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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by raphy(m): 10:59pm On Nov 15, 2014
person comit suicide cuz of exam cheat .and was living in usa .choi life don tire her na heaven dey hungry her ..R.I.P .angel
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 11:00pm On Nov 15, 2014
kings11ng:
Mounsurat Adeoye, the Mother of teen Omotayo
(pictured) who committed suicide after allegedly
cheating on a high school exam, is reportedly
placing the blame of her daughter’s death on the
high school she attended and has filed a $10
million lawsuit against the city of New York.

NewsOne reports:
"When Omotayo got busted peeking at her
cellphone while taking a German test, the teacher
allegedly snatched it away, accusing her of
cheating and yelling at her. Omotayo reportedly
burst into tears while apologizing profusely to the
instructor. A few hours after the emotional
exchange between the teacher and Omotayo,
according to police investigators, the young girl
scrawled the following words on her German
language exam that read, “I just want to go away
forever on the bottom of the river.”

"After Omotayo handed in her test paper and asked
to go to the restroom, she never returned to the
classroom.

"Instead, the teen walked to Manhattan’s Hudson
River’s edge in Harlem, placed her identification on
a rock, then plunged in to the murky waters."

According to Mounsurat, the school knew that
Omotayo had emotional problems -- since she had
attempted suicide before -- but they did not take
proper care of her.

Do you think the Mother has a lawsuit?
Read the rest here:
http://newsone.com/3070778/omotayo-adeoye-l
awsuit/

They'll settle out of court and get some millions and that's a shame.

But then the system set up this scenario where bad parenting is rewarded.
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by GlorifiedTunde(m): 11:05pm On Nov 15, 2014
Sagamite:


You are dumb!

A 17 year old is a child?

A 17 year old is too young to know cheating in an exam is wrong?

And this foool has a right to vote? angry angry angry angry

I admit I miss the age part, but she's still a person's child. And I don't know if you have lived with a depressed or suicidal person before, its not easy at all.

With all these, I will never support cheating. It is wrong. But haven't we all at one time or the other cheated? This is an issue of wrong vs life here.

Please Sagamite, you do not need to call me a fool for pointing an issue out. You have always been doing this to everyone. If you were truly civilized, you'd know its not necessary insulting people in order to drive home your point!

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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 11:11pm On Nov 15, 2014
People dey die to enter Yankee this one go dey kee herself ,how the depression wan bad reach na ...mtchew make nobody vex me this night
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nelson2014(m): 11:15pm On Nov 15, 2014
Herrmes:
Did she die? tongue
see jamb questn
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 11:21pm On Nov 15, 2014
babyosisi:


Absolute nonsense!
I quoted the line from New York daily news and you are counteracting with an idea from your head
The teacher is not named in the lawsuit and was found to do no wrong
You read it there in black and white,if you have a counter news item,quote it

If my child cheats at an exam,somebody better yell at her and when she comes home she will see the mother of all yellings,if koboko no go join am
Oh, shut it! You are loud without sense. We are talking about the condition of the person in question you are here talking trash. Please, burger off(as the Brit would say)! I don't have time for your useless rant! angry angry angry lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed cry

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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by GlorifiedTunde(m): 11:22pm On Nov 15, 2014
babyosisi:


Some people don't even read the original post let alone the subsequent ones

Don't know where he got the "17" from. A teen could be 13. Either way a child is a child. She has depression it something. No one can blame her for that. We do not know how she grew up or what she's faced. Cheating was wrong, the teacher was not particularly wrong - but it leading to a loss of life isn't worth it.

A teacher is paid to pay attention to each kid in the class, not like Naija here. So she could have tried to care for a girl who is suicidal.
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by 50calibre(m): 11:27pm On Nov 15, 2014
englishmart:
shut up! Eeeeeeeeediot!

Shut up!! Lying bast*ard. Everything about you is a lie, you very existence is a lie. Maybe your father lied to your mum while ejacul*ting in her hence they gave birth to a compulsive lying retar*rd like you.

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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by chakula: 11:31pm On Nov 15, 2014
She is right, been she was tired with this life that was the reason for her migration to the other world.

We shall meet her there if death force herself to our side.
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by 50calibre(m): 11:35pm On Nov 15, 2014
all4naija:
Oh, shut it! You are loud without sense. We are talking about the condition of the person in question you are here talking trash. Please, burger off(as the Brit would say)! I don't have time for your useless rant! angry angry angry lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed cry


Oh clap for this guy!!! He has his brain in his anus, that's why he talks shi*t all the time.

What fuc*kinh condition are you talking of? As a naija boy that you are, I'm sure you've been yelled at or even punished by your parents or teachers, why haven't you killed yourself?


You're so retar*ded, kill yourself & stop using up oxygen.

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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 11:36pm On Nov 15, 2014
Sagamite:


You country of residence should be sued for her death.

