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Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Adeolajude(m): 8:06pm On Mar 23 |
What you did to her is very right..I pray when you give birth to a baby girl people will treat her in same way. Also may those who has helped you are any point in time end up treating you nicely like you treated her. Hope that answers your question. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by riverbird: 8:07pm On Mar 23 |
She had only one job to do but she refused, the dude made his intentions known over the phone and she accepted so why refusing when the time came or she only came for the food as usual?...girls sha... 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by omoadeleye(m): 8:07pm On Mar 23 |
AyobamiOluwole: You called her for something which she agreed to come and do it but she came and fumble it's not a bad thing to treat her fvck up |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Badmashiii: 8:07pm On Mar 23 |
Op you Bleep up from the beginning of your parole with that girl. If you're doing favor for a girl she will believe it's because of the power of her pussy that is why you should always bang a girl before doing her any favor,unless she's your blood. She wan just do you small shakara so that you go beg am and her entitlement to your favors go come increase but instead you show am sey na man you be who has options and don't condone nonsense. You did the right thing in my own point of view. Another thing,stop coming to a public forum to seek approval over your actions and decisions. Nothing screams weakness more than this singular act. You are a man. Build and develop your own frame. If your frame tells you something is right then you don't need another opinion whatsoever to do it. Me i go send the girl papa comot from my house and warn am for her life mek she no step foot for my house again. If e like mek e be around 1 am at night i don't fuvking care! |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Ekugbeh(m): 8:10pm On Mar 23 |
Looking for somebody to concur with your twisted mind |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by enemyofprogress: 8:11pm On Mar 23 |
Call her and apologize to her. She go give you chop the day you do that. She has learned her lesson. Trust me. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by StPete: 8:11pm On Mar 23 |
NoahHadNoArk: Na man you be. You deserve all the good things of life 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by riverbird: 8:13pm On Mar 23 |
AyobamiOluwole: Let's face the facts, you told her what you wanted even before she came around and she agreed to it, so what wrong did he do?, it's high time we stop allowing this girl to use emotions on us, we are all humans and no one is super human, guy was in his lowest mode and needed emotional support but babe only came to eat drink and flex....in her mind "ABEG MAKE I GO CHOP FREE FOOD" as in na her papa house she dey go or her uncle house, what stopped her from staying back in her father's house? And all of you are here blaming the guy for sending her back home, the guy did what was best because some animals will want to resort to rapee in other to get back at her. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by grandstar(m): 8:19pm On Mar 23 |
AyobamiOluwole: I fear futures trading 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by pansophist(m): 8:20pm On Mar 23 |
If you did the right thing, you wouldn't be here asking. I can understand your frustration, and not wanting to pass the night with an uncooperative lady, but that shouldn't unleash an inhumane treatment from you. If she lived not too far away, then just Uber her back home, give her money to find her way home or allow her to stay over, endure just for that one night, and never allow such a scenario to repeat itself. You acted based on anger, and now that the anger is cleared, you are seeking validation of your actions. But yes, what you did was wrong. Wrong in the sense that her safety should be paramount despite your anger. So sending her home is not the issue here, because the alternative is to be in a toxic atmosphere until the morning. But sending her without a means to go back home is just wrong. Honour and empathy should not be overruled by your anger. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Psoul(m): 8:20pm On Mar 23 |
AyobamiOluwole: We have lots of irresponsible animals these days in the name of men. You are an animal. You were helping her just because your want sex from her. You had the mind to send her out of the house in the night and bring in another girl. You're a cheap prostitute. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Guest911: 8:20pm On Mar 23 |
AyobamiOluwole:You did not define the relationship . You know cuddling leads to sex. She knows this. Everyone know this. She’s not your girlfriend or your friend with benefits. Buying her gift and feeding her is not consent to her body . You must Have the conversation from the onset. It was unfair to treat a human being like that. 2 Likes |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by captaininiobong(m): 8:21pm On Mar 23 |
AyobamiOluwole: Help put this talk into a trash bag |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by fitinwell: 8:22pm On Mar 23 |
