IyaTola:
Mumu is not an insult and not even an English ward

JONSYN7154:
whatever. Its an offensive word.

IyaTola:
Really?!

abbey621:


Then what's the essence of a wife? Loading washing machine or dryer is now a thing that must be shared equally? Preparing a meal for your family is now maid work? Are you actually married? In most households they do order take in once or twice a week so I'm short of words this burnout theory.

Furthermore, there are so many other domestic duties that men are not expected to split with their wives such as lawn mowing, plumbing issues, car issues, carpentry work, paint work etc. In fact here in America, I've learned to be an handyman because the cost of labor is so high but what I refuse to subject myself to is the core duties of a wife. Preparing dinner, a clean home and laundry are the bear minimum, to make it easier we have automatic machines for everything including sweeping and moping yet burnout still dey? My grandma would be rolling in her grave right now at all these so called modern wives

Lastly, I love your caveat, if both are working full time and contribute economically in equal parts, I can assure you 90% of the households in UK or US are not splitting bills 50/50; perhaps if the bills were actually split 50/50 I can understand the man forgoing some of his basic rights but anything short of that is plain rubbish.....

IyaTola:
, help me. I need to put this app uo before the end of the month.

ahnie:

I won't be a party to it.

JONSYN7154:
Have a blissful night rest.

McStoic:


Why do most of you women support your fellow women when
any marital issues comes up? Everyone knows how bad and unfair Western laws are meant to favour women even when they're at fault

This kind of story has been told several times and most times the women use their advantage unfairly. Say the truth, if your own blood brother is kicked out of a home he sweated for or made not to see his kids just like that, will you support it?

It's the same UK that a man can be jailed and punished simply because a woman raised an unverified allegation against him. The West need to look into these things sha...

abbey621:


Then what's the essence of a wife? Loading washing machine or dryer is now a thing that must be shared equally? Preparing a meal for your family is now maid work? Are you actually married? In most households they do order take in once or twice a week so I'm short of words this burnout theory.

Furthermore, there are so many other domestic duties that men are not expected to split with their wives such as lawn mowing, plumbing issues, car issues, carpentry work, paint work etc. In fact here in America, I've learned to be an handyman because the cost of labor is so high but what I refuse to subject myself to is the core duties of a wife. Preparing dinner, a clean home and laundry are the bear minimum, to make it easier we have automatic machines for everything including sweeping and moping yet burnout still dey? My grandma would be rolling in her grave right now at all these so called modern wives

Lastly, I love your caveat, if both are working full time and contribute economically in equal parts, I can assure you 90% of the households in UK or US are not splitting bills 50/50; perhaps if the bills were actually split 50/50 I can understand the man forgoing some of his basic rights but anything short of that is plain rubbish.....

sisisioge:


How many times in a week do you need a paint job, carpentry, plumbing, mowing and all those supposed men's jobs? The average family with kids eat 3 times a day, laundry once per week, sweeping once per day, caring for the kids round the clock, etc. Again if both are working and contributing, it is too much to ask of a woman to shoulder those chores alone. The latest auto vacuum cleaning is still a new thing in homes, good old brooms and vacuum are human energy consuming tools to use!

I bet your Grandma disnt have to work and share bills equally with her husband, she didnt invest so much money and time into a professional career and education only to have to take on the wifely duties in absolution. Ypu guys want a woman that brings something to the table, a woman with good career and education, yet you want her to be the copy of your grandma Besides, Grandma must have had help from family and friends raising her kids and keeping home....what does the modern woman have? Since its wahing machine, load it and fold the cloths as your contribution to the house work biko. Be in charge of bathing the kids and getting them ready for school in the morning while madam makes their food and lunch pack....etc. Do you wonder why the whites don't pull the evil woman's card in divorce as much as the African women? Because their men were not trained like ours to subservient women. Unfortunately, we are still raising our boys the way Grandma raised our dads.

Pls interview 10 out of the nigerian marriages in trouble there to hear the cause of the discord....life can be much easier if we do the right thing.

sisisioge:


How many times in a week do you need a paint job, carpentry, plumbing, mowing and all those supposed men's jobs? The average family with kids eat 3 times a day, laundry once per week, sweeping once per day, caring for the kids round the clock, etc. Again if both are working and contributing, it is too much to ask of a woman to shoulder those chores alone. The latest auto vacuum cleaning is still a new thing in homes, good old brooms and vacuum are human energy consuming tools to use!

