The way Nigerian girls look down on men regardless of their age baffles me tremendously.

I have taken my time to find out why it is so and obviously, men are the cause of their problems.

Below are my findings:

1. Many men are obsessed with sex- It sends painful sensation down my spine when I see a full-grown man with his education and exposure spending his hard-earned money on 16-year old girl just for sex. Consequently, the girl has gotten a bad impression about men. You tell her 'Chioma how are you?' and she goes ahead to tell her friends that you want to sleep with her.

2. Girlfriend/Relationship Status- During my University days, what makes a man popular was NOT his CGPA but the number of girlfriends he has. I know a guy who gives his girlfriend N10,000 every month and then begs food from hostel to hostel. MUST you have girlfriends or be in a relationship when it is glaring that you don't intend to marry even in the next 5 years? I thought relationship prepares one for marriage but it has become a source of sexual gratification. No wonder most girls have been in a relationship for years and yet are unmarried.

Why would a girl respect any man when there are thousands of them who are interested in her (sorry want to sleep with her).

3. Lack of self worth- One day I came across an M. Sc degree holder begging and running around an SS 2 student like a headless chicken. For Christ's sake, where is our self worth?

During my NYSC, some corpers do run after village girls who are still in JSS 3 and SS1. As a result of this, those girls disrespected every male corper in that village.

How did our men get to this pathetic situation?

Dats d world we are today.

Polchiz:
The way Nigerian girls look down on men regardless of their age baffles me tremendously.

I have taken my time to find out why it is so and obviously, men are the cause of their problems.

Below are my findings:

1. Many men are obsessed with sex- It sends painful sensation down my spine when I see a full-grown man with his education and exposure spending his hard-earned money on 16-year old girl just for sex. Consequently, the girl has gotten a bad impression about men. You tell her 'Chioma how are you?' and she goes ahead to tell her friends that you want to sleep with her.

2. Girlfriend/Relationship Status- During my University days, what makes a man popular was NOT his CGPA but the number of girlfriends he has. I know a guy who gives his girlfriend N10,000 every month and then begs food from hostel to hostel. MUST you have girlfriends or be in a relationship when it is glaring that you don't intend to marry even in the next 5 years? I thought relationship prepares one for marriage but it has become a source of sexual gratification. No wonder most girls have been in a relationship for years and yet are unmarried.

Why would a girl respect any man when there are thousands of them who are interested in her (sorry want to sleep with her).

3. Lack of self worth- One day I came across an M. Sc degree holder begging and running around an SS 2 student like a headless chicken. For Christ's sake, where is our self worth?

During my NYSC, some corpers do run after village girls who are still in JSS 3 and SS1. As a result of this, those girls disrespected every male corper in that village.

How did our men get to this pathetic situation?

Honestly, during my time, you hardly see a girl who wasn't in a relationship but even today most of them are NOT married.

For me, having a boyfriend or girlfriend is not an achievement and a girl shouldn't be dispectful for that.

Who doesn't have a boyfriend? Even primary pupils do have these days.

No 1 is somehow true

dats d modern world!!

Hahahahahaha . Eiyah.

teewai3:
dats d modern world!!

Is that what you call it?

Modern world?

Op, did you mean to say disrespectful?


Anyways, i dont know about that

yea, d modern world, d one we are today, d one were all tins mentioned above means nothing, d one nobody can change....

farano:
No 1 is somehow true

Only No1?

Mprex:
Op, did you mean to say disrespectful?


Anyways, i dont know about that

Already corrected!

You nailed it. Most guys are inventing more creative ways to appear stupid just to get laid.

It's shameful!

teewai3:
yea, d modern world, d one we are today, d one were all tins mentioned above means nothing, d one nobody can change....

The best way to change the world is to change ourselves individually.

i totally agree wit u ma!

I'm Bridget living in Abj. New here. I'm looking for a real friend but I don't understand Nairaland since I'm new here. Could sm1 help me pls.

They are disrespectful because they are stubborn.

If its possible to detach our manhood I would have done that den freeze it up till wen am ready to settle down. Men dat tin no get respect at all infact it has a mind of its own

bree2me:
I'm Bridget living in Abj. New here. I'm looking for a real friend but I don't understand Nairaland since I'm new here. Could sm1 help me pls.

where do you stay in Abuja?

kellystech:
If its possible to detach our manhood I would have done that den freeze it up till wen am ready to settle down. Men dat tin no get respect at all infact it has a mind of its own

Pray for the spirit of self control.

real frnd? 4 nairaland?
manageable frnd dey sha.....u re welcom.

On point

some naija men can be more than foolish a times, after approaching in a distasteful and disrespectful manner, they still crave for your respect in the name of age

seriously speaking your list is a perfect list. and the thing is it all boils down to one thing PUNANNY

blame it on konji...

Very funny thread..

So true too.

AfricanApple:
some naija men can be more than foolish a times, after approaching in a distasteful and disrespectful manner, they still crave for your respect in the name of age

seriously speaking your list is a perfect list. and the thing is it all boils down to one thing PUNANNY

Believe not punany,punany no dey when Eve give Adam Apple.men have been women Mugu since the time of Adam and Apple Eve

I don't go with your number 3.
Secondary female students do respect corpers solidly, despite the banging.

Ipledge:
Believe not punany,punany no dey when Eve give Adam Apple.men have been women Mugu since the time of Adam and Apple Eve

az in eh ever since revelation

goalburner:
I don't go with your number 3.
Secondary female students do respect corpers solidly, despite the banging.

speaking from experience

Eiyaa

everything is so true,we worship women a lot in this part of the world..
we guys should amend our ways.
#take no shiit from rude ladies.

@Op you are correct but however tinx are changing Nigerian females are begining to be a little bit respectful now sha!