Op, listen, you're a F0ol!

You did not give birth to her.
You're not her father.
You're not her creator.
You're not her savior.
You're not her Mohammed.
You're not her Jesus.
You're not her life.
You're not her body.
You're not her sibling.
You're not her mother.
Why then do you worry so much about her if you're not her F0ol?

Only a fo0l will worry over something he means nothing too.

At 33 this id10t don't know how to live a peaceful life. Shame.
Oga, go and look for a virgin young girl between 18-23 and marry.
You can't have peace if you're dating a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men.
Many men who married non virgins are currently regretting their marriage and they can't call it quit so, they continue to suffer for eternity.

Do you want to suffer for eternity?

Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin young lady and marry.

[quote author=UniQue84 post=128431811][/quote] she pay house rent ke? .. No brother I pay house rents.. God no go let us broke to not pay house rent in Jesus name.. I rather sell a property to pay house rent than my spouse pay house rent..

Nwatulee:
Hi guys am not a good writer and will try to keep this post as short as possible.... I met a girl 5 years ago at first year we are just fiends and bedmates, a year after we decided to take things serious.. First forward to covid 19 she moved in with me a year after my precious business collapse due to China scam.. She tried her best to contribute the little she have even upto changing my boxers and money for hair cut she provided... The relationship has been good with the off and on.. But my gf have a bad habit that she is quickly to adapt to things both good or bad things.. Which to me I worry a lot... she cheats on me with other guys one time I hacked her WhatsApp I saw all her sexpades with other guys... I talk to her about it.... she begged but to no avail she refuse to change.... Fast forward till last week I keep complaining how she always come back late.. Snext 2 days after complaining she texted me with a picture that she is out chilling with her girls.. I was so angry because we just hard a semilar argument about, late nights days ago I told her if she didn't drive home next 30min she should just remain there.. She replied she is on way.. I was so angry and tell not to worry omo this girl stayed back.. Went clubbing and stayed in the hotel next morning she sent me a video of her and the girls in the hotel.. I didn't reply because I was angry.. Talking to you like this she is yet to come back to the house since Friday called all her siblings.. She was with none of them. .. and I began to wonder na person wey I Wan marry be this? what if we get married and it got worst? Thank God I got back on my feet in business and now am doing all possible best we get married this year and relocate to abroad next year.. One part of me have actually decided to let go and just block her off the other part is not willing.. What should I do guys.. Because me am am 33 years and trying to settle down..

Red flag, run for your life. Use your head

what most of you don't understand is a man can't forget a woman who was there for him when he has nothing....that is majorly what is holding the op...and the woman knows that...its a tough decision to make.

Men all know the answers and they keep asking . People do worse once they are married

Dog wey wan loss no dey listen to its master's whistle. I know you're inlove so nothing dey tell u wey go make sense to u but sha, if you cherish & value ur peace of mind just try detach any feelings or emotions u have for her else....

Your case is like going to a jungle, adopt a snake, then angry the snake is not behaving like a pet dog. You're the one that refuse to accept reality.

That girl is for the street. You don't privatise a street. You rent, not privatise. The guys she party with are treating her like that. They have fun with her, then she goes back to you.

You're 33, obviously doing well, and you are this naive in the affairs of women? If a woman can make you suffer like this, then if you jam me, na die remain

You can't be man enough when a woman is making you suffer stupidly, a woman you shouldn't even be with in the first place. A woman that depends on your hustle to shine, you're still the one suffering.

If anybody will beat you with belt, then they shouldn't be doing it with your belt. If a woman will make you suffer, then it shouldn't be under your roof, and eating your food. You're too daft bro.

And you want to take her abroad. Jesus. Obviously you hate yourself. You want to give her the belt, nail, cross and hammer she will use to beat, crucify and nail you. In order words, using your strength to deal with you.

Anyways, my empathy these days are selectively applied. Because in many cases, when I see people suffer, I try to survey, and see that they have a hand in their suffering. And it's a natural law that the weak and the dumb will suffer.

