kriscamdi:
http://www.kriscamdi.com/2014/12/i-dated-my-girlfriend-not-knowing-she.html

This may sound crazy but i am seriously not myself right now. If i mention my name, you might be shocked because i am a bit popular, i stay in ajah lagos state and i am just 24years. i dont know where to start right now and i wouldnt want to bore you with my problem but i believe it is or has happened to alot of guys out there.

Ok, i met this girl back then in school and when she got a direct entry into my department, Gosh she was too pretty to be single but when we got talking she mentioned that she had no boyfriend. Although i was glad but still scared if i could manage and also maintain such a girl. You guys would agree with me that most boys oo, guys oo, men oo are maintainers when it comes to having a girl friend or even a wife, (if na lie oya prove me wrong).
Now as time went on, we got fond of each other and i believe the love started growing, but it was official that we where dating in our final year and seriously i felt i had found my soul-mate not knowing it was my soulmate hair cream i just found...lol. But nevertheless we where really good till we left school and went four our NYSC in lagos, we worked it sha..
While in camp, i noticed some strange behaviours and some strange atitude which she pulled up but i felt it was just one of those girly stuff. One day wen we went to maami market to eat, i noticed a ring on her hand and asked her when she got the ring, but she said it was jus a ring she saw at home and liked it. i wondered how a girl would just like an engagement ring. But in my usual way i ignored it and we continued gisting, but believe me that its not something you should just ignore, because i remember i once saw that ring back then in school when i went to visit her and asked her also and she said a friend of hers forgot it in her room. Now this was what got me thinking.
When i confronted her she started their usual cry and lectures of how it seems i don't trust her and how i was doubting her love for me. It really got to me though but as a guy, there are some precautions which we all need to take.
Now long story short, i went to visit her one day and saw some men in her house, it was obvious that the came to seek her hands in marriage, i called her aside and asked and to my greatest surprice she said to me and i quot "that man sitting by that end is my fiance".. For the first time in my life i fainted and woke up and still fainted again because it was like i was dreaming.
i was taken to a room where i had cold compress and when i regained, i asked her the Big question...WHY ME?
And then she told me that she was engaged to this guy like 6months before she got into my school but he traveled out for his professional course and he is ready to marry her now, and above all she Loves him alot.
But i wondered what we where doing all the while.

My problem now is, i have told my parents about her and my mum loves her so much and my dad can't wait to be a father inlaw and above all I LOVE HER like mad...
am so confused right now...what do i do?

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Love can be dangerous.

Like seriously though,you said the fiance travelled for a professional course, it seemz the guy is nore made than you.....Trust me,vast majority number of Nigerian gurls would pick a made guy,rather than wanting to build from the scratch,don't blame her...You have to concentrate on getting your self a good job,considering the fact that you are a fresh graduate.

Take heart & quit crying.

This funny but take heart ehn

Life goes on brother man. You are wiser now, learn from the experience

This is one of the reason I am a player I am tired of stories that touches the heart. Guy pele oh

Eya

Na wa o.

Old news. Next one plz

Dude..she never loved you..so don't waste ur time crying over someone that ain't worth ur tears..

Any time you ask a girl a simple question to clear your doubts and she starts crying or starts accusing you of not loving/trusting her enough.

Just know it that something fishy is going on somewhere.

You are a side guy.

Congrats my guy....




U ve been punked!!

Side prick thinz

OP, any guy who faints over a Nigerian con babe is a mugu.
Don't expect too much from any Nigerian girl and she is never yours until after wedding and even in marriage, she may still be answering the booty calls of another guy.
She used you to have her flings on campus and NYSC. 99.99% of Nigerian girls do so.
What happened to you is actually old and common news.

Awww... That's terrible

U're mumu of highest order! I hope u got her laid before her real fiance took her so that u don't lose in all ways. Mr. Agbomojo!

shit happens ok

samflexxy:
[size=50pt]doped[/size]

You can't spell " DUPPED" yet you making your spelling error carry an obvious font size

kossyablaze:
[s]Singing*Cant believe that I'm a fool again!!!I tot this love would neva end....[/s]

Were you to be in his shoes, would you be singing this

She fooled you successfully..Chai ,dere is God ooo

Nawa for you o. It is well take heart

I read your topic with so much joy because am happy to see someone who has graduated from the current situation am in.....


I will cut the long story short......
I met the girl am dating presently just like six months ago..... She is a girl that is well brought up, and turned down all advances by guys in school to win her over.....
I professed my love to her after chyking her as a friend for two weeks....
I took her out one night, bought her drinks amid she only gave me a peck and told me she is not ready for a kiss.... She told me she is a virgin and am her first love, since then it's been like my world revolves around her.... She is nineteen now and am 24 and I am working towards marrying....
I don't know why am so afraid I will lose her... But this post has increased my fears........

life goes on MAN......@ this junction u suppose knw that she used you as extra tyre and dats d bad aspect of ladies in which dey tink THEY ARE WISE.........open up for ur Dad and am very sure he wil advice u as Man to Man

You are not a man.

Take heart bro. Girls can be deceptive like that.. That's why smalls signs shouldn't be ignored..

just walk away and pray for ur own. u must have seen the sign earlier but u ignored it. nexttime, dont let ur feeling rule u.

Only a fool guy will be treated this way.you are with a lady for 2 years without using your common sense.for me,it will only take me just few days and i will know that she's shit...

that y I like gameboy

ZiggyEmerald:
just walk away and pray for ur own. u must have seen the sign earlier but u ignored it. nexttime, dont let ur feeling rule u.

you are a sinceer lady.God bless you.

[size=16pt]Reason I don't take a woman to heart anymore. Be engaged all you want. In fact I advise my side chic on her relationship after we are done in the room......

Yeah been heartbroken before. It Just changes guys till its time to settle down. [/size]

2years of deciet..... That's cold!!!...very cold.

Lol, listen to this song: “Ebezina” by Frank Edwards...it will sure lift u up, life goes on.

[color=#990000][/color] [b][/b] young man u are really on a long thing. Never trust a woman. I guess u hv learnt ur lessons now? Kpele