First impressions may be made in moments, but they predict the course your relationships follow. So if you know what exactly about you draws in the votes, you can perfect it -- and do better with the opposite sex. So what do women notice immediately?

According to Dr Gordon Patzer, author of Looks: Why They Matter More Than You Ever Imagined, and one of the world’s leading authorities on physical attractiveness, a lot of what women notice in the first few minutes is appearance-based. “A substantial portion of the six features of a man are apparent, in terms of height, weight and overall physical attractiveness,” he says. And when appearances don’t make the cut, the door slams shut on further interactions. Here’s a list of things to keep that door open.

1. Physical stature
Yep, you knew this already: size matters. Height and weight are right on top of the list of things women notice. “Too much or too little of either immediately classifies the man as unattractive to women, and closes the door before less physically obviously features (such as confidence) can be determined,” says Dr Patzer. Take heart though, the acceptable range is influenced by the woman's own height and weight.

2. Appearances and attractiveness
Yes, beauty is skin deep, but it’s going to get women to explore what lies beneath. Attractiveness does include what you were born with, but your genes alone can't scuttle your chances. What really counts is what you do with your hair, clothes, grooming and basic hygiene. If you can't make the effort, women certainly are not going to work hard to learn more about you!

3. Smile
Once women are done assessing your overall build, women will look at your smile. “The ability to smile, particularly within the first few minutes of meeting, sends a welcoming, non-hostile signal to women,” says Dr Patzer. There is one proviso though -- the smile must show off reasonably good-looking teeth. It's never too late to fix an appointment with the dentist!

4. Humour
Another reason to show off those pearly whites! Women like men who have the ability to laugh. Even better, make the woman laugh. That instantly nets you bonus points!

5. Confidence
Women find confident men attractive. According to Dr Sameer Malhotra, head of psychiatry and psychotherapy department at Fortis Hospital in New Delhi, within the first few minutes of meeting, women will not only suss out your level of confidence, they will also interpret the vibes you give out and how you think. “Women notice how clear or decisive you are and whether you approach things positively.” Just remember, cockiness and arrogance are not the same as confidence!

6. Conversation
Men have successfully given womankind the impression of being strong and silent. So women aren't expecting you to have mad talking skills. All you've got to do hold her attention. “We know (scientifically) that the more or longer that a woman gets to know a man, the more physically attractive he becomes in her mind,” says Dr Patzer. Women are looking for someone to keep up the conversation -- so forget the one-liners, just be yourself!




http://www.menslifetoday.com/in/feature/relationships/things_women_notice/index.html#axzz2oVqspuo7

Number 5 is on point

noted.

We have too many captain obvious on nl

Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomy




In a lay man's word...i mean MERRY CHRISTMAS TO Y'ALL

okay@op well done. I know someone that is not too good-looking, infact an average joe, but he manages to score with hot chicks. Why is that so? I have come to understand that points of attraction women look out for are hard to rationalize, they are aesthetic like a mona lisa painting. You ask your self sometimes, why is she with that guy? You don't understand. Ask her, why do you love that guy? She doesn't really know
attraction for women is embedded in the irrational or intuitive part of the brain which has been passed from mother to daughter for generations. That is the selection of the most suitable male mate with. I don't women go about with a checklist in their purse to select a male. If she digs you, she digs you.

born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomy




In a lay man's word...i mean MERRY CHRISTMAS TO Y'ALL

LOL! Guy, you just made my Christmas.

Story?

Most of these girls don't study all these. They look out for only cash.
Last Bullet:
This is the truth of our society.

born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomy




In a lay man's word...i mean MERRY CHRISTMAS TO Y'ALL

haha.funny u

Okiki_Oluwa: Most of this girls don't study all these. They look out for only cash.

my brother u hit d hammer on d nail

freshchuks10:
1. Physical stature
Yep, you knew this already: size matters.
Height and weight are right on top of the list
of things women notice.
Take heart though, the acceptable range is
influenced by the woman's own height and
weight.

