Married couples who came back to reconcile with their ex and marry please advice me.

I and my gal have been together for a long period of time at a point we had to cohabit. I supported part of her school, thank God she will be graduating few months from now. We separated January this year, our relationship is 7 years older, reasons we stayed that long was because we were just growing up, i was 23 in my year 3 in school , while she was 18 writing her weac. This is someone i later engaged . Initially when she left me and parked out of my house I had to full my hands and watch her leave 7years of what we built . when she left, she couldn't stay without me unfortunately where she went to, she had to call and be disturbing me and I paid deaf ears , out of this she fall into depression and her bp rised , she was admitted twice in the hospital.

She had to recover with different people , today she has alot of different people she's seeing , unfortunately she's actually exploring life now, many people have asked me to let her be for now, though I was her first experience ( I deflowered her), that if she's mine, she will definitely come back, I have tried for the past 7 months now to move on I can't, and efforts to bring her back has provened abortive though we've been communicating but rght now i ended the communication . I have been at home now unemployment for a while now. My career is still young and a very good one as at that, just that it has not began paying yet.

People advice me to pray that God should bless me so I could call her back . Deep inside of me I'm just imagining how will our love life look like if we eventually come back after separating for a while. How will sex look like ? How will kissing look like, Knowing that she must have slept with a lot of persons. people who came back together please share your experience, I still love and want her to come back so we settle down, if you ask her , she will tell u that I'm still in her mind.

I do hear of people who separated and later came back and marry and they're doing fine , how possible is that and why is mine like this ?

Funny skit.

You need to get more serious with your employment status at the moment.

That is sure to go a very long way in determining how, and what you truly feel in the long run, including serving as a potential distraction for you and also an opportunity to start meeting new people.

Do not ever underestimate the power of idleness and joblessness.

Artiiclebeast:
Funny skit.

You need to get more serious with your employment status at the moment.

That is sure to go a very long way in determining how, and what you truly feel in the long run, including serving as a potential distraction for you and also an opportunity to start meeting new people.

Do not ever underestimate the power of idleness and joblessness.

Yea you may be right, some persons have equally told me that, some even argued that I will eventually forget her, if I bounce back with money and a job . hmmmm it really well with me oooo

oga!!! move on!!!!
e no go easy after 7 years together but just move on!!

Zeal0000007:
Married couples who came back to reconcile with their ex and marry please advice me.

I and my gal have been together for a long period of time at a point we had to cohabit. I supported part of her school, thank God she will be graduating few months from now. We separated January this year, our relationship is 7 years older, reasons we stayed that long was because we were just growing up, i was 23 in my year 3 in school , while she was 18 writing her weac. This is someone i later engaged . Initially when she left me and parked out of my house I had to full my hands and watch her leave 7years of what we built . when she left, she couldn't stay without me unfortunately where she went to, she had to call and be disturbing me and I paid deaf ears , out of this she fall into depression and her bp rised , she was admitted twice in the hospital.

She had to recover with different people , today she has alot of different people she's seeing , unfortunately she's actually exploring life now, many people have asked me to let her be for now, though I was her first experience ( I deflowered her), that if she's mine, she will definitely come back, I have tried for the past 7 months now to move on I can't, and efforts to bring her back has provened abortive though we've been communicating but rght now i ended the communication . I have been at home now unemployment for a while now. My career is still young and a very good one as at that, just that it has not began paying yet.

People advice me to pray that God should bless me so I could call her back . Deep inside of me I'm just imagining how will our love life look like if we eventually come back after separating for a while. How will sex look like ? Knowing that she must have slept with a lot of persons. people who came back together please share your experience, I still love and want her to come back so we settle down, if you ask her , she will tell u that I'm still in her mind.

Zeal0000007:
Married couples who came back to reconcile with their ex and marry please advice me.

I and my gal have been together for a long period of time at a point we had to cohabit. I supported part of her school, thank God she will be graduating few months from now. We separated January this year, our relationship is 7 years older, reasons we stayed that long was because we were just growing up, i was 23 in my year 3 in school , while she was 18 writing her weac. This is someone i later engaged . Initially when she left me and parked out of my house I had to full my hands and watch her leave 7years of what we built . when she left, she couldn't stay without me unfortunately where she went to, she had to call and be disturbing me and I paid deaf ears , out of this she fall into depression and her bp rised , she was admitted twice in the hospital.

