MrBrownJay1:


to solve a problem you need to FIRST figure out and accept that you have a problem...
so what is this dude's problem? not enough sex in his life that he spends all his money on toto when he gets a lil money...
SOLUTION: get a GF so that you wont have to spend all your money on oloshoes for sex.

It's okay to think so.

I can assure you, having a GF won't stop the block headed guy from seeking adventures everywhere.

Like I mentioned, his problem is within himself. I've never been one who believes in outside solutions when it comes to mental issues like these.

MrBrownJay1:


VERY EASY SOLUTION: get a decent gf and you will get all the above for free...

Lol, funny how you typed 'decent girlfriend' and paired it with 'get all the above for free'. Uwa mmebi.

Somebody please help me with the definition of 'decent' again. Be like say na me no know book.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Is your username not supposed to be Aigbodion? Why Aigbedion? What's the difference and which is the correct one?

iyaebethegreat im lusting over u

Aigbedion141:
Omo! Was a gambler for 4years only GOD knew how he manage to pull me out.
Now I'm into womanizing spent over 300k within 4months.

I'm extremely tired and saddened, And always remorseful! I regret everybit of my actions after chyking olosho (Hookup, hoe).

Once I'm broke sex doesn't cross my mind.
But the moment there is enough capital my mind is filled up with different theories of sex style.

Initially I started it to kill depression, boredom and shyness.
Now I'm addicted, as a knowledgeable man I'm aware it will obstruct my pathway to success and it's diminish glory and destroy destiny.

I'm very willing to stop and will be very grateful to the advice i will be receiving here.
Thank you to everyone who contributed and to everyone who read.. love always.

Probably money don finish, sense don come back.....eye don shine....

Aigbedion141:
Omo! Was a gambler for 4years only GOD knew how he manage to pull me out.
Now I'm into womanizing spent over 300k within 4months.

I'm extremely tired and saddened, And always remorseful! I regret everybit of my actions after chyking olosho (Hookup, hoe).

Once I'm broke sex doesn't cross my mind.
But the moment there is enough capital my mind is filled up with different theories of sex style.

Initially I started it to kill depression, boredom and shyness.
Now I'm addicted, as a knowledgeable man I'm aware it will obstruct my pathway to success and it's diminish glory and destroy destiny.

I'm very willing to stop and will be very grateful to the advice i will be receiving here.
Thank you to everyone who contributed and to everyone who read.. love always.

..
Do you work or have a job?
Let me know where to start

LagBae:
Lol, funny how you typed 'decent girlfriend' and paired it with 'get all the above for free'. Uwa mmebi.
Somebody please help me with the definition of 'decent' again. Be like say na me no know book.

DECENT GF...aka not an olosho who sells herself to the highest bidder.

correctguy101:
It's okay to think so.
I can assure you, having a GF won't stop the block headed guy from seeking adventures everywhere.
Like I mentioned, his problem is within himself. I've never been one who believes in outside solutions when it comes to mental issues like these.

the above is a HUGE assumption...so far as we all know, his problem is sex and nothing else. so thats why i stated that a GF would solve that. if he has other issues in his life, then i certainly cant talk on that, because he hasnt mentionned it.

Too many drama queens as men these days....So we should encourage you to stop wasting your strength and money on women?!

U be like one guy wey we de call Lako for Unilag. Once d guy broke, em wife go de sexy to am but once e see small money like this, na all the abiamos and house wife for em area for egbeda e go de sleep with.

Just like him, ur problem is spiritual Op.

breaking free from an addiction is very difficult. you alone is capable of breaking free from your own demon. las las we go de ok

[Thanks for the kind words brother]

1. Take a break and build projects you will like to endeavour upon, so that once the money comes, you discipline yourself enough to put your money in them.

