Chillisauce:


Spill it all out, if it makes you sleep better.
Who cares what you think about me. You not the first, you will soon join the others on the long long queue.
Now scrap, you non entity, frustrated he goat looking for ya mama punny to smell.

I guess I hit a nerve, fat girl.

I won't disrespect my Mom by going down the same lane with you in retaliation....Nah

My Mom is your fellow woman and you didn't hesitate in bringing your fellow woman to disrespect ,I guess that speaks volume of the kind of upbringing you had at home and the ideology you run with.......smh

Dumb fat thing.....smh

carefreewannabe:


It's only you who is concerned about how perverts see him.

Face the topic where your dumbness is personified and not throwing side talks to distract people from your ultimate dumbness.

Nonso23:

No. It means their marriage is more important than her Daddy Issues.

The husband is the one who goes cray cray over the gift his wife got and for some reason the father is the one with issues? unless you are telling me a wife is no better than a piece of furniture displayed in a house who cannot have a mind of her own and make decisions that only concern her. How is the car a detriment to the marriage, please do explain it to me?

The man must be a local man that lacks exposure,instead of showing gratitude to the father in law, he is busy feeling important.

Nonso23:

No. It means their marriage is more important than her Daddy Issues.

I think it's fair to assume you don't understand the meaning of this term.

Truckpusher:
Face the topic where your dumbness is personified and not throwing side talks to distract people from your ultimate dumbness.

To someone like you my superior intellect will appear as dumbness since you are not able to comprehend it so I take your comment as a compliment MrLetUsAccept PedophiliaInTheNameOfCultureSoThatPervertsDon'tThinkWeWereInfidels

Now tell me, why do you look like a Mexican drug trafficker in your profile pic?

Truckpusher:
I guess I hit a nerve, fat girl.

I won't disrespect my Mom by going down the same lane with you in retaliation....Nah

My Mom is your fellow woman and you didn't hesitate in bringing your fellow woman to disrespect ,I guess that speaks volume of the kind of upbringing you had at home and the ideology you run with.......smh

Dumb fat thing.....smh

Tell yo mama and grannie how fat and dumb they are to bring you he goat to the world. I wonder who impregnated her if it was mr okujagu Abi Mr olayinka.

The worst nightmare is to bring up someone who will end up being a nuisance. But your mom a is so dumb that she didn't realize she was pregnant with you. dont get so emotional, Amma bring in your anscestor here if I choose to. That's how I play the game.

Since you don't have respect, I teach you skinny goat

Mondisweets:
everything goes back to feminism, because i just happened to be a female who called a man irrational? Now thats petty. I asked a question and you are responding as if it was a statement. please tell me how giving your own child a car can ever an insane intention behind it?

So it would be better she continues waiting for her husband or use public transport when the husband is not available, when something can be done about it?

I never painted the man as the devil. If a person is simply being irrational i simply call it that. She doesn't have a car anymore and her father decided to replace it, which other motive could be behind it?

You called the man irrational on what grounds, do you have a very solid understanding of the dynamic of the mans relationship with this FIL. and you are right "its petty".

Yes you asked a question, that tried to question my stance. I responded in a matter that questioned your question.

The use of the word devil is a figure of expression, that means "painted in negative light" in this context.

What other motives? I have trashed this question in my first post you quoted.

My grouse in not whether the man is right or wrong. but the fact that you and your lot ... see him as irrational without asking the Op to provide you with more data, so as to get a more better understanding of the context surrounding this gift that made him act the way he did ... only when you have this information do you have the right to see him as irrational

Context is everything Mondisweets.

carefreewannabe:


To someone like you my superior intellect will appear as dumbness since you are not able to comprehend it so I take your comment as a compliment MrLetUsAccept PedophiliaInTheNameOfCultureSoThatPervertsDon'tThinkWeWereInfidels

Now tell me, why do you look like a Mexican drug trafficker in your profile pic?

Quit cuming on my pix and get yourself a man.

I ain't biting that thing you got for free even if it's a matter of life and death. ...you dig?

