This is someone I asked for a relationship she didn't find me interesting to go along with, I even told her I'm not primarily interested in sx stuff (because she was still a virgin), some people may say how do I know, but I tell you I'm extremely sure, I offered to take care of her so long as she agrees to be my girl, instead she ignored me to follow one wayward guy who could hardly afford his boxers; I zeroed my mind about her until she got pregnant and the mummy's pet that got her pregnant abandoned her and ran away. I have not communicated to her since over two years now until she chat me up recently and you could see our conversation below after which she blocked me....

[MODIFIED] Please bare with me, Nairaland refuse to allow me post the screenshots of our conversation in the name of checking what ever source.

Ok let me try and summarize our conversation.
She: Good morning

Me: Happy weekend

She: I wish you d same too

She: I have a small issue oo

Me: Ok

She: My phone is bad I need to fix it

Me: Ok, So?

She: I need like 20k to fix it can you help me

Me: Yes, if only you were close

She: Let me fix the phone first then we can talk about coming over to see you

Me: Ok

She: Are you sending the money

Me: Just fix the phone first then we can talk

She: Where do you want me to get the money from

Me: Where have you been getting money from

She: What kind of stupid question is that

She: Just get out you fool

Then she blocks me.

Please how did I offend her, or was I wicked to her based on our conversation?

I havent seen your chat but from your write up I can tell you for free that you fuxked up big time!

You should've been kind and caring towards her. Listen to her. Share in her pain. Invite her over so you can care for her some more, then fuxk craze out of her. Fuxk her some more till you're filled. Fuxk her even more. Fuxk her one more time for the road.

Then dump her.

There isn't any chat to see here OP ...

But to be honest, I wouldn't help her out even if I could ...

((Except God Himself echoed from the heavens that I should)) ...

Let her run to the guy she turned you down for to help her with whatever issues she has ...

She made a wrong decision, allow her face the consequences alone! ...

And don't allow anyone blackmail you or manipulate you into giving that girl 1cent ...

Ask yourself a question, why are you amongst the people she reached out to when she ran into issues? ...

So like this now, you're good enough to be milked of your hard earned resources but you're not good enough to be with ba? ...

Don't send her shi shi OP ...

Don't listen to any idiot that said you should help her, They are the same people that will call you simp for helping her , she not your responsibility ignore her

VikingKing:
I havent seen your chat but from your write up I can tell you for free that you fuxked up big time!

You should've been kind and caring towards her. Listen to her. Share in her pain. Invite her over so you can care for her some more, then fuxk craze out of her. Fuxk her some more till you're filled. Fuxk her even more. Fuxk her one more time for the road.

Then dump her.

Badt guy

Nairaland refuse to allow me post the screenshots of the conversation saying they're checking one yeye source.

VikingKing:
I havent seen your chat but from your write up I can tell you for free that you fuxked up big time!

You should've been kind and caring towards her. Listen to her. Share in her pain. Invite her over so you can care for her some more, then fuxk craze out of her. Fuxk her some more till you're filled. Fuxk her even more. Fuxk her one more time for the road.

Then dump her.

You're not smart if you couldn't detect that the girl only wanted to get money from op. I'm sure that if he had sent her the money she wouldn't have gone to see him.

Kudos to op for being smart enough to dodge the scam.

Abeg give her the money, don't deprive her pls just bcoz she refuse u to fornicate her, don't u know many of us including ladies find illicit sex highly disgusting and abhor it like hell

Quality20:
Abeg give her the money, don't deprive her pls just bcoz she refuse u to fornicate her, don't u know many of us including ladies find illicit sex highly disgusting and abhor it like hell

What if my money is illicit money

First you shouldn’t have even followed the conversation but your free mind wouldn’t let you, then she said I have small issues oo, that should be it, the full stop, end of conversation but again instead you started exhibiting simping nature/attitude leading insults upon insults


Give zero tolerance to drama and bulsh*t

obinna58:
First you shouldn’t have even followed the conversation but your free mind wouldn’t let you, then she said I have small issues oo, that should be it, the full stop, end of conversation but again[b] instead you started exhibiting simping nature/attitude[/b] leading insults upon insults


Give zero tolerance to drama and bulsh*t

Everything is simping to you and your likes including the ones who don't even know the meaning of the word. Na so una go just dey form formins upandan.

NLandIsHypocrit:
Everything is simping to you and your likes including the ones who don't even know the meaning of the word. Na so una go just dey form formins upandan.

