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Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 5:50pm On Oct 29, 2014
coogar:


your nostrils must be very huge. grin cheesy
Like Jay Z cheesy
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by chucky234(m): 5:52pm On Oct 29, 2014
freecocoa:
C'mon now that's different, we are talking about a young single woman here and assuming you could have $ex around their schedule, what would it be like having to schedule when to be intimate with your boo?

Have you made passionate hot love before?
hmmm
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 5:56pm On Oct 29, 2014
kandiikane:


Touché pussycat...so when should I be expecting you?

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Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 6:12pm On Oct 29, 2014
TV01:

List 3, just 3 and let us see wink!


You say this;



When you opened with this;




If I've ever engaged you first or asked for you opinion, it won't have been more than once - if at all. There's a wry smile on my face imagining you feeling good about the fact that your ignoring me - which I actually quite appreciate - is somehow hurting cheesy!


TV

**please holler at me here when you do that "world changing" thingy. I'll be your biggest cheerleader**

It amazes me how you remember every single thing that goes on here, even months/years after-how can somebody be so jobless? undecided

And oh yeah-some of us don't come here to blow how much we acheive or have achieved in our life or going to achieve, some of us just live a quiet, simple, dignified, honourable life! Meaning what I've done, what I'm doing or what I'm planning to do would never come to your knowledge-cos even if it does, alutacontinua will not be a part of the scheme. Keep your cheers to yourself wink



And just so you know-you're henceforth IGNORED!
Maybe on another thread when you make a tiny little bit of sense (cos the good thing is: some of us don't do carry-overs) wink .........something about maturity kiss

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Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by freecocoa(f): 6:13pm On Oct 29, 2014
coogar:


afternoon sėx is the daddy of them all
that short period when we would be left alone in the sitting room. cheesy grin cheesy
You need jesus.
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by pickabeau1: 6:15pm On Oct 29, 2014
Aluta ...you too?
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Oct 29, 2014
pickabeau1:
Aluta ...you too?


Uncle Pickabeau, wetin I do? embarassed
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by coogar: 6:17pm On Oct 29, 2014
freecocoa:
You need jesus.

don't we all? grin
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by pickabeau1: 6:18pm On Oct 29, 2014
alutacontinua:



Uncle Pickabeau, wetin I do? embarassed

I feel that was harsh....

But youve expressed yourself at least

I will put you on my list of those not to offend
Lol
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by freecocoa(f): 6:19pm On Oct 29, 2014
coogar:


don't we all? grin
Lol, you need him most.
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Oct 29, 2014
pickabeau1:


I feel that was harsh....

But youve expressed yourself at least

I will put you on my list of those not to offend
Lol

Harsh? Naaaaahhhhhhhhhh
TV is the king of 'harsh'
On top the degree, he now has masters in subtlety......However, I haven't been able to achieve the subtletly part sad

But he can handle it.....just like I was supposed to handle his last sentence in bold wink



and no worries, I didn't type that post, my twin sister did! I'm never gonna let her do that to you cheesy

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Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by coogar: 6:38pm On Oct 29, 2014
freecocoa:
Lol, you need him most.

when should i visit you then?
choose a day that everyone would be at home. a full-house suits me perfectly. grin
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by lertee(f): 6:41pm On Oct 29, 2014
It pays to live with your parents if you are in the same town. No matter how strict or domineering your parents are,they will give you the respect you deserve as a grown up adult. Ofcourse you will still so domestic chores even against your wish but these are things you would still do if you live alone.
1.When you remain with your parents,you can save more money and channel it towards something more productive.
2. You can always control the number of men that visit you,if you live alone,no matter how strict or stubborn you feel you are,guys will always have their ways around you.(if you like carry fire put for head)
3. No matter how mature a girl is,she can never be more mature than her parents and her parents will always give her guidance.
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by edwife(f): 6:45pm On Oct 29, 2014
NL be making case out of nothing.Anyways no one has the right to dispute, disparage or vilify anybody or their opinion.You forget to take cognizance of the fact that opinions are based on perspective and perspective itself subject to life's experiences.

Some people have household principle and values that they would like to uphold.
We all come here to air our opinions but when some actually do,only for their opinions to be viewed as stupid or ignorant.


i personally,would not move out of my parents house,unless it has to be for school or work which i did at @19.....

But if anyone else prefers to move out for reasons best known to them,that's entirely their decision and we should respect that.

To each their own,please learn to respect other people opinions.We should not be the same....

Shalom... smiley

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Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by pickabeau1: 6:53pm On Oct 29, 2014
alutacontinua:


Harsh? Naaaaahhhhhhhhhh
TV is the king of 'harsh'
On top the degree, he now has masters in subtlety......However, I haven't been able to achieve the subtletly part sad

But he can handle it.....just like I was supposed to handle his last sentence in bold wink



and no worries, I didn't type that post, my twin sister did! I'm never gonna let her do that to you cheesy
Hmmm...I know he is capable....just wondered if your response was commensurate with his post

Me I gentle o

Lol


Edwife

I have not seen any post where any body was labelled as silly or ignorant
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 6:55pm On Oct 29, 2014
lertee:
It pays to live with your parents if you are in the same town. No matter how strict or domineering your parents are,they will give you the respect you deserve as a grown up adult. Ofcourse you will still so domestic chores even against your wish but these are things you would still do if youu live alone.
1.When you remain with your parents,you can save more money and channel it towards something more productive.
2. You can always control the number of men that visit you,if you live alone,no matter how strict or stubborn you feel you are,guys will always have their ways around you.(if you like carry fire put for head)
3. No matter how mature a girl is,she can never be more mature than her parents and her parents will always give her guidance.