Chillisauce:


Tell yo mama and grannie how fat and dumb they are to bring you he goat to the world. I wonder who impregnated her if it was mr okujagu Abi Mr olayinka.

The worst nightmare is to bring up someone who will end up being a nuisance. But your mom a is so dumb that she didn't realize she was pregnant with you. dont get so emotional, Amma bring in your anscestor here if I choose to. That's how I play the game.

Since you don't have respect, I teach you skinny goat

I won't validate your lowly self in any manner - If you like curse my entire lineage, I dont care.

People only curse and bark like rabid dogs when they've been beaten black and blue.

Cry me a river you fat smelly thing.

Truckpusher:
Quit cumming on my pix and get yourself a man.

I ain't biting that thing you got for free even if it's a matter of life and death. ...you dig?

You still haven't answered my question? Why do you look like a Mexican drug trafficker in your pic?

What's all this about women marrying a man and complaining that they didn't choose to suffer because he didn't buy her a car?

I thought modern women get married, earn their own money, and buy their own cars...

The truth is gradually being revealed -women on NL actually want their husbands to buy them a car, but don't want to act submissive to get this car...interesting!

carefreewannabe:


You still haven't answered my question? Why do you look like a Mexican drug trafficker in your pic?

Jobless girl of the century.

carefreewannabe:


Says who?

You or the man in my life?

The man in my life doesn't have such issues.

Says this smiley >>

Okay ooo. we have hear. Good luck with your woman.

Matthewbriggs:


Says this smiley >>

Okay ooo. we have hear. Good luck with your woman.

Good luck with your insecurities.

Truckpusher:
I won't validate your lowly self in any manner - If you like curse my entire lineage, I dont care.

People only curse and bark like rabid dogs when they've been beaten black and blue.

Cry me a river you fat smelly thing.

Who is the one crying here . Broke ass nigga. So now you don't care if I bring yo mama and grannie?

You never see nothing. You came here getting all personal and think I will relax and watch you silly thing open your kpomo mouth and leprosy fingers, type anyhow.

So tell me again how fat your mamas ass is? Does she have stretch marks. I heard some posteres here loves fat sugar mummy with stretch marks.
Your mama should fit in the description. At least you go get small change this Xmas from her.

Make sure your mb no finish o.

Matthewbriggs:


You called the man irrational on what grounds, do you have a very solid understanding of the dynamic of the mans relationship with this FIL. and you are right "its petty".

that car is to make life easier for his wife to move from on place to another without depending on him or public transport, how is getting angry over something like that ever rational?

The use of the word devil is a figure of expression, that means "painted in negative light" in this context.

how is that painting him in the negative light if he is the one getting angry over petty issues?

What other motives? I have trashed this question in my first post you quoted.
My grouse in not whether the man is right or wrong. but the fact that you and your lot ... see him as irrational without asking the Op to provide you with more data, so as to get a more better understanding of the context surrounding this gift that made him act the way he did ... only when you have this information do you have the right to see him as irrational

Context is everything Mondisweets.

Heard the story recently, it's about a couple, the wife's car got bad and they worked out a way where he dropped and picked her off managing 1 car. Later the wife's father buys her a car and she takes it home, on getting home the husband exploded that the father in law should not interfere in his family.

you tell me how buying a car for someone to use is interfering with his family please?

carefreewannabe:


If my husband couldn't be happy for me getting a car from my father, then let it be so, then we better go our separate ways!
I don't do insecure men.

But the man in my life would most likely think, cool, he bought her a car, now we can save our money for something else.
I love smart, strong men.

And if his mama gives him a gift then I will be happy for him and thankful to her.

Now imagine your mama buys you a car and your wife gets angry over it, how would you react?

Am sorry, sumthings are better left till we fall in2 such situation.
@bolded..easier said than done

Ilekokonit:


That means you want your daughters marriage to last. But some FIL's especially the ones who only had daughters themselves repeat the error of thinking they can bully their son in law like they bullied their daughters and wives. Their error eventually proves fatal for their daughters marriage.

No man wants to be controlled by another man. Men are that territorial.

that's the problem with nigerian marriages - the parents always feel like the boss. i have heard cases of FILs/MILs feeling entitled to name the grandkids. can you freaking imagine? a FIL would challenge me cos he feels he should name my own kids?

that will be the day......