She had to recover with different people , today she has alot of different people she's seeing , unfortunately she's actually exploring life now, many people have asked me to let her be for now, though I was her first experience ( I deflowered her), that if she's mine, she will definitely come back, I have tried for the past 7 months now to move on I can't, and efforts to bring her back has provened abortive though we've been communicating but rght now i ended the communication . I have been at home now unemployment for a while now. My career is still young and a very good one as at that, just that it has not began paying yet.

People advice me to pray that God should bless me so I could call her back . Deep inside of me I'm just imagining how will our love life look like if we eventually come back after separating for a while. How will sex look like ? Knowing that she must have slept with a lot of persons. people who came back together please share your experience, I still love and want her to come back so we settle down, if you ask her , she will tell u that I'm still in her mind.

move on and leave her alone.Be a man.A man needs to be hard and make tough choices.If I clear you my story,your own dey play.But I moved on.its not easy surely but the fact that she has slept with many people after you should be a turn off already.

I think it depends on what separated you guys and whether you were still in contact after the separation or not.

Sometimes it's best that when you separate, you move away from each other and don't get to have any contact with one another or see each other's day to day lives.

Some breakups can be very ugly and never be mended, while some can still stand a chance of being mended.

Samantha124:
I think it depends on what separated you guys and whether you were still in contact after the separation or not.

Sometimes it's best that when you separate, you move away from each other and don't get to have any contact with one another or see each other's day to day lives.

Some breakups can be very ugly and never be mended, while some can still stand a chance of being mended.

hmmmmm

Zeal0000007:
Married couples who came back to reconcile with their ex and marry please advice me.

I and my gal have been together for a long period of time at a point we had to cohabit. I supported part of her school, thank God she will be graduating few months from now. We separated January this year, our relationship is 7 years older, reasons we stayed that long was because we were just growing up, i was 23 in my year 3 in school , while she was 18 writing her weac. This is someone i later engaged . Initially when she left me and parked out of my house I had to full my hands and watch her leave 7years of what we built . when she left, she couldn't stay without me unfortunately where she went to, she had to call and be disturbing me and I paid deaf ears , out of this she fall into depression and her bp rised , she was admitted twice in the hospital.

She had to recover with different people , today she has alot of different people she's seeing , unfortunately she's actually exploring life now, many people have asked me to let her be for now, though I was her first experience ( I deflowered her), that if she's mine, she will definitely come back, I have tried for the past 7 months now to move on I can't, and efforts to bring her back has provened abortive though we've been communicating but rght now i ended the communication . I have been at home now unemployment for a while now. My career is still young and a very good one as at that, just that it has not began paying yet.

People advice me to pray that God should bless me so I could call her back . Deep inside of me I'm just imagining how will our love life look like if we eventually come back after separating for a while. How will sex look like ? Knowing that she must have slept with a lot of persons. people who came back together please share your experience, I still love and want her to come back so we settle down, if you ask her , she will tell u that I'm still in her mind.

I do hear of people who separated and later came back and marry and they're doing fine , how possible is that and why is mine like this ?

Oga them born u with am together? Na question I ask as at the time u meet her, u dey dead?

na idleness dey worry you. wetin be d new thing wey una wan do together after 7 years and cohabiting.
If you get a job and get back with her, the thing won't last cos you will start resenting her, so it's better you be a man and take tough decision by letting her go.

come make i dash you one of my girlfriend, and before you know it, you don forget about her. but she like money well well o

Go back where?
You don't go back on things......
You move forward.

I later learned that when dealing with women, keep emotions out totally.

Let me add this to my former write up,if you eventually go back to her,the next breakup will devastate and it might perish you if you are not strong enough.Her coming back to you might be to finish off where she left from.so ,I am advising you as a younger brother and someone with vast experience, so you won't fall into traps.goodbye

What exactly are u waiting for? Second coming of our Lord Oga move on or die there. I don't know how some of u guys reason sef

Know what you want.. Don't play emotional game with women. If their is no kid involve go for a new woman. You can also read my second comment..

What is the essence of waiting for her to come,na idleness cause this.

Move on..

7 year no be beans... So I see why it's difficult for you to move on

But logically, 7 years is already a long time to wanna try new people...

I mean you've been screwing the same girl for 7 years and yet you're sounding like a 16 years old kid in the first few months of falling in love....

