If you want to split the bill's, then you must split the chores too or you must employ a maid to do the chores.
She can't go to work like you do and still be expected to cook, clean and take the kid to and from school.
So, if you're splitting the bills you MUST split the chores as well.

Nickelodeon93:
It’s not right
Everybody should pay for what they ate… I can not eat 2k food and she will eat 6k food and we will split the bill 50/50

Who will go to the market, buy the foodstuffs, cook and clean?

omega25red:
My wife and I split the bills. It allows us to both have a chance to save money. As a man, I don’t feel like I’m less of a man cause we split the general bills. I pay for our extra curricular activities.
If you both work and make money, you both deserve to have savings.

Hope you also cook for yourself, do your laundry, clean your side of the house etc likewise she also cooks for herself, does her laundry etc, then you guys split the care of the children 50/50.

Every woman and man in a relationship must partake in the bills paying of a home they co-habit in.



That is why a man should not prevent a woman from working or being ambitious for any reasos whatsoever so that when it comes to bills being paid it won't become a problem in the future.


That is why marriages crash when they get abroad.


Both genders must work and contribute even if the other party is wealthier.

BlissGod:


That’s the most stupidest thing a woman should do. Support the home not splitting bills. A real man should never put such policy in his home, if he wants to live long.

If you’re a man , you’ll die faster. Your wife contributing to family’s upkeep will elongate your life since there is shared financial burden.

No go keel yourself trying to be a real man.. u go die faster

nkemdi89:
Ladies if you have the means , better the split the bill, these generation of men will disrespect you , if you don't contribute to bills.

Make sure you are also splitting the housework and care of the children with him, so you don’t age faster than him.

labake1:
According to the UK nurse's statements, a man who is not capable of taking care of his family, shouldn't get married. I think this controversy started because of Kie kie's interview.
Bills splitting can be 50/50, 60/40, 70/30, I think all this depends on the financial strength of a man.

My opinion is, just like the nurse said, a man should be capable before getting married even if your wife will assist you, it should be little. A wife should help her husband out if he has financial challenges and husband that have financial challenges shouldn't just sit back and watch their wife do things. Try and do little things till you stand firm.

What's your opinion about splitting bills with your partner?

Please where can I find Kie Kie's interview?

Well, she is a partner isnt she..

raumdeuter:
So what is the use of the wife and what will she be using her own money for

Dayo! Dayo!!

Happy new years ke!

Where have you been hiding since?

labake1:
According to the UK nurse's statements, a man who is not capable of taking care of his family, shouldn't get married. I think this controversy started because of Kie kie's interview.
Bills splitting can be 50/50, 60/40, 70/30, I think all this depends on the financial strength of a man.

My opinion is, just like the nurse said, a man should be capable before getting married even if your wife will assist you, it should be little. A wife should help her husband out if he has financial challenges and husband that have financial challenges shouldn't just sit back and watch their wife do things. Try and do little things till you stand firm.

What's your opinion about splitting bills with your partner?

please let me ask a question,for a woman in marriage,what does she really make money for?

Kingson28:
If you want to split the bill's, then you must split the chores too or you must employ a maid to do the chores.
She can't go to work like you do and still be expected to cook, clean and take the kid to and from school.
So, if you're splitting the bills you MUST split the chores as well.

Men has been doing chores since time immemorial.

labake1:




So wetin you come conclude?

Have you be small pikin?.

aestake:

Equality should be on everything.

Bring that energy when it comes to housework.

In man & woman matters, both parties always want to eat their cake & have it.

bukatyne:
Dayo! Dayo!!

Happy new years ke!

Where have you been hiding since?

Long time, How have you been and hows family? I dey sport section mainly since our usual section no too dey sweet again

labake1:



I hope you are not married because I feel for your wife

He is only saying, women should learn n appreciate the value of collective effort and cooperation.

BlissGod:


That’s the most stupidest thing a woman should do. Support the home not splitting bills. A real man should never put such policy in his home, if he wants to live long.

so what is supporting the home?

labake1:
According to the UK nurse's statements, a man who is not capable of taking care of his family, shouldn't get married. I think this controversy started because of Kie kie's interview.
Bills splitting can be 50/50, 60/40, 70/30, I think all this depends on the financial strength of a man.

My opinion is, just like the nurse said, a man should be capable before getting married even if your wife will assist you, it should be little. A wife should help her husband out if he has financial challenges and husband that have financial challenges shouldn't just sit back and watch their wife do things. Try and do little things till you stand firm.

What's your opinion about splitting bills with your partner?

There is no one size fits all. Stop making rules about money in your home.

