Kobojunkie:
Well, once a DNA test is necessary to vefying trust it means the relationship itself lacked trust. How many people are willing to remain in a relationship where trust has been proven by the need for DNA verification to lack?

So the moment you start thinking you need to DNA test the kids, it means your have near no trust in the relationship yourself and need the DNA verification to convince you to have some in the relationship. Such a man has pretty much checked and is only looking for a reason to completely exit the situation. Even if the tests prove no unfaithfulness, the man who once has no trust left would need to do work in order to revamp his interest in said relationship.

Yes, the moment you start feeling your husband cannot have female friends and hang out with them, you should not be willing to stay in the relationship. You have pretty much checked out and only looking for a reason to completely exit the situation.

Just end it!

The moment you refuse to hire a woman as a househelp or nanny because she is quite hot, her body is banging and you worry your husband might end up fancying her and temptation might lead to them having sex so you decide to hire the ugly girl or older past-it woman, you should not be willing to stay in the relationship. You have pretty much checked out and only looking for a reason to completely exit the situation.

Just end it!

Many years ago, a man killed his wife and himself when he discovered that none of his kids belonged to him.

I just read that a man beheaded his wife after he discovered that none of all his children belongs to him. The reason he cited for killing her is that she often came to his place of work to embarrass him for child support knowing full well none of the children was fathered by him.

There are so many horror storries that attend paternity fraud.

My conclusion: save yourself heartache and high blood pressure by performing DNA test on your kids only IF you suspect foul play.

Do you now see why it is extremely necessary to seek the face of God before you marry that God may direct your steps to a peaceful and lasting marital relationship filled with mutual trust?

Why all these fears and drama about DNA ... Families should easily do it if they want....abeg

Quality20:
No its not a way to go. Children born in ur home ate urs, nobody can lawfully claim them other than you. Don't embarrass those innocent kids or their mothers

So what if their father pops up in future to claim his kid(s) who will be embarrassed then?

If there is an atom of doubt, kindly go and do your DNA test

pradoyeep:
A virtuous, faithful and loving wife doesn't deserve DNA verification, except for official reasons.
Now as a man, is it right to secretly do DNA test on your kids, even when there are no traces of cheating?

For a father to think of doing a secret DNA test with out the consent or wife knowledge

Shows that, the relationship of that union has not been stable both with love and respect

If you want to do a DNA test inform the mother and she has to be aware

She will have no right to insist on saying no to it

But if it comes out with a positive news that the child is yours that means the child is yours

Forever and ever both of you will keep having trust problems for ever suspecting her

The same you men that go about patronizing olosho will come here condemning them. Without you guys there won't be any olosho so you made them therefore deal with it when you marry one. Any man who patronized an olosho during his single days must marry olosho. No two ways about it because like begat like.

It's only someone who married an olosho that will be worried about his childs parternity. Even as a woman, if you know yourself no need to worry if the man says he's going to do a parternity test either secretly or openly. Let him do it. Na him money go waste. Ndi Uch.u

Nextt:
Many years ago, a man killed his wife and himself when he discovered that none of his kids belonged to him.

I just read that a man beheaded his wife after he discovered that none of all his children belongs to him. The reason he cited for killing her is that she often came to his place of work to embarrass him for child support knowing full well none of the children was fathered by him.

There are so many horror storries that attend paternity fraud.

My conclusion: save yourself heartache and high blood pressure by performing DNA test on your kids only IF you suspect foul play.

Do you now see why it is extremely necessary to seek the face of God before you marry that God may direct your steps to a peaceful and lasting marital relationship filled with mutual trust?

While I don't advocate violence in these kind of cases of paternity fraud, I would make exception for this story.

That was a good kill! He was justified.

frozen70:


For a father to think of doing a secret DNA test with out the consent or wife knowledge

Shows that, the relationship of that union has not been stable both with love and respect

If you want to do a DNA test inform the mother and she has to be aware

She will have no right to insist on saying no to it

But if it comes out with a positive news that the child is yours that means the child is yours

Forever and ever both of you will keep having trust problems for ever suspecting her

Why does a man need to inform her or she needs to be aware?

Jewessgratitud3:
The same you men that go about patronizing olosho will come here condemning them. Without you guys there won't be any olosho so you made them therefore deal with it when you marry one. Any man who patronized an olosho during his single days must marry olosho. No two ways about it because like begat like.

It's only someone who married an olosho that will be worried about his childs parternity. Even as a woman, if you know yourself no need to worry if the man says he's going to do a parternity test either secretly or openly. Let him do it. Na him money go waste. Ndi Uch.u

The Oloshos were raaaped?

They could not say no to the request/patronising of the men?

It is never you women's fault even when you do wrong or do things out of your own free will, abi?

