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by nedekid: 10:19pm On Apr 07, 2023
adewumiopeyemi:
Your married sister or you

Go to the point so that people can advice you in the comment section


This is not a. Matter of shame again

Lol
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by ukaface(f): 10:19pm On Apr 07, 2023
Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?
Why was the maid employed in the first place?
To look after children or cook food?
How many kids your sister get?
Who suggested maid?
Wetin be your sister work?
Was your sister over pampered as a child?
Why not involve parents?

Because na so trouble go Dey sleep , yanga go waka go wake am up. Kasala don burst now, you don Dey look for how to patch am

Upon the story of maid snatching husbands, you still open eyes allow maid inside your house.

Person wey wan die suppose don prepare himself or herself well well

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Pat081: 10:19pm On Apr 07, 2023
dxpen6ivofficial:
na she carries hand buy wahala for her self, how did it get a point whereby house girl now cooks for oga? its obvious she doesn't know her role as a wife so let the house girl assist her
maybe she is a lazy cook
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Rhozabeth(m): 10:19pm On Apr 07, 2023
Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?

I always have problem with marriage that the man has complete control: what happens to the woman saying she doesn't want the girl and if the husband keeps insisting then she should ask the husband to choose between her and the maid. But if she keeps getting scared! The day will come when she will find the maid lying on her bed!

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Positiveme2020: 10:21pm On Apr 07, 2023
advanceDNA:
Learn how to cook better food...mba!!! ..... you say "i am a feminist..my husband-to-be should also go and learn how to cook to satisfy me"....

But u sabi only snake in the eagle and hold burglary style.... the sex seff...u are always tired, asking him "is it food" grin

Okay naa..food matter don come...now u are crying and hating on another girl that can cook accusing her she wants to crash your home.... nothing should happen to that poor girl ooo... grin

And I don't see what the poor girl is doing wrong,she can become wife no 2.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by jude2016: 10:22pm On Apr 07, 2023
Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?

You don't know how to cook, that's why your husband or your sister's husband prefer the meal cooked by the maid! You have to buckle up my dear.

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by miketayo(m): 10:24pm On Apr 07, 2023
How come a maid is cooking, she probably allowed her a couple of times till it became a norm
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by nedekid: 10:25pm On Apr 07, 2023
Many years ago, my guy visited me, we strolled to my brother's house. Immediately my paddy saw my bros househelp when she came to serve us drinks, he dragged me aside and said,
"ASIN" weh we de go find outside, na him your broda put for house as HG?
Omo, if you see the HG, yellow like oyinbo, not one spot of blemish for the skin. The curves nko? Forget!
Why will women put such chicks in the house as HGs?

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Abujaexpress: 10:26pm On Apr 07, 2023
Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?
Some wives are so annoying, dirty and terrible to warrant a husband looking the other way

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Elsueno: 10:26pm On Apr 07, 2023
CashVessel:
Your sister does not need permission to drive her rival. When the husband leaves , bundle her out sharply. Shame will not.let.the man go and get her back in.
This isn't the time to show weak was by crying.
The world is not a nice place at all.

I assure u, if d sister indeed can't cook, then that maid is coming back, only dis time as a co-wife...what u are saying would only work if has to do with sex or anything else 😅

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by advanceDNA: 10:26pm On Apr 07, 2023
ukaface:

You just had to use that word ‘ feminist’
Did she say she is a feminist?
Amebo

Yes, all men should learn how to cook the earlier you understand it’s not about feminism the better for you o.
Any small thing na feminism, you wey Dey talk Wetin be feminism??

Ur name na feminist?? Why the matter dey bite u for body.....?? Since when the feminist become am insult.....
Abeg oooo...no be say make u no sabi cook oooo....u dey advice others make them go learn yet u dey suppprt ur gender wey no sabi.... which kind person be this??

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by advanceDNA: 10:28pm On Apr 07, 2023
Positiveme2020:


And I don't see what the poor girl is doing wrong,she can become wife no 2.

No let too much sense kill you jare grin
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by ukaface(f): 10:28pm On Apr 07, 2023
advanceDNA:


Ur name na feminist?? Why the matter dey bite u for body.....?? Since when the feminist become am insult.....
Abeg oooo...no be say make u no sabi cook oooo....u dey advice others make them go learn yet u dey suppprt ur gender wey no sabi.... which kind person be this??
E don pain am grin grin grin

Oga go learn how to cook
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by jessylaurel(f): 10:28pm On Apr 07, 2023
Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?

What the hell is she doing with a house help. I bet she's an igbo woman lazy set of.

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by zomoears(m): 10:31pm On Apr 07, 2023
Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?

Things she is not saying.
1. House maid cooks better
2. Housemaid cleans better
3. Housemaid respects the husband and gives him that manly feeling. Wife is most likely an arrogant feminist who has been deceived that submission to her husband is slavery.
4. She has unresolved issues with her husband, and instead of accepting fault/blame, she would rather blame the housemaid as the source of her problem.

