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Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by Onegai(f): 7:20pm On May 07, 2012 |
All these stories above, it wasn't that they broke up that caused the wahala, it was how they broke up. The way you leave a rel shows how you were in it, so if you decide to start showing bad character so he/she leaves you, the memory they hold is that you have a bad character. Simples. |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by phemi3: 8:33pm On May 07, 2012 |
Nice stories! What I do believe is that people dat are destined to help each other will certainly do. So let's not be too sentimental about it. Take instances of Nigeria politicians; u help them to get to the top but they forget all promises made! What I'm tryin to say is protocol/no protocol; who's destined to help, will help. Nice story thou! |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by jpphilips(m): 9:06pm On May 07, 2012 |
Onegai: even Amadioha will have a hard time taking you serious, read my lips, dumping someone is a bad event in its entirety, no chivalry can change it, its like saying that you want to attend a pleasant burial, now how cool is that? she/he is being dumped because he/she wasn't good enof in the first place, so whats the ceremony about? nostalgic feelings of lost insanity? oh!! please, get busy my dear, too many jobless youth dese days 1 Like |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by Onegai(f): 9:12pm On May 07, 2012 |
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Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by Onegai(f): 9:14pm On May 07, 2012 |
Guess my point is that I agree with you, there are no exact steps, just some basic guidelines. Put yourself in their shoes. One old toaster of mine called me today to gist. You would have thought he was a lover or friend, though we've not spoken in months, because I ended things well. And yeah, he was hurt when I said no, but guys dealt with me last year (I tend to attract the immature, so am working on me to stop that) so I felt his pain. Now I could have gone "you dis razz bobo with no job, u no see wia I live?? Respect ya level". Instead I went "hi, this wouldn't work out, it's not your current prospects, we're not alike. Hope we'll be friends one day". Cost me nothing. He still felt like a man. Try breaking up one day calmly, you'll recover faster, because there was less messiness. And I don't believe in Destiny, that's what Churches use to convince you that after all your sinning, good things will come your way no matter what. Which totally goes against biblical teachings, but that's modern_day christianity for you. Your destiny is God-given, not man-made, and if it isn't God's will for you to work in oil firm, all the tithing and skabashing in the world won't help you. It could be your destiny to be a street preacher (like John the Baptist)or a Hosea, or Jeremiah but strangely churches only proclaim the destiny of David and Solomon and rich biblical characters |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by jpphilips(m): 9:28pm On May 07, 2012 |
Onegai: --- you write so much that you lose context, a chyker you called it, do you break up with chykers? now we have understood you are polite to admirers good for you but i tell you what, if you are stunningly beautiful and you attract men in droves, after 5yrs of your life, you will psychologically develop a cloud of attitude to protect yourself from those trooping radicals. in conclusion, i think you are just an average gal or a little below ave that you need to be that nice pending when you may need them again no offense though all you are saying makes no pragmatic sense unless you are begging for attention from guys, the bad news is that loads of girls get more than required attention so they hardly care about the feelings of a loser, its like saying RIP to a shot armed robber, baby, you are either unattractive or jobless IMHO |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by phemi3: 9:57pm On May 07, 2012 |
hmnnnnnn! Na wa oooooo. Things are getting hot in here! |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by Onegai(f): 10:37pm On May 07, 2012 |
jp philips: you're funny. Trust me, even you cannot afford me. Trust me. I won awards at Uni for looks (I really didn't like being nominated though and it's why I'm very careful how I post here, I used to be super-popular for being hot and I hated it), I have a very popular last name. I'm polite because my dad taught me all people, from his mechanic to my uncle (on the list of Nigeria's richest) deserves the same measure of politeness. And no, I'm not some 25 year old chicken. It's sad that when a pretty girl is humble, she's seen as having low self-esteem. I guess I should start shouting and vexing, like a child. |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by jpphilips(m): 10:49pm On May 07, 2012 |
Onegai: pics please!!!!!!!! local champion on rampage lol, after all, professor for Zamfara go Imo state see say him level na imbec!le and yaba+ u neva see anything, what are you selling that i cant afford? is credit not allowed? when i say i aint buying ur over sized bra you will want me to say it politely abi? thank God joblessness no be crime |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by phemi3: 11:16pm On May 07, 2012 |
kk; what has pics got to do with what is @ hand? U guyz has contributed immensely to this thread; why d sudden 'hush'? Anyway guys, just come of it. because pple is entitle to his/her own opinion. Just love you guyz! |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by sewenn(m): 11:10pm On May 08, 2012 |
saying the truth and nothing but the truth |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by sewenn(m): 11:25pm On May 08, 2012 |
What about your GFs MsDarkSkin: |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by toygod2: 10:36pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
like 'ITS OVA' simple . haha |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by phemi3: 11:16pm On Mar 16, 2013 |
sewenn: saying the truth and nothing but the truthThe truth is hard to tell. Take for instance; the girl I told you that was my sisters fwend; it's a lie. She's d one taking your place in my heart. I dont love you anymore. Shikena! U don die be dat. |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by Youngpo413: 10:13pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Onegai: REAL DISCLOSURE! |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by Youngpo413: 10:38pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
When I said that love doesnt exist they think Im lying,if its true ,why do we want to breakup with someone we loved,remember true love never dies...so how comes? Men and women using each other in the name of relationship,how absurd... Lust lust lust! |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Onegai: So u get sense like dis ehn? Iyanmi! |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by hazardous(m): 11:14pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
Okay... |
Re: How Can One Tell Someone 'it's Over' Without Really Hurting Their Feelings? by phemi3: 9:19am On Nov 05, 2014 |
obongproff: VERY FUNNY! |
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