born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomy




In a lay man's word...i mean MERRY CHRISTMAS TO Y'ALL

Have fun!

vickyO:

Some are suffering from low self esteem and are desperate

Neither do I o.....

That's true

And you are telling me Bianca saw all these in Ojukwu right away?

So on point

I swear i notice all that on the first date

uj_sizzle: So on point

I swear i notice all that on the first date

iphone dey learn multitasking where ladies brain dey

bigfree: okay@op well done. I know someone that is not too good-looking, infact an average joe, but he manages to score with hot chicks. Why is that so? I have come to understand that points of attraction women look out for are hard to rationalize, they are aesthetic like a mona lisa painting. You ask your self sometimes, why is she with that guy? You don't understand. Ask her, why do you love that guy? She doesn't really know
attraction for women is embedded in the irrational or intuitive part of the brain which has been passed from mother to daughter for generations. That is the selection of the most suitable male mate with. I don't women go about with a checklist in their purse to select a male. If she digs you, she digs you.

Hmmm...word!!

Guy u really gud at advertiing your goods..goodluck

born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomy




In a lay man's word...i mean MERRY CHRISTMAS TO Y'ALL

I had 2 check ur moniker 2wice 2 mk sure is nt dat Edo man

Am new here mehn... U can call me a fresher, xo wats d op saying❔ [color=#990000][/color]

freshchuks10: First impressions may be made in moments, but they predict the course your relationships follow. So if you know what exactly about you draws in the votes, you can perfect it -- and do better with the opposite sex. So what do women notice immediately?

According to Dr Gordon Patzer, author of Looks: Why They Matter More Than You Ever Imagined, and one of the world’s leading authorities on physical attractiveness, a lot of what women notice in the first few minutes is appearance-based. “A substantial portion of the six features of a man are apparent, in terms of height, weight and overall physical attractiveness,” he says. And when appearances don’t make the cut, the door slams shut on further interactions. Here’s a list of things to keep that door open.

1. Physical stature
Yep, you knew this already: size matters. Height and weight are right on top of the list of things women notice. “Too much or too little of either immediately classifies the man as unattractive to women, and closes the door before less physically obviously features (such as confidence) can be determined,” says Dr Patzer. Take heart though, the acceptable range is influenced by the woman's own height and weight.

2. Appearances and attractiveness
Yes, beauty is skin deep, but it’s going to get women to explore what lies beneath. Attractiveness does include what you were born with, but your genes alone can't scuttle your chances. What really counts is what you do with your hair, clothes, grooming and basic hygiene. If you can't make the effort, women certainly are not going to work hard to learn more about you!

3. Smile
Once women are done assessing your overall build, women will look at your smile. “The ability to smile, particularly within the first few minutes of meeting, sends a welcoming, non-hostile signal to women,” says Dr Patzer. There is one proviso though -- the smile must show off reasonably good-looking teeth. It's never too late to fix an appointment with the dentist!

4. Humour
Another reason to show off those pearly whites! Women like men who have the ability to laugh. Even better, make the woman laugh. That instantly nets you bonus points!

5. Confidence
Women find confident men attractive. According to Dr Sameer Malhotra, head of psychiatry and psychotherapy department at Fortis Hospital in New Delhi, within the first few minutes of meeting, women will not only suss out your level of confidence, they will also interpret the vibes you give out and how you think. “Women notice how clear or decisive you are and whether you approach things positively.” Just remember, cockiness and arrogance are not the same as confidence!

6. Conversation
Men have successfully given womankind the impression of being strong and silent. So women aren't expecting you to have mad talking skills. All you've got to do hold her attention. “We know (scientifically) that the more or longer that a woman gets to know a man, the more physically attractive he becomes in her mind,” says Dr Patzer. Women are looking for someone to keep up the conversation -- so forget the one-liners, just be yourself!




http://www.menslifetoday.com/in/feature/relationships/things_women_notice/index.html#axzz2oVqspuo7

Brilliant, brilliant, brilliant list!

