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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Nobody: 10:47pm On Nov 26, 2014
Teespice:


help me ask him.

see all this males jumping inside the thread to answer questions meant for women.

op, what prompted you to ask this question.
I agree with you. Male Nl'ers are too nosy.

They jump into any thread that's meant for female. Smh
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by thegoodjoehunt3(m): 10:51pm On Nov 26, 2014
2sExy1:



Bros, I was kidding up there.
I still made my point. Actually, the theme of girls liking bad boys is a long debated theme.

Most girls like bad boys, hoping they can change them and keep them for themselves.

Most times, these girls grow up to be women and learn the hard way. They end up with cheating husbands who dump them for some younger, fresher girls.

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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by thegoodjoehunt3(m): 10:55pm On Nov 26, 2014
chymystique:


Million Likes @ the bolded! You just took the outta my mouth........ Most of the so called "nice" guys are confused and unreliable.. That's why they get their a$ses dumped...
I guess, most women who get dumped by bad boys are confused and unreliable. That logic does not add up.

A married man cheating on his wife is what? Reliable? No he is not. He is unreliable. Most playas, I mean true playas are unreliable. So your theory does not add up.

A man being nice and faithful to his wife, knows what he wants and treasures what he has.

Now zoom back to such a man when he was younger, women will call him soft and not the kind of man for them.

When those women are looking for a man to marry, they will say, "I WANT A GOD FEARING MAN."

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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by ideology(m): 11:20pm On Nov 26, 2014
2Mama I de vex for you.

2Sexy1 Leave lAdies alone.

My advice is that you are yet to meet the right person, don't bother yourself, most ladies don't know what they really want.

Don't talk to just any lady because she seems cool or beautiful.

PS: GUYS WILL STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT LADIES WHEN THEY LEARN NOT TO WOO JUST ANY LADY THEY SEE…

History keeps repeating itself because we have refused to learn;
Learn to look and pass.

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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by nickz(m): 11:40pm On Nov 26, 2014
VickyyB:
I love nice guys especially the one I can dominate.
So? undecided
shockedshockedshockedshocked
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Nobody: 1:11am On Nov 27, 2014
VickyyB:
I love nice guys especially the one I can dominate.
So? undecided

Someone give this girl a medal.
She's the one honest female soul here.

That is all weak nice guys are for.
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by damselabi(f): 3:43am On Nov 27, 2014
ATOB:
Ladies not only dislike nice guys.
They dont want you to be honest.
They dont want you to be a lover boy.
They dont like you to be open minded.
They dont like dull boys.

This is what they like;

They like bad boys who feign decency. They start to convince themselve he is cool.
They like you to pretend.
They like you to lie.
They like tongue twisters.
They dont like you to tell them sexual things. They like you to pretend you dont like it.
They like you to be an angel in disguise.
They dont like you to kiss them the first time they visit.
They like you to pretend you dont know anything about the hole between their legs.

I really dont know if im making sense because its confusing thinking about them.
Focus on your goals and what you want to make out of life.
Women are ultimately secondary trust me.


Disclaimer; What I wrote up there doesnt apply to all girls before they bite me.
Tank God u said nt all...bt seriously who wuld lyk a dull guy....Bt if u see a guy wit the oda attributes I wuld lyk to knw him, cos I was abt saying guys don't like gud girls eida they take u 4 granted.
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Nobody: 5:46am On Nov 27, 2014
ideology:
2Mama I de vex for you.

2Sexy1 Leave lAdies alone.

My advice is that you are yet to meet the right person, don't bother yourself, most ladies don't know what they really want.

Don't talk to just any lady because she seems cool or beautiful.

PS: GUYS WILL STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT LADIES WHEN THEY LEARN NOT TO WOO JUST ANY LADY THEY SEE…

History keeps repeating itself because we have refused to learn;
Learn to look and pass.
Guy this isn't about me. I just created the thread out of past experience.

I never see the girl wey go do that one to me again, Why? Cos I am dead.

