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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Minjim: 11:48am On Sep 29, 2023 |
seniorgozman: True that . 2 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by meum: 11:49am On Sep 29, 2023 |
Lol. Na the way the pikin Dey look the mama Dey funny me. That look of “see this one, you no get husband you carry me come this world” Forgive me I’m just imagining things😂 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Ahmeduana(m): 11:49am On Sep 29, 2023 |
Ko Si bí o ṣe toju opo, ti kò ní rántí ọkọ rẹ aro> which implies that there is no how kind You are to a widow that she will not remember her first husband! 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by enemyofprogress: 11:51am On Sep 29, 2023 |
My destiny no dey like to chop remnants 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by donwily(m): 11:51am On Sep 29, 2023 |
Any little misunderstanding, she will post her baby with caption, "The love of my life". 47 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by enemyofprogress: 11:52am On Sep 29, 2023 |
Palmyra:you know whether na her winch kill the husband? My hand no dey for single mother o 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by MacTayyy: 11:52am On Sep 29, 2023 |
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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by seuncyrus(m): 11:52am On Sep 29, 2023 |
Everyone has their own specific reasons |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by rottenegg: 11:52am On Sep 29, 2023 |
When did this become a "thing" in Africa? Single mom, Baby mama, Single Dad, Baby Daddy? After una go say na politicians dey ruin Naija. Keep increasing population. Mumu 4 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by enemyofprogress: 11:53am On Sep 29, 2023 |
donwily:na so |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Theunbothered: 11:53am On Sep 29, 2023 |
A lot of people who fall under the category of "single mothers" usually have something seriously wrong with them. Either they are not loyal or they are just looking for a sucker to take care of their children. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by eepeepook: 11:53am On Sep 29, 2023 |
OP, do so and find out. Don’t come here asking JAMB questions. |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by bukatyne(f): 11:54am On Sep 29, 2023 |
Everyone has a right to their choice. They just need to ensure that they are their choice's choice. I have a relative who did not marry a guy because he was a single dad even though her sister was a single mom. A single dad had to be VERY exceptional for me to consider him for marriage while I was single. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by WHITELIGHTER: 11:55am On Sep 29, 2023 |
It’s a Choice thing. You lots should shop conditioning men to make alternative choices. Women don’t care about anything when making standards. Such should be for men, let them set their standards. 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by ednut1(m): 11:56am On Sep 29, 2023 |
There are enough single ladies without kids. Why should any man go for someone with extra baggage snd potential baby daddy wahala 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by spiSeyi: 11:56am On Sep 29, 2023 |
1 Fear of Okafo's Law all in the name of my baby daddy wants to see his child 2 Most single women/non-virgins are emotionally damaged to the extent that they believe that anything good can't come from a man. 3 She will always compare the recent guy with the immediate baby daddy 4 Her baby daddy or ex will always have a share of the honeypot 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by dejavubobo1(m): 11:57am On Sep 29, 2023 |
tonicyril:Werey response. U made me laugh 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Angelfrost(m): 11:58am On Sep 29, 2023 |
Currently, a lot of Nigerian men fear Marriage... Period! 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by bassdow: 11:58am On Sep 29, 2023 |
Tallesty1: |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Charmingchuba: 11:59am On Sep 29, 2023 |
Eziokwu! Nawa o |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by bassdow: 12:00pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Karleb:Atimes, the number of KIDs, matters. A single mom of 1 has got more chances than a single mom of 4. Another observation is, the hardWorking single Moms, have the luxury of not settling with just any how man. Some (or MOST) men ain't worth it, hence they take their time in choosing or not reMarrying at all. Let's not try painting a picture that most are unable to find rePlacements, because of their character. Lots of men ain't useful to themselves, let alone to their partners. in fact, in lots of families/relationships, the men are being fed and cared for by same women you guys bash any how. Still respects those women who are the financial breadWinner of the families, without making it too obvious the Man isn't living up to responsibilities. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Sisqoman(m): 12:01pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Once you said I love you, billing don start 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Greystone: 12:02pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Palmyra: Very true. Some years back, I was good friends with a single mom. Young and beautiful but her ex husband was a terror. Even after a court divorce and losing custody of their three year old daughter (he had to pay monthly child support and was allowed one day visitation per week with the child), the guy was a drama king. Twice he abducted the girl from play class and took her away to the city he resides. It took the police to get the girl back. Too much drama if the nigga is still alive. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by bassdow: 12:02pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Nextt:The bolded is where you spoilt your writeUp. The way and manner you people believe in this GOD / god of a thing baffles me. Why bring God / god into sane conversations ? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by anonymous1759(m): 12:02pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
How many mother’s will allow their son’s to marry a single woman ? That’s where the problem is coming from 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Ofemmanu1: 12:04pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Some single moms are great wife material but the ones on NL are otherwise. They are deranged, damaged and in despair. There's no amount of love can repair em. Theyre plenty here on NL.. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Chibuzoripob: 12:05pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by EdiskyHarry: 12:06pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Fahvvy:You have said it all 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Dancebreaker: 12:06pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Azeemokoya: If you can, avoid marrying a single mother. It does not matter why she is single. It also does not matter how young the kids are when you married their mum as people erroneously believe. They will soon know you are not their real father. She might be grieving over a guy she loved or bitter over a guy who broke her heart. Either way, she's wounded. You are not to be mending a heart as a starting point in a relationship. Women only truly love their own biological child. Her love is primarily towards a child that is not yours before you even start. This is not theory. I have seen it up close in several families. 40 to 60 years later, the men suffered in the hands of their stepchildren, especially if the men outlived the women. Step kids abandoned them. The men used their youth/vital resources that could have built wealth/energy to help raise their stepchildren but whatever they did was NEVER enough. Over the years, the men even had to become very careful when disciplining the step kids, otherwise accusations of being wicked because they were not their biological kids flew around. Only an exceptionally good woman is worth marrying as a single mother. Because you can't be sure if the single mother you want to get involved with is among the exceptional 1%, it's a massive gamble. Not what a single guy should be doing. Frustration and ingratitude are almost certain ahead. You can date a single mum but marriage, be extremely careful. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Juniorangel(m): 12:07pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
I once dated a single mom their manipulation no be here, she had 4 kids but was lying she had only 2 kids, they will never say no to sex and don't always like protection during sex, they will twist ur brain into believing that marrying her is the best thing that will happen to you, Omo the story long I just thank God my eyes clear before I fall into her trap, if you are dating a single mom pray not to meet the diabolical ones those ones na another level, story for another day. 29 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Coded081(m): 12:07pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Nicepoker: Did they play 90+. Minutes? |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Tonytonex(m): 12:08pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
tonicyril:Omo! People with different kind of thinking. This one loud. U sabi oh😆 3 Likes 1 Share |
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