Instead of you to learn you’re annoyed

Continue simping, shey she don block you already, call her and beg her to unblock you that you didn’t intend to hurt her

Wrong nos

obinna58:

Instead of you to learn you’re annoyed

Continue simping, shey she don block you already, call her and beg her to unblock you that you didn’t intend to hurt her

Take your advice to the bank and cash out, you need it more.

Jman06:
You're not smart if you couldn't detect that the girl only wanted to get money from op. I'm sure that if he had sent her the money she wouldn't have gone to see him.

Kudos to op for being smart enough to dodge the scam.

Smart guy, did you see me mention anything about sending money? If you don't know how to present a shoulder to cry on, then keep shut or ask for lessons.

na so they usually do...better don't give a fu**k.
bcuz she is going back whenever she got something from you..shine your eyes...
girls can be very very scary at certain times..

NLandIsHypocrit:
This is someone I asked for a relationship she didn't find me interesting to go along with, I even told her I'm not primarily interested in sx stuff (because she was still a virgin), some people may say how do I know, but I tell you I'm extremely sure, I offered to take care of her so long as she agrees to be my girl, instead she ignored me to follow one wayward guy who could hardly afford his boxers; I zeroed my mind about her until she got pregnant and the mummy's pet that got her pregnant abandoned her and ran away. I have not communicated to her since over two years now until she chat me up recently and you could see our conversation below after which she blocked me....

[MODIFIED] Please bare with me, Nairaland refuse to allow me post the screenshots of our conversation in the name of checking what ever source.

Ok let me try and summarize our conversation.
She: Good morning

Me: Happy weekend

She: I wish you d same too

She: I have a small issue oo

Me: Ok

She: My phone is bad I need to fix it

Me: Ok, So?

She: I need like 20k to fix it can you help me

Me: Yes, if only you were close

She: Let me fix the phone first then we can talk about coming over to see you

Me: Ok

She: Are you sending the money

Me: Just fix the phone first then we can talk

She: Where do you want me to get the money from

Me: Where have you been getting money from

She: What kind of stupid question is that

She: Just get out you fool

Then she blocks me.

Please how did I offend her, or was I wicked to her based on our conversation?

The problem here is; you acted like a wussy. Start doing the oppposite and women would love you.

NLandIsHypocrit:
This is someone I asked for a relationship she didn't find me interesting to go along with, I even told her I'm not primarily interested in sx stuff (because she was still a virgin), some people may say how do I know, but I tell you I'm extremely sure, I offered to take care of her so long as she agrees to be my girl, instead she ignored me to follow one wayward guy who could hardly afford his boxers; I zeroed my mind about her until she got pregnant and the mummy's pet that got her pregnant abandoned her and ran away. I have not communicated to her since over two years now until she chat me up recently and you could see our conversation below after which she blocked me....

[MODIFIED] Please bare with me, Nairaland refuse to allow me post the screenshots of our conversation in the name of checking what ever source.

Ok let me try and summarize our conversation.
She: Good morning

Me: Happy weekend

She: I wish you d same too

She: I have a small issue oo

Me: Ok

She: My phone is bad I need to fix it

Me: Ok, So?

She: I need like 20k to fix it can you help me

Me: Yes, if only you were close

She: Let me fix the phone first then we can talk about coming over to see you

Me: Ok

She: Are you sending the money

Me: Just fix the phone first then we can talk

She: Where do you want me to get the money from

Me: Where have you been getting money from

She: What kind of stupid question is that

She: Just get out you fool

Then she blocks me.

Please how did I offend her, or was I wicked to her based on our conversation?

Isn't it surprising that she didn't even say "please"? It's like she's entitled to it. As for me, I'm really hung up on the magic words (Please, excuse me, sorry, thank you, pardon me) and no amount of manipulation will work on me if they are missing. By the way, you're even lucky she didn't come back with the "you abandoned me" line that many men would fall for.