Or is it not because of your country of residence language she tried to cheat and triggered the whole thing?

Bloody hard language. I have been trying to learn the shyt for years with all their die, der, das (all just to say "the"wink and then Sie, sie, ihre that does not translate directly to an English sentence to the point I am suicidal too.

Abeg Stumm!
Hehehehehe... No be small thing oo.. Not to talk of the dative, nominative, accusative and the likes.. I don dey here for some time now.. I still dey speak broken german grin grin grin
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 11:37pm On Nov 15, 2014
50calibre:



Oh clap for this guy!!! He has his brain in his anus, that's why he talks shi*t all the time.

What fuc*kinh condition are you talking of? As a naija boy that you are, I'm sure you've been yelled at or even punished by your parents or teachers, why haven't you killed yourself?


You're so retar*ded, kill yourself & stop using up oxygen.
Oh,please! That girl case is psychological and might be very serious than most of you are taking it to be here. Stop defining everybody life from a Nigerian perspective. She is not living in that dusty country in the first place.
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by 50calibre(m): 11:48pm On Nov 15, 2014
all4naija:
Oh,please! That girl case is psychological and might be very serious than most of you are taking it to be here. Stop defining everybody life from a Nigerian perspective. She is not living in that dusty country in the first place.

What are you saying? So you're trying to turn this naija girl into a posh white kid?

This girl is a naija girl, miss Omotayo. Her mother is a naija woman, can a lion give birth to a goat? We have to look at it from a Nigerian perspective, because she's a Nigerian (born & bred)

I know kids develop some form of mental disturbance at some point & that's where I believe for a naija child like miss Omotayo, a proper lashing with the cane, should help set her thinking straight.
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Gudiza(m): 11:52pm On Nov 15, 2014
SMH for some of the folks here going at that young girl. She erred and shouldn't have been yelled at & embarrassed in the first place whether a mental case or not. Being at risk only made it worse. It's your type that humiliate criminals as though sub human and without dignity. RIP! undecided
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 11:57pm On Nov 15, 2014
carefreewannabe:


I am not located in North America. Sorry, I don't know about peace and security officers at schools.

Can you please explain to me how they work? Do they shadow suicidal students?
They are government employees that are trained for protective services. They can make arrest just like police officers. They operate the cctv's and keep situations in control pending the arrival of the police. They are usually the first responders to emergency situation before the arrival of fires services and police services. They are also used in schools, hospitals and other government institutions to monitor people or safe guard life and property.
The guy to the left in that pic is a peace officer stationed at a school.

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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Pamcrest(f): 11:58pm On Nov 15, 2014
babyosisi:


Involved the school counsellor with students in an exam hall?

I doubt if this case was going to end there had she not killed herself
She would have had serious repercussions which could include being thrown out of the school for good
Cheating is a very serious thing in the USA
It can get you fired instantly from a job and school
She turned in her paper and excused herself to the bathroom and never came back
Next thing she had jumped into the Hudson
Where was the opportunity to address this?

My sister read my post well.....I said IF d school knew she had this health challenge, then d instructor's actions are inappropriate. I also think we don't have d full story so we are all being hypothetical to some extent. Once there's a proven underlying medical condition, it changes d rules of d game in certain instances. There's a reason why people plead insanity in murder cases.
The poor girl was sick and now she's dead....everything else is rhetorical!
My humble submission
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by princeuk21(m): 11:58pm On Nov 15, 2014
wow unbelievable

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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 12:01am On Nov 16, 2014
50calibre:


What are you saying? So you're trying to turn this naija girl into a posh white kid?

This girl is a naija girl, miss Omotayo. Her mother is a naija woman, can a lion give birth to a goat? We have to look at it from a Nigerian perspective, because she's a Nigerian (born & bred)

I know kids develop some form of mental disturbance at some point & that's where I believe for a naija child like miss Omotayo, a proper lashing with the cane, should help set her thinking straight.
That is where i blamed the mother in the upbringing of the child, the formative years would may have been lacking some caning.. There are many of them here, bringing up a child like an oyinbo. I have met Naija kids telling their parents to shut up or smashing plates when angry... And when the child goes haywire, corrective measures would now be too late. Then the child keeps going in and out of government facilities due to mental issues, drug abuse and the likes.

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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by 50calibre(m): 12:14am On Nov 16, 2014
saxywale:

That is where i blamed the mother in the upbringing of the child, the formative years would may have been lacking some caning.. There are many of them here, bringing up a child like an oyinbo and when the child goes haywire, corrective measures would now be too late. Then the child keeps going in and out of government facilities.

I tell you!! The mother has herself to blame, using oyinbo training on her child. I'm sure now she's seen the error in that.
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 12:32am On Nov 16, 2014
50calibre:


What are you saying? So you're trying to turn this naija girl into a posh white kid?