2. Take it a day at a time.. Try dey remove your mind from am with each passing day...

3. Spend more time with family.

4. Find a hobby, if its money-spinning even better.

No let anyone you open up to, offline, put you down... [/quote]

MrBrownJay1:


yes , because you must have missed the part where he wrote:"Once I'm broke sex doesn't cross my mind."
aka such man will spend 50k per day on oloshoes if he had the money.

You said the guy doesn't have money in his life. Someone who spends 300k in 4days on sex, does he lack money?

[YOU ARE VERY RIGHT SIR, CURRENTLY WORKING ON GETTING A GIRLFRIEND NOW. IF I HAD ONE I WONT INDULGE IN SLEEPING WITH HOES FROM THE ONSET.=MrBrownJay1 post=122743345]

DECENT GF...aka not an olosho who sells herself to the highest bidder.



the above is a HUGE assumption...so far as we all know, his problem is sex and nothing else. so thats why i stated that a GF would solve that. if he has other issues in his life, then i certainly cant talk on that, because he hasnt mentionned it.[/quote]

[YES I'M A BUSINESS MAN=Sirchiboy post=122743303]..
Do you work or have a job?
Let me know where to start [/quote]

MrBrownJay1:


DECENT GF...aka not an olosho who sells herself to the highest bidder.



the above is a HUGE assumption...so far as we all know, his problem is sex and nothing else. so thats why i stated that a GF would solve that. if he has other issues in his life, then i certainly cant talk on that, because he hasnt mentionned it.

Okay, if anybody believes sex is their problem,, they should look for a partner to get regular sex?

This ancestor has learned something new today...

lexy2014:
You said the guy doesn't have money in his life. Someone who spends 300k in 4days on sex, does he lack money?

again, the dude himself wrote that when he is BROKE he doesnt think of sex... so i dont know what more you need to understad that this guy is often broke thus lack sex, but when he hammers, he spend all his cash on oloshoes.
now , i understand that 300K is a lot of money for some, but this OP doesnt care about spending all his money on oloshoes til he is BROKE

womanising is a spiritual problem that requires spiritual solutions like prayer and fasting to stop it unless u are not a chronic womaniser then u wont understand what i mean.

Why don’t you try get your self a girlfriend you know you can marry in case pregnancy crops up. You’ll be having unprotected sexual with a peace of mind after knowing each other’s health status before the act. I bet, she’ll most probably appreciate the money spent on her than on Olosho without any emotional attachment

But above All and most importantly, go and get married

MrBrownJay1:


again, the dude himself wrote that when he is BROKE he doesnt think of sex... so i dont know what more you need to understad that this guy is often broke thus lack sex, but when he hammers, he spend all his cash on oloshoes.
now , i understand that 300K is a lot of money for some, but this OP doesnt care about spending all his money on oloshoes til he is BROKE

Is this question difficult?

You said the guy doesn't have money in his life. Someone who spends 300k in 4days on sex, does he lack money? simple yes or no

Way4orward:
We can't stop it.

Meaning you have enslaved yourself. Pls reject for you. Jesus said you are Brough with a price so, you will not enslaved by anything.

three iron bender guys who work with my company here in warri. they came from abuja .. theirs is to sleep with every agbo seller they patronise. first they patronise the girls then they offer quite big amount of money and sleep with her. they even slept with a handicaped one . her deformity didnt discourage Them . and guess what, they are all newly married to even more prettier women than the ones they sleep with here on daily basis. [saw theier weddind day pictures ..] something is wrong somewher

Let me bless cross for you,



It's well with your soul.

@Op, the only way you can stop womanizing is plucking off your eyes. Sex is the hardest sin to overcome, but if you can overcome it then you can overcome every other sin.

Aigbedion141:
Omo! Was a gambler for 4years only GOD knew how he manage to pull me out.
Now I'm into womanizing spent over 300k within 4months.

I'm extremely tired and saddened, And always remorseful! I regret everybit of my actions after chyking olosho (Hookup, hoe).