If you like, keep tolerating her, thinking you're the bigger person. Until e be you like film. A woman you took out of the trenches, will take you back to the trenches. You guys will trade places, and that's the price of foolishness.

Nwatulee:
about distance my last business trip late last year was the longest.. I spent 3 months then came back to a total different stranger.. I tried to break up.. Because I really can't take it no more like she just keep having different new friends this party to that party every weekends night out.. Omo I said am not doing again she came home from work that evening with 2 of her female friends to help her packed her loads (this friend she just made in space of 3 months I traveled). Omo I shock... See the way their are hyping her while she was packing sef lol.. A week later she came back begging I no answer her she begged and begged for 2 weeks swore she won't do it again and if I don't take back she will commit suicide.. That period she like went back to normal not until I noticed something and behold I checked her phone omo what I saw I was shocked.. I was like again?

Threatening you with suicide is cheap manipulation. Do what's best for you. Take a decision that would be of benefit to your future children.

Nwatulee:


and I began to wonder na person wey I Wan marry be this? what if we get married and it got worst?

it will not get worst. marry her.
she is a good girl.

Nwatulee:
about distance my last business trip late last year was the longest.. I spent 3 months then came back to a total different stranger.. I tried to break up.. Because I really can't take it no more like she just keep having different new friends this party to that party every weekends night out.. Omo I said am not doing again she came home from work that evening with 2 of her female friends to help her packed her loads (this friend she just made in space of 3 months I traveled). Omo I shock... See the way their are hyping her while she was packing sef lol.. A week later she came back begging I no answer her she begged and begged for 2 weeks swore she won't do it again and if I don't take back she will commit suicide.. That period she like went back to normal not until I noticed something and behold I checked her phone omo what I saw I was shocked.. I was like again?

This is a life lesson - never give room for irresponsibility. This same attitude is why some countries are lawless and dangerous than others - they give room for criminals to thrive. Don't give a yard, as they would take a mile. I understand she helped you, which is why you still have feelings for her. However, if you really feel she should be rewarded, maybe calculate it and pay her off to clear your conscience. Because to me, you are her retirement plan.

Also, if you are not a party person, I don't see why you should get married to one. Unlike physics where like pairs repel; in basic biology, like pairs attract. You met her that way, you should leave her that way. That is who she is. It is hard to change an adult's behaviour esp past 25 years old in this hyper-active century.

Nwatulee:
A week later she came back begging I no answer her she begged and begged for 2 weeks swore she won't do it again and if I don't take back she will commit suicide..

Guy stop all this complaining and marry that girl. what is your wahala seff?
Marry her and make sure you spend 8 million naira on the wedding if you know you really love her as you claim, if not your love is a lie.

The first thing you did wrong was trying to turn a hookup girl into a wife. You can date women that do hookups but never marry someone for whom sex is so casual a thing, that they can have it outside of committed relationships.

You've caught her cheating on you, you know that she doesn't respect you enough to listen to you and not do the things that make you uncomfortable. If you marry her its likely to only get worse. I understand that she gave you help when you were down and was there for you financially so you be there for her, financially, if she needs the help but you have no obligation to marry her for this.

Nwatulee:
Hi guys am not a good writer and will try to keep this post as short as possible.... I met a girl 5 years ago at first year we are just fiends and bedmates, a year after we decided to take things serious.. First forward to covid 19 she moved in with me a year after my precious business collapse due to China scam.. She tried her best to contribute the little she have even upto changing my boxers and money for hair cut she provided... The relationship has been good with the off and on.. But my gf have a bad habit that she is quickly to adapt to things both good or bad things.. Which to me I worry a lot... she cheats on me with other guys one time I hacked her WhatsApp I saw all her sexpades with other guys... I talk to her about it.... she begged but to no avail she refuse to change.... Fast forward till last week I keep complaining how she always come back late.. Snext 2 days after complaining she texted me with a picture that she is out chilling with her girls.. I was so angry because we just hard a semilar argument about, late nights days ago I told her if she didn't drive home next 30min she should just remain there.. She replied she is on way.. I was so angry and tell not to worry omo this girl stayed back.. Went clubbing and stayed in the hotel next morning she sent me a video of her and the girls in the hotel.. I didn't reply because I was angry.. Talking to you like this she is yet to come back to the house since Friday called all her siblings.. She was with none of them. .. and I began to wonder na person wey I Wan marry be this? what if we get married and it got worst? Thank God I got back on my feet in business and now am doing all possible best we get married this year and relocate to abroad next year.. One part of me have actually decided to let go and just block her off the other part is not willing.. What should I do guys.. Because me am am 33 years and trying to settle down..

