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What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by PasD(m): 8:21pm On Aug 30, 2014
This just hit me now! I missed my mum so much that I started thinking this weird thought. She's shown me much love and care that I can't wait to pay her back! All of a sudden the thought just hit me 'what if ssomeone else out there is your real mother?'

I have heard stories about perfect couples who kept the secret of the true parents of their foster children from them!

What will you do if you wake up one morning only to realize that your parents are not your real parents?

Have you ever thought of that? Think about it..and tell us.

For me....I will kill myself and run away!

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by Nobody: 9:41pm On Aug 30, 2014
...lol...you ll kill yourself and run away....ROTF

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by eleojo23: 9:46pm On Aug 30, 2014
It is already confirmed that the parents I've known all my life are my real parents.
But let me share someone's story that I read online. This story is not mine

I grew up in a warm and welcoming loving family with 2 older sisters. From a very early age, around 7, I had an instinct that perhaps my father was not my biological father; it's a bit weird but there must be some sort of sixth sense in us all, I can't describe it helps us identifies our parents instinctively. As I grew up I continued noticing very slight differences in my body,I realized that I was slightly darker colored than my sisters but I kept it to myself. My sisters were very loving and I forgot about these odd instincts in my childhood until I was in highschool.

One day I was reading a newspaper that mentioned how parents tend to fight with their parents because they have similar personalities; it was a bit strange for me because my dad and I never had arguments but my sisters always fought with my parents. However I brushed off the strange feeling since I grew with my parents and they had not mention anything. There were notable physical differences at my age , with my parents: I was much taller and had different physical characteristics than my dad; I do look like my mother a lot though.
One day I had to renew my passport but I needed to find my type of blood RH(its a requirement to fill). I went to the Doctor to find out my blood type and I got an 'AB+' blood type. Just to give you a brief description of myself, I am a rather quiet but very curious guy so I got curious about my type of blood. Apparently its some kind of universal blood and it got me even more interested in reading about it. Out of curiosity I asked my parents what kind of blood they had and they both said 'A+'. Then I don't know if it was destiny or something but I continued reading in wikipedia about blood types and I found out that two 'A' bloodtypes cannot make an AB+ child.
I asked my mother about it and she denied the fact that my dad was not my biological father at first. Then later on in the day she told me bursting in tears that she did have an affair and that the man that I had known as my dad was not real biological father. I couldn't believe it at first and I cried a lot, but at the same time I felt that life had somehow given me hints to sort of accept this moment. My mother called a Doctor to verify if what I told her about the blood type incompatibility was right and the doctor said yes, I couldn't have been a product of 2 A+ blood types.

It has been a year since that moment and my mother told my dad (non-biodad) but he managed to forgive her.

About my biological dad, he has a family and I have not contacted him because I don't want to destroy his family. I don't know if there is anything worse than finding out (yes finding out because I literally found out by reading about blood types) that my childhood was all a lie. I felt a bit depressed during this last university semester but I am managing to overcome this situation that I wish no one else has to go through.

I feel this issue has helped me grown as a person and taught me about the importance of fidelity and marriage. No one would want their children to suffer as I have, so perhaps this testimony well help some people to be aware that being faithful to their partner is the right thing to do.

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by PasD(m): 9:48pm On Aug 30, 2014
Yes lol so that I won't be arrested for suicide
temigracie: ...lol...you ll kill yourself and run away....ROTF

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by teewai3(m): 9:50pm On Aug 30, 2014
not a big deal..jst find d real parent nd life goes on

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by PasD(m): 9:54pm On Aug 30, 2014
Booking space? Let's see if mods will find me worthy
eleojo23: Comment available shortly. Busy now
Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by PasD(m): 9:55pm On Aug 30, 2014
Awwww so easy a thing to do for u
teewai3: not a big deal..jst find d real parent nd life goes on

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Aug 30, 2014
PasD: Yes lol so that I won't be arrested for suicide
...lol...who dare arrest a dead man??

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by teewai3(m): 10:11pm On Aug 30, 2014
not dat easy, bt every thing happen for a reason..it happen to a frnd of mine, wen he asked why he was kept in d dark all this while, we were speechless after listening to them, he has notin to do than to thank them

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by PasD(m): 10:22pm On Aug 30, 2014
And moved in wt his new parents? Kai if I hear.
teewai3: not dat easy, bt every thing happen for a reason..it happen to a frnd of mine, wen he asked why he was kept in d dark all this while, we were speechless after listening to them, he has notin to do than to thank them

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by teewai3(m): 10:30pm On Aug 30, 2014
noo, seriously,he is still living with them, bt he normally spend d weekend wit his real folks
Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by PasD(m): 10:34pm On Aug 30, 2014
Nigerian police! They will arrest the dead man and collect bribe from his relatives b4 they release him for burial. Believe me av seen police arrest a corpse b4
temigracie: ...lol...who dare arrest a dead man??