You are NEVER accountable for your actions? It is always men's fault?

Selfish beings!

What exist in marriage is Trust not love. When you feel there's a breach of Trust, you have a right to clear your conscience.

There's nothing wrong with that provided you don't harm the baby

Imagine this slut, Uzoamaka Ohiri, too refuses to take accountability and instead tries to blame the man.

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/entertainment/naija-fashion/483675-i-never-knew-my-sons-paternity-until-dna-was-conducted-nedus-ex-wife.html

How can the slut claim she never knew the child was not the man's?

You did not know you were sleeping with more than one man during the time you got pregnant? You did not know if you are opening your legs to more than one man at a time, any of them can be the father when you get pregnant, slut?

Pure lack of accountability.

There is no woman who has engaged in paternity fraud that does not know she was potentially being fraudulent. End of!

She then calls him an "insecure man" for doing the paternity test on the bastard she brought into his house for him to raise.

Then she tries and turn the tables around on him by claiming emotional abuse and that she is the "victim".

A totally selfish gender that hates taking accountability.

Kobicove:


What he said is true according to some cultures

Which culture will make another person's blood become ur own?? E be like u seff wan collect ojuelegba thunder..

Jovialjune1:
Lol all this DNA banter ends online, offline none of them dingos have the guts to do it, they see it as wastage of money and unnecessary headache, but then, most male comments here only mouth off online to feel among and get encouragement from their kind through likes and insults on females, more like noisemakers with no action 🥴

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Dey play ..you hear

Gamesmart:


The Oloshos were raaaped?

They could not say no to the request/patronising of the men?

It is never you women's fault even when you do wrong or do things out of your own free will, abi?

You are NEVER accountable for your actions? It is always men's fault?

Selfish beings!

They are not being raped but you men keep going after them. If they don't get patronage, theyll go out of biz and look for something else to do but no you will always look for them even in their hiding and that is why they no longer stand at the roadside but do it from the comfort of their holes ( homes) and still sell.

Hypocrites everywhere.

VinnyBaba:


If you are Married to a MODEST Girl, no NEED.🙂

But you get married to a TEAR-EYE, SEMI-OLOSHO, 20+ BODYCOUNT Lady,
It's Necessary! 🤨😒

Things are so bad now that men think a woman who has slept with about 19 different men is modest.

Imagine she is 28 at time of marriage and started having sex at 18, so it is almost 2 different men a year she was 4uucking?

During our mothers' times, being with 2 different men before you married already would have qualified for your morals to be seen as suspicious. Then we had this feminism "progress" of women being loose.

Hoeflation is real o!

Quality20:
No its not a way to go. Children born in ur home ate urs, nobody can lawfully claim them other than you. Don't embarrass those innocent kids or their mothers

Their mothers are allowed to embarrass the man that wants to suffer to provide for their needs I guess

advanceDNA:


Which culture will make another person's blood become ur own?? E be like u seff wan collect ojuelegba thunder..

In some cultures any child born under a man's roof automatically become his, try and read wide and update yourself!

Jewessgratitud3:


They are not being raped but you men keep going after them. If they don't get patronage, theyll go out of biz and look for something else to do but no you will always look for them even in their hiding and that is why they no longer stand at the roadside but do it from the comfort of their holes ( homes) and still sell.

Hypocrites everywhere.

What about if the women always said "No", will there be any olosho?

Accountability is kryptonite to women. Selfish beings!

Quality20:
No its not a way to go. Children born in ur home ate urs, nobody can lawfully claim them other than you. Don't embarrass those innocent kids or their mothers

After seeing this comment, i will definitely do a DNA test

Gamesmart:


Why does a man need to inform her or she needs to be aware?

Why does a man need a DNA in the first place

Kobicove:


In some cultures any child born under a man's roof automatically become his, try and read wide and update yourself!

I asked u...which culture will make another person's blood turn to ur own.....?? Ur wife cheated and u are talking about culture...

Did I say I want another man's child as my own
Who wants another man's child when he's not impotent.... Fvck culture

pradoyeep:
A virtuous, faithful and loving wife doesn't deserve DNA verification, except for official reasons.
Now as a man, is it right to secretly do DNA test on your kids, even when there are no traces of cheating?

The Woman too should proceed to do her own Secret Maternity test on her kids.

Gamesmart:


What about if the women always said "No", will there be any olosho?

Accountability is kryptonite to women. Selfish beings!

Abeg drop this weak line of defence. You men can never stop and that is why you'll end up paying for your actions in the future. Who dey suffer am Las las? No be men full everywhere dey agitate for parternity test up and down? LoL...