On point. I'm on the big side so I can't be having me a big man. The skinnier the berra

freshchuks10:
2. Appearances and attractiveness
Yes, beauty is skin deep, but it's going to get
women to explore what lies beneath.
Attractiveness does include what you were
born with, but your genes alone can't scuttle
your chances. What really counts is what you
do with your hair, clothes, grooming and
basic hygiene. If you can't make the effort,
women certainly are not going to work hard
to learn more about you!

True that. No woman will take a ruffian looking fellow seriously.

freshchuks10:
3. Smile
Once women are done assessing your overall
build, women will look at your smile. "The
ability to smile, particularly within the first
few minutes of meeting, sends a welcoming,
non-hostile signal to women,". There is one
proviso though -- the smile must show off
reasonably good-looking teeth. It's never too
late to fix an appointment with the dentist!

Na lie. Some niggas are better off NOT smiling cos of their 'disaster zone' teeth

freshchuks10:

4. Humour
Another reason to show off those pearly
whites! Women like men who have the ability
to laugh. Even better, make the woman laugh.
That instantly nets you bonus points!

I00% correct!!

freshchuks10:
5. Confidence
Women find confident men attractive. Within
the first few minutes of meeting, women will
not only suss out your level of confidence,
they will also interpret the vibes you give out
and how you think. "Women notice how clear
or decisive you are and whether you approach
things positively." Just remember, cockiness
and arrogance are not the same as
confidence!

Very true. The bolded are complete turnoffs

freshchuks10:
6. Conversation
Men have successfully given womankind the
impression of being strong and silent. So
women aren't expecting you to have mad
talking skills. All you've got to do hold her
attention. "We know (scientifically) that the
more or longer that a woman gets to know a
man, the more physically attractive he
becomes in her mind,"Women are looking for
someone to keep up the conversation -- so
forget the one-liners, just be yourself!

It is however not a license to talk the woman half to death

No 4 is key!

Ishilove:
On point. I'm on the big side so I can't be having me a big man. The skinnier the berra


True that. No woman will take a ruffian looking fellow seriously.


Na lie. Some niggas are better off NOT smiling cos of their 'disaster zone' teeth


I00% correct!!


Very true. The bolded are complete turnoffs


It is however not a license to talk the woman half to death

Thanks for the female perspective on this...imma take your word as a 12unit course!

By the way, merry xmas to u

Women notice all these right away?

born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomy




In a lay man's word...i mean MERRY CHRISTMAS TO Y'ALL

wow! Wole soyinka must be a learner then.

7. size of his wallet.

this long story and not even one picture?

OP, pictures or I don belivit.
Besides I doubt this study applies to naija girls they only see money.


[size=200pt] 1 thing women notice in men right away is MONEY, lots of it. [/size]

born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomy




In a lay man's word...i mean MERRY CHRISTMAS TO Y'ALL

Lol...let me get my dictionary.

rigarmortis: 7. size of his wallet.

I am surprised the OP didn't mention Having a FAT wallet. For some gals, dat its numba 1

I doubt...

Man is not a machine to fullfil all these qualities, if a
girl really wants all these, then she should order a
robot.

That's their opinion I mean Dr Gordon Patzer n Dr Sameer Malhotra....here in Nigeria we know what works well for us. Not bad a write up though...

Ok. I have 90% of what's listed above. Why am I still single? (Because I never buy Range Rover Sport)

right ni away ko. bros just pray make baba God bless you wella, you go see as girls go dey pursue you up and down.

copied.......but wia is that single thing that answereth all things

a guy with a cool ride is popular on campus regardless of all these

Okiki_Oluwa: Most of this girls don't study all these. They look out for only cash.

You sound hurt. You are what you attract.

NAIRALAND MODS & ADMINS PLS WHY NOT TRY TO REDUCE THE NUMBER OF REPEATED SUBJECTS. BECAUSE IF WE CHECK VERY WELL, WE WILL NOTICE THAT THIS KIND OF SUBJECT HAS SOME SIMILARITIES WITH THIS ON BELOW:
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https://www.nairaland.com/1355538/10-things-women-notice-men

Ishilove:
On point. I'm on the big side so I can't be having me a big man. The skinnier the berra

U wan kill am?