how do you think she will change. How do you guys even forgive who cheats on you. I just dnt understand. Better dump her and find another person

I believe u know what to do already.... Let her go her way cos she's not ready to change and she's not a wife materia

If u want to live long then don't do anything personal with her and when u want to sleep with her always use a protection incase of stds or pregnancy.... Don't break the BRO-CODE and don't be a SIMP

Nwatulee:
Hi guys am not a good writer and will try to keep this post as short as possible.... I met a girl 5 years ago at first year we are just fiends and bedmates, a year after we decided to take things serious.. First forward to covid 19 she moved in with me a year after my precious business collapse due to China scam.. She tried her best to contribute the little she have even upto changing my boxers and money for hair cut she provided... The relationship has been good with the off and on.. But my gf have a bad habit that she is quickly to adapt to things both good or bad things.. Which to me I worry a lot... she cheats on me with other guys one time I hacked her WhatsApp I saw all her sexpades with other guys... I talk to her about it.... she begged but to no avail she refuse to change.... Fast forward till last week I keep complaining how she always come back late.. Snext 2 days after complaining she texted me with a picture that she is out chilling with her girls.. I was so angry because we just hard a semilar argument about, late nights days ago I told her if she didn't drive home next 30min she should just remain there.. She replied she is on way.. I was so angry and tell not to worry omo this girl stayed back.. Went clubbing and stayed in the hotel next morning she sent me a video of her and the girls in the hotel.. I didn't reply because I was angry.. Talking to you like this she is yet to come back to the house since Friday called all her siblings.. She was with none of them. .. and I began to wonder na person wey I Wan marry be this? what if we get married and it got worst? Thank God I got back on my feet in business and now am doing all possible best we get married this year and relocate to abroad next year.. One part of me have actually decided to let go and just block her off the other part is not willing.. What should I do guys.. Because me am am 33 years and trying to settle down..

Bro run oo

So all these red flags mean nothing to you abi.

Go ahead and marry her so you can always drop content for us to read every day.

Anyway if you want to learn how this OP clone his gf phone. My number is on my signature text me on WhatsApp.

I'll teach you.
You go pay 1k ooo before we start.

Nwatulee:
Hi guys am not a good writer and will try to keep this post as short as possible.... I met a girl 5 years ago at first year we are just fiends and bedmates, a year after we decided to take things serious.. First forward to covid 19 she moved in with me a year after my precious business collapse due to China scam.. She tried her best to contribute the little she have even upto changing my boxers and money for hair cut she provided... The relationship has been good with the off and on.. But my gf have a bad habit that she is quickly to adapt to things both good or bad things.. Which to me I worry a lot... she cheats on me with other guys one time I hacked her WhatsApp I saw all her sexpades with other guys... I talk to her about it.... she begged but to no avail she refuse to change.... Fast forward till last week I keep complaining how she always come back late.. Snext 2 days after complaining she texted me with a picture that she is out chilling with her girls.. I was so angry because we just hard a semilar argument about, late nights days ago I told her if she didn't drive home next 30min she should just remain there.. She replied she is on way.. I was so angry and tell not to worry omo this girl stayed back.. Went clubbing and stayed in the hotel next morning she sent me a video of her and the girls in the hotel.. I didn't reply because I was angry.. Talking to you like this she is yet to come back to the house since Friday called all her siblings.. She was with none of them. .. and I began to wonder na person wey I Wan marry be this? what if we get married and it got worst? Thank God I got back on my feet in business and now am doing all possible best we get married this year and relocate to abroad next year.. One part of me have actually decided to let go and just block her off the other part is not willing.. What should I do guys.. Because me am am 33 years and trying to settle down..