You don't come across as someone with a mind of her own with this your post

Let me dissect your summation.

- you contradicted yourself when you said a domineering parent will respect you. Quite the contrary. That's why they qualify as domineering.

- if you are being 'asked' or forced to do chores as an adult, then you have a lot of growing up to do.

- saving more money depends on how much you earn, so that's relative

- I have a huge problem with your number 2. You come across as someone with no mind of her own. I can't help but wonder at guys having their way around you with no reservation. Let me tell you how that can happen, you don't give anyone your address when it's not necessary.

- I grew more 'matured' before my years as a result of the guidance I received from my parents. Living away doesn't mean they are not in tune with my activities or have a say in my life

No offence though.
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 6:59pm On Oct 29, 2014
pickabeau1:

Hmmm...I know he is capable....just wondered if your response was commensurate with his post

Me I gentle o

Lol


Edwife

I have not seen any post where any body was labelled as silly or ignorant

That's the concept.....
He says it in such a way that everybody is supposed to believe he's just talking mildly.....only his targeted audience understands him. I really dunno how to colour words (maybe I have to start learning from the best cheesy).


Anyways, if my words seem harsh, I apologize! It's never my intention to hurt anybody...maybe make them realize they don't have the monopoly of sly use of words but not to HURT!

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Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by pickabeau1: 7:02pm On Oct 29, 2014
I don't get that anyway but what I know is there is a a general trend of attacking people's families on this section


Discussions are getiing personal and who knows why

Have fun

I have agents of shield to catchup on

alutacontinua:


That's the concept.....
He says it in such a way that everybody is supposed to believe he's just talking mildly.....only his targeted audience understands him. I really dunno how to colour words (maybe I have to start learning from the best cheesy).


Anyways, if my words seem harsh, I apologize! It's never my intention to hurt anybody...maybe make them realize they don't have the monopoly of sly use of words but not to HURT!
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by lertee(f): 7:06pm On Oct 29, 2014
sassygal:


I have a problem with your number 2. I can't help but wonder at guys having their way around you with no reservation.

Most ladies claim to be strict and reserved when it comes to dealing with guys but they fall easily for the silliest reasons all in the name of emotions. Unless you are a robot,you will surely have an emotion. Most guys,once they know you live alone,they have some sort of relief.
Now do not get me wrong,i am not referring to sex when I wrote "have their way",i only meant you would accommodate more guys and be freer with them with the mind that there is no one to caution you and you have your life to live.

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Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Oct 29, 2014
pickabeau1:
I don't get that anyway but what I know is there is a a general trend of attacking people's families on this section


Discussions are getiing personal and who knows why

Have fun

I have agents of shield to catchup on


Another episode don happen? shocked
I find it difficult to even keep up these days angry
Too much series to deal with....
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by edwife(f): 7:07pm On Oct 29, 2014
pickabeau1:

Hmmm...I know he is capable....just wondered if your response was commensurate with his post

Me I gentle o

Lol


Edwife

I have not seen any post where any body was labelled as silly or ignorant

Pickabeau that was not literally, i am not just talking about this thread,but a lot has been happening in family section these days...

It's like a gender's war... i am talking about people who always read meaning to posts....

Can't we just disagree without going personal? smiley
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Oct 29, 2014
edwife:
NL be making case out of nothing.Anyways no one has the right to dispute, disparage or vilify anybody or their opinion.You forget to take cognizance of the fact that opinions are based on perspective and perspective itself subject to life's experiences.

We all come here to air our opinions but when some actually do,only for their opinions to be viewed as stupid or ignorant.


To each their own,please learn to respect other people opinions should not be the same....

Shalom... smiley


it seems a lot of people feel the need to validate their beliefs and opinions by getting others to believe them
They simply can't accept others may have differing opinions

Not only do they forcefeed their opinions on others, they twist someone's words around to make you look foolish
They believe that only their opinion is right and nothing else is and if you don't see things from their own perspective, they call you names

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Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by babestell(f): 7:08pm On Oct 29, 2014
carefreewannabe:
Ladies, it is your choice.

Don't listen to men who are unable to clean up the mess in their male dominated, run down, hopeless, backward country but will lament over the issues foreign countries, that do WAAAAAY better, face or actually do not even face.

Don't listen to them. Their way of thinking and dominance has caused enough harm.



True talk.

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Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by pickabeau1: 7:13pm On Oct 29, 2014
edwife:


Pickabeau that was not literally, i am not just talking about this thread,but a lot has been happening in family section these days...

It's like a gender's war... i am talking about people who always read meaning to posts....