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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Nobody: 6:13am On Nov 27, 2014
jmoore:

It depends on your definition. Your nice guy may not be nice in the eyes of another lady. No thanks to confusion.
The only nice guy in Naija is my brother.
Not confused Jmoore ochokwu
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Nobody: 6:57am On Nov 27, 2014
nickz:
shockedshockedshockedshocked
Guys like you. wink
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Nobody: 7:24am On Nov 27, 2014
damselabi:
Tank God u said nt all...bt seriously who wuld lyk a dull guy....Bt if u see a guy wit the oda attributes I wuld lyk to knw him, cos I was abt saying guys don't like gud girls eida they take u 4 granted.

You would like to know him?
I would like to know you too.
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Odunharry(m): 7:31am On Nov 27, 2014
thegoodjoehunt3:
Heart to Heart man. Do not change yourself because of the action of that lady. It only makes you like everyone else.

I know you want to get a woman's perspective. Get something straight. Most ladies do not know what they want. They expect you to convince them you are the right person for them. Note, I said most ladies.

Now think of it, do you want most ladies or that special Lady that loves you for who you are?

If the special lady is your answer, you have to be special for her to love you. If the lady left you because you are too nice, she will meet a guy that is too bad, cheats on her and treats her like thrash.

She will remember you and wish she was different to you. Guess what? If she does not love you for who you are, she does not deserve you.

Many married women spend the rest of their lives with a broken heart. Be the difference for that special lady. You will find her.
God bless

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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by damselabi(f): 7:41am On Nov 27, 2014
[quote author=ATOB post=28382069]

You would like to know him?
I would like to know you too.[/quotelol....R u one of dem?
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Nobody: 7:59am On Nov 27, 2014
[quote author=damselabi post=28382412][/quote]

Damselabi.
Thats what I would like to discuss with you.
Is that okay?
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Philipsdael(m): 8:01am On Nov 27, 2014
VickyyB:


I prefer recessive nice guys. smiley
Hmm thats the right phrase
recessive or dominant nice guys yeah thats what they like....not a dull or sissy nice guy.
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by damselabi(f): 8:13am On Nov 27, 2014
ATOB:


Damselabi.
Thats what I would like to discuss with you.
Is that okay?
Sure.... it is
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Nobody: 8:13am On Nov 27, 2014
Philipsdael:

Hmm thats the right phrase
recessive or dominant nice guys yeah thats what they like....not a dull or sissy nice guy.
Hmm. Some nice guys can be dominant.
I don't have a problem with dull guys but sissy is a NO-NO.

BTW, Most of them are gays.
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Nobody: 8:17am On Nov 27, 2014
damselabi:
Sure.... it is

Send me a text here: 08155044192.
Cheers to friendship.
***Glass clicking***
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by nickz(m): 8:19am On Nov 27, 2014
VickyyB:

Guys like you. wink
gringringrin my sisters will kill you before you start your dominationgringrin

but i like you tho,you're honest......once used to play nice guy to some girlssadsadsad....everything i did then,i did for three
read for three
project for three
test for three
fill reg form for three
stand in line for three

not sure i would let that happen again

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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by parrotibaba(m): 8:20am On Nov 27, 2014
blah blah boh hu ...una good morning ooh,anybody with Nokia charger here? undecided
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Nobody: 8:22am On Nov 27, 2014
nickz:
gringringrin my sisters will kill you before you start your dominationgringrin

but i like you tho,you're honest......once used to play nice guy to some girlssadsadsad....everything i did then,i did for three
read for three
project for three
test for three
fill reg form for three
stand in line for three

not sure i would let that happen again
What God has joined together, no man should put assunder.

Your sisters dare not, and i'll ****. lipsrsealed grin
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by nickz(m): 8:35am On Nov 27, 2014
VickyyB:

What God has joined together, no man should put assunder.

Your sisters dare not, and i'll ****. lipsrsealed grin
what!!!angryangry
you think my life is synonymous to "12 YEARS A SLAVE"abi sad

;Dmy brain is the first assunder,i've learnt to use my braintonguetongue
you might die if my sisters get involvedgringrin
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Nobody: 9:02am On Nov 27, 2014
nickz:
what!!!angryangry
you think my life is synonymous to "12 YEARS A SLAVE"abi sad

;Dmy brain is the first assunder,i've learnt to use my braintonguetongue
you might die if my sisters get involvedgringrin
Lol. More like you haven't met a hot-tempered girl.
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by nickz(m): 9:18am On Nov 27, 2014
VickyyB:

Lol. More like you haven't met a hot-tempered girl.
my own temper is even hotter than magmagrin

i find hot-tempered girls funny....they cry a lotgrin
so what difference are you suggessting a hot-tempered girl would make??
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Missmossy(f): 9:48am On Nov 27, 2014
Nice guys lipsrsealed

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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by ghost1718(m): 12:43pm On Nov 27, 2014
ATOB:
Ladies not only dislike nice guys.
They dont want you to be honest.
They dont want you to be a lover boy.
They dont like you to be open minded.
They dont like dull boys.