Chillisauce:


Who is the one crying here . Broke ass nigga. So now you don't care if I bring yo mama and grannie?

You never see nothing. You came here getting all personal and think I will relax and watch you silly thing open your kpomo mouth and leprosy fingers, type anyhow.

So tell me again how fat your mamas ass is? Does she have stretch marks. I heard some posteres here loves fat sugar mummy with stretch marks.
Your mama should fit in the description. At least you go get small change this Xmas from her.

Make sure your mb no finish o.

How come broke biitches that dig to eat are the ones calling fly guys like me 'broke'?

Hey! don't go there o - I know you dig for the green back, hence your frustration about these beautiful married ladies you see here.This is your anger and all you do is to attack Nigerian marriages.

Goan and dig ,you gold digger.

You hos are becoming too emboldened even with the fall of oil price.

Chillisauce be nice! it's christmas.....

Comment tu vas mon amie...

coogar:


that's the problem with nigerian marriages - the parents always feel like the boss. i have heard cases of FILs/MILs feeling entitled to name the grandkids. can you freaking imagine? a FIL would challenge me cos he feels he should name my own kids?

that will be the day......

And this is one reason why you see Nigerian kids having more than six names all at once confusing the child more with the already confused country.

Bigsteveg:


Am sorry, sumthings are better left till we fall in2 such situation.
@bolded..easier said than done

First of all, there is NO WAY I will date a man that has a problem with my father giving me a car.

Secondly, I already have a car and I bought it from my own money. Guess what, it doesn't give my boyfriend sleepless nights.

Thirdly, the day a man says that my parents have to seek his permission to give me anything, is the day I will tell him to see the doctor.

Fourthly, I am in a position where I can easily walk out of a relationship if I want to, same for my boyfriend and it won't change.

Matthewbriggs:


Good for you too.

By the way who give a f** if you marry a mumu or not. I just hope that you understand that when you dad decides to give you a car. The context and manner he presents it to your family is as important as the car gift it self.

Thanks

Truckpusher:
How come broke biitches that dig to eat are the ones calling fly guys like me 'broke'?

Hey! don't go there o - I know you dig for the green back, hence your frustration about these beautiful married ladies you see here.This is your anger and all you do is to attack Nigerian marriages.

Goan and dig ,you gold digger.

You hos are becoming too emboldened even with the fall of oil price.

You sounding very boring already. Nothing new to talk
Now let me go attend to people who count.
Enjoy your online partner.

See you later.

Nonso23:


Sorry, are you supposed to be the commentator cum marriage issues pundit on this thread
Contribute meaningfully and stop grasping the wind.

Daddy issues are psychological hang-ups attributed to children who grew up experiencing unhealthy, negative incidences with their fathers (abuse, hurt, abandonment). Perhaps you meant, "Because her marriage is more important than her Daddy", which sounds ridiculously untoward to any sane ear, and at the same time succeeds in inserting competition where it simply doesn't belong.

Nonso23:

Have you being following this thread?
Did you not see the word 'context' in many posts?
When the intent of presenting the gift is malicious then it is no longer a gift.

please give me any other example of a "malicious intent" apart from the fact that her father saw a need and met it, which bruised the husband's ego.

Btw, didn't you see the measure put in place by the couple to mitigate against the effects the spoilt car will have on their schedule?

If that method worked and she was content with it, do you really think she would have accepted the car?

edwife:
Chillisauce be nice! it's christmas.....

Comment tu vas mon amie...

I was just leaving to join my fat old unmarried friends for a drink .

Who knows maybe I will meet a gigolo like truck pusher to clean my fat , wrinkled , old vayjaja.

Chillisauce:


You sounding very boring already. Nothing new to talk
Now let me go attend to people who count.
Enjoy your online partner.

See you later.

O yeah! I spank your smelly asss one more time and you're already hauling asss ,you ho.


I told you I dislike being disrespected by low class hos,but you won't listen - Now run along and sell your smelly product, I ain't buying that public toilet ho.