Besides, you admitted she'd been screwing other niqqas since the breakup, eww!... The disgust alone should kill whatever feelings you have for her

You really need to get your sh'it together by distracting yourself, get a very busy job and when you have the chance try and socialize, get another girl and start devoting your time to this new girl and watch how your ex memories will gradually fade into oblivion

Don't be a p""ussy

Idleness has made u lost ur senses. May God bless u with a nice job so u dont go back to ur vomits

It depends. What was her reason for leaving the relationship then? Did you do anything wrong? Or she just decided to let go of the relationship? People break up, and they later settle it, and end up together. If you were the one that felt hurt when she left, and you tried asking her what the matter was then, but you couldn't get any answers, then you don't really have to get back together. And why must you say, the thought of her to have slept with other guys is taunting you? Haven't you slept with other girls since you guys broke up? You didn't have anything with other girls?? If yes, you shouldn't be judging her with that, Cuz you both have tried out other partner.

Serves you both right
Cohabiting and unmarried
She wasted seven years of her life with you

Stop dating small boys they won't hear

Who in her right senses dates men in their 20's? Mtcheww

Its obvious you were the one more committed to the relationship.. Move on man.. Connecting to her later will ruin you..

There is no harm reconciling with an ex especially when the two people still love each other..
But there are some important factors to consider when reconciling''
1.how the relationship ended
2.what lead to the breakup
I'd the same experience as this but mine was lost of contact there was nothing like fight or breakup, we meet again after 4years..
The problem there is, she might now get different body counts, she might want to explore the world because during those years, she was having fun with different men both poor and rich..
You gats reconcile with her base on the cause of the breakup and know her present taste e.g how far she'd gone in the sex game and her standard of living..
When talking with her in the phone did the said woman still have that respect she once have for you. When talking with her it's always clear whether she is still dying for you.. Observe the changes in her life and know whether the two of you will have an happy ending.. Zeal0000007

She has not agreed to come back to you and all your efforts to bring her back have failed yet you are here fantasizing how your kiss and your fucck will be. This is like a hunter fantasizing how to eat bush meat even before going into the bush to attempt to catch one. Pray that the spirit of foolishness will stop stop dwelling in you.

Delete every single thing concerning her

Hmmmm is well

Fornicator that is worried about body count. You guys are funny.

Westin una build for 7 years .. aside sex and sex

Imagine …

Hehehehehhe

This young people sha..

This guy no get problem

You are unemployed
Yet still thinking of sex and kiss
And how to bring your lost love life back.

I want to be like you when I grow up

Instead of you focus on how to look for job, so you think she will leave all those other guys she's sleeping with to be with a jobless guy just because you've been together for 7years?

Creamypie:
Oga them born u with am together? Na question I ask as at the time u meet her, u dey dead?

mabe na because na him dis-virgin her, lime say na him be the only person wey don dis-virgin woman before

Zeal0000007:
Married couples who came back to reconcile with their ex and marry please advice me.

I and my gal have been together for a long period of time at a point we had to cohabit. I supported part of her school, thank God she will be graduating few months from now. We separated January this year, our relationship is 7 years older, reasons we stayed that long was because we were just growing up, i was 23 in my year 3 in school , while she was 18 writing her weac. This is someone i later engaged . Initially when she left me and parked out of my house I had to full my hands and watch her leave 7years of what we built . when she left, she couldn't stay without me unfortunately where she went to, she had to call and be disturbing me and I paid deaf ears , out of this she fall into depression and her bp rised , she was admitted twice in the hospital.

She had to recover with different people , today she has alot of different people she's seeing , unfortunately she's actually exploring life now, many people have asked me to let her be for now, though I was her first experience ( I deflowered her), that if she's mine, she will definitely come back, I have tried for the past 7 months now to move on I can't, and efforts to bring her back has provened abortive though we've been communicating but rght now i ended the communication . I have been at home now unemployment for a while now. My career is still young and a very good one as at that, just that it has not began paying yet.

People advice me to pray that God should bless me so I could call her back . Deep inside of me I'm just imagining how will our love life look like if we eventually come back after separating for a while. How will sex look like ? How will kissing look like, Knowing that she must have slept with a lot of persons. people who came back together please share your experience, I still love and want her to come back so we settle down, if you ask her , she will tell u that I'm still in her mind.

I do hear of people who separated and later came back and marry and they're doing fine , how possible is that and why is mine like this ?

Move on........

My own.....ex girl left and was busy exploring immediately I left home and got admitted into uni........she never deleted my number all the while Oooo.........called during my Nysc to tell she still love.............

After......the nigga she left me for promised her marriage and disflowered her.........

I just listen to all her nonsense stories and blocked her everywhere.........

What was the cause of the breakup

Also it’s possible you can get back with her
You deflowered her so go back to her
Abi who do you want to leave her for ?