Who doesn't want to be oh-so-
silky smooth with the fairer sex?
Men who can seemingly attract
women without lifting a finger are
some of the most envied folks in
the world. While some men are
born smooth, luckily, this is also
something it's possible to practice
and get better yet. If you're
currently about as smooth as a
square of high-grit sandpaper, no
sweat — with a few simple tricks
(and a lot of practice) you'll
eventually be slicker than an oil
spill.

1. Be playful. Experts
agree: for many women,
one of the most attractive
traits a man can have is a
sense of playfulness. It's
not hard to see why — talking
to people who are playful and
enjoy the spirited back-and-
forth "dance" of a feisty
conversation is a lot more fun
than talking to people who are
earnest but uninteresting.
Keep keep a sense of
mischievousness when you
talk to women. Look for
opportunities to joke, gently
tease her, and deliberately
misunderstand the things she
says. If she's in the mood for
a little verbal back-and-forth,
this can be absolutely
irresistible.

2. Stay effortlessly in
control of the situation.
There's a good reason why
ladies' men are called "smooth
operators": these types of
people often have dominant
personalities and know how to
control (or "operate" social
situations to their benefit. The
smoothest, suavest players of
all know how to lead
conversations in the directions
they want without even
appearing to do so.

3. Keep your reactions
low-key. We've all seen it
on TV and in the movies — the
quiet yet dashing bad boy who
says almost nothing but
seems to get girls without even
trying (e.g., "The name's Bond.
James Bond.". While popular
entertainment can sometimes
create some unhealthy
attitudes towards dating, there
is a tiny kernel of truth here.
Being cool and understated
can make a man more
attractive to women. Try to
react to almost everything that
happens around you casually,
as if it's completely natural.
Being at ease no matter what
happens is a supreme show
of confidence, and confidence
is almost always sexy.

4. Casually initiate
affection, but never be
desperate. Let's be honest —
if you're trying to "be smooth"
with the ladies, you probably
eventually want to engage in a
little mutual affection with
them, whether this is kissing,
having sex, or just holding
hands (hey, everyone starts
somewhere). This is great —
healthy, mutual displays of
affection are wonderful things.
Keep this in mind when you're
in situations with ladies where
you want to initiate affection.
Truly smooth men aren't
scared or ashamed of making
their intentions known.
However, they're also not
needy or desperate. Not only
is desperation tremendously
unattractive to most people,
but it also demonstrates low
self-worth (and smooth guys
always have high self-worth).

5. Be funny. Everyone
enjoys a good laugh.
Humor makes everybody feel
good, so if you can gain a
reputation as a funny person,
other people (including ladies)
will naturally want to be
around you. Try to look for
opportunities to make light of
the situation you're in or
(gently) poke fun at the people
around you. Most people have
the natural ability to be funny
when they're relaxed and
around people they like, but if
you really feel like you're
having a hard time being
funny, you might want to try
researching the topic jokes section or trying going to commedy shows.

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