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| The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by cutecommend: 1:17pm On Apr 22 |
No sex before marriage is a beautiful and nice thing, but it can be messed up with a lie. How? If a lady is insisting on "No sex before marriage", do not clap for her as a good lady, because she may be keeping you for marriage and sleeping with someone else. So sexual purity that appears to be good because of marriage, while secretly sleeping with someone else is deceptive. No sex before marriage should be no sex with the person I want to marry and no sex with anyone else. 4 Likes |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by Zonefree(m): 1:21pm On Apr 22 |
A non virgin Nigerian girl demanding for "No Sex Before Marriage" is a criminal! Such a hooligan should be arrested and prosecuted. 25 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by Zxcvbnmghtr: 1:52pm On Apr 22 |
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| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by Puss360(f): 2:50pm On Apr 22 |
Lols.. if sex doesn't destroy this generation of African youth, then something somewhere has to be wrong!!... Why the so called emphasis on "No-sex" before marriage.. As a man, or woman, sex shouldn't be your priority in looking for a life partner... Being the best sex partner doesn't guarantee the best marital life.... Sex is just an activity... For pleasure or for procreation... When you see a potential date, just flow along with the person, check for attitudes, manners and character.. If they suit you, then go ahead and marry her.. If she says no sex, then think about it ... It's not a must you agree, but if you do, it should be for a good reason... Afterall after wedding, you all can have countless sex..... Besides, when a girl you are dating demands for sex too much, you men will say "noooo, I no fit marry this one, ashiawo dey her eye".... 5 Likes |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by Illegal1(m): 2:54pm On Apr 22 |
omoh.........no sex b4 marriage is a big scam. |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by tiswell(m): 3:37pm On Apr 22 |
cutecommend:only a true virgin has such options. Non virgins claiming no sex before marriage ,after multiple body counts are just deceiving themselves and their potential 5 Likes |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by PerfectStranger(m): 4:10pm On Apr 22 |
Zonefree:A death sentence bro 4 Likes |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by Tallesty1(m): 4:31pm On Apr 22 |
cutecommend:And nah only ladies dey insist on no sex before marriage? |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by Sonnobax15(m): 4:32pm On Apr 22 |
Ok,no sexxx before marriage,ok I agree....But why your kpekus come wide like Agbasa community river after marriage? Eh aunty,why?  1 Like |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by jmoore(m): 4:47pm On Apr 22 |
I am team virgin till marriage. @op, many men are victims of paternity fraud because they didn't choose 'no sex before marriage'. If your girl accepts sex before marriage and she is fornicating with many men including you. One of them may impregnate her and you will be the one responsible for the pregnancy. But if you as a man choose 'no sex before marriage', she can't impose paternity on you when she is fornicating with legion. 3 Likes |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by idahme(m): 5:55pm On Apr 22 |
cutecommend: No sex before marriage is I'm a virgin, anything outside this is a scam. You can't have 20 body count and you are telling me no sex before marriage are you ok? Run from such deceitful people 1 Like |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by idahme(m): 6:02pm On Apr 22 |
jmoore: You are talking like you are not in this country, a woman will impose pregnancy on who she wants to impose it on irrespective of wether she had sex with you or not. Someone who has sex with one of her men one week to your marriage can't impose a pregnancy on you? Or you are saying? Women don't care about consequences of their actions when they want to strike, know this and know peace If the person isn't a virgin but is actually having plethora of sex partners she will only be having abortions since you ain't having sex with her but any conception that happens a month to your wedding paternity fraud assured The only solution is decreasing this probability by going for a virgin. I don't believe in no sex before marriage if the girl isn't a virgin. You can't use me and catch cruise 1 Like |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by idahme(m): 6:05pm On Apr 22 |
Puss360: "Afterall after wedding, you all can have countless sex" This is one of the biggest lies women tell men but in reality you don't have countless sex in marriage. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by Reminderz: 6:09pm On Apr 22 |
Puss360:at your first emboldened message, sex is not just an activity... na people like you cheat for fun and open legs for whosoever, because you don't take it as anything... sex goes far more than just what you mentioned... at your second emboldened message, this is the scam that most men became a victim of when they got married, especially those who that got married without having any sort of intimacy with their partner... most people think marriage is a free subscription to sex, lol they are in for a rude awakening... most married men are having little to no sex, the ones having lots of it are those not married or in any other serious commitments and those that don't take relationship serious... btw, no sex till marriage should only be agreed with a girl whom you're 100% sure of her purity and of confirmed virtues and character... a non-virgin girl doesn't hold the rights to ask another man to wait till marriage for sex... this is why bride price is only prescribed for virgins only... when I say virgins, I don't mean bløwjob virgins, romance virgins and the likes... I mean pure virgin in body and soul... back in the days, men have no problem waiting for a woman till marriage because they know they will get what they bargained for... but these days, most times when a woman is making you wait for intimacy (even if you don't intend to have any type of intimacy with her), there's 99% probability that she's having it with another guy or she's saving you as a backup plan in case the man she's seeing jilts her.. she's only using you for your resources because she sees you as a naive guy and a simp who's new in the game... the decision to wait till marriage for sex should be a decision that you made not her, unless she has the aforementioned qualities of a virtuous woman, if not, prepare to get your heart shattered... 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by NEUDUDE: 6:24pm On Apr 22 |
Do people actually do this. Lol .Highest ive waited for a banny is a week lol. Normally as we dey meet face to face na to collect remain lol. all the formalities should have been done with video calls |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by Puss360(f): 7:45pm On Apr 22 |
Reminderz:Okay noted... This coming from a man with uncountable body count.... Good 1 Like |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by Puss360(f): 7:45pm On Apr 22 |
idahme:Really? I'm yet to know this one o.. lol |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by folake4u(f): 8:07pm On Apr 22 |
I feel "No Sex before Marriage" is attainable if parties have trust and mutual understanding. It is really not a big deal if you truly love the person and want to wait till the Marriage vows is sealed. Many people still do this. And who says it's only women that insist on that? Or you're exposing yourself to the whole world that you're not disciplined sexually. Lol. |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by ukaface(f): 10:41pm On Apr 22 |
cutecommend:You are bias Why use a woman as the only example? A man too can say no sex before marriage, and that is because he doesn’t want the woman to find out that he is impotent, 2 mins man. |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by jmoore(m): 10:56pm On Apr 22 |
ukaface:Bia! Onye kwuru dat thing? |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by spencekat(m): 10:59pm On Apr 22 |
idahme:👍 1 Like |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by spencekat(m): 11:01pm On Apr 22 |
idahme:'In reality, you don't',especially when children start coming. 1 Like |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by AcadaWriter: 11:17pm On Apr 22 |
omoh.........no sex b4 marriage is a big scam. |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by Gerrard59(m): 2:45am On Apr 23 |
idahme: Exactly. The belief that married men get unfettered access to sex is entirely false. I am willing to bet sexually active bachelors get more sex than sexually active husbands. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by Gerrard59(m): 2:47am On Apr 23 |
idahme: You demand for a DNA test. If it is yours, you take responsibility. If not, you aren't responsible. It is that simple. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Big Lie Of "No Sex Before Marriage" by Gerrard59(m): 2:51am On Apr 23 |
I can actually be in a no-sex relationship, as I believe sex distorts the relationship. One becomes too unnecessarily emotional, for both genders anyway. I want to see the relationship for what it is without sex. However, the problem is when a non-virgin lady requests for a no-sex relationship. I find that to be very dishonest. 5 Likes |
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