You're dating a hookup girl. Althogh that's the money she's using to take care of you. It's good you've seen what she is now

I know niggas like you, after all the red banners you've seen for the past 5yrs & advice here, after she comes back with teary face and give you mind blowing sex. You'll still marry her. Pussy ass nigga.

Find another girl date and don't break with her


Use your wedding serve her hot breakfast

Don't you have what you call red flags?

I wish I could hear her side of the story.
It will surely begin with, "after all I've been through with him, he dump me"

chidekings:
what most of you don't understand is a man can't forget a woman who was there for him when he has nothing....that is majorly what is holding the op...and the woman knows that...its a tough decision to make.

See bro in this life nobody is indispensable, a lady will forget a man that sponsored her to school in the space of 7yrs and marry another guy so why can't guys be cold blooded and do that too.

Someone called you a pussy ass nigga and I think that's what you are, a weak man. If you still continue with that girl she will get pregnant for one of the bad guys she fuks and she will pin the bastard child on you since you are a dumb ass and have no brain to think. Guys that are introvert like you should get a life cos if you are an indoor person how do you meet people? I doubt you even go to functions at all, I'm a club manager, just come to the hotel at ladies night and on sundays and see different girls like water.

Since you don't go out and sit at home all day how will you meet other girls? Or girls that have better behavior than this trash you call a GF. Go to churches like Redeem or Winners on sundays, check their choir alone and see diff pretty ladies and decent atleast that are looking for good men, yet you date this trash many men sleep with everyday and this is still the person you want to end with. You know in your heart this girl sleeps around like a dog she is yet she's all in your head. Until you know that there are many fishes in the sea and not depend solely on one girl then you will be a f0ol for life.

That's why I don't blame guys that says simps deserve death, yes I think they do because if death can get rid of all the weak men in nature we will only have the strong and intelligent who will rule women and rule the world. How do you even date a lady that goes out sleeps with diff men and sucks their cock yet you will kiss such and still mount such. See you I put it to you that you are even dumper than you think. You better dumb this trash and find decent girls to marry and lastly never take any Nigerian woman abroad, before you do make sure she's born for you and the kids are old enough to stand for you incase anything goes south in the future.

OKOATA:
See bro in this life nobody is indispensable, a lady will forget a man that sponsored her to school in the space of 7yrs and marry another guy so why can't guys be cold blooded and do that too.

i know,but the op feels he owns it to the girl for the good she did when he was done..if reverse is the case,we all know that the girl won't even remember whatever good he has done..he should make up his mind for his mental wellbeing

I've experienced this shiit b4,e no easy sha,I know say u no fit chop or do anything like this.... just take this simple advice "DUMP HER"....for ur mental health sake..... she's a chronic cheater,u can repay her for everything she has done for u.

Nwatulee:
Hi guys am not a good writer and will try to keep this post as short as possible.... I met a girl 5 years ago at first year we are just fiends and bedmates, a year after we decided to take things serious.. First forward to covid 19 she moved in with me a year after my precious business collapse due to China scam.. She tried her best to contribute the little she have even upto changing my boxers and money for hair cut she provided... The relationship has been good with the off and on.. But my gf have a bad habit that she is quickly to adapt to things both good or bad things.. Which to me I worry a lot... she cheats on me with other guys one time I hacked her WhatsApp I saw all her sexpades with other guys... I talk to her about it.... she begged but to no avail she refuse to change.... Fast forward till last week I keep complaining how she always come back late.. Snext 2 days after complaining she texted me with a picture that she is out chilling with her girls.. I was so angry because we just hard a semilar argument about, late nights days ago I told her if she didn't drive home next 30min she should just remain there.. She replied she is on way.. I was so angry and tell not to worry omo this girl stayed back.. Went clubbing and stayed in the hotel next morning she sent me a video of her and the girls in the hotel.. I didn't reply because I was angry.. Talking to you like this she is yet to come back to the house since Friday called all her siblings.. She was with none of them. .. and I began to wonder na person wey I Wan marry be this? what if we get married and it got worst? Thank God I got back on my feet in business and now am doing all possible best we get married this year and relocate to abroad next year.. One part of me have actually decided to let go and just block her off the other part is not willing.. What should I do guys.. Because me am am 33 years and trying to settle down..