You people think you're doing me? You're doing yourselves. Na una go still cry us a river when the time comes.

frozen70:


Why does a man need a DNA in the first place

because only women get pregnant and the vagina is programmed to receive any kind of male penis and sperm.....and sadly the practice of fvcking multiple partners is now a norm... love or no love ...married or no married...

DNA should be necessary after birth. And if the test shows the child is not yours, do a test on the mum to be sure the child is hers before concluding.
Men should not be emotionally blackmailed when they say want DNA test. That alone looks like an indication of a guilt on the side of the woman. If she's truly sure of herself, she won't bother.

frozen70:


Why does a man need a DNA in the first place

I asked you a question based on your argument, you are asking me a different question?

My friend, tell us why you think a man need to inform her or she needs to be aware.

Jewessgratitud3:


Abeg drop this weak line of defence. You men can never stop and that is why you'll end up paying for your actions in the future. Who dey suffer am Las las? No be men full everywhere dey agitate for parternity test up and down? LoL...

You people think you're doing me? You're doing yourselves. Na una go still cry us a river when the time comes.

Weak defence line that you, like almost all women, hate to take accountability for your choices and free-will actions but instead like to blame men for these?

Who dey suffer las las?

WOMEN!

Na una dey dey miserable and never get that thing you have dreamed about since you were a little girl: Your dream man, who would cherish you and live with you forever.

We just want sex with women we find attractive. Many of us get that.

Na una dey dey dumped when you are older and lost your looks, na una dey cry me a river and on anti-depressants.

Gamesmart:


Weak defence line that you, like almost all women, hate to take accountability for your choices and free-will actions but instead like to blame men for these?

Who dey suffer las las?

WOMEN!

Na una dey dey miserable and never get that thing you have dreamed about since you were a little girl: Your dream man, who would cherish you and live with you forever.

We just want sex with women we find attractive. Many of us get that.

Na una dey dey dumped when you are older and lost your looks, na una dey cry me a river and on anti-depressants.

Try harder bro. You lost on this one. Argue intelligently next time cos all you said here about the women is not a universal truth, happens to one out of a 100 but my submissions are very very factual and universal cos it is you mens reality home and abroad. Everyday DNA this DNA that and men killing themselves or their spouses after discovering they're not the real father's, all over social media. So? Try again.

Gamesmart:


Weak defence line that you, like almost all women, hate to take accountability for your choices and free-will actions but instead like to blame men for these?

Who dey suffer las las?

WOMEN!

Na una dey dey miserable and never get that thing you have dreamed about since you were a little girl: Your dream man, who would cherish you and live with you forever.

We just want sex with women we find attractive. Many of us get that.

Na una dey dey dumped when you are older and lost your looks, na una dey cry me a river and on anti-depressants.

Baba rest joor....them no dey argue too much with person wey dey yarn opata....Woman stand for junction dey advertise prostitutión .still come dey blame man wey she entice to pay for her goods.... no be juju be that..??

How Coca cola go dey blame buyers for buying the goods they sent into the market?? Baba... Women no like take responsibility for their actions..na the same reason dem no dey like pay bills...

advanceDNA:


Baba rest joor....them no dey argue too much with person wey dey yarn opata....Woman stand for junction dey advertise prostitutión .still come dey blame man wey she entice to pay for her goods.... no be juju be that..??

How Coca cola go dey blame buyers for buying the goods they sent into the market?? Baba... Women no like take responsibility for their actions..na the same reason dem no dey like pay bills...

Abi o.

advanceDNA:


Baba rest joor....them no dey argue too much with person wey dey yarn opata....Woman stand for junction dey advertise prostitutión .still come dey blame man wey she entice to pay for her goods.... no be juju be that..??

How Coca cola go dey blame buyers for buying the goods they sent into the market?? Baba... Women no like take responsibility for their actions..na the same reason dem no dey like pay bills...

And when they say men are dumb/simp, you'll wail. Now you're trying to make us understand that men don't have the will power to refuse evil or something detrimental to their lives? That a woman can offer them poison and they'll gladly accept even with their hard earned money? Smh... No be mumu be that?

You just ended up telling us how loose and indiciplined men are and why they can never stop having DNA issues.

Jewessgratitud3:


Try harder bro. You lost on this one. Argue intelligently next time cos all you said here about the women is not a universal truth, happens to one out of a 100 but my submissions are very very factual and universal cos it is you mens reality home and abroad. Everyday DNA this DNA that and men killing themselves or their spouses after discovering they're not the real father's, all over social media. So? Try again.

When your IQ meets minimum threshold, you will realise when someone says "like almost all women", he does not propose a "universal truth".

Simple logic!

Too much emotions and selfishness ends up leading to you lacking logical reasoning.

By the way, less than 1% of children are being raised as paternity fraud. You have more chance of getting breast cancer than a man suffering paternity fraud.