I particularly like the fact he added number 3. One thing about me is that I rarely smile in pictures and I have noticed many women that have seen my pix ask me to send one where I am smiling or ask me "where is the smile".

I would put number 5 before number 4 though. Women are more likely to be turned on by confidence than sense of humour. Humour is a long term company thing. Confidence makes cream.

And definitely if a girl is super hot (as in fcking steaming), cockiness works better than confidence on its own.

well said.




bigfree]okay@op well done. I know someone that is not too
good-looking, infact an average joe, but he manages to score with hot
chicks. Why is that so? I have come to understand that points of
attraction women look out for are hard to rationalize, they are
aesthetic like a mona lisa painting. You ask your self sometimes, why is
she with that guy? You don't understand. Ask her, why do you love that
guy? She doesn't really know
attraction for women is embedded in the irrational or intuitive part of
the brain which has been passed from mother to daughter for generations.
That is the selection of the most suitable male mate with. I don't
women go about with a checklist in their purse to select a male. If she
digs you, she digs you.[/quote]

very cogent points for a land where flowers n leaves win a gurl's heart on d flash.

a land where a lil smile from a Stranger can change d Cos of life of a lonely Lilly.

cogent only for a land where true luv is revered above all d mundane things mother earth cud mutter

Nigeria n in effect nland is mos def not one of those lands

so save d sermon. when I have the time, Id take you all (including that doc of urs) on d senseless but totally attractive web of women wooing wonders

regards

iykenex: Number 5 is on point

It simply means you aint got the other five qualities huh
Well, cap it up with the sixth, i understand!

@op i really love ur grt write up , but size of pocket i mean money should be also be included ....d gurlx of today are only centered n intrest in ur wallet size too regardless ur good or wat so ever

Flygeriansteve: Women notice all these right away?

Aint we an intelligent specie? Lol

joe4christ:

It simply means you aint got the other five qualities huh
Well, cap it up with the sixth, i understand!

Which of the qualities do YOU have?

Are you not the same person that started threatening a girl on NL because she refused to take up your offer of communication off NL?

His dental hygiene must b healthy,depending on urz too,mouth odour iz a turn off,n body odour too.

Sunshine lady: . 'Av lived dere' (like its a big deal) ..'Not dis yeye nairaland contributors' (rude)..sori bro (or sis) u don't rilly sound as exposed as u claim. First wit ur language, and all. U don't knw who is who, its possibl dat 8oper cent of dose contributin here hav lived dere or perhaps still live dere, so don't be a mr know all .

I'm sorry I can't help you. I've got my own probs and they don't include brittle ego

Sacluxpaint: Does anyone know where I can fix my teeth in Lagos or Ph as its not as straight as I want it, I don't want braces but surgery, and what's the cost?Thanks

Are you saying there's now surgery for teeth straightening? Update me o. I never heard that. Braces alone in 2009 was 250k in lag and someone wanted to do for 180k for me in IB. I was stunned at the costs. I never knew. This is what's done for a child in teenage yrs and affects looks positively

y-fo:


iphone dey learn multitasking where ladies brain dey

Well...it's our genetic make up

uj_sizzle:
Well...it's our genetic make up

What is with your werewolf-like picture? Lol!

E go well

all4naija: What is with your werewolf-like picture? Lol!

thank u OP

born_to_be_gr8t: Ur facts has no empirical thesis , it's legally untenable , and it's devoid of concurable evidence to instigate magnanimous sagacity in astronomical capacity of an uneven dynamic world of the male physiognomy




In a lay man's word...i mean MERRY CHRISTMAS TO Y'ALL

liar how is that purpose to mean merry christmas

uj_sizzle:

Sorry! I didn't mean any harm. I mean to point to the picture pattern in your profile. I can only give you a hug, if possible, for my apologies!

all4naija: Sorry! I didn't mean any harm. I mean to point to the picture pattern in your profile. I can only give you a hug, if possible, for my apologies!

Accepted

Chei... Some people and kissing

Sagamite:

Which of the qualities do YOU have?

Are you not the same person that started threatening a girl on NL because she refused to take up your offer of communication off NL?

Are you a stalker

Number 1