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by vickydevoka(m): 10:31pm On Apr 07, 2023
SyrusdeHansome:
The question is, how did she always treat her husband b4 the coming of the maid? Was she a good nd submissive wife to the husband or was she always a nagging, disobedient nd disrespectful wife? No man will just decide all of a sudden to disrespect the wife he suffered to marry just because of a maid he didn't suffer to employ. There's a very vital part of this story that u deliberately decided to ommit nd until u tell us nobody will have the right advice 4 u.
How many women are submissive this days. They are only submissive when they are poor.

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by jessylaurel(f): 10:31pm On Apr 07, 2023
Lovilla:
trash..

if i am to be in my sister's shoe, i would ve poisoned that girl on a lowkey.

Lol with this comment I know now grin

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by zomoears(m): 10:32pm On Apr 07, 2023
jessylaurel:


What the hell is she doing with a house help. I bet she's an igbo woman lazy set of.
Things she is not saying.
1. House maid cooks better
2. Housemaid cleans better
3. Housemaid respects the husband and gives him that manly feeling. Wife is most likely an arrogant feminist who has been deceived that submission to her husband is slavery.
4. She has unresolved issues with her husband, and instead of accepting fault/blame, she would rather blame the housemaid as the source of her problem.

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by vickydevoka(m): 10:33pm On Apr 07, 2023
Lovilla:
trash..

if i am to be in my sister's shoe, i would ve poisoned that girl on a lowkey.
End up in prison. N it husband will fûck another maid. Even marry herself. Use Ur brain. Now I know women n cultist don't think aftermath effect

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by zomoears(m): 10:34pm On Apr 07, 2023
Rhozabeth:


I always have problem with marriage that the man has complete control: what happens to the woman saying she doesn't want the girl and if the husband keeps insisting then she should ask the husband to choose between her and the maid. But if she keeps getting scared! The day will come when she will find the maid lying on her bed!

There are qualities I expect of my woman. I will chose the housemaid if wifey does not meet up. QED.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Codes151(m): 10:34pm On Apr 07, 2023
Have you eaten your sisters food?
Try that first before drawing conclusions

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Pat081: 10:34pm On Apr 07, 2023
Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?
Na you not your sister jo stop telling lies today na good Friday

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by paduzman: 10:34pm On Apr 07, 2023
I think there's something the maid is doing that your sister isn't doing, make she check herself well well.

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by zomoears(m): 10:35pm On Apr 07, 2023
ukaface:

You just had to use that word ‘ feminist’
Did she say she is a feminist?
Amebo

Yes, all men should learn how to cook the earlier you understand it’s not about feminism the better for you o.
Any small thing na feminism, you wey Dey talk Wetin be feminism??

I beg ehn. Go Europe or US and go and marry.

I know how to cook very well, but I cook cos I want to, not cos I have to. The woman that expects that I HAVE to cook should go and meet her parents.

E no hard.

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by BloomingDale(f): 10:37pm On Apr 07, 2023
Until Nigerian women begin to understand that marriage is a contract to these Nigerian men, they will keep getting blindsided.

Nigerian men are looking for the best cooks, house-helps, nanny, prostitutes and child bearers in the guise of a wife. That’s why they go looking for such women to marry, and it’s also easy for them to cheat because they are not looking for a companion, but a house slave. Once you can no longer fulfill those conditions he will terminate the contract or go looking for another like your househelp (maybe she is a better cook).

The question is what are you as as a wife gaining from that marriage? The best solution is whatever you are gaining from him, try as much as possible to squeeze and extract as if you are running out of time and make sure you are not giving much more than him.

All that crying is just a waste of your time and effort. Think strategically and stop the foolishness.

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by BackFromBalablu: 10:37pm On Apr 07, 2023
Shey make i laugh nii abi make i pity your sista grin

Men will always be men o, don't let anyone deceive u. Take it from a guy. Either he's attracted to her or she will want to attract him, bt all i know something must shift salewa (maid) pant inside kitchen grin.
Fear and avoid house helps.
Last last i no read dis post i just comment cheesy

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Campus4u(m): 10:42pm On Apr 07, 2023
Lovilla:
give your opinion Mr Man

It doesnt matter if its me or my sister.
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Nobody: 10:43pm On Apr 07, 2023
Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?

Why is she still in the marriage when she can't do marriage job?

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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by ukaface(f): 10:44pm On Apr 07, 2023
zomoears:


I beg ehn. Go Europe or US and go and marry.

I know how to cook very well, but I cook cos I want to, not cos I have to. The woman that expects that I HAVE to cook should go and meet her parents.

E no hard.
See me see Wahala o
Did I even give a reason as to why y’all should learn how to cook?
Cooking is a necessary thing to learn, men and women should learn how to cook. Case closed
How is that a bad thing now?
If you learn am finish na you sabi how you wan use am Abi Wetin concern me? If you like turn to to your wife’s chef or let her turn to your chef, I hat no business with that.


Men should learn how to cook too. Finish!!!

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