NoahHadNoArk: Here is just the reality and best contribution so far... Other commenters above are hypocrites |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Ibkay32(m): 8:23pm On Mar 23 |
You know you did bad thing, and you were still of it's good or bad 😔 Atimes I always wonder how mods push some irrelevant topics to front page leaving behind the relevant ones Abi una they collect bribe ni? |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by riverbird: 8:23pm On Mar 23 |
Psoul: The guy did his best to avoid the unthinkable from happening.....the guy did not tell you he's a saint. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by fitinwell: 8:24pm On Mar 23 |
Guest911: But she could accept gifts from strangers abi.. without her parents consent.. All the Shoppings and takeaways... |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by RevenuesBoost(f): 8:26pm On Mar 23 |
tochez24: This is funny 😂😂😂 |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Misterone: 8:27pm On Mar 23 |
AyobamiOluwole:You're very stupid! And you want use to justify your stupidity |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by okoroemeka(m): 8:28pm On Mar 23 |
AyobamiOluwole:what you must understand is that women has too much physical and emotional baggage to carry,that girl maybe suffering silently from mensural cramps and you are talking of cuddling,just the fact that she came to your house and is ready sleep is a pass mark,you failed in your haste and anger not to know what baggage she is carrying at that time,next time take it easy and talk gently to a woman with a caring tone,you will be surprised the things you will learn |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nkl4u: 8:29pm On Mar 23 |
You should be ashamed of yourself op. Thank God she declined your advances. Cuddle kee you there |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Opanka44(m): 8:30pm On Mar 23 |
AyobamiOluwole: Same will be done to your sister. I'm not capping, it's the truth. When u were giving her money, were u doing so cos u wanted something in return? Is she ur girlfriend in the first place? If u needed a cuddle, why didn't u call ur babe or an Olosho? U bleeped up big time. What if she was killed, kidnapped or raped at the time u threw her out? |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by etrange: 8:34pm On Mar 23 |
Sir, you sent someone's daughter out in the middle of the night even when you knew she had no money for transport because you're angry? You confirmed nothing happened to her from someone. You say that as if that after-the-fact confirmation made your actions any less egregious. Would that confirmation have saved her if she was attacked that night? And you're asking if you did something wrong. So if we say no, you'd still have the mind to do something like this again in your life? Sir, you're not here to find out if you're wrong or right, you already know the answer to that question. You brought the story here cause you want validation for your evil act so you can have peace of mind. But the truth is, until you accept your wrong-doing, what you did to that girl will keep haunting you. You didn't introduce this girl to us as your girlfriend. You described her as "this girl that has been to your place, eat the best and that" (that expression is ridiculous by the way). You had another girl you could easily call, so she was just one of the girls. You also said and I quote "in my mind I was thinking this will go down as sex ...". You don't want to commit but you're angry that she didn't jump into your bed cause of the food you've been buying her. You say cuddling several time as we don't know how that ends up. Let me not go into the dynamics of your relationship and what she might have done wrong or right because that would give the impression that there's a scenario where your action would be justified. The truth is, there isn't. You're a dangerous man. You see, what you did that night is not about her. She's fine, and she's moving on with her life and dignity. She's not the one creating threads online. Rather, it's about you. If you could send a girl out in the middle of night without transport, you have issues; very serious issues. I'm sure I'm not the first person to tell you this, and I'm sure this is not the first time your action is shocking you into explaining yourself to strangers hoping to be validated. Certainly, if there was no internet, you'd sit down and explain yourself to a dog, a cat or anything around. That is what happens when your conscience is pushing you around. You'd recount the story over and over again in your head hoping to find validation somewhere but you won't. NL boys can hail you all they want, but deep down, you know you have a problem. 5 Likes |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by twosquare(m): 8:35pm On Mar 23 |