God just safe u from a stray bullet and you still wan wait to collect any one.

Oga run leave her, block her if you must. Infact block her pata pata. Shredd every memory of her.

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Thanks all really do appreciate

Thank you for contacting me

My brother, we thank God your business has been restored
I'll advise you according to Scriptures if you won't mind

1st of all, you got off on the wrong footing; once sex happens in a relationship outside marriage, you two open the door for the devil to enter your lives and mess you up beyond your imagination, reason People have lost good prospective spouses that way.

Call off the relationship with her, take enough and quality time to grow yourself in God and let Him direct you. Tell her to do same for herself. It is actually 'all man for himself' before God, then after which God will lead you to His lady for you. He is the Most Loving Father.

God bless and strengthen you dear

Let her breathe. She is the fun-loving type. Why not go out with her as well and enjoy yourself. You can even ask her to invite her other boyfriend to the other room for a party.

Take life easy my dear. All girls are now free-to-air! Let them breathe some fresh air before their tenure go expire!

You re not yet for marriage. Why giving yourself too much worries. Allow her to gyrate while you too can gyrate too.

At appropriate time, when you re due for marriage you will call her to order by then you have your marriage timeline at hand.

Remember a fool at forty is a fool forever

Nwatulee:
Hi guys am not a good writer and will try to keep this post as short as possible.... I met a girl 5 years ago at first year we are just fiends and bedmates, a year after we decided to take things serious.. First forward to covid 19 she moved in with me a year after my precious business collapse due to China scam.. She tried her best to contribute the little she have even upto changing my boxers and money for hair cut she provided... The relationship has been good with the off and on.. But my gf have a bad habit that she is quickly to adapt to things both good or bad things.. Which to me I worry a lot... she cheats on me with other guys one time I hacked her WhatsApp I saw all her sexpades with other guys... I talk to her about it.... she begged but to no avail she refuse to change.... Fast forward till last week I keep complaining how she always come back late.. Snext 2 days after complaining she texted me with a picture that she is out chilling with her girls.. I was so angry because we just hard a semilar argument about, late nights days ago I told her if she didn't drive home next 30min she should just remain there.. She replied she is on way.. I was so angry and tell not to worry omo this girl stayed back.. Went clubbing and stayed in the hotel next morning she sent me a video of her and the girls in the hotel.. I didn't reply because I was angry.. Talking to you like this she is yet to come back to the house since Friday called all her siblings.. She was with none of them. .. and I began to wonder na person wey I Wan marry be this? what if we get married and it got worst? Thank God I got back on my feet in business and now am doing all possible best we get married this year and relocate to abroad next year.. One part of me have actually decided to let go and just block her off the other part is not willing.. What should I do guys.. Because me am am 33 years and trying to settle down..

I can understand dating a woman who is cheating on you.

I can even understand dating a woman who is cheating with more than one man, especially if the sex is good, because many times when men claim to love a woman, that is all they want.

But to date a woman who is cheating on you and rubbing it in your face, to plan to marry such a woman and relocate abroad with her is beyond me.

No offense to you, sir, but I think extraterrestrial forces are after you.

You need deliverance and steady flogging until you are okay.

Never forgives a cheating woman

A cheating woman that has been caught is a dangerous woman.