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by PasD(m): 10:37pm On Aug 30, 2014
Hmmmm. It must be hard 4him! If that happens to me I will deny my real folks!
teewai3: noo, seriously,he is still living with them, bt he normally spend d weekend wit his real folks

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by teewai3(m): 10:40pm On Aug 30, 2014
really bt no matter wat they do,they ar still u parent...u can just change dat
Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by Zehner(f): 10:44pm On Aug 30, 2014
If they did a good job I will continue to see them as my parents....but curiosity will also lead me to finding out who my biological parents are. so sincerely......Life goes on.

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by PasD(m): 10:45pm On Aug 30, 2014
They will have to explain to me why the disappeared! Well I will disown them. I love the ones am seein!
teewai3: really bt no matter wat they do,they ar still u parent...u can just change dat

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by teewai3(m): 10:56pm On Aug 30, 2014
yea, u hav every reason to knw why,bt wat will dat change
Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by PasD(m): 11:03pm On Aug 30, 2014
Lol it does to me!
teewai3: yea, u hav every reason to knw why,bt wat will dat change
Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by teewai3(m): 11:06pm On Aug 30, 2014
yea...i undastand
Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Aug 30, 2014
I can't begin to imagine wat i will do......itz gona be.....i don't knw d word i can use to qualify it.
Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by PasD(m): 11:17pm On Aug 30, 2014
I canhelp u with one word! Holisticratologantlobialistic!
Harbosede02: I can't begin to imagine wat i will do......itz gona be.....i don't knw d word i can use to qualify it.

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by Nobody: 11:21pm On Aug 30, 2014
PasD: I canhelp u with one word! Holisticratologantlobialistic!
lolz,....is dat a word or a sentence?? grin
Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by fairari022(m): 4:49am On Aug 31, 2014
I'll thank them for their support , henceforth be more grateful to them.

NB: as long as they have played the role of a parent, that has already qualified them as my parent. For*k them biological parent who don't give a for*k to their children.

God help that pot belly black dude, if he comes outta one corner to claim I'm his child. Na sorry go be him name.


Fart on thread and walks out.

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by Nobody: 4:49am On Aug 31, 2014
I still wouldn't trade them
They have been excellent parents kiss kiss kiss

If I found out today my parents were not my biological parents,I would be more interested in finding out if I had some half brothers and sisters I would like to know,than having much relationship with the parents that didn't raise me.

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by Jerrick(m): 4:50am On Aug 31, 2014
temigracie: ...lol...you ll kill yourself and run away....ROTF
I'm surprised myself little sister *in Klaus' voice* *the Originals* grin

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by Nobody: 4:51am On Aug 31, 2014
Tag: Admin, seun, mukina.

Correct the front page heading. 'not' was omitted in the caption.
Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by Tdrumz(m): 4:52am On Aug 31, 2014
PasD:

For me....I will kill myself and run away!

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by livinbygrace: 4:54am On Aug 31, 2014
That's not a big deal most of the children being born dis days re product of extra marital affairs.Most married women now prefer to play away match.What abt the so many baby factories being discovered recently ?
So tell me how many children are truely from their fathers?
God help us.

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by Nobody: 4:56am On Aug 31, 2014
Omg! I'm gonna be deeply disturbed. I might even break down. My parents mean sooo much to me! Having and believing in your parents isn't something you can just stop over night, accepting and loving them wholeheartedly! Well, I'm always gonna love em- real parents or not but I'd surely find my real parents and probably start a relationship with em, only if their reasons for being away was solid enough- if not, I'd continue life and believe the parents that raised me are the only parents I will ever have since the real ones don't deserve me.
Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by Nobody: 4:59am On Aug 31, 2014
livinbygrace: That's not a big deal most of the children being born dis days re product of extra marital affairs.Most married women now prefer to play away match.What abt the so many baby factories being discovered recently ?
So tell me how many children are truely from their fathers?
God help us.
Erm you ended up not even answering the question. What a way to fail a simple exam. smiley

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by joanpinkie(f): 5:01am On Aug 31, 2014
if such ever happens which i pray shouldnt, i will still with the people that raised me as my parents. To hell with the real once that werent there when i needed them

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Re: What If You Just Found Out That Your Parents Ain't Really UR Biological Parents? by NaLaugh: 5:01am On Aug 31, 2014
Life goes on.

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