This girl is a naija girl, miss Omotayo. Her mother is a naija woman, can a lion give birth to a goat? We have to look at it from a Nigerian perspective, because she's a Nigerian (born & bred)

I know kids develop some form of mental disturbance at some point & that's where I believe for a naija child like miss Omotayo, a proper lashing with the cane, should help set her thinking straight.
You are really an i d i o t! You are a person with a primitive man's brain. Go back and live in the forest because you aren't human enough to live in a developed city with civilized people! You backward human being!

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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 12:37am On Nov 16, 2014
50calibre:


I tell you!! The mother has herself to blame, using oyinbo training on her child. I'm sure now she's seen the error in that.
Go and tell that to your primitive villagers not a 21st century person like me! Yet, the developed society is more organized than the Nigerian society where children are caned every time. Nonsense!
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by bigfrancis21: 12:39am On Nov 16, 2014
kilokeys:
so cos she has emotional problems, she should be allowed to cheat?

i know some lecturers in naija that wouldnt only yell, but give u a dirty slap.

mum, ur daughter weak on d inside, even yelling can push her over.. haba..

u never scolded her while she grew?

Because she had emotional problems, the professor should have approached her differently.

What you don't know is that the American society is quite different from Nigeria's...for just cheating alone she stands to face alienation, name-calling, and stigma from her friends, classmates, and teachers in school. With her prior emotional problems, she saw what was coming and felt she might not be ready to face what is coming.

It is not my intention to support her suicide act, I am only giving you a bit insight from her own point of view.

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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by NobleG1(m): 12:42am On Nov 16, 2014
kings11ng:
Mounsurat Adeoye, the Mother of teen Omotayo
(pictured) who committed suicide after allegedly
cheating on a high school exam, is reportedly
placing the blame of her daughter’s death on the
high school she attended and has filed a $10
million lawsuit against the city of New York.

NewsOne reports:
"When Omotayo got busted peeking at her
cellphone while taking a German test, the teacher
allegedly snatched it away, accusing her of
cheating and yelling at her. Omotayo reportedly
burst into tears while apologizing profusely to the
instructor. A few hours after the emotional
exchange between the teacher and Omotayo,
according to police investigators, the young girl
scrawled the following words on her German
language exam that read, “I just want to go away
forever on the bottom of the river.”

"After Omotayo handed in her test paper and asked
to go to the restroom, she never returned to the
classroom.

"Instead, the teen walked to Manhattan’s Hudson
River’s edge in Harlem, placed her identification on
a rock, then plunged in to the murky waters."

According to Mounsurat, the school knew that
Omotayo had emotional problems -- since she had
attempted suicide before -- but they did not take
proper care of her.

Do you think the Mother has a lawsuit?
Read the rest here:
http://newsone.com/3070778/omotayo-adeoye-l
awsuit/

Law suit for what? The girl didn't deserve to live in the first place, for committing suicide.
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 12:44am On Nov 16, 2014
NobleG1:


Law suit for what? The girl didn't deserve to live in the first place, for committing suicide.
angry angry angry angry angry angry
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by bigfrancis21: 12:47am On Nov 16, 2014
Thinkr:
Where I school if France if you commit suicide you will go to Jail.


grin

Spiritual jail, abi? grin
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 12:58am On Nov 16, 2014
MissMeiya:


I know that case. That woman received severe burns, needed skin grafts and was permanently disfigured. The coffee was actually dangerously hot. In the course of the investigation, it was discovered that McDonald's requires its franchisees to serve their coffee at a temperature so high that it causes third degree burns in seconds.

I know people like to use that story as a funny example of frivolous lawsuits, but there's a reason why McDonald's, with all its very expensive lawyers, lost that case.

You don't know the case at at all,let me tell you the case I read it long ago
The woman was in the car and put the coffee in between her laps and it spilled and burnt her
Which stupid person needs hot written on a styrofoam cup of coffee to know it is hot
Who puts coffee in between their things in a vehicle

Mcdonalds lost the case because someone calculated how much McDonald grosses and a jury decided she needed 1% of it or thereabout for her injury and that it couldn't hurt them.

Here it is if u doubt me



Stella Liebeck, 79-years-old, was sitting in the passenger seat of her grandson’s car having purchased a cup of McDonald’s coffee. After the car stopped, she tried to hold the cup securely between her knees while removing the lid. However, the cup tipped over, pouring scalding hot coffee onto her lap. She received third-degree burns over 16 percent of her body, necessitating hospitalization for eight days, whirlpool treatment for debridement of her wounds, skin grafting, scarring, and disability for more than two years.

Despite these extensive injuries, she offered to settle with McDonald’s for $20,000. However, McDonald’s refused to settle for this small amount and, in fact, never offered more than $800.

