The Telegraph recently reported that men are fully mature at 43, more than ten years later than women. If you’re a woman in the dating scene, this is no surprise to you. Be on the watch for these sure signs that you are dating a boy and not a man!
1. You Pay for Everything
If he can’t go dutch at least once in while, something’s wrong.
2. He Can’t Clean House.
Boys live in messes, real men know how to use mops.
3. He Never Has Any Plans
Not dinner plans, and not career plans. This boy is going nowhere.
4. He’s Worn the Same Clothes for the Last 10 Years
Not the same type of clothes, the same clothes. If his mom makes all of his fashion decisions, get out of there.
5. He’s Never Had an Important Relationship
If you are his first girlfriend after he gets out of school, you are in for a rough ride.
6. He Hates Responsibility
Men don’t always want responsibility (no one always does) but they will accept it. A boy can’t stand to be responsible for anything.
7. He Makes Fun of You
Real men understand the difference between teasing and verbal abuse, boys don’t.
8. He Can’t Stand Being Wrong
A real man owns up to his errors. A boy denies them, makes them your fault, and pouts until you forget about it.
9. He Gets Jealous of Your Friends
A real man is not necessarily friends with your friends, but he appreciates that you have them. If he gets jealous of your friends, this is a bad sign.
10. He Has No Self-Esteem
If a guy is constantly down on himself and does nothing to improve his situation, don’t stay to ‘heal’ him. Just run away fast!

Lol.. You wan spoil market for dem boys.

braine:
Lol.. You wan spoil market for dem boys.

Swagga boyz you mean.. the idi0ts that Nigerian Girls love, they all look like Davido or WizKid with their saggy pants and 50 naira chains.. but don't out girls just love em boyz.. will come here to complain that the boyz does not go dutch on them.. ditch dem swagga boyz and go to real men or simply grow older and mature

He wears star boy or alobam top and dorobucci trousers

davdandam:
He wears star boy or alobam top and dorobucci trousers

Lol

He talks in woman voice.....Lolz...

My 10 Signs

1. A man fends for himself; a boy wants to sleep with his babe and have her sort out her financial issues which have been joined in matrimony with his.

2. A man is understanding; he attempts to know how his woman thinks, feels and reasons. A boy would want his lady to understand him first and when she doesn't he feels she is selfish and conceited.

3. A man takes care of his woman, cherishes her and nurtures her to maturity of emotions and mind. A boy would take care of his inordinate desires first or in accordance to what he believes his lady wants (and not what she needs).

4. A man has a job or a work that brings him money. A boy, self-blessed with a jobless state of mind and reality, waits for his mum to give him pocket money so he can take his lady out.

5. A man does not probe into a woman's past; when she is ready to reveal her deepest secrets he sits by her side, listens to her and does not judge her or define her based on her past deeds and or mistakes. A boy would want to hear how many men his lady has slept with and whatever figure she gives him he judges her unworthy of his love.

6. A man studies his woman and learns her "love languages" whether they be a combination of:
1. touch,
2. deeds of service,
3. quality time,
4. notes (text messages) of appreciation and
5. gifts.

Having found out he loves her and expresses his heart-felt love for her in the love languages she understands. A boy assumes a lady loves text messages and sends her copy and paste messages and when she doesn't appreciate it and asks for gifts (being her love language) he flares up shouting she is materialistic and unappreciative.

7. A man never hits his woman; she is his pride, his inspiration, the source of his strength and the extension of his persona. Hitting her is like hitting his own soul our cutting out his heart and pounding it with his fists. A boy will hit his woman believing he can beat her into submission, not knowing that a woman who submits to a man out of fear can never truly love him.

8. Women were created to be led. A man is one who leads his woman, with his influence and his good example of manliness. When a man treats his woman well and acts mature and accordingly, submission from his woman is inevitable. A boy wants his woman to submit to him irregardless of his random acts of thoughtlessness, foolishness and "childism".

9. A man has a vision, a plan, a goal, a dream. A man is going somewhere, a plant growing into a big oak tree, an idea cooking, birthing and re birthing itself into physical, interactive manifestation. He may be broke but he is not poor, things may be tough for him but he's not giving up, when luck frowns at him he churns his own luck, forges his own path and embraces reality as he chooses his own destiny out of the multiple-choice objective exam life sets for him. In all, he is a colossal symbol of strength to his woman and an inspiration to all around him.

A boy enh, has nothing to show the world save the emptiness of his jerrycan head, the shallowness of his low, drunken, staggering and vomiting -self esteem, the thought provoking wonder of his childish values (all expressed in his sagging trousers, unkempt hairdo adorned with a fashion sense that is flawed by its own desire to desperately depict a state of mind that is everything but mature), his immature random acts that stem from a brain gorged with information that when fused and syngergized can never place him on the path to wisdom, and his innate desire to be successful by all or any means unnecessary. A child can only process one thought at at time so, unable to multitask and project the outcome of his premeditated actions as he plots his destiny, he stumbles over his own childish thinking. A disgrace to his family, an embarrassment to male-hood and a burden to his woman, he is unable to discern that she will soon leave him for someone who is ready to mentor and cherish her.

10. A man is mature. Maturity can be summed under one word - Self control. A man is always in control and as such acts accordingly. A boy follows his ego, emotional instability, biased mindset about life and the foolish advice from his co-simpletons and the media.

Reality is there are only a handful of men out there. The rest are children and dogs who think they are men. Would to God that our women won't succumb to their desire to be accepted so much they date and bond with these boys and mammals all in a bid to patch up the hole in their hearts that only a life of fulfillment and submission to their purpose-description can fill.

SELAH!

I fall below 43, are you tryna say am not mature yet ?

@Ilouis, very impressive.... well said.