I bet your Grandma disnt have to work and share bills equally with her husband, she didnt invest so much money and time into a professional career and education only to have to take on the wifely duties in absolution. Ypu guys want a woman that brings something to the table, a woman with good career and education, yet you want her to be the copy of your grandma Besides, Grandma must have had help from family and friends raising her kids and keeping home....what does the modern woman have? Since its wahing machine, load it and fold the cloths as your contribution to the house work biko. Be in charge of bathing the kids and getting them ready for school in the morning while madam makes their food and lunch pack....etc. Do you wonder why the whites don't pull the evil woman's card in divorce as much as the African women? Because their men were not trained like ours to subservient women. Unfortunately, we are still raising our boys the way Grandma raised our dads.

Pls interview 10 out of the nigerian marriages in trouble there to hear the cause of the discord....life can be much easier if we do the right thing.

ahnie:
Sisi the sisi....you forgot to add *Fa* to the end comment.

sisisioge:




I diddidnt want to over corrupt the english for the guy ni fa

armyofone:


Nothing is or should be a man's or woman's job anymore.
Woman paints, mow lawn, do plumbing (yes, lay on the ground, open the drain, and get it fixed etc.
They can do oil change and replace tires.
Point is - nobody should be tag with specific duties - when your woman is also working and bringing in paycheck to support the family, you the man must be supportive in the house cooking, cleaning etc 50/50 or not, it is your home too - join hands in building it.
I have heard some men don't want to read to their kids. They say it is a woman job! Ummmm
In marriage, all hands must be on deck. It is simple - be each other support/helpmate/backbone etc.

mployer:


You women has no iota of sympathy in you.

You are wicked down to every fiber of your being, reason I don't loose guard when dealing with women. I always prepare for the worst and stay one step ahead in the game.

Hakimi remains a hero.

abbey621:


Again I ask you, do you expect a man to pay 60-80% of the bills and still be the one to do the laundry and cook? Is this your definition of equality? The only part I accept is helping out with the kids, maybe bathing them and taking them to school etc but that food and laundry, lai lai! You brought out example were they shared financial responsibilities 50/50 but how many households do you know that split bills this way and are happy?

sisisioge:


It will shock you that a lot of women are dropping more than 50% of the share and the men still expect the royal treatment... we all know it's not strange to find women earning more than men in the abroad nowadays. She earns more, drops more, yet you want to subservient her....it mostly dont end well. Meanwhile, I'm sure a lot of women would rather share the bills and chores with men equally to at least ease the burden of the unpaid work( chores) on themselves.

armyofone:


Nothing is or should be a man's or woman's job anymore.
Woman paints, mow lawn, do plumbing (yes, lay on the ground, open the drain, and get it fixed etc.
They can do oil change and replace tires.
Point is - nobody should be tag with specific duties - when your woman is also working and bringing in paycheck to support the family, you the man must be supportive in the house cooking, cleaning etc 50/50 or not, it is your home too - join hands in building it.
I have heard some men don't want to read to their kids. They say it is a woman job! Ummmm
In marriage, all hands must be on deck. It is simple - be each other support/helpmate/backbone etc.

efficiencie:


Strange women do these things and even worse. Strange women, olosho incorporated, are capable of every evil under the sun. They can cook up all manner of false charges to spite anyone. The strange woman has leveraged the laws of the West to finish the man and he deserves it. Men deserve their wives because they chose their wives based on their desires. And if your desires are immensely stupid you can expect the result of these desires to lead to catastrophe. I only hope he doesn't commit suicide. He should count all his losses as school fees, the price he needs to pay to learn the lesson he should have learned before getting married, move out of the UK to escape prison and restart his life afresh. If he survives this he will become a better mentor for others who are entering marriage as a compound fool but if he is overwhelmed by this and succumbs to depression then it is such a shame.

IyaTola:
is not as easy as you claim.

galantjoe:
I don't why people fight over their children during divorce. It is because he wanted to see his children that he was arrested as a result he lost his job, etc.

Men should know that children are better taken care by their mom. They should leave children to their mom to care for until when they re of age, they will certainly look for you.

McStoic:


Why do most of you women support your fellow women when
any marital issues comes up? Everyone knows how bad and unfair Western laws are meant to favour women even when they're at fault

This kind of story has been told several times and most times the women use their advantage unfairly. Say the truth, if your own blood brother is kicked out of a home he sweated for or made not to see his kids just like that, will you support it?

It's the same UK that a man can be jailed and punished simply because a woman raised an unverified allegation against him. The West need to look into these things sha...

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

mployer:


You women has no iota of sympathy in you.

You are wicked down to every fiber of your being, reason I don't loose guard when dealing with women. I always prepare for the worst and stay one step ahead in the game.

Hakimi remains a hero.

IyaTola:
You are Nigeria with no power supply
Oppressed by Police
You suffering unemployment and you want to ban me in Australia,
Go ahead ban me!!!

mployer:


You women has no iota of sympathy in you.

You are wicked down to every fiber of your being, reason I don't loose guard when dealing with women. I always prepare for the worst and stay one step ahead in the game.

Hakimi remains a hero.