olabrinks:
I understand what you’re saying but in 90% of cases, women don’t just react like this for no reason. A woman can never kick out a man just because she feels like it. Is he a chronic cheat? Is he physically/ emotionally abusive? Is he a drug addict? Is he lazy and financially incompetent? A lot of women cannot stand the trauma that come with these things. Peace and sanity is underrated. There’s a pattern with a lot of divorcee men, check them well and you will see where the problem lies.

seanwilliam:
gbenu e soun joor, ozizo.

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

Labadi69:


Guy you no dey go that beggars den olosho thread again? Hope say you don reduce your daily soapy o before better Yamayama finish that your head there

Omoawoke:


So it is okay to destroy the life of the father of your children, make him completely finished and useless because he must have pissed you off.
May your sons, brothers marry this type of callous woman

TenQ:

If only half the allegations is true, he must be a difficult person to live with.

Unfortunately, in Europe, it's a woman's world. It is either you treat your wife well OR she unleashes Government assisted and Legal VIOLENCE on you.

You friend is experiencing this right now.

He has no case o!
It is a loosing battle. The best he can do now is to cooperate

onatisi:

By the time he has high blood pressure and is near death , be will find out how easy it is at times to just run and recover rather than die fighting a lost cause

ahnie:

I won't be a party to it.make them nor come tag me join your cartel.

Goodnight tola

Heathrow44:
LIES LIES LIES ! Don't believe this t. wat, this story has already been run, check travel section, the OP copied and past a thread of 2021 as a new thread only to garner attention, this is an attention seeking mofo on rampage
Check this link, the original thread by Asunder

00FFT00:
People need to quit marrying these poverty of the mind ravaged women and bringing them across the pond. Also, avoid some of the ones you meet inland, they're only hustling. You'll become the hustle.

You cannot make someone who do not love you change the way they see you because you benefited them. She will use you, then transfer the benefit to the ruffian she's still in love with at okokomaiko.

Tell your friend to man up. Too many of us don see dis very shege before, but we bravely beat the challenge.

He need to lick his wounds, then go hustle like his last breath was about to leave him. He'll come back a Hakim.

MrCuteking:


He is the owner of the shop. He used to sell Wallpapers before he travelled, so he closed the shop. Getting back to Nigeria, he had to reopen the business but by then, those wallpapers were already obsolete. He does not have much at hand, I'm sure he will get back on his feet one day.

sisisioge:


Pls paste the links again, I want to go read the outcome of the divorce. This is not working as is. Thanks.

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

Gilgil:
I thought that when someone is having a hell of a time, it means he is seriously enjoying himself

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

Benrosaria:


s that suits him right. a next time he would realize how strong a woman is. na just Nigeria turn women to endangered species, if not man for don compose for here

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

Nzogbu2012:
A woman always wins in marriage dispute matters except in Hakim's case....it is not compulsory to. Marry I am single to stupor... I have my peace...toll me how many married men abroad got the peace I'm enjoying right now ....

Stay away from.all these daughters of Jezebel pretend to be your lover...once they have achieved what they wanted. They will deal with you and leave you shatter and battered

I have one single mother school friend and colleague ...she tried all she could to make me enter into a deep relationship with her...I rejected it....so there was one she told me that she didn't believe I will ever marry in my life...and I told her yes.... because I made up my life...

Nzogbu2012:
A woman always wins in marriage dispute matters except in Hakim's case....it is not compulsory to. Marry I am single to stupor... I have my peace...toll me how many married men abroad got the peace I'm enjoying right now ....

Stay away from.all these daughters of Jezebel pretend to be your lover...once they have achieved what they wanted. They will deal with you and leave you shatter and battered

I have one single mother school friend and colleague ...she tried all she could to make me enter into a deep relationship with her...I rejected it....so there was one she told me that she didn't believe I will ever marry in my life...and I told her yes.... because I made up my life...

mployer:


You women has no iota of sympathy in you.

You are wicked down to every fiber of your being, reason I don't loose guard when dealing with women. I always prepare for the worst and stay one step ahead in the game.

Hakimi remains a hero.

Gemma11:


Go and look for a man to be with then. You sound just as disrespectful, misognistic and abusive as your friend. Men like you do not deserve to have a woman in your life.

9jaRealist:
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GOOD DEVELOPMENT….
So many Nigerians won’t leave their “I own my wife” mentality behind in Nigeria. SMH
>

Dybala11:

You're right, but it can also mean having an awful or difficult time.

Gilgil:
No. It can’t mean the same thing. Having a terrific time denotes enjoyment.

Perhaps you were looking for the word, “terrible “ and not “terrific”

Dybala11:

Now you're mixing up his statement, he didn't say anything about "terrific time" in his statement.
According to Merriam Webster dictionary, "having a hell of..." Means and have the following usage:
1
:used to make a statement more forceful
e.g It was one hell of a good fight.
He is one hell of a nice guy.
2
: very good
e.g She's a hell of a player.
3
: very bad or difficult
e.g We've been "having a hell of a time" trying to finish on schedule.
This is a hell of a mess we're in.

The word HELL can be used to express both positive or negative depending on the idioms used, it refers to both extremities of badness and goodness. It all depends on usage. 😂😂

I pray that you understand this though, you can do a quick check of what I wrote it, having a hell of a time can also be interpreted as having a "bad or difficult" time bro. Confirm this before arguing.