Once I'm broke sex doesn't cross my mind.
But the moment there is enough capital my mind is filled up with different theories of sex style.

Initially I started it to kill depression, boredom and shyness.
Now I'm addicted, as a knowledgeable man I'm aware it will obstruct my pathway to success and it's diminish glory and destroy destiny.

I'm very willing to stop and will be very grateful to the advice i will be receiving here.
Thank you to everyone who contributed and to everyone who read.. love always.

Set your Mind on a Very Massive Project like Building your own House....
You will be so Broke Every month...because of the commitment to this project that,,,,Erection go Hard to come by... for the next 3 to 4years

lexy2014:


Is this question difficult?

You said the guy doesn't have ENOUGH money in his life. Someone who spends 300k in 4days on sex, does he lack money? simple yes or no

FIXED

you obviously have some English comprehension issues..... i said the dude doesnt have ENOUGH money in his life....because if he did then he would never be broke and run out of money for sex. so YES The guy is broke... just because 300k is a lot of money (to you) and someone spends it on oloshoes, does NOT mean that person is now rich. thats 75k a month for 4 months! what the hell are you talking about?

Get an office job, it will decrease your libido. Hard work makes it stronger. Find someone that you love very much and you will focus on that woman. Nigerians do not love, so it may not be possible. Consume small amounts of chasteberry. Too much chasteberry increases the urge, but low doses weaken the urge. Above all things, learn self control. If you cannot control your own emotions and body, you are headed for destruction. Blaming spiritual things are just an excuse for poor self control and laziness.

MrBrownJay1:


FIXED

you obviously have some English comprehension issues..... i said the dude doesnt have ENOUGH money in his life....because if he did then he would never be broke and run out of money for sex. so YES The guy is broke... just because 300k is a lot of money (to you) and someone spends it on oloshoes, does NOT mean that person is now rich. thats 75k a month for 4 months! what the hell are you talking about?

What is d question that I asked you?

Aigbedion141:
[YES I'M A BUSINESS MAN=Sirchiboy post=122743303]..
Do you work or have a job?
Let me know where to start

..
What kind of business are you into

In all you do, try and get married. It will help. Even God understands that we are humans and the flesh is weak

Aigbedion141:
Omo! Was a gambler for 4years only GOD knew how he manage to pull me out.
Now I'm into womanizing spent over 300k within 4months.

I'm extremely tired and saddened, And always remorseful! I regret everybit of my actions after chyking olosho (Hookup, hoe).

Once I'm broke sex doesn't cross my mind.
But the moment there is enough capital my mind is filled up with different theories of sex style.

Initially I started it to kill depression, boredom and shyness.
Now I'm addicted, as a knowledgeable man I'm aware it will obstruct my pathway to success and it's diminish glory and destroy destiny.

I'm very willing to stop and will be very grateful to the advice i will be receiving here.
Thank you to everyone who contributed and to everyone who read.. love always.

If you lack discipline to curb your excesses in life. You would pay for it.

Number never lie. Either you running at surplus with finance or running at deficit. It all has to do with your personal decisions in regards to consumerism.

Clearly your problem is lifestyle inflation. And the end point is DEBT!

Cut down on your excesses by budgetting and be strict with your budget. If possible, stay on a budget until the day that you die. It will save you a whole lot of trouble. Not only money trouble but lifestyle trouble.

lexy2014:
What is d question that I asked you?

read again what i wrote (especially the part in bold) before quoting nonsense that you "thought" i wrote...

the above dude is not a womanizer (as a womanizer will go after babes with OR WITHOUT money)... he is simply a h0rny dude who doesnt have enough money/sex in his life. thus why he only focusses on sex when he can pay for olosho.

MrBrownJay1:


read again what i wrote (especially the part in bold) before quoting nonsense that you "thought" i wrote...

What is d question that I asked you?

[AMEN SIR=Brownshoe post=122744077]Let me bless cross for you,



It's well with your soul.[/quote]