The jury awarded Liebeck $200,000 in compensatory damages — reduced to $160,000 because the jury found her 20 percent at fault — and $2.7 million in punitive damages for McDonald’s callous conduct. (To put this in perspective, McDonald’s revenue from coffee sales alone was in excess of $1.3 million a day.) The trial judge reduced the punitive damages to $480,000, but did state that McDonald’s had engaged in “willful, wanton, and reckless” behavior. Mrs. Liebeck and McDonald’s eventually settled for a confidential amount. The jury heard the following evidence in the case:

- See more at: http://www.hotcoffeethemovie.com/default.asp?pg=mcdonalds_case#sthash.g2u32BVU.dpuf
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by jigga40(m): 1:01am On Nov 16, 2014
priscaoge:
[size=14pt] When they are fed with cereals, what do u expect undecided undecided Just because the teacher scolded @ her for cheating n she choose to kill herself? Hmmmm, odikwa egwu!

Welcome to my School Where the exam hall is always filled with security officers who are ready to beat d hell out of u n still drag u to their office for more insults! undecided

Welcome to my school where d students who cheat during exam are made to fill Malpractice form, face the Panel n still get expelled from school.

My school where the lecturers will always insult and embarrass you during lectures. [/size]
Nnamdi Azikiwe University?

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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by herald9: 1:59am On Nov 16, 2014
LMAyedun:
Dey say person commit suicide, you dey ask if she die... You be Dr. Patience Jonathan? Or you just don't understand what 'she Committed Suicide' means.
have mercy sir...Maybe you forgot his moniker is Herrmes...

The greek gods didn't understand English cheesy
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 2:07am On Nov 16, 2014
babyosisi:


You don't know the case at at all,let me tell you the case I read it long ago
The woman was in the car and put the coffee in between her laps and it spilled and burnt her
Which stupid person needs hot written on a styrofoam cup of coffee to know it is hot
Who puts coffee in between their things in a vehicle

Mcdonalds lost the case because someone calculated how much McDonald grosses and a jury decided she needed 1% of it or thereabout for her injury and that it couldn't hurt them.

Here it is if u doubt me


No offense. You sound pretty clueless.

1. What you quoted doesn't do a damn thing to support your dumb assertion, but in fact supports mine.

2. What you quoted is hardly a credible source. Try again.

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Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 2:09am On Nov 16, 2014
Gudiza:
SMH for some of the folks here going at that girl. She erred and shouldn't have been yelled at & embarrassed in the first place whether a mental case or not. Being at risk only made it worse. It's your type that humiliate criminals as though sub human and without dignity. RIP! undecided

The mother said the teacher yelled and it is now the truth
Assuming it is even true
What is wrong with yelling at a cheat in an examination hall?
Who hasn't been yelled at before?
How many of this sort of stories have you read where someone yelled at someone for wrong doing and a child kills herself
The child was wrong and was dealt with appropriately and the teacher was not found to have done any misconduct
Isn't that enough to stop all this you people's yelling label?
She committed suicide because of the voices in her head
Nothing to do with the school whatsoever

Can the mother truthfully tell us she has never raised her voice to correct the child ?
If she is afraid of yellings then she shouldn't engage in exam misconduct.

The other stories said she was a very intelligent girl
In the picture I posted you see her with a trophy
The link I posted said she had dreams of being a doctor
The school she was in is an elite exam school for smart kids
Could her mother have been pushing her like many Nigerian parents do and caused her to want to excel by all means hence the cheating
She is not too sick to know what cheating means and that it has consequences and that if you are caught in a hall cheating,chances are your classmates will hear of it and you will feel embarrassed.

I am glad she brought the law suit sef now that I think of it
I hope she is prepared for all the discovery regarding her parenting skills and life at home with this girl
I hope she has no skeletons because they will all come out
If there is an ex husband or ex boyfriends I hope she knows the defense will unearth them to give account
God help her if neighbors or the other children in the home reveal that their mother punished or spanked them like most mothers do
I hope she doesn't jump into the Hudson herself when all this is over
All in bid to collect millions
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by bornosheikh: 2:10am On Nov 16, 2014
Mum wan chop na. Leave NY, enter Festac buy mansion.
Re: Nigerian Girl Commits Suicide In New York by Nobody: 2:30am On Nov 16, 2014
MissMeiya:


No offense. You sound pretty clueless.

1. What you quoted doesn't do a damn thing to support your dumb assertion, but in fact supports mine.

2. What you quoted is hardly a credible source. Try again.

Disprove me
I hate when people come online to tell blatant lies or claim details of stories they know nothing about
Give us your tale about her permanent disfigurements and endless grafts
I guess you are now on google
Disfigurement of her inner thighs
Who doesn't know a hot coffee in ones thighs will Burn when it spills
Is coffee supposed to be placed in between one's legs

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