This is what they like;

They like bad boys who feign decency. They start to convince themselve he is cool.
They like you to pretend.
They like you to lie.
They like tongue twisters.
They dont like you to tell them sexual things. They like you to pretend you dont like it.
They like you to be an angel in disguise.
They dont like you to kiss them the first time they visit.
They like you to pretend you dont know anything about the hole between their legs.

I really dont know if im making sense because its confusing thinking about them.
Focus on your goals and what you want to make out of life.
Women are ultimately secondary trust me.


Disclaimer; What I wrote up there doesnt apply to all girls before they bite me.
girls have been deceiving them self since 1756 grin everything u said here is real,,,,,,E.g. My former Nebour's daughter made me call myself a cult*T just because she loves bad boys (can u imagine??) so i collected three points befor the real bad boys start collecting their own grin grin

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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by sunshine111: 1:15pm On Nov 27, 2014
2sExy1:
We all know that most of the reasons we hear about are from the guys, mostly those from the school of hard knocks.

Now, I want the ladies to do the explanation.

Can Any Lady Here Succinctly Tell Me Why They Don't Like Nice Guys?

Your question is quilty of over generalization. Im engaged to a nice sweet guy, and its the best decision i have ever made!!!!

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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by sunshine111: 1:31pm On Nov 27, 2014
damselabi:
Tank God u said nt all...bt seriously who wuld lyk a dull guy....Bt if u see a guy wit the oda attributes I wuld lyk to knw him, cos I was abt saying guys don't like gud girls eida they take u 4 granted.


Your reply is way too general, Im a nice girl, I know, I dont do drugs, party, drinks, clubs, I love God and im a christian, But im also assertive, confident bold, intelligent, pretty, very ambition, I have big dreams, and i work to achieve them, being nice doesnt mean you dont have a will , it just means that you have a whole lot of sense and are very cautious[color=#770077][/color]

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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by damselabi(f): 6:39pm On Nov 27, 2014
sunshine111:



Your reply is way too general, Im a nice girl, I know, I dont do drugs, party, drinks, clubs, I love God and im a christian, But im also assertive, confident bold, intelligent, pretty, very ambition, I have big dreams, and i work to achieve them, being nice doesnt mean you dont have a will , it just means that you have a whole lot of sense and are very cautious[color=#770077][/color]
My sis I get ur point at least we ve somtins in common...bt hw can dey just put all d blame on us lyk we were d ones dat killed Jesus, kinda annoying.Only trying to say dia r nice girls too bt dey get her still take her 4 granted she moves on wit her lyf den dey start complaining.
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Karlebolu(m): 8:08pm On Nov 27, 2014
chibwike:
Ladies like me

Chibwike, truth be told you are too nice and trust me when I say iceberlyn was right when he said a whole lot of girls are not only friend zoning you but also family zoning you on NL.

Hey don't get me wrong, I'm no saying you should start being rude to girls but all I'm saying is that you start being your real and true self.

BTW, have you ever wondered why Vivly was so rude to you on that particular thread? Well, I do not know that actual course of you guys duel but you were too nice on her that day, trust me all you needed to do that particular day was to either ignore her or reply her in kind, but instead you restored to your usual Mr. Nice mood.

Lastly, if the likes of farano, cupidora, temigrace... were asked if they would date a guy like you, they'll simple say no that they'll prefer guys like naijaboy, 190, tosyn2much or even Mr cork.
undecided

Summary: Stop being too nice and start being your real self.

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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by kenex4ever(m): 8:23pm On Nov 27, 2014
VickyyB:

Not particularly You.
That means you are bad boy. undecided
I prefer recessive nice guys. smiley
me am recessively dominant o. How u c am
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by Nobody: 8:26pm On Nov 27, 2014
kenex4ever:
me am recessively dominant o. How u c am
I don get already. I'm not searching. smiley

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