Be your brother's keeper now yuh don put am for bench 😊 na yuh b referee.. na red card straight up😂

Quality20:
Abeg give her the money, don't deprive her pls just bcoz she refuse u to fornicate her , don't u know many of us including ladies find illicit sex highly disgusting and abhor it like hell

instead she ignored me to follow one wayward guy who could hardly afford his boxers; I zeroed my mind about her until she got pregnant and the mummy's pet that got her pregnant abandoned her and ran away

Learn to pay attention so you don’t cap bullshit later

I used to believe that bullshit that some women dislike fornication until I started meeting women. church girls Are worse in this fornication thingy

Quality20:
Abeg give her the money, don't deprive her pls just bcoz she refuse u to fornicate her, don't u know many of us including ladies find illicit sex highly disgusting and abhor it like hell

But you find illicit money enticing? Go and work

E get as the thing be now for everybody.

U fit ask enemy for money.


This season shall favor me and my family 😀😀

It's good you did not give her any money. Your performance was top-notch. Anyways forget baby mama look for fresh single girl. A baby mama may equally get pregnant for you thereby messing up your life

VikingKing:
I havent seen your chat but from your write up I can tell you for free that you fuxked up big time!

You should've been kind and caring towards her. Listen to her. Share in her pain. Invite her over so you can care for her some more, then fuxk craze out of her. Fuxk her some more till you're filled. Fuxk her even more. Fuxk her one more time for the road.

Then dump her.

You're an idiot.
What would he gain from fvcking her ?

Johnholt909:
The problem here is; you acted like a wussy. Start doing the oppposite and women would love you.

I would appreciate if you can be more explicit

Your patience is even top notch...As long as I'm not interested in you, if you like open kpekus, you won't see me nor my money....For me, that chat would have ended the moment she said she wanted to fix phone!! Oshey problem solver!!

Anybody who only remember me when it's time to solve monetary issues dey on e own...shi-shi you no-go see!! Especially those posting only people looking rich on there status, then when it's time to help, they run to you...Omo, better go meet that Pablo wey you dey post upandan!!

That's the typical mentality Nigerian ladies have. What their fathers can't do for them, they expect a young man making his money to do. The standardized mentality of a Nigerian lady is that of prostitution. On what grounds should a normal person call another person to ask for money to fix a phone? This is madness!

And she is blocking you on top! A lady who has nothing to offer is blocking someone! If she wants the money, let her work for it. For any lady to think of asking a man who is not her relative for money, she is already a step into prostitution. Let her just go the whole way.

One thing I've noticed on this thread is the conspicuous avoidance of the matter by our ladies in the hauz.
Ladies we need your opinions and thoughts about this matter abeg, because this matter na una matter.

Slynation:
Your patience is even top notch...As long as I'm not interested in you, if you like open kpekus, you won't see me nor my money....For me, that chat would have ended the moment she said she wanted to fix phone!! Oshey problem solver!!

Anybody who only remember me when it's time to solve monetary issues dey on e own...shi-shi you no-go see!! Especially those posting only people looking rich on there status, then when it's time to help, they run to you...Omo, better go meet that Pablo wey you dey post upandan!!

Of cause I knew where she was heading to and I decided to wait for her at the Amen. Who would have expected her to come visit? Where, or who would she have left her baby with?

VikingKing:
I havent seen your chat but from your write up I can tell you for free that you fuxked up big time!

You should've been kind and caring towards her. Listen to her. Share in her pain. Invite her over so you can care for her some more, then fuxk craze out of her. Fuxk her some more till you're filled. Fuxk her even more. Fuxk her one more time for the road.

Then dump her.

Why do you think forking a girl is somehow you punishing her? When all you did is just prove to her that sex is a sure trap to catch you like a horney goat.

Ignoring her is far more potent, not waiting like a watchdog for a chance to fork, and feeling fly that you won. Lol. Sex wey she enjoy, and maybe consider you not man enough

jeromestarks:

You're an idiot.
What would he gain from fvcking her ?

Half man, go and ask your father to teach you about masculine sexual dominance.

pansophist:


Why do you think forking a girl is somehow you punishing her? When all you did is just prove to her that sex is a sure trap to catch you like a hungry rat.

Ignoring her is far more potent, not waiting like a watchdog for a chance to fork, and feeling fly that you won. Lol.

Na weak men full this nairaland. I'm not surprised.

VikingKing:


Half man, go and ask your father to teach you about masculine sexual dominance.

No wonder you dominate sexually and achieve nothing in life. You have wrapped your entire mind around sex that you have no space to reason other things ; no innovation, no invention, no advancement, no nothing and you blame everything on your government.

Take your mind off sex and see how better your tomorrow will be.
African man has put sex ahead of his life that's why he can do nothing to better this planet than to create more African babies who later grow up to become African men.