Can't we just disagree without going personal? smiley


OK....wanted to be sure it was not this thread

On your point...I agree ....ideally points should be made without personality

alutacontinua:

Another episode don happen? shocked
I find it difficult to even keep up these days angry
Too much series to deal with....



Toooooo much

I am doing falling skies, agents of shield and resurrection

Grimm s4 just started
Dominion s2 soon

Finished strain, last ship


Am counting down to start The Walking Dead(from.season 1)


Toooooo many series
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 7:24pm On Oct 29, 2014
lertee:

Most ladies claim to be strict and reserved when it comes to dealing with guys but they fall easily for the silliest reasons all in the name of emotions. Unless you are a robot,you will surely have an emotion. Most guys,once they know you live alone,they have some sort relief.
Now do not get me wrong,i am not referring to sex when I wrote "have their way",i only meant you would accommodate more guys and be freer with them with the mind that there is no one to caution you and you have your life to live.

I understand, you do not mean sex. My point if you do not give them that notion, they won't form that opinion. If they do by mistake, you put them in the right place, they ought to be. Heck, I hardly accommodate girls, not to talk of guys.

Anyway, depends on the motive you have for getting an apartment. I regard mine as my sanctuary which should not be desecrated by unwanted guests except at my request.
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by TV01(m): 8:09pm On Oct 29, 2014
alutacontinua:
It amazes me how you remember every single thing that goes on here, even months/years after-how can somebody be so jobless? undecided
Don't be pained (or is that concern cheesy)...my joblessness in no way hinders your world changing endeavors. Unless that endeavor includes challenging opinions such as mine grin.

And I don't remember every single thing, just that I have a mental note to swerve you, which you validated by taking a swipe at me the last 4 times you've quoted/mentioned me - none of which I have beefed you about, simply responded cool.

alutacontinua:
And oh yeah-some of us don't come here to blow how much we acheive or have achieved in our life or going to achieve, some of us just live a quiet, simple, dignified, honourable life! Meaning what I've done, what I'm doing or what I'm planning to do would never come to your knowledge-cos even if it does, alutacontinua will not be a part of the scheme. Keep your cheers to yourself wink
Which is the one thing I remember from our very first encounter. Your ambitions to be a person of renown, a world changer and trail blazer in your chosen field. Who would top it all with a handsome husband and two cute as button kids - and, I've no problem with that, in fact, I applaud it. You single-handedly created the "mat-spreading" specialty on this board....for that alone...standing Ovation kiss.

If there is a record of me "blowing" about my achievements - which admittedly are very modest and quite pathetic by your "global writ" levels - please feel to point it out. Am I proud of my family? Abso-bloody-lutely, it's possibly the only good thing I've achieved in my under-achieving life. Should I not be?

alutacontinua:
And just so you know-you're henceforth IGNORED!
Ope 0 grin - no question I'm a big slacker...always needing the patronage of my betters to get what I can't acquire myself.

alutacontinua:
Maybe on another thread when you make a tiny little bit of sense (cos the good thing is: some of us don't do carry-overs) wink .........something about maturity kiss
Carry-overs? I have responded to every one of your swipes - and quite civilly too - even after pointing them out to you.

You remain my lovable lil' sis - Yes you smiley!


TV

**see you on the next thread cool**

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Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by freecocoa(f): 8:15pm On Oct 29, 2014
lertee:

Most ladies claim to be strict and reserved when it comes to dealing with guys but they fall easily for the silliest reasons all in the name of emotions. Unless you are a robot,you will surely have an emotion. Most guys,once they know you live alone,they have some sort of relief.
Now do not get me wrong,i am not referring to sex when I wrote "have their way",i only meant you would accommodate more guys and be freer with them with the mind that there is no one to caution you and you have your life to live.
This has got to be the stupidest thing I've read today, I'm sorry, I just couldn't mask my shock.
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 8:18pm On Oct 29, 2014
freecocoa:
This has got to be the stupidest thing I've read today, I'm sorry, I just couldn't mask my shock.

Hahaha grin grin I reason she is a teenager
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by freecocoa(f): 8:23pm On Oct 29, 2014
sassygal:


Hahaha grin grin I reason she is a teenager
This isn't just about being a teenager, I do hope she's one though.
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 8:28pm On Oct 29, 2014
freecocoa:
This isn't just about being a teenager, I do hope she's one though.

She 'has' got to be one! angry otherwise needs a helluva load of guidance cry
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by freecocoa(f): 8:31pm On Oct 29, 2014
sassygal:


She 'has' got to be one! angry otherwise needs a helluva load of guidance cry
Just saying, even as a teenager, I knew where to draw the line with the opposite $ex.

Anyways, with age sometimes comes wisdom sha.
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by lertee(f): 8:49pm On Oct 29, 2014
freecocoa:
This has got to be the stupidest thing I've read today, I'm sorry, I just couldn't mask my shock.
Ooops,hang yourself then,**i feel threatened** undecided

live and let live,you have your opinion which you are free to air while I have mine. If you ain't cool with my opinion then shut your trap and stop sounding like a dunce..you should act your age.

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