Most people commenting on this thread are idiats... Even underg go follow comment who no know what;s up for this life. For those saying he wan straff the girl dey use cuddle do undecover...maybe But don't be a low IQ... Some of you don't trade futures/leverage, margin or forex. How your thing go take stand after such a loss...with hot body and almost weeping All you go desire na words of encouragement and some hugs and assurance. Maybe sex fit happen along the way sha...but the first intention go be THAT. I will only take comments of people from the industry serious. CC. AyobamiOluwole 2 Likes |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by franksam209: 8:37pm On Mar 23 |
AyobamiOluwole:be4 I start, lemme tell you something, you are not a guy man, you supposed calm down cos no be by force stuff, she already wanted and would definitely allow you, but you can't just expect her to just come to you just like that, most woman will not try that.,. Allow her relax, sleep without touching her, na midnight you supposed start your work, her body will be so relax and soft she won't even be able to resist your touch.. Bro but how old are you? As in why should you even remind her why she came, did she tell you she didn't know why she came? Abi na so your people take dey knack woman? Lolz Las las even if she refuse all your endeavors, just relax and pretend it didn't hurt you, just allow her sleep comfortably,you already know she will come back for those stuff she's always getting from you , and that's when you strike again |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 8:37pm On Mar 23 |
GodHimself: She wouldn't pick my calls. She only replies my chats. I have apologised to her, but she keeps replying with insults. I have deleted all our chats and deleted her number as well. It's all bygones now. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Jman06(m): 8:40pm On Mar 23 |
AndrewTate:Stop post trash here! Your types are the ones who embolden women to misbehave because you absolve them of responsibilities to their actions. Nonsense! Let me correct this errorneous belief today: WOMEN ARE NOT CHILDLIKE LIKE THIS YEYE POSTER TYPED UP THERE. Therefore they shouldn't be treated like children but should be held accountable for their actions like every other adult human. They are not less intelligent than men, instead some are smarter than some men.. when a woman wants to deal with a man, she's very decisive and does not show any iota of pity, so there's no need to treat them with levity or show them unmerited kindness. Women have wreaked many men all over the world. They have thrown men out of their houses and into the jail on flimsy excuses. They have poisoned many men to untimely deaths for little or no serious provocation. They have made men raise other men's children via paternity frauds. The list endless! A people capable of the above actions cannot be said to be innocent and deserving of any special favourable treatments from the menfolk. Op, I wouldn't know why you're guilt stripping yourself for doing what was clearly the right thing to do at that time. You didn't do any wrong for sending her out of your house when she could not grant your little request of leaning on her shoulder for consolations due to your loss. The lady is obviously SELFISH and you should stop spending your resources on her. She isn't worth it! 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Smartgeek(m): 8:41pm On Mar 23 |
Bros , u told her why u wanted her to come and she agreed. Especially being the first time u'll be asking of anything from her You took her out to have a nice time and it was time for her to fulfill her own end of the deal, she chickened out! She deserves what she got. I'll advise you do away with such selfish leeches. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Airlord2030: 8:43pm On Mar 23 |
If a man should ask you for money now, you will say no. But you can give it to women just because of pussy, and after they show you shege, you will now come to nairaland and be creating useless threads. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by udomonday: 8:44pm On Mar 23 |
NoahHadNoArk:you should have allowed her to stay,when the other girl comes then you introduce her as your sister,let her sleep in the living room,then you and the girl will sleep in the bedroom,make sure you Bleep her well and hard so that her moans will reach the living room.I bet you after that she will be the one begging you to Bleep her.girls are naturally Jealous,they always want what another girl has,if she feels that another woman is willingly giving you what she is denying you,then she will let you have the keys to her body. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by mascot345: 8:44pm On Mar 23 |
U can still call another girl with out sending her out.. And tell the other girl that she is your sister It depends how many room dey your house.. What u did is wrong. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Badadvisor: 8:44pm On Mar 23 |
AyobamiOluwole:I,understand your frustrations. It happened to me on forex trading last week i lost $1200.. I sent her out that night cos i wasn't just interested to be with anyone at that moment. She's not my girlfriend, just a fling, we were supposed to spend 3 days together but immediately i logged in into my hfm app and saw red on all my trades Vex just full my body. I booked a bolt for her and told her to go. I got a regular mood swings issues but forex and bitcoin futures trading will humble you 😂 |
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