If you say 60/40, if he loses his job or you lose yours tomorrow, will you come back and change it to 0/100 or 100/0

If both parties are mature financially, all these algebra about payment of bills won't be necessary

labake1:



A man's money is OUR money
A woman's money is HER money

Good luck to you.

Konjiboii:
Women claim to be feminist and modern women and demand equality but they always draw the line when it comes to splitting bills personally I have no problem taking care of your bills but don't for a minute think I will be entirely faithful to you, somethings are human nature like women being catered for same as it's a man nature to be promiscuous.

So women who split bills withtheir husbands don't get cheated on?

Or you think we are living under the rock?

Kingson28:
If you want to split the bill's, then you must split the chores too or you must employ a maid to do the chores.
She can't go to work like you do and still be expected to cook, clean and take the kid to and from school.
So, if you're splitting the bills you MUST split the chores as well.

😄 🤣 😂 😆 😄 🤣 😂 😆 😄

Did you see any of them mention chores?

The only thing done in a marriage according to them is pay bills

Like if you feel this topic has been over flog, share if you feel it cannot be over emphasize.

raumdeuter:


Long time, How have you been and hows family? I dey sport section mainly since our usual section no too dey sweet again

We are good and yours?

I agree with you joor that family section & NL generally is not sweet again.

Good to catch up with you here.

50-50. We're equal

Kingson28:
If you want to split the bill's, then you must split the chores too or you must employ a maid to do the chores.
She can't go to work like you do and still be expected to cook, clean and take the kid to and from school.
So, if you're splitting the bills you MUST split the chores as well.

Somebody has said it finally. They didn't mention it in the 3 pages.


It is only bills Nairaland men want to split, they will never ever ever split chores. If chores and nurturing is just chores and not a big deal, then providing is just providing and also not a big deal. If it's not manly to be domesticated then it's not womanly to provide money Let everybody carry his/her cross and rest.


Ladies should stop falling for that scam, you will provide money , born pikin, nurture, do all the housework and all he does is provide money? Money you are already making?
Na Scam.

Your Faith Must Be Anchored On This To Command Result.

Apostle Joshua Selman.

Listen.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pl3JgDWy538?si=lU5sMxmgMajwSnfY

BloomingDale:


Who will go to the market, buy the foodstuffs, cook and clean?

I am talking about partner wey get em own house

NastiLord:
I was banned by a very dirty and smelly aboki on this platform

The dirty ragtag from the Dan F Odio lineage

God punish you

E pain am

NoToPile:


Somebody has said it finally. They didn't mention it in the 3 pages.


It is only bills Nairaland men want to split, they will never ever ever split chores. If chores and nurturing is just chores and not a big deal, then providing is just providing and also not a big deal. If it's not manly to be domesticated then it's not womanly to provide money Let everybody carry his/her cross and rest.


Ladies should stop falling for that scam, you will provide money , born pikin, nurture, do all the housework and all he does is provide money? Money you are already making?
Na Scam.

They would never talk about the house chores.. cuz it's not a big deal to them. If house chores is not a big deal, then making money isn't. So they shouldn't be pained when woman says she can't split the bills. They want a woman that will do the house chores, split the bills, and bow to them as the head of the house. Without doing all that then you are a feminist to them. So just let them keep dreaming.

My mother had a career, worked, and earned a reasonable income, which she selflessly used to support our family. I appreciate this reality, and I am committed to not marrying someone who believes that a man should bear all the financial responsibilities within a family. In return, I am willing to share household duties, such as cleaning, washing, and cooking, and I promise never to be unfaithful. I understand that money is not the sole foundation of a successful marriage; we both contribute to our family's growth. I am not controlling and value her input. This is my perspective; any woman who expects a "baby girl treatment" is not the right match for me, and it's a matter of personal preference, not a judgment.

advanceDNA:



I and my future wife don't need ur feelings madam..keep ur pity and feelings for women that their husband treats like trash because they are nothing but a vaginà in their husband's house..
.I have a team playing babe thats not a parasite like many of u women...

Some of u Nigerian women are unbelievable Many of u are not married yet some of u already have mind set u will never be responsible for anything.... When it comes to chores too..that's how y'all keep lamenting...

Abeg wetin you dey take wey make you get sense like this recommend that shit for me

RPG2020:


Abeg wetin you dey take wey make you get sense like this recommend that shit for me

Baba no dey whine me

I will not split bills. However, my partner is an amazing man and a selfless giver; I will assist with bills here and there but you see that sharing formula? No, supporting financially is the right term.
I can go way and above for my partner because he takes my personal need as his problem. This doesn’t change the fact that he is the main breadwinner while I am his support system. Thankfully, he understands this and that’s how we will run